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By Kara OhJun 26, 20111 topic

What is Feminine Grace?

I introduced the concept of Feminine Grace™ ten years ago in the first edition of Men Made Easy. It’s the foundation by which a woman should live her life, if she wants to be her happiest, with an immeasurable capacity to give and receive love. I’m working on finishing the book so many woman are wanting, titled “Feminine Grace, a Step-by-Step Guide To a Brand New You.” But in the meantime, I get a lot of questions about what Feminine Grace™ is. So here is a description of th

Primary topic: Dating

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By Kara OhJun 11, 20101 topic

How Your Differences Can Make You Closer

Your relationship cannot be as close as you’d like it to be if you’re not willing to shift your attitude about your differences, i.e. what causes the friction between you. In the beginning, you probably thought his differences were cute, adorable, enchanting even. As you became more familiar, some of those differences have probably begun to wear on you, maybe even make you a little bit crazy. It’s important to remember that it’s our differences that make us interesting to ea

Primary topic: Marriage Coaching

Marriage Coaching

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By Kara OhMar 21, 20111 topic

Are You Missing This Essential Attraction Secret?

How attractive you are on the outside is what gets his attention. But how attractive you are on the inside is what keeps him coming back for more. When you’re positive, kind, appreciative and gracious, your energy glows and that’s what he will begin to crave. At the core of the energy you radiate is your Essence. Your Essence is your true, beautiful, glorious, magnificent self. It is what is most attractive to men. When you shine, men notice. You have the ability to make you

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Kara OhJul 11, 20111 topic

Is He Killing Your Spirit?

Okay, here’s how my thinking rolled along, ending up with the above title, knowing I had something helpful to share with you… I’m sitting out here on my patio, looking at my beautiful view, listening to John Legend’s “So High,” sent to me by Stephen, my CO (Chosen One) in a text. (Check out the heart-melting lyrics by listening to the video below.) John Legend - So High Stephen is just ten feet away, working on his computer, enjoying the music with me. I think to myself, “It

Primary topic: Dating

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By Kara OhJun 6, 20111 topic

Could This Be Why You’re Single?

I was talking to a 37 year old man today – I’ll call him Jake – about his recent experiences with women. He related a conversation he had on the phone with a woman he hadn’t even met yet. She told him she had 63 things on her list that she was looking for in a man. She’d recently met one who had 61 items on her list but it didn’t work out. Yikes! Then, she sent Jake an email that said she was feeling fat. THEY HAVEN’T EVEN MET YET!!! Is this woman crazy? He said all the wom

Primary topic: Dating

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By Kara OhOct 4, 20101 topic

3 Reasons Why You Should Not Pursue a Man

If you want to be in a happy, long-term relationship, it's important to know what you need to do so you don't blow it from the start. You see, the greatest joy for any woman who want's a man to make her feel cherished, is how good it feels when he pursues you. Way too often, as today's confident, strong and powerful woman, you think nothing of making the first move. But you don't realize that with that first initial contact, if you are the one making it, you have ruined it be

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Kara OhMar 19, 20071 topic

13 Ways To Snuggle Into His Heart

Of course, being positive, is universal advice but when you're dating and looking for his long-term commitment, it's really important that you develop the habit of being a positive person. One of men's greatest fears is that the woman they fall in love with will turn into someone who is unhappy. Here are a few suggestions for developing a more positive attitude: 1) Develop the habit of putting a smile on your face. Smiling creates chemical changes that cause us to feel bette

Primary topic: Dating

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By Kara OhOct 4, 20101 topic

He’s Either Attracted… Or He’s Not

A man is attracted right away, or he's not. They are way more visual that we want to admit. Women often tell me they think a man will 'become' attracted after he gets to know them. It doesn't work that way. That's how women often fall in love. We might be attracted initially, but then he does something or starts to open up, show some vulnerability, and, wham!, we fall in love. These same women are often enjoying a 'friendship' with the man and expect things to 'grow' into a

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Kara OhMar 31, 20111 topic

5 Ways To Instantly Improve Your Relationship

Women are the leaders in the relationship. Men know it better than women do. A woman can change the tone and energy more easily then they realize… and it’s fun to watch a man respond. The quickest way to shift the energy in the moment–and as the primary way you interact with each other–is to remember that beneath the surface, down in his and your hearts, is a desire to be loved, accepted and appreciated. If you open your heart for a moment, let go of the hurt and resentment

Primary topic: Marriage Coaching

Marriage Coaching

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By Kara OhApr 1, 20111 topic

He’s Wonderful… But

I often get requests for advice from women who tell me how wonderful their man is. Then they go into all the things that make them unhappy. If this sounds like you, I would invited you to do an exercise that can be very revealing. On a piece of paper draw a line down the middle from top to bottom. On the left put the things about him that ARE wonderful and the things he does that make you happy. On the right put the things that are NOT wonderful and make you unhappy. NOTE: I

Primary topic: Dating

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By Kara OhOct 3, 20111 topic

How Feminism Harms Women

How Feminism Harms Women by relationship author Kara OhI got a note from a woman who said she’s a Feminist and not interested in what I teach about how to have a deeply loving relationship with a good man. But she was searching for help in the relationship arena, which tells me it’s not going the way she’d like. Duh! What this kind of woman doesn’t realize is that she’s sacrificing having a good relationship so she can be ‘right.’ That’s because Feminism pits women against me

Primary topic: Intimacy

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By Kara OhJun 26, 20111 topic

5 Guaranteed Ways To Turn a Man OFF!

There are some really simple ways to get a man’s attention and cause him to want to get to know you. But I thought it would be fun, and maybe drive the point home in a more powerful way, to tell you how you can turn men off, guaranteed. Clearly, this is all tongue-in-cheek, but it’s still the truth. 5 Ways To Turn Men Off 1) Slouch. One of the quickest, easiest ways to look completely unattractive, to actually be repellent, is to slouch. When you stand up straight, with good

Primary topic: Dating

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By Kara OhMar 27, 20111 topic

3 Steps For Getting Through Hard Times

We all go through difficulties now and then. The tricky part is not getting stuck thinking it will not improve. Here are some steps you can take to help yourself not only get past the hard times, but actually learn and improve because of them. 1.Get a journal just for this event. Write whenever you have feelings, memories, anxiety, etc. Writing what you’re feeling gets it out of you so the negative stuff doesn’t stay in there to fester. And the good stuff will warm your hea

Primary topic: Dating

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By Kara OhDec 7, 20101 topic

You’re Ready To Get Married, But He Isn’t… What’s Going On?

“Often a man gives up his dreams: dreams of being a bachelor and dreams of the work he desires. Not only is he giving that up, but, if marriage and family have been your priority, you’re getting your dreams fulfilled.” Men Made Easyr We laugh and joke all the time about how men don’t want to get married. But men do get married…all the time; two and a half million of them every year. And how many adult men (who are straight) do you know who have never been married? Hardly any.

Primary topic: Marriage Coaching

Marriage Coaching

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By Kara OhDec 7, 20101 topic

He’ll Propose When He’s Ready…and Not Before

A women wrote to me with the following: I am in relation for last 4 years. He loves me, cares about me, and says he wants to spend his whole life with me. But he is not ready to get engaged and that kills me. I have tried alot to change his mind but I’ve failed. He says he still needs time. If he loves me then what’s the reason stoping him from engagement? Here’s my response to her and any woman who is trying to push a man into marriage: You will for sure push him away if you

Primary topic: Love

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By Kara OhDec 23, 20101 topic

Is He Stringing You Along?

Too many women write to me explaining that their ex keeps in frequent contact, want’s to hang out, and even, occasionally, makes a booty call. This is very unhealthy behavior, on both sides. Him for doing it, and the woman for allowing it. If this has happened (or it’s currently going on), he’s got you on a tether. He won’t let go so you can find someone else, and he strings you along JUST enough to keep your hopes up. This is not good for you because it keeps you in a state

Primary topic: Dating

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By Kara OhSep 30, 20111 topic

Do You Want Your Ex Back?

Do You Want Your Ex Back? September 27, 2011 by Kara Oh Filed under All About Men Leave a Comment Do You Want Your Ex Back? by relationship author Kara OhIt’s a common scenario. He breaks up with you, then BAM!, he’s immediately in a new relationship. But you’re still in love with him because not enough time has gone by for you to let go. I know you’re hurting, for a variety of reasons. One of the most powerful is the loss of the dream. When we fall in love we begin to se

Primary topic: Dating

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By Kara OhSep 30, 20101 topic

He Wants To Make You Happy But You’ve Got To Tell Him How!

Men tell me all the time that they want to make their wife or girlfriend happy, but they need them to tell them how. I can also tell they’re heartsick and quite frustrated that you not only don’t tell them how, you make them guess. And heaven help them if they guess wrong. I have actually heard women say, “If he loves me he ought to know.” This seems terribly unfair. She takes this most precious gift that a man wants to offer her–a desire to make her happy–then dishonors it

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Kara OhJan 7, 20111 topic

He’s Not Ready for a Relationship

Have you ever had a man tell you he likes you, enjoys dating you, but isn’t ready for a relationship right now? I get letters from women all the time who are upset when the man they’re dating delivers this message. Usually, the woman paints him as a villain, when he’s actually just being honest. A man can be a good guy without wanting the long term relationship. The big questio I always ask is, “Are you intending to make babies?” If not, why not just enjoy this man and see w

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Kara OhApr 8, 20111 topic

Is the Economy Affecting How Men Date?

If you find men not paying much attention to you lately, it might not be you, it might be money worries. With what is going on in the economy men tend to go inward when they are conce ed about their finances or their jobs. They aren’t thinking about dating other than maybe to get laid, which relieves them of the worry for a short time. Even though you’re worried as well, men take it as a jolt against their manhood. It’s not personal because they really can’t see you when th

Primary topic: Dating

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By Kara OhJun 11, 20101 topic

A Sad Killer of Love

Belittling our partner––or a child, for that matter––either directly or by innuendo, is a direct hit to the heart. Eventually, love is replaced by resentment, loathing or even hate. In the moment, we don’t realize the damage we’re causing when we belittle those we “say” we love. We’re blinded by our own feelings. Our hurtful comments are driven by frustration, anger, disappointment, and sadly, simply from the “relationship skills” we learned as children from our family envir

Primary topic: Marriage Coaching

Marriage Coaching

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By Kara OhSep 26, 20111 topic

Is It Male Midlife Crisis?

Most men don’t want to admit they might be going through midlife crisis. When a man does, it’s meaningful. I wrote a book on the topic, and right before I was ready to publish it, my computers were stolen and that book as well. I need to write it again, but first, because I have so many women who are begging for it, I’ve got to finish Feminine Grace. One of the most important things I learned in doing my research is that the thing that triggers a midlife crisis is when a man

Primary topic: Dating

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By Kara OhJul 18, 20111 topic

Are You Losing Him To Another Woman?

He’s struggling with the choice of you, or his ex, or someone new that he’s met. What do you do? The best advice I can offer in this situation, in order to win him completely, is be the one who makes him feel like a worthy man. There are two Secrets about men that are of utmost importance, and which most women do not know about. The first is, you must use Feminine Grace always. That means keep your over emotional reactions to yourself, or share with a trusted girlfriend who

Primary topic: Dating

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By Kara OhJan 21, 20111 topic

How Can She Get Him To Spend More Time With Her?

I got this email, out of the blue, from a woman I don’t know and had to share it, along with my advice: I need advice about this guy I’m “seeing”. We’ve dated off and on for two years and were giving it another go. I really feel like it could be wonderful, if he’d stop being so selfish. He has a job that requires him to be gone for weeks at a time. He only sees me once or twice when he’s home. He refuses to see me on he weekend, saying, “Whats so important about a Saturday ni

Primary topic: Dating

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By Kara OhMay 7, 20111 topic

Be a Man Magnet With This Secret Weapon

Is shyness or insecurity keeping you from meeting your soul mate? Here’s a simple way to become more confident and start having more fun. Men agree that one of the most attractive qualities in a woman is when she’s self-assured, likes herself, is comfortable with who she is, likes how she looks and most importantly, she’s happy. And one of the sexiest things about a woman is one who loves her body… not how skinny she is. It’s impossible to be all those things when you’re shy

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Kara OhDec 27, 20101 topic

Having Trouble Getting Him To Behave?

I put this commonly mentioned phrase in my book Men Made Easy because it’s so true: Men marry a woman hoping she’ll never change, but she always does; and women marry men hoping they will change, but they never do. Women make themselves crazy trying to get a man to change, to behave, or to ‘do the right thing.’ When you think about it it’s unbelievably rude and arrogant to think we have a right to tell someone else how they should be, or that we know better. The only thing we

Primary topic: Dating

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By Kara OhMar 29, 20071 topic

The Power Of a Compliment

One of the most meaningful things you can say to someone is to offer a compliment. A compliment about their appearance, something they've done, or created can make a person's day. What you get back is usually a smile, sometimes a conversation and an assumption made by the receiver that you are a caring person. Not bad for such a small effort. Complimenting people shows you're aware of others and care about them. If you never compliment anyone it could mean many things: you m

Primary topic: Dating

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By Kara OhSep 30, 20101 topic

How Men Show Love

I got questions from two women this week, which, on the surface, might appear to require different answers. But the answers are actually the same. One was about how she was upset because her guy didn't remember the anniversary of their first date and the other asked how she could get her guy to express his love "night and day." Regarding the "night and day" thing, I put an update on facebook that night and day would probably drive a woman nuts if she actually got that. I sus

Primary topic: Love

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By Kara OhDec 23, 20101 topic

The Ultimate Christmas Gift For Your Man

You may not realize it, but more than anything, that special man in your life wants to feel like you appreciate, respect, and accept him for who he is as a man. With that he’ll feel understood and understanding is–at least for him–the ultimate gift you can give him. Here’s an idea for a gift that is sure to melt his heart. You can put as much effort into it as you like. He won’t get all mushy and teary eyed, but he will appreciate what you will be telling him with this gift.

Primary topic: Dating

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By Kara OhJan 12, 20111 topic

7 Ways To Avoid Getting Hurt

I was at a conference of academics and I was talking to a woman about what I do. She told me about a very smart woman who teaches finance, very accomplished, many awards and lots of respect from her peers. But, she said, this very smart women just turns stupid when it comes to men. Why do we do that? I think it’s because most of what we know comes to us from outside influences; like fairy tales, love-at-first-site-happily-ever-after-with-no-problems-EVER movies and novels, l

Primary topic: Dating

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By Kara OhMar 12, 20111 topic

How to Stay Happily Married

Will Smith was interviewed a while back and he talked about his reason for his successful marriage. He said there is no way that there won’t be really hard times in any marriage. If divorce is an option, then eventually, something will be difficult enough to bring down a marriage. For Will and Jada, divorce is not an option. Because divorce is not an option for them, when the hard times come along, they work it out. But to have a happy marriage, not just an enduring one, the

Primary topic: Marriage Coaching

Marriage Coaching

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By Kara OhSep 10, 20131 topic

Is He Flirting Or Just Friendly?

One of my Inner Circle members asked what she should do about feeling unsure because the guy she is dating (not exclusively) is nice to other women. My advice follows, and I would love your thoughts: There is a different way to look at this. If he is a nice man, he will be nice to everyone, even pretty women. That is a good thing. Remind yourself that at this stage of getting acquainted, you need to step back a bit and remind yourself that the best thing to do is to allow t

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Kara OhSep 30, 20101 topic

3 Surefire Ways To Know If He's Really Into You

It breaks my heart how many women struggle in the early stages of dating a new man. By early stage, I mean you don't know where you stand or how he feels. In my years of coaching women more often than not, they start moving things along toward a relationship before they know how he feels about her. They make up all kinds of things in their head to try to explain his lack of interest. So here are three ways you'll know if he's into you so you can save yourself a whole lot of

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Kara OhJun 10, 20101 topic

Monogamy. Is It Worth It?

This is a big subject but I have a few ideas I’d like to share from my workshops and from my studies of cultural anthropology. I believe men’s nature is to have multiple partners. Polygyny (the practice of having more than one wife at a time) is preferred by 85% of the cultures today. Think about this: if there were nine men and one woman left on the planet, we would not be able to re-propagate the species. But, if there were 9 women and one man, we most likely would. It mak

Primary topic: Overcoming Adultery and Infidelity

Overcoming Adultery and Infidelity

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By Kara OhJan 11, 20111 topic

How To Stop Worrying About Your Relationship

Do you ever worry that he’ll hurt you like your last boyfriend or husband? Or that he’ll leave? Or you’re jealous for no reason? When you feel like you have no control over your fearful or negative thoughts, it’s easy for them to start controlling you. And when that happens, you’ll usually sabotage your relationship. You may try to stop thinking of those things that pop in your head, but it doesn’t work that way. Instead, you need to replace them with a a different thought. T

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Kara OhMay 22, 20111 topic

Are You a High Maintenance Woman?

Men are ever-watchful to avoid getting involved with high maintenance women. You’ve heard of High Maintenance women but do you know what that means? Hopefully, after I explain this sad malady, you’ll cleanse any HM behavior you might have going. First, a high maintenance woman needs things to be just right. She extremely particular what restaurant, or type of restaurant, she needs to be taken to. She’s extremely particular what table she needs to sit at. She’s extremely parti

Primary topic: Dating

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By Kara OhJul 25, 20111 topic

Are You Looking For a Man With Money?

I was talking to a woman recently and as usually happens, the topic of what I do came up. After explaining that I write books, do public speaking and led workshops and seminars about relationships, she told me she was looking for a man to be in a relationship with. Everything she said she was looking for had to do with how much money he needed to make. This is NOT how you get a man to fall in love with you. It scares me how often money is top of the list for so many women.

Primary topic: Dating

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By Kara OhFeb 19, 20111 topic

The Key To His Heart and Your Happiness

The Feminine Grace is the foundation of everything I teach. It is what causes a woman to be truly happy. It’s actually the key to enjoying more fully every aspect of your life. We think we’re our own person, able to choose how we live our lives. But a lot of how and why we make the choices we do has to do with our culture. The culture of our family is the strongest influence because it’s our whole world during those first formative years. But a lot of how the culture of a fa

Primary topic: Dating

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By Kara OhSep 30, 20101 topic

How to Be Happy and More Attractive to Men

Being happy is the best way to be attractive to men. But what if you're not feeling happy? What if you're actually feeling depressed? If you're dating and looking for a great guy, he is either going to be repelled by your negative energy, or you will simply be invisible to him. If you're exceptionally beautiful, which few of us are, he will notice, but he will not be drawn to you. Being happy is like a magnet. Everyone prefers to be around happy people and they are drawn to

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Kara OhSep 30, 20101 topic

What Makes Men Easy?

A new male friend on facebook wrote and asked what makes men easy. Here's what I told him: I studied men for a couple of years and I came up with 12 Secrets About Men. The first and the last are what makes a man easy...as in easy to be in a relationship with. The secrets in the middle are how to do the first and last secrets well. In the first Secret I teach women to be beautiful in how they are, rather than ugly, which a lot of women are. By ugly I mean, whining, complain

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Kara OhMar 11, 20111 topic

Never Diminish Yourself For Any Man

I was just watching an older woman (at least 75) and her husband. She was enthusiastically pointing at something, wanting to share with her husband. When he ignored her, she turned to follow him, her head down, obviously feeling bad for not being acknowledged. Watching her brought tears to my eyes. She’s from an era where this is the norm, not the exception. It points to one of the primary reasons women enjoy each other’s company over men. We all want 3 things: To be loved;

Primary topic: Marriage Coaching

Marriage Coaching

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By Kara OhFeb 10, 20121 topic

6 Steps To Get Over An Ex

A women wrote to me today asking for some guidance. She said she was having difficulty moving on after breaking up with her boyfriend, even though the relationship wasn’t working. One thing I know about moving on is that you can’t remove something without putting something else in it’s place. The void needs to be filled. I’m a big believe in the power of writing, especially by hand, not on a computer, so I would recommend the following: * Make a list of all the things abou

Primary topic: Divorce

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By Kara OhJun 13, 20111 topic

Are You Attractive To Men, Or Repellent?

Chelsea Kaplan wrote an article titled “Are You The Last One Single?” One of her pieces of advice attempted to answer the question: How can single women project confidence when inside, they’re panicking? She recommends that a woman “project a radiantly positive persona, date with dignity, and transform any desperation sensations into high desirability–that’s how to reign in the Panic.” From personal experience, this is not something you just do. Using my Love Triangle, it fi

Primary topic: Dating

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By Kara OhSep 30, 20101 topic

Stop Looking For Instant Love!

A woman wrote to me asking me how she could get a man to fall in love with her. This is a man she barely knows. This kind of thinking really scares me. It's fine to meet a man and be attracted and intrigued, but to move from "Nice to meet you," immediately to "Choose me, love me, marry me," is a recipe for disaster. Almost everyone we meet doesn't work out, no matter how strong the attraction is. When you barely know a man, it's important to keep your rational mind in gear.

Primary topic: Love

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By Kara OhJul 7, 20111 topic

He’s Ruining Everything!

When a man asks the question, “Is this all there is?”, somewhere betwee 35 and 55, they often go into what is referred to as Midlife Crisis. It is a serious time in their lives because it is the peak time (other than during the teen years) when they are most likely to commit suicide, to ruin their marriage, their family, their finances, abuse drugs or alcohol, etc. So it is not to be taken lightly. But, that doesn’t mean you should take any kind of abuse. You need to focus o

Primary topic: Men's Psychology

Men's Psychology

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By Kara OhApr 28, 20111 topic

Why Didn’t He Want Another Date?

Have you ever been interested in, or worse, in love with a man and he leaves for no apparent reason? Maybe it’s because you’re a High Maintenance woman and don’t realize it. Men are ever-watchful to avoid getting involved with high maintenance women. Let me explain why it’s one of the worst things you can do if you want a man to fall in love with you and STAY in love. You’ve heard of high maintenance women but do you know what that means? Hopefully, after I explain this sad

Primary topic: Dating

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By Kara OhFeb 1, 20111 topic

How Do You Know When He’s “The One?”

got an email from a young woman who is twenty-one. She was dumped by a guy she she thought was “The One.” She asked how you can know if a guy is “The One.” Here’s what I told her: I think they all need to feel like “The One” so we can give our hearts over completely. That’s when we can feel deeply and then learn whatever lessons that person brings to our lives. With each person, we grow and learn more and more about ourselves, about what we want, and how to communicate. Eve

Primary topic: Dating

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By Kara OhMar 2, 20111 topic

Should He Tell You What He’s Doing?

A woman wrote recently to ask my advice about what to say to her guy about his not telling her what he was going to be doing. Her conce was not wanting to wait for him. I’m afraid I gave her more than she bargained for. My advice: If you don’t have a date set, with a time, say nothing. He is a free individual and can do anything he wants. He shouldn’t have to tell you where he is and what he’s doing. You either trust him or you don’t. If you don’t it’s either because you hav

Primary topic: Dating

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By Kara OhFeb 7, 20111 topic

There Was Chemistry. What Happened?

A woman wrote to me explaining that she’d been on a few dates and thought it was going great. Fun conversations, good time, kissing and a bit of petting, but no sex yet. She definitely felt strong chemistry. Then, wham, he wrote and said he wasn’t that attracted to her. My advice: I know it feels awful. But the other side of the hurt is, “Thank goodness you didn’t get more deeply involved.” If he isn’t attracted enough, or just wanted sex, then it’s good that he showed his t

Primary topic: Dating

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By Kara OhMay 10, 20111 topic

Three Ways To Bring Back the “In Love Sparkles”

If you’ve been together for a while, those “in love sparkles” can disappear. Sometimes they just ebb and flow, coming and going mysteriously. When they’re gone, things just don’t feel as good as they used to. Often, we’re not very aware of why things don’t feel quite right, you wonder if your relationship is over, and hope that somehow, the love will return. We don’t know why it went away and we don’t know why it comes back. But what if you could help keep the feelings of

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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