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Slow Down, Cowboy!

How can one overcome premature ejaculation? When is faster not necessarily better? That’s right – when we are talking about premature ejaculation or ‘PE’. PE is also known as ‘early ejaculation’ or ‘eager ejaculation’. This occurs when a man ejaculates quicker or earlier than desired. It is actually a very common sexual concern. Can you learn to last longer without resorting to medication? Here are some tips: 1) Do your Kegels

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Does the G-spot exist?

There is a place within a woman which is so famous that it is referred to by a singular alphabetic term. I am asked frequently, usually by men, just where this is. Many women are confused about whether they have one. The fixation has a lot to do with the belief that its stimulation results in an instant mind-blowing orgasm. No, not the T-zone. That’s right. We’re talking about the G-spot.

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By Joyce Mcfadden
Teaching Our Daughters About Sex

We as mothers are putting our own fears ahead of our daughters’ wellbeing, and we have to confront this crisis of confidence in order to offer our girls more grounding in sexual vitality than we were given by our own mothers.n nIn not giving them the sexual information they need, and offering them that life long emotional connection to us, we do them a broader disservice than we imagine.n nYesterday on Oprah sex therapist Dr. Laura Berman did an excellent and long overdue e

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Control Your Destiny: See "The Addict" as "Not You"

The True Self is Reality. It sees the activities of the Addict as being what it is: a fantasy growling for what it compulsively seeks: immediate gratification in the form of physical pleasure. Sex addiction is fueled by a fantasy of being how you never thought you were in your youth together of a fantasy of the power over women you've always wanted to have. Do you see how the Addict Self always lives in the past?

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By Ruth Purple
Opening Doors For Role Playing

Sex if done monotonously and habitually, it becomes boring. That’s why men concocted the art of role playing in sex. Role playing is when you carry out all your sexual fantasies and let go of your sexual inhibitions. Since we were kids, we all love to play pretend to alleviate boredom- boys wear their cowboy hats and little toy guns and pretend to be this big-ass-sharp-shooting cowboys while girls wear their glittering tiara with a colorful scepter in hand and pretend to be

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When A Sensitive Man Isn't A Good Thing

Did you know that in many ancient cultures, the intense pleasure of sex was considered as a spiritual experience? For some men, that same intense pleasure is not a lasting or experience because it really is "too much". Today, we're taking a brief look at the role physical sensitivity plays in a man's sexual experience.

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By EmilyMia
Why bisexual dating apps are better than dating websites?

Are you looking to use a bisexual dating app or website to jumpstart your love life but are not sure which one is better? Well, if yes, this post will help you decide.rn rnHands down, dating applications are much better than websites, primarily because they are more efficient and have a better interface. The fact that you have dating applications for everyone is another plus point. The same, however, cannot be said about dating websites, where the choice is limited. Here are

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By Shawn Yale
Find the Most Suitable Fetish Dating Sites for Your Preference

There are many dating sites that have been created to please every need, from casual hookups to more romantic direction. However, there are still many people who cannot really find exactly what they are looking for in these sites. Some people search for fetishsites, where they can find other people with the same interests. Fetish dating can be really difficult, especially if you find yourself in the wrong fetishsite. There are many fetish dating sites that most people seem t

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What is Sex Addiction, Anyway?

Addiction to sexual behavior is a complex disorder that incorporates many aspects of your personality, bio-chemistry, socio-cultural environment, family-of-origin issues, thinking/feeling processes, self-esteem, and quality of relations with others. I see sex addiction as a prism; depending on the angle you hold it up to, it can look completely different.

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Menopause Relief - 2 Easy Steps

There are two very easy steps that a woman can take to find a great deal of Menopause relief that doesn't involve risky hormone replacement or other prescription drugs. 1. Diet The first line of defense is making changes in the diet. There's never been a time that your body needs healthy ...

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Sexual Affaires: To Tell Or Not To Tell

How honest can we be in relationships? This is a common conce among couples striving for intimate relationships. Couples often discuss the importance of being honest and truthful within their relationships. A common question I’m asked is: “Should I tell my partner about a sexual affair”. ...

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HOW TO ATTAIN A "HEART-ON"

One of the most common complaints that I hear from women about their male lovers is that they are just to genitally focused. It's become clear to me that many women seek a more soulful experience in sexual love that relates to the heart as well as the genitals. Their craving for it is so deep that its absence insures her dissatisfaction at a primal level. Women often use the words "sexual intimacy" to describe what they are looking for in sex. However, for many men, the term sexual intimacy seems to mean only sexual intercourse, or other forms of genital fulfillment.

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By Charlie Fritz
Men How to Bring The Spark Back Into Your Relationship

Are you wondering exactly when your relationship lost that special "spark"? Do you wish you could go back to how things were when you first met your significant other? Many couples struggle with the fact that their relationship is missing something, but they are not sure how to fix the problem. When you realize that your relationship is missing something, instead of ignoring it and hoping that it will fix itself, it is important to take steps to resolve the issues in your rel

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Sex Is Not The Same As Sitting For The ’10-year Series’

I tell my clients that sex is not the same as sitting for the ‘10-year series‘. For those who don’t know, the 10-year series is a colloquial term unique to Singapore where students refer to official compilation books of examination papers for the past years for the GCE N-levels, O-levels and A-levels, approved by the Ministry of Education and the University of Cambridge Local Examination Syndicate, respectively.

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Woman's Magnificent, Miraculous Body

The following was channeled from the Golden Circle of Ascended Feminine Masters, a group of illumined Beings dedicated to helping today’s Woman (and man!) reclaim True Feminine Power:nnMy beloved daughters, rejoice in the magnificence of your bodies, for Woman’s body holds a Power no man can ever hope to know. Your beautiful, wondrous body is the means through which My Life-giving energy is brought into your world. nnThis Life Force Energy flows through you unceas

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By Charlie Fritz
Men How to Get Over Your Fear of Commitment

Does the thought committing to one woman make you feel nervous? Although many men eventually settle down and leave their bachelor ways behind them, a large number of men have a genuine fear of commitment. If you fall into this category, there is no need to worry that you are alone. However, instead of allowing this fear of commitment to hinder your future relationship plans, here are some ways to get over your fear of commitment and develop lasting relationships. The first st

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By Tim Hansen
Feminine Hypnosis

In recent times feminine hypnosis has had a great surge in popularity amongst people in trans-gender societies. It is primarily designed to help those who have spent most of their life bombarded by thoughts of who they are and if what they see in the mirror necessarily reflects what they feel on the inside. It is generally accepted that what is projected to us from our outside world has an immense impact of what we feel inside. An example would be bullying which commonly resu

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Group Therapy As an Aid in Sexual Addiction Recovery

Group therapy is a highly effective treatment modality for sex addicts. It reduces shame and denial, limits isolation, increases socialization skills and the development of empathy. The process fosters the development of intimacy and helps sex addicts develop the coping skills they need to meet their emotional needs in healthier ways. Irwin Yalom wrote “the book” on group therapy. In it, he delineates the essential factors that make patients get better. The specific benefits, according to Yalom’s model, of group therapy for sex addicts are:

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Do’s and Don’ts for Your Sex Dates

Do's Discuss what makes a good date in your opinion so your partner knowsr Take turns planning the date and making it happen the way you like it tor Talking about what is going on in your relationship right now, or resolve old issuesr End the evening with a high note or with a fun activity. Don’ts Don’t spend a lot of money on the date. The quality of the date is not necessarily determined by the amount of money spent. Do not wait for the “mood” to come over you. Decide to be you are open to possibilities.r

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The different Alternative sexual cultures pertinent to this world

When the phrase "Alternative culture" comes up, people typically think of hippies, punks, Goths, and Emos, all mightily backed and defined by the music, which these countercultures founded themselves upon, and the fashions derived from it. A little thought of taboo, when thinking about alternative culture, is thinking about alternative sexual culture. What is normal anyways these days? With attitudes towards alternative lifestyles and sexuality becoming more and more open min

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By Justin Harig
Experimenting with sex for fun and entertainment

Nothing is as pleasurable as sexual activity and for this reason people are always curious to know more about lovemaking. Married couples have an opportunity to experiment with their sex life but they do a mistake. In the rush to do-it-now, married couples hurry to achieve orgasm and kill the real pleasure. If you are a married person and browsing web pages to get some useful sex tips then you should look for a complete adult website that can not only give you sex advise but

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By Fia Ottilige
Instantaneous male libido booster

Listed here are methods to boost your libido naturally. Sexual drive is often a primary instinct like hunger and thirst. Nevertheless folks say it goes straight down with age, with these actions, women and men can boost libido no matter what your age: Aphrodisiac Food: Consume seafood, it is a huge libido booster, particularly Mediterranean mussels, these have amino acids that directly rev up the sexual hormones in both most women and men. For women of all ages especially, ce

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Why Men Don’t Get Help For Sex

I was again faced with a typical scenario this past week in my work as a sex coach. I received an inquiry from a man who said he wanted help. I hesitated because I don’t really work with men and they tend to waste my time. I have a number of structures in place to assure me that someone is a good fit for me as a client way before I get on the phone with them. He went through those steps and as much as I was skeptical, and as often as men have wasted my time in the past, I went ahead and set up a get acquainted call with him.

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Silence is golden

Have you heard of the saying, “Speech is Silver, Silence is Golden?” This phrase can be traced back to early Egyptians and it essentially means that while speaking is good, saying nothing is better. Discretion can be worth more than even eloquent words. Have you ever felt glad, relieved even, to get away from someone because the person would not stop talking, and worse yet, about themselves? Have you wished the person sitting behind you on the bus or standing behind you on the train would stop talking into their phone or to the person next to them at the top of their voice?r

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By Xander Timothy
My Husband Doesn't Seem Interested In Me Sexually: Why Is My Husband Not Interested In Me Sexually

My Husband Doesn't Seem Interested In Me Sexually: Why Is My Husband Not Interested In Me Sexually After two or three years of marriage, the love life of most couples can get fairly routine - and maybe even a bit predictable and boring. If you are like most couples, it is not so much that the sex is no longer any fun. Rather, it can just be hard to get the motor running, so to speak. This brings us to the topic of seduction. By learning the skill of how to seduce your husband

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By Sumita Sofat
Sexual Ailments Discussion-How the Things Are Going In India

Discussion about sexual matters of a patient is crucial part of preparing their medical history. Although, in India many doctors are reluctant to discuss about sex with patient’s parents. A main reason is that Indian medical centers do not provide much information about how to conduct a discussion about sex with patients, however it is a crucial aspect of an individual’s health and personality. Even our sexologist in India gets 20% of patients who are physicians or their fam

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By Daana
Can a Casual Relationship Become Serious?

A lot of people around the world often wonder if a casual relationship can ever turn into a serious one. Casual relationship by its very definition means something that isn’t serious, but the wonderful thing about human beings is that we are unpredictable. Sometimes the heart yearns for what it wants and no amount of logic can change that. While it may feel a bit contradictory, you might never know how you find the “one” in your life. Sometimes in a casual relationship,

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By 99Matt99
Report: Online Dating and Social Network Sites Leads To Sex Faster!

The latest report relating to present-day social developments says 70% of females and 65% of males regarded sending text messages, online dating sites and Facebook social networking tools contributes to sex faster causing people to jump into bed, according to a study. However the survey went on to imply that thirty four percent of women actually slept with a guy sooner than usual as a result of digital intimacy in accordance with the market research that included 1,100 partic

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Sexual Communication

My cheeks are flushed, my body is radiating heat, and little moans escape my lips. His breath is heavy on my neck as we dive deeper and deeper into a state of passion. The little moans escaping my lips tell him that I am enjoying his touch and he sporadically shares little insights of enjoyment… “Oh, yes,” “You’re amazing,” “Oh, right there,” as I watch his body tremble over and over again with orgasmic energy. As we continue in our play, he enters a state of deep intensity and shifts my positioning.

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The power of play

I have a question to ask you. Amidst the hustle and bustle of your busy work and personal lives, when was the last time you played? Close your eyes and try recalling some of the happiest moments in your life: What might they be? Whether this memory is of you as a child or as an adult, chances are, they involved some sort of play.

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By Ethan Alexander
How To Make A Girl Come: How To Satisfy Any Woman By Giving Her Multiple Orgasms - How Many Times Can A Woman Come In 24 Hours

How To Make A Girl Come: How To Satisfy Any Woman By Giving Her Multiple Orgasms - How Many Times Can A Woman Come In 24 Hours Even though the female orgasm feels like it is a puzzle that you can never solve, it is actually quite simple to make a girl come. It doesn't have to be as difficult as you are making it out to be. It is easy to give a girl pleasure and you can do it with these female orgasm secrets revealed to you today. To make a girl come, it is all about getting h

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Women: Marriage not the only option.

You find yourself going through a whole extent of emotions. You want to do a lot but are not supported or held back by familial pressures. Under such a circumstance one needs to be optimistic and believe with dedication, you will make a mark in your life. You urge to be successful should seem extremely strong. This will help you to override many obstacles. It is assumed that it would be difficult to make your parents understand and may not change your parent’s attitude toward letting you work.

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By Raveen Sandhu
Save Your Legs (And Your Money)

This New Year, did you make it your life motto to take better care of your health and body? As difficult as this may be to believe, to retain a great figure there is no need to run to the gym and pay colossal membership fees or undergo a diet of extreme starvation. The Elbeo support stockings are the way forward, as a cheaper and less time-consuming option of keeping your legs toned, conditioned and protected. Forget all the myths about varicose veins and maternity wear that

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What is Imago Therapy?

Developed by Harville Hendrix and his wife Helen, in their book, Getting the Love You Want, the Imago theory of relationships is described in great detail. In fact, if you were told that you could only read one book to figure out how to dramatically improve your relationship, this is the book I would recommend. Read on to learn more about the Imago theory (and then get the book!). IMAGO

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Five Tips for Sex Dates

Sex does not magically happen. You are stymied by a lack of time and energy and having kids have only caused sex from being erratic to the point of non-existent. You love your spouse and want to keep an intimate connection. However life gets in the way. Sex has turned into a dull routine and you don’t know how to rekindle your connection. Recognise that having a healthy and positive sex life takes effort, and scheduling sex is a part of it.

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Lesbian Dating Tips

“You can explore the universe looking for somebody who is more deserving of your love and affection than you are yourself, and you will not find that person anywhere.” – Unknown 1. Speak confidently, honestly and well of yourself. Repugnant and worthless won’t get you dates… well, at least dates that you want. Dating is like marketing, it is critical to highlight the benefits and features of dating or being in a relationship with you.

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By Shawn Yale
The Best of Bisexual Dating Sites

The B in LGBT stands for Bisexual but people who identify with this sexual orientation are often neglected and look down up. The mere fact that bisexuals can hook up with people of either gender or sexual orientation paints them as being greedy, a character trait that has won them a lot of enemies in the LGBT community. A gay man will not gladly hook up with a bisexual man fearing that he leave him for a relationship with a woman. That’s still the case with women and a lesbia

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By Elina Smith
Worth to Try Sex Toys

As people are getting more and more open about their sex life, they are acting bold to do some experiments and try new things too. Demand of sex toys are on rise and sex dildos are more in demand then any other sex toy. The myth about sex dildos is that this toy is only used by lonely people without partners which notion is completely wrong. Sex dildos are used by partners seeking for extra pleasure and excitement in their sex life. rnFeeling awkward using a sex dildo for the

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By Ryan Rivera
Common Aphrodisiac Foods that Hide in Plain Sight: Do Aphrodisiacs Generate Libido?

Aphrodisiac foods are generally qualified as foods that increase our libido and make us more interested in sexual activity. Some people feel that these foods are the powerhouse center of sexual satisfaction while others wonder why we would look to a food to increase our sexual feelings. The truth of the matter is that all foods have some impact on the way we feel. Some foods give us energy; others actually weigh us down and make us feel tired and drained. Some foods help prev

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By Ben Bruce
How To Improve Sexual Foreplay - How To Do Good Foreplay

How To Improve Sexual Foreplay - How To Do Good Foreplay Who else wants to learn how to improve your foreplay skills, and in a hurry? Did you know that the phenomenal art of fabulous foreplay is just about the quickest way to make a woman wild with passion...and in a hurry? It's true, and the biggest area where so many men drop the ball completely between the sheets. If you really want to become a better lover fast... You need to understand just how a woman gets erotically ar

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By Ruth Purple
Do You Know Where Your Pleasure Spots Are?

Women are notorious for their need to be touched. In fact, any man who wants to make their partner smokin’ hot in the bedroom must first learn the art of touching and have the patience for it. But, anyone who has mastered this skill can attest that it has awesome benefits, not only in the boudoir but in the relationship as a whole. Men, on the other hand, have an entirely different idea of how things should go as far as intimacy is concerned. Ask any woman, and majority of

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By Denver Emmerich
What Herbs Boost Male Libido?

Libido would be the sexual drive or the drive for your sexual lovemaking. Very low male libido is not as typical as low female libido mainly because most women's libido is similar to various things that happen to be emotional and bodily. Male libido is usually related with only actual things but with age, the capacity to perform greater in bed decreases. The testosterone hormone which can be existing within the male system is generally responsible for the male libido and sexu

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Book Review: Impossible Motherhood – Testimony of an Abortion Addict

The cover of book Impossible Motherhood is simple but alluring. It traces the outline of a woman with two lines, with the title and sub-title ‘Testimony of an Abortion Addict’ located where the pubic mons is. Then, there are three sets of red lines (each set has four lines with a fifth line diagonally striking them off to symbolise ‘five’) at where the figure’s vulva would be.

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Fantasy And Other Sexual Secrets

Sexual Fantasies: Who doesn’t have them? But how many people can be honest and open about them? Well that’s a different matter. And what difference will it make if we are open or secret about them? These are all more important questions than you might think. Fantasies can greatly enhance our ...

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Oral Action

How can a man best use his tongue to bring a woman to orgasm? What are some techniques he can try? Our fingers are hard, dry, and possibly chafing. On the other hand, your tongue is warm and moist, hence probably superior to the penis in giving her an orgasm. Also it is easier for most women to achieve clitoral rather than vaginal orgasms, and oral sex is very effective in triggering such orgasms.

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By Charlie Fritz
Tips on How to Delay Ejaculation

Nearly every man in the world is interested in learning different techniques for improving premature ejaculation so that he is better able to satisfy his partner. Having that goal in mind, let’s take a look at few tricks of achieving longevity in bed: 1. Get to Know Your Body – Practice Makes Perfect so to Speak: All things aside, poor masturbation habits are often the root cause of premature ejaculation. By learning proper masturbation techniques, you can actually train you

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By Ethan Alexander
How To Have More Sex With Your Wife - How To Get My Wife Sexually Active - Tips To Get Her In The Mood More Often

How To Have More Sex With Your Wife - How To Get My Wife Sexually Active - Tips To Get Her In The Mood More Often There comes a time in all marriages when sex becomes non-existent and you are living through this difficult time, right now. Your wife just doesn't have the same passion and desire for you that she used to and now you are questioning your marriage. You constantly find yourself thinking that maybe you just aren't good enough for her after all. You worry that you ar

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