Do you ever feel like you are just not really getting the real you out?
Like there is something just beneath the surface that wants to be unleashed but you have all these holdbacks that tell you to tame it, to hide it, to be like everyone else?
You feel that power in the loins and it needs ... Views: 780
I used to think I was proud and horrible for wanting to follow my heart. The training I received at church at the time, seemed to always suggest that I had to lay down my gifts and talents and all the stuff I actually wanted to do, in order to figure out what God wanted me to do and to follow ... Views: 779
You long to be free…
Free from the shackles of a life that is okay but not quite what you want.
You kinda know what you want but you are scared that it is too big…
Or it is impossible for you…
Or you are simply scared that you have invested so much time and energy following the rules ... Views: 778
It is easy to forget why you do what you do in the heat of everyday challenges…
And I certainly forgot yesterday…
All kinds of events being thrown at me…
Facing fears…
Teaching children…
People trying to tell me what to think…
Me forgetting that I don’t have to listen…
Me ... Views: 777
You know it and that is why you run scared…
You feel it deep inside and so you go fleeing in the other direction…
And yet, like a glutton for punishment, you look back, you come back, you again dip your toe into the fray…
Because you want the success, the wealth, the glory of being someone ... Views: 777
For most of my life, I have felt like an outsider…
I was a little bit too white (and still am) to understand and live to the ‘rules’ of my Black African family…
And I am obviously too black to be considered white…
I have always wanted more than the regular person and I have always ... Views: 777
There is so much you want to make happen…
You want a business that makes you loads of money…
Be honest! You are fed up of having to consider how much money you have before yuo do what you want…
You want to do work that you wake up excited to do…
You want to impact a whole lot of people for ... Views: 776
Yesterday, I had friends round and it was lovely to hang out…
Not many are let into my inner crazy but these are because they get it more than most…
They get the push, the need to be all we are created to be…
Now that does not mean we agree on everything but it means I can just be…
I can say ... Views: 776
So, I have a love-hate relationship with my extended family…
I was never quite sure why I felt out of place, thinking there was something wrong with me…
Never wanting to play to the rules…
Never really understanding the FUCKING RULES!
I was considered selfish and rebellious…
The one who ... Views: 775
So, you have distilled out your purpose…
You know what you want your life to stand for and to be about…
And now you are all excited…
All those years of the fog are behind you!
You are on path!
You feel the pull of purpose, drive, enthusiasm and ... Views: 773
Yes, of course you can quit…
Of course, you can call it all a lost cause…
Of course, you can settle into your boring old existence doing things that you do not want to do forever…
Living beneath your potential and living with the dissatisfaction that arises from living like a ‘norm’ when you ... Views: 773
People will try to take advantage of you…
Don’t let them.
You are pretty dang strong so people, who are not your people, will want to lean on you…
Don’t let them…
People will tell you their sad story hoping to get you to pity them enough to serve them for free…
Don’t let it happen! ... Views: 773
I see you going around thinking that unless you are perfect in all of your ways then you do not have the right to win.
And it is just a silly excuse!
A silly crazy excuse that keeps you from even giving your dream and vision a great big go!
You can tell yourself that you made a mistake, ... Views: 773
You have always wanted to be the centre of attention…
Be honest, you know you have…
But you did not think that you were allowed to be that person…
You did not think that it was something that people like you were allowed to do…
And yet, YET, YOU WANT TO!
To be noticed by the world…
To be ... Views: 770
I used to find surrender to be such an ugly word…
One where I was just supposed to leave myself to the whims of some external person/thing and just let whatever happens, happen…
I was scared that Spirit did not love me enough to take care of me…
After all, all kinds of things had happened in ... Views: 768
They said I was lazy and I suppose I was…
I did not want to cook, to clean and do all that boring stuff that a ‘woman’ was supposed to know how to do…
I took it to heart…
I made it mean something because I did not suit them…
It hurt because I let it hurt…
I forgot that I was me…
And ‘me’ ... Views: 768
I see you thinking, thinking, thinking some more…
“Will this work, will that work?”
“Can I do that or would it be too much?”
“Am I allowed? Will the gods of business and all things entrepreneur curse me for trying to do this thing over here?”
“Maybe I will break my business if I do ... Views: 766
You may be called to the whole 7 billion people on the planet…
Or you may only be called to 10 people
Are your people hearing your voice?
You may wake up feeling down and out…
Or you may wake up feeling full of the joy of life…
Are your people hearing your voice?
Stop buying into the ... Views: 762
You have been waiting for something new to come…
You have felt stuck in place doing the same old, same old that you had thought you had to do…
But I am here to tell you that the NEW IS HERE!
IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP…
You no longer have to live in fear of communication…
You no longer have to ... Views: 762
You left college, university with high hopes…
You knew you were called to change the world!
I mean, everyone said it to you!
You were up to big things…
The local spiritual guide would come up to you randomly and remind you of your destiny…
Your lecturers, teachers, everyone could see ... Views: 761
Go on, take a deep breath and consciously choose to breathe in peace and as you release the breath, let the tension in your body go.
You just got through the Christmas period, you spoke to family, cooked with family, tried not to kill family, tried not to talk too much about your dreams because ... Views: 761
When I was younger and on the occasional day even now, I get myself into a tizzy.
A tizzy where I wonder if I am allowed certain things…
After all, my greatest heart’s desire has always been to be close to God, to Source, to my higher power…
I long for Him with every breath in my body…
But I ... Views: 756
When will you start living like your life is yours?
When will you start asking for and receiving the best?
When will you start believing that the dreams and visions in your heart are really yours to fulfill?
When will you stop selling your soul for money?
And I speak to me, probably much ... Views: 755
Some days, it feels really, REALLY tough to keep building your business.
No one seems to care about what you have to offer and you are trying and trying to get them to pay you some attention but NOTHING is working.
You release a program that people asked for but they do not buy...
You ... Views: 755
You may already make more than an average of $300 a day…
Or you may not make anywhere near that amount…
Either way, it ain’t fun!
Money itself, the lack of or the abundance of it, does not determine whether you have fun and enjoy life…
Because money itself is not alive!
I know you know it ... Views: 752
So, you are spiritual and maybe you even have a religion to go along with it…
And yet, you are struggling to get your message out there…
You have this big idea of a ministry that will help people connect more with their creator, a product that will really help people, a service that you can ... Views: 752
Leader, you live life as though you have no choice but to do the things that you do…
You look on everyone else having what looks like a good time and somehow you tell yourself that it is your lot in life to suffer and do whatever others don’t want to do because you are ... Views: 748
It can be very interesting being both spiritual and an entrepreneur, especially if your spirituality is actually linked with a religion with all its rules and regulations and traditions. You get so convinced that there is only one way to do things…
Your natural energy and performance gets ... Views: 748
This is an excerpt from The launch book and bootcamp which is currently being written and held within the Facebook group (Facebook.com/groups/stepuplead)
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“Remember success is literally a habit…
A habit of doing things that lead to success on ... Views: 747
This morning, I woke up, got out of bed and then proceeded to laze about a little on the couch as I journalled…
I was having one of those mornings where I just wanted to chill out and doze off and just play it down but I felt the call of Spirit to remember who I was…
THE LIGHT OF THE ... Views: 747
Man, sex is such a beautiful thing…
Such a pleasurable feeling…
Such a powerful sensation…
And most leaders, especially the more spiritual types (or maybe I should say, religious types), do not speak of it…
Well, in most cases, they do not speak of it because they are not having amazing ... Views: 746
Your focus is too much on the here and now…
And so how can you create the wealth and riches you want while all you see is the debt and struggle of today?
When you act in fear and uncertainty, of course the result you get is more fear and uncertainty.
You cannot physically see the big vision ... Views: 745
You are still stuck trying to be the same as everyone else…
Judging your every thought and word before you let it out because you want to be sure that it will be accepted by everyone…
And so, you blend right in and get NOTHING that you want!
You think that just because people want something ... Views: 745
There is something decadent about getting everything you want…
You kinda want it all…
But there is a part of you that also wonders if you really do want it all…
Why?
Because there is a part of you that knows it is not always easy to get everything you want…
And you are not sure if you want ... Views: 745
The Spiritual Entrepreneur is a maverick…
At least the successful ones are!
You may learn the foundational knowledge that other trainers and successful business owners teach you but when it comes down to it, you go your own way.
You have the courage to find your own path and stay on course ... Views: 745
You are not your mum…
You are not your dad…
You are not your brother…
You are not your sister…
You are not your friend…
You are not your pastor…
You are whoever the fuck you choose to be!
You have this picture in your head of who you want to be…
And you have this other picture of who you ... Views: 745
Don’t you understand that the dreams you have are just so different from most people? Don’t you see that you cannot keep comparing yourself to other people when you are simply not of this world!
You ARE different! You have always suspected it and now you can completely confirm that it is ... Views: 745
Do you ever do this thing where you keep holding back on doing the thing you are great at, while staring at the thing you think you want to be good at?
Let me try to explain…
For a long time, I would look at the prophets, seers, healers that would come round my church and think that I had ... Views: 744
The car door opened and I was thrown out…
Behind me, I had the car roar as though it was going to drive off without me and I turned to shout “Wait for me!”…
But I was surprised to find that the car was shorter than I was…
Which is okay if you are an adult, you kinda expect that unless it a ... Views: 744
I can see you…
I can hear you…
Your silence speaks so loud…
You want so much more than this…
You have such great ideas inside of you and yet, you think that no one will care. And so, you keep them hidden inside. You downplay you all the time. You do what is expected and yet, you crave more, ... Views: 742
Aaaargh, I am watching you…
Seeing you doing exactly the same old, same old nonsense over and over again…
Each time, you coat it in reasonable sounding nonsense that allows you ONCE AGAIN to lay down your dreams and give way to the fear and procrastination…
And yet you keep lying to yourself ... Views: 742
I used to think that the inner cravings inside of me had to be tamed in order for me to be accepted by God and man.
I have always wanted to speak to a large group of people, sing to them, write and have my words read by them. I have always known that I have something to say and I have ... Views: 740
Most people get into business with visions of glamour, of financial freedom, of changing the world with their product, service, business opportunity…
They know they have something good to offer and so they expect everyone to JUMP on them immediately…
They never want to work for another soul ... Views: 739
I am obsessed with more, you know?
More impact, more income, more connection to Spirit, more awesome sex, more wisdom, more understanding of human nature, more Knowledge, more overall success, more closeness with my hubby and children, more, more, MORE!!
I literally want it all!
I almost feel ... Views: 739
I have never fit in…
Never been a regular kind of girl…
Not black enough to fully understand my African family or be understood by them…
Not white enough because, well, I am simply not white Views: 739
So many people walk around hating themselves…
Hiding themselves behind frumpy clothes…
Hiding themselves by not saying what they really think…
Hiding themselves by settling for relationships where they are not ... Views: 738
So, you have listened to this guru and that guru telling you exactly how things MUST be done…
They have given you the instructions and you follow it to the letter…
Surely this is how life and business must work – That person said it and so it must be so!
Right?
But then nothing ... Views: 738
Hey you, spiritual entrepreneurs…
I am speaking to you…
And to anyone willing to listen…
How has worry ever helped you?
How has it made anything any better?
Has it grown your bank balance?
Has it made your body heal?
Has it gotten you more love in your life?
Has it done ... Views: 738
You feel tense, anxious, fed up with the struggle…
Year upon year, the struggle remains and you wonder when you will be free…
And you will be free as soon as you choose to do the work to be free!
Your finances have been a stronghold round your neck, constricting your creativity, keeping you ... Views: 737
Leader, leader, LEADER!
I see you doing this thing again where you forget that you are leader…
Where you forget that there is no push button strategy that will completely show you in your glory…
Where you forget to put your energy and power into delivering the truth of you…
Because you got ... Views: 736