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- How to Change from Being Single & Alone to Having a Satisfying Intimate Relationship - by Submitted on May 17, 2013 from Doron GilIntroduction If you are without a relationship for a long time now, you might consider yourself “a loneliness expert”. Indeed, such an option is always available. But before you decide to adapt such an “expertise” you can choose another option: to look inwards, find out things about yourself ...
Views: 1287 - Do You Know What Stands in Your Way from Having a Successful Intimate Relationship? - by Submitted on Mar 13, 2013 from Doron GilIntroduction If you wholeheartedly wish to have an intimate relationship and don’t yet have one, it is important that you understand the true reasons for not succeeding. Implementing five simple steps might help you figure out how to proceed to having the relationship you hope ...
Views: 1286 - Does Your Anxiety Drive You to Sabotage Your Relationships? Learn to De-activate its Power - by Submitted on Apr 27, 2012 from Doron GilYOUR ANXIETY WORKS AGAINST YOU! If you have been wishing for quite some time now to have a stable, successful, satisfying relationship but are finding yourself time and again with the wrong partners and in unsatisfying relationships, what does it mean? Could it really be that “all these men” ...
Views: 1271(1 vote) - Do You Tend to Give-up on Your Will for the Sake of the Relationship? Be Careful! It might Harm Your Intimacy - by Submitted on Dec 16, 2012 from Doron GilWhen you sacrifice your own will “for the sake of the relationship” your relationship seems harmonious, everything is by mutual consent. However, because you don't allow place to your own will, but rather live according to your partner's, you begin to feel uncomfortable, frustrated and angry. ...
Views: 1267 - Is there a Correlation between Being a Successful Professional Woman to Having a Successful Intimate Relationship? - by Submitted on Jan 27, 2013 from Doron GilWomen seem to be more emancipated than ever before. Many of them have well-paying jobs, highly-respected positions and credentials, and can support themselves financially. All these empower them to go on dates feeling good about themselves and acquire the “expertise” necessary to determine which ...
Views: 1267 - If You Fail with Your Relationships Time and Again, Isn’t It Time to Develop Your Self-Awareness? - by Submitted on Aug 02, 2011 from Doron GilAt times, when you find yourself failing – once again! - to develop a successful intimate relationship, you may think about developing your Self-Awareness and get a hold on the ways in which you sabotage your relationships. But then, do you feel motivated to doing so out of belief in the merit ...
Views: 1263 - Don’t Sabotage Your Relationship! Become Aware of What You Do – and Change! - by Submitted on Mar 27, 2012 from Doron GilWHY DO YOU FAIL TO DEVELOP A SUCCESSFUL INTIMATE RELATIONSHIP? If you have been trying for quite some time now to find a partner with whom to develop a satisfying relationship but in vain, or are having continuous problems with your partner, there is probably something you do wrong. ...
Views: 1260 - What to do When the Fear of Change Withholds You from Changing an Unsatisfying Relationship - by Submitted on Dec 01, 2011 from Doron GilINTRODUCTION Whether single or in an unsatisfying relationship, you might be afraid to change your situation. You might want to do so; you might tell yourself you are “about to doing so”; you might wait for “the right moment” to making a change in your life. But time goes by and you find ...
Views: 1258 - Become Aware of Messages Which Affect You! Don’t Let Them Harm Your Relationships - by Submitted on Mar 27, 2011 from Doron GilThere are many messages you have UNCONSCIOUSLY internalized while growing up, which drive you to behave in self-sabotaging ways with your partners. DANNY (Example 1) Nathalie accuses Danny of not expressing his love for her. He doesn’t hug her; he doesn’t tell her that he loves her. She ...
Views: 1246 - The Best 10 Tips You’ll Ever Receive on How to Keep Sabotaging Your Relationships - by Submitted on May 08, 2011 from Doron GilINTRODUCTION It is quite a pity to see people harming their relationships time and again and refrain from developing Self-Awareness to understand how to change. Do they really prefer to keep sabotaging rather than acknowledging how they shoot themselves in the foot and change? This article ...
Views: 1245 - Going On with Someone Who You Know Isn’t for You Might be a Waste of Your Time - by Submitted on Jan 13, 2013 from Doron GilIntroduction Many are driven by a host of factors which drive them to “fall in love” with the wrong person and enter unhealthy relationships. Developing Self-Awareness, understanding the factors that control them and making the necessary changes are important in order to stop such pattern ...
Views: 1244 - When Should You Embark on The Self-Awareness Process & Learn How to Succeed with Your Relationships? - by Submitted on Aug 26, 2011 from Doron GilWHEN IS THE SELF-AWARENESS PROCESS NOT A CHOICE, BUT A REQUIREMENT? Whether you are single wishing to develop a satisfying intimate relationship but to no avail, or in a relationship experiencing problems and difficulties similar to the ones you have experienced with previous partners, and ...
Views: 1242 - Making the Right New Year Resolution Will Enable You to Develop a Successful Intimate Relationship - by Submitted on Dec 27, 2011 from Doron GilINTRODUCTION No matter how smart, intelligent, good-looking and “in-demand” you are, as long as you are not successful in developing the relationship you desire it means that there is something you do wrong. Why not make a New-Year Resolution to understand what this “something” is and become ...
Views: 1239 - “Falling in Love” or Pure Neediness? The Difference Might Determine the Future of the Relationship - by Submitted on Nov 09, 2012 from Doron GilIntroduction Can a person driven by a bottomless need for love, causing her relationships fail time and again, get up the courage to look inwards, become aware of where this need comes from, realize the disastrous effect it has on her relationships and take the necessary steps to conquer it? ...
Views: 1221 - Do You Know What Stands in Your Way from Developing a Successful Intimate Relationship? - by Submitted on Oct 08, 2012 from Doron GilYou might be failing in your relationships for a variety of reasons. But as long as you are not aware of what the true reason is, you will not know what you need to change. Consequently you will keep failing in your relationships. Becoming aware of what stands in your way is therefore vital to ...
Views: 1200 - Not Being Connected to Your Will Harms Your Relationships: Get to Know What You Want and Learn to Express it! - by Submitted on Dec 18, 2012 from Doron GilOne of the “surest” ways to fail in your relationships is by not being connected to your will; by compromising yourself at the altar of the relationship and by not being true to yourself. It is important that you understand why you’ve chosen these ways and realize how by doing so you sabotage ...
Views: 1198 - Make Your Own Decisions in Finding a Partner & Developing an Intimate Relationship - by Submitted on Jan 09, 2013 from Doron GilIntroduction The “choices” you make when choosing a partner as well as when reacting and behaving in a relationship are often unconscious and affected by many factors from the past which control you, and are liable to harm your relationships. Self-awareness enables you to understand which ...
Views: 1194(2 votes) - Dating “Unavailable Others” is a Waste of Your Time: Learn Why and How to Avoid It - by Submitted on Aug 01, 2012 from Doron GilIf you are presently on “the dating scene” wishing wholeheartedly to find a partner with whom to develop a serious relationship, don’t date those who are basically UNAVAILABLE. No matter what they promise you, and regardless of how much you think “this is the right person for me”, dating them is ...
Views: 1188 - Listen to Your Partner’s Feedback: It Will Help You Improve Your Relationship - by Submitted on Sep 02, 2012 from Doron GilINTRODUCTION Your partners might often see in you characteristics and traits you don’t acknowledge and accept in yourself. The reason being – you reject and depress these in you if you feel they don’t correlate with the person that you want to believe you are. Listening to what your partners ...
Views: 1188 - Do You Want to Have a Successful Intimate Relationship Next Year? Here Are the Requirements - by Submitted on Dec 22, 2011 from Doron GilDo you find yourself at the end of this year either without a partner or dissatisfied with your relationship? Do you wish to ensure that next year you’ll have a successful and satisfying relationship? If so, what you need to do is embark on The Journey to Self-Awareness: Understand what has led ...
Views: 1187 - Single & Dating? Give Yourself the Perfect Christmas Gift & Succeed in Having an Intimate Relationship - by Submitted on Dec 11, 2011 from Doron GilCHRISTMAS IS A TIME TO GIVE AND RECEIVE PRESENTS As Christmas approaches you probably wonder what presents to give. If you have a partner you want to show how much you love him/her. You are also curious what gift they’ll give you. But if you don’t have a partner, here’s an idea for a great ...
Views: 1182 - If You Wish to Succeed Having a Satisfying Intimate Relationship with Another, You First Need to Develop a Relationship with YOURSELF - by Submitted on May 03, 2013 from Doron GilIf you have been trying for quite some time now to develop an intimate relationship but are not successful, in most likelihood you keep trying, keep dating others, hoping and praying that one day, eventually, you will succeed. But would you? Is there truly a reason to believe that if you ...
Views: 1176 - Do You Choose Your Partner(s) or They Choose You? This Can Make a Big Difference in Your Relationship’s Success - by Submitted on Oct 01, 2012 from Doron GilAlthough it might NOT be apparent, there is a big difference whether you go out with someone YOU have decided to go out with or with someone who has chosen you. The first usually happens when you are empowered to be yourself and feel safe with being alone. The second often occurs when you have a ...
Views: 1174 - How to Survive a Relationship When You and Your Partner Have Different Points of View of How Things “Should Be” - by Submitted on Feb 16, 2011 from Doron GilWhen you cling on to your belief that you are right and your partner is wrong you often find yourself involved in power struggles and conflicts about “who's right”. Unintentionally, you make “being right” your first priority instead of your relationship. You neither listen to your partner nor ...
Views: 1172 - When You Fail Having a Satisfying Relationship – Denying or Acknowledging it Determines Your Future Success - by Submitted on Apr 21, 2013 from Doron GilThere are those who, in order to feel happy in their relationship, deny and reject all “negative feelings” which have to do with what they don’t like about their bond. But the only way to “be there” in the relationship, to experience it, enjoy it and grow with it (and with your partner) is to ...
Views: 1170(1 vote) - Can You Help a Friend of Yours who Always “Falls” for the Wrong Man? - by Submitted on Mar 22, 2013 from Doron GilIt is very likely that you have a friend who always “falls” for the wrong guy. Everybody sees it, except her. You feel sorry for her; you wish you can help her. You even try to show her the “facts”, explain to her how she hurts herself; “predict” the miserable future she’ll have. After all, she ...
Views: 1165(1 vote) - When You Understand the Reasons for Your Failed Relationships You Become Able to Develop a Successful Intimacy - by Submitted on Aug 05, 2012 from Doron GilIt is very likely that if you have been failing tine and again to develop a successful relationships it means, you don’t know what you do wrong. Consequently, you keep doing the same “mistakes” over and over again. When you get a grip on what makes you sabotage your attempts you can change and ...
Views: 1162 - When Is It About YOU and When Is It About HIM: Don’t Let Your Fears & Neediness Hurt You - by Submitted on May 19, 2013 from Doron GilHe didn’t call or sent you an sms after the date and you take it personally. You think it’s because of you; that he didn’t like you; that he was not attracted to you; that he didn’t enjoy your company, that he might have detected your insecurity and shied away from it; that he might have noticed ...
Views: 1151 - Have any Regrets about Your Relationships? Why not Make the Necessary Changes NOW – and Succeed? - by Submitted on Nov 22, 2012 from Doron GilIntroduction The Top Five Regrets outlined here as related to a successful intimate relationship can help you consider how you “do” you own relationships. They can motivate you to think upon and reflect whether you allow yourself to be “who you are” in a relationship – or not; whether you ...
Views: 1150 - Waking-up to Face Reality is the Road to Succeed at Developing a Long-lasting, Satisfying intimacy - by Submitted on Mar 06, 2013 from Doron GilThere are those who, regardless of how many relationships they have attempted to develop with different partners have nonetheless failed time and again. Yet, they keep trying, hoping that “next time things will be different”. As much as hope is a motivating force to keep trying, there isn’t ...
Views: 1149 - Survive the Holidays’ Blues: Learn about Yourself and Become Empowered to Develop a Successful Relationship - by Submitted on Dec 14, 2011 from Doron GilINTRODUCTION Are you afraid from being infected with the “holidays’ blues”? From feeling depressed and lonely? The best you can do for yourself is be determined to “use” the holidays’ time to find out why you’re still single and what you need to “work on” and change in order to find a partner ...
Views: 1148 - Are You Dating Someone who is NOT for You? Why Won’t You Find and Develop a Successful Intimate Relationship? - by Submitted on Jan 23, 2013 from Doron GilIntroduction If you find yourself time and again with a partner who seems to “run away from you”, but nonetheless you hang-on to this “partner”, albeit the pain it causes you, you are not alone. Many behave similarly. Still, it is YOUR life. Therefore, when you get up the courage to ...
Views: 1147 - If You Are Single and Dating Looking for a Satisfying Intimate Relationship, You Should Learn the Healing Power of Self-Reflection - by Submitted on May 27, 2013 from Doron GilIf you are among those who dream about finding “the one and only”; “the perfect match”; “the knight on the white horse” - you probably have developed a host of fantasies and hopes about how this person will look like; will be like; will behave like, love and treat you. And you probably have ...
Views: 1146 - Don’t Seek Short-Cuts to Finding a Partner with Whom to Develop an Intimate Relationship: They Might Fail You! - by Submitted on Nov 13, 2012 from Doron GilTime is money. For one reason or another this phrase has taken precedence in many aspects of our daily life: on CNN, for example, you often hear the anchor saying to an interviewer: “quickly…”; or “please answer the final last question in one sentence”. Twitter forces you to send messages with ...
Views: 1127 - Healing and Awareness Are Vital for Your Personal Growth - by Submitted on Jun 10, 2012 from Doron GilIt is likely that you, as a grown-up – like so many others - probably have some unfinished businesses to take care of, be it relationships issues, unfulfilled career opportunities, as well as unresolved parents-children issues (with your own parents and/or own children). Taking time to heal ...
Views: 1123(2 votes) - How to Finally Succeed with Intimacy: Make Sure You Change What Needs a Change Before You Begin a New Relationship - by Submitted on May 29, 2013 from Doron GilAs long as you don’t change whatever it is that you need to change regarding your attitudes about relationships and/or your behaviors with your partners, you will probably end up with similar problems with new partners. The reason being – you always bring yourself into the new relationship. This ...
Views: 1123(1 vote) - Needs You Are Not Aware of Might Harm Your Relationships! How to Identify Them and De-activate Their Power - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2011 from Doron GilThere are many needs of which you are NOT aware that control you and harm your interactions with your partner. It is only when you develop Self-Awareness and get a grip of these needs that you can de-activate the power they exert over you and stop harming your relationships. KATE’S ...
Views: 1120 - How to Empower Yourself to Find a Suitable Partner with Whom to Develop a Successful Intimate Relationship - by Submitted on May 01, 2013 from Doron GilWhen you see a couple holding hands, does it make you feel unhappy? At times, whether you are single or in an unsatisfying relationship, you feel unhappy when you see others who seem happy in their relationships. You see couples holding hands, even walk embraced, and this makes you think you ...
Views: 1115(2 votes) - Be Aware: If Your Expectations Are Based on Social Conventions they Might Harm Your Relationships! - by Submitted on Mar 18, 2011 from Doron GilYou probably have expectations from partners and relationships. They add some “juice” to the relationship: you expect things to happen, you fantasize about them, and you make an effort to ensure they will “come true”. When this happens – it’s wonderful. But expectations might harm a ...
Views: 1111 - If You Perceive Yourself to be a “Quality Single” and are Enrolled with “Quality Dating-Sites” – Why don’t You Already Have a Successful Intimacy? - by Submitted on Dec 03, 2012 from Doron GilAmong the many dating-sites that have flourished during the last couple of years there are some which advertise themselves as designed for “Quality Singles”. These are tailored, apparently, for a “select” group of singles who perceive themselves to be highly intelligent, well-educated, ...
Views: 1110 - Choosing Partners & Relationships Rather than Escaping Into Them Makes a Difference between Failure & Success - by Submitted on Jun 26, 2011 from Doron GilIt always saddens me to see how singles who are UNSUCCESSFUL in their relationships sabotage themselves. Being EAGER to have a partner, they often they jump to have a relationship with whoever asks them out. Not only that, but they often tend to stay in the relationship – even though it might ...
Views: 1106(1 vote) - 136. Thoughts about Being Able to Develop a Healthy and Satisfying Intimate Relationship - by Submitted on Feb 01, 2013 from Doron GilMany who are not happy with their relationships. They would have loved to make a change for the better, but they are afraid. At times they themselves don’t know what they are afraid of, still they hesitate to take steps leading to a change. They stay stuck in their unsatisfying relationship, ...
Views: 1100 - Single & Dating? Use New Year to Learn 5 Steps to Finding a Partner and Developing a Satisfying Relationship - by Submitted on Dec 27, 2012 from Doron GilThere is no time like New Year to contemplate your successes and failures regarding intimate relationships. If you find you long to have a partner with whom to develop true intimacy and haven’t succeeded until now, why not use New Year as a time to look inwards and see, once and for all, what ...
Views: 1093(2 votes) - Saying YES When You Rather Say NO Harms the Relationship. Make a Change and Stop Sabotaging Your Intimacy - by Submitted on Mar 20, 2013 from Doron GilLearning to say “No” is an important step forward in improving your quality of life and relationships. Often, those who can’t say “No” within a relationship (or, for that matter, with new dates even before a relationship has been formalized) are often those who can’t say “No” in other situations ...
Views: 1092 - Becoming Aware of How You Hurt Yourself is a Key to Improving Your Life & Relationships - by Submitted on May 08, 2013 from Doron GilIntroduction If you feel there is something in the way you “do” life, your attitudes and the way you behave that hurts your well-being and happiness, becoming aware of what you were not aware of until now is the key to initiate a conscious change in your behavioral patterns, tendencies and ...
Views: 1090 - Does Your Success with Dating Make You Spin Your Head? Know When to Stop & Develop a Serious Relationship - by Submitted on Jan 06, 2013 from Doron GilIntroduction “Enjoying life” and “winning” date after date might give you a good feeling – a boost to your ego, to your sexual drive, to your availability. But don’t let it distract you from your initial goal of finding a partner with whom to develop a truly intimate relationship. Knowing and ...
Views: 1087(2 votes) - Reflecting on Your Intimate Relationship & Your On-going Issues with Your Partner Can Help & Improve Your Bond - by Submitted on Apr 25, 2013 from Doron GilSometimes, as you wonder about your relationship with your partner, you might wonder how it goes with others’ relationships: Are your issues similar to theirs? How do others combat, struggle with and solve their problems? How happy others are? How often do they make love – and whether whatever ...
Views: 1083(1 vote) - Have You Ever Thought about Making an Agreement with YOURSELF in Order to Succeed with Your Intimate Relationship? - by Submitted on Nov 02, 2012 from Doron GilIt is customary these days for partners to institute a prenuptial agreement or, while dating, a “relationship agreement” - mutually agreeing on the “relationships terms and conditions”: for example, whether the partners commit to meet once or twice a week; whether they commit to spend a night or ...
Views: 1077 - Your Personal Growth and Success with Intimate Relationships Depends on Your Being True to Yourself - by Submitted on Jun 18, 2011 from Doron GilAre you a person who tells yourself stories in order to justify to yourself why things go one way and not another? Do you convince yourself that whatever happens in your life happens because of such and such reason, unwilling to look reality in the eye and acknowledge that after all, things are ...
Views: 1070(2 votes) - How to Develop Self-Awareness & Succeed with Your Relationships 1: Stages of the Process - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2011 from Doron GilIf you are sincerely motivated to develop a satisfying relationship and haven’t succeeded until now, developing your Self-Awareness is a must. It is the only means by which you can realize what made you fail in your relationships until now, change what needs change and become empowered to ...
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