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- ***How Smart Are You About Traveling Safely? - by Submitted on Nov 13, 2014 from Dr. LeslieBeth (LB) WishHow Women Can Boost Their Travel Mindfulness & Intuition I’ve been fortunate enough to travel a lot – often alone – to give workshops and talks. I’ve also lived in another country that is very different culturally from my home in the United States. I mention this information because I was ...
Views: 1324 - Your Family Really Can Kill You - by Submitted on Nov 07, 2014 from Estelle GoldsteinOnly 16% of all murder victims are members of the defendant’s family? That’s according to the PDF file that pops open (or opens in your browser) when you click this link – and you must have the free Adobe Acrobat reader to see it. (Fortunately, it is included with most computers ...
Views: 1336 - Thanksgiving: What's It All For? - by Submitted on Nov 04, 2014 from Michael MantellDon’t tell me you actually believe that Pilgrims, dressed in black, sat down with Indians, wearing feathers and colorful beads, for a big meal of turkey, cornbread, cranberries and pumpkin pie and created what we know as Thanksgiving? If you do, we need to talk. Fast. It’s almost ...
Views: 1163 - Dear Dr. Romance: I'm having problems with my Daughter-In-Law - by Submitted on Nov 03, 2014 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I'm having problems with my daughter in law . I I love her. She and my son had a relationship for more than fifteen years and were married for six. They have two preschool age children. I always thought My daughter-in-law and I got along, but now we can only ...
Views: 1477 - No Need To Fear - Revitalizing The Empty Nest - by Submitted on Oct 30, 2014 from Harriet Pappenheim"Seedlings turn overnight to sunflowers, Blossoming even as we gaze Sunrise, sunset Sunrise, sunset Swiftly fly the years One season following another, Laiden with happiness and tears…" - “Sunrise, Sunset,” Fiddler On The Roof As any parent will know, the moment a child is ...
Views: 1590 - ***Are You Stressing Already about the Holiday? How to Get Out of Your Holiday Rut— Create New Grooves that Outlive the Holiday Season - by Submitted on Oct 30, 2014 from Dr. LeslieBeth (LB) WishYep—soon it will be time for you to get: HOLIDAY SEASONAL STRESS DISORDER. Symptoms of this disorder include: Dreading being with some of your family members—and not knowing how to fend off those not so nice family comments about YOU! Feeling lonely and unhappy Spending too ...
Views: 1395 - Scapegoating Challenges Within The Family Setting - by Submitted on Oct 27, 2014 from Jennifer McLeodThe family setting is an interesting arena that is rife with a gamut of emotions, trials and tribulations Sometimes relationships can get strained and individual family members can be singled out to bear the brunt of the family strain. Scapegoating is something that happens in any setting, ...
Views: 1296 - Why Play Is Best For Growing Brains? - by Submitted on Oct 15, 2014 from Anna RodriguezWhat is PLAY? Image via Flickr Play is simply a time for kids to use their toys and have fun ... or at least that's how it seems. One day I watched my three children play. My eldest boy, Miggy (7 years old) took out his lego blocks while his younger siblings, Julia and Mikee surrounded him. ...
Views: 1778 - A Little Gestural Mistake Proves A Neglect For Someone! - by Submitted on Oct 11, 2014 from Dr. Mona AeyshaConsider the following examples for a while: a. You are on your way and you come across a mother with her sweet toddler child. You start cuddling him/her and ignore the mother totally (no eye contact) b. You meet someone you know on your way, with his or her spouse. For you, the spouse is a ...
Views: 1539 - A “Spa Moment” – Salve for Sorrow - by Submitted on Sep 26, 2014 from Allidah Hicks Bonnie KnutiWhen life throws us a curve, the gift of a "spa moment" can be the perfect touch. A local spa offers healing relief and is perfect for those who can’t venture far from home or the hospital. Since spas typically offer a variety of massages, manicures, pedicures, facials, and packages, a ...
Views: 1538 - ***How to Pack Smart—and Still Look Smart! Tips from a Luxury Packer - by Submitted on Sep 26, 2014 from Dr. LeslieBeth (LB) WishI love traveling. I love it so much that while I am on vacation, I am already planning my next one! But I sure don't like packing. And unpacking is even worse! I must be a slow learner because it took years of making mistakes to learn what to take and what to take it in. You may not use all ...
Views: 1749 - ***Get Out to Get Hot – Pack Your Bags to Boost Your Sex Life - by Submitted on Sep 26, 2014 from Dr. LeslieBeth (LB) WishTravel is great medicine for boosting your sex and love life. Don't have the money or time? Don't worry. All you need to do is cut back on a few unnecessary purchases such as that magazine, or comfort food, or that movie that you don't really need - and then find a day and a half to be together. ...
Views: 1549 - ***The Unspoken Problem About Domestic Violence and the Baltimore Ravens Ray Rice - by Submitted on Sep 18, 2014 from Dr. LeslieBeth (LB) WishI am really angry—and sadden by how the media and the National Football League handled the domestic violence incident of Ray Rice against his fiancé, Janay Palmer, who is now his wife. For those of you who don’t know the details, here is a recap. On Monday, September 8, 2014, the Baltimore ...
Views: 1502 - ***Secrets to Hiring Smart - by Submitted on Sep 18, 2014 from Dr. LeslieBeth (LB) WishSecrets to Hiring Smart: New Ways to Mix Wisdom with New Formats, Questions and Intuition In my career the task of hiring always landed on my desk. There were other “sets of eyes” on the potential employee, but I was often the first or last set of eyes. Over the years, I relied on a unique ...
Views: 1371 - ***Dating Advice: Building Trust in Your Intuition. Part 2 of 2. - by Submitted on Sep 17, 2014 from Dr. LeslieBeth (LB) WishIt’s very scary to think you found Your Soul Mate, but you found instead Your Love Nightmare. What went wrong? Getting smart about dating, mating, and relating relies, in part, on maintaining your ability to turn on your awareness lights about your observations of you and others. You are most ...
Views: 1355 - ***Boosting Your Intuition About Domestic Violence: How to Take Charge of Your Safety and Happiness - by Submitted on Sep 17, 2014 from Dr. LeslieBeth (LB) WishIf you have never been in an abusive relationship, it’s easy to think: Why doesn’t the person just get out of it? Well, think of these things: An abuser knows exactly what emotional buttons to push in his or her partner. The abuser is a master of finding that chink in the partner’s ...
Views: 1610 - Love Child - by Submitted on Sep 16, 2014 from Kelli WilsonDo you ever look at your child, I mean really look at him or her and think to yourself, “Wow, here is an amazing small human being in my care”? Of course you do, you’re a parent. I have been given the amazing responsibility to care for these human beings to the best of my ability for at ...
Views: 1479 - Coping Strategies After a Loved One's Suicide - by Submitted on Sep 15, 2014 from nancy traversIf you have experienced the loss of a loved one by suicide, you have a challenging journey ahead of you. Not only do you suffer heart wrenching grief from your loss, but also from the fact that she chose to take her own life. You may wonder if you could have done something to prevent it. You may ...
Views: 1538 - When a Loved One Commits Suicide - by Submitted on Sep 15, 2014 from nancy traversRobin Williams’ recent death left many of us, who didn’t even know him, feeling bereft. How could he, who was loved by millions, take his own life? How could his life have been so unbearable that he had to end it? And how do we cope with the aftermath? About 40,000 people in the U.S. commit ...
Views: 1518 - ***Quiz: When Do You Give Your Partner a Second Chance? - by Submitted on Sep 05, 2014 from Dr. LeslieBeth (LB) WishWe tend to give our partners more than second chances—even when they have betrayed, disappointed or hurt us physically or emotionally. It’s as though we’ll do almost anything to defend against rocking the boat, and being alone or wrong about our love choices. In this brief article ...
Views: 2408 - 6 Common Characteristics of a Super Resilient Mom - by Submitted on Sep 02, 2014 from Anna RodriguezThe hand that rocks the cradle is the hand that rocks the world. This hand also prepares the family’s meals, drives kids to school, pushes the swing, gives a pat on the back, and lends itself selflessly, among many other wonderful things a mom does for her family. What are the traits of a ...
Views: 3502 - The Face Of Single Moms - by Submitted on Aug 30, 2014 from Jessica RectorWhen I read a recent article citing single mothers for the recent decline in newspaper sales I was appalled. I couldn't believe Chris Powell, the Managing Editor of the Journal Inquirer, actually blamed single moms for his not being able to sell more newspapers. What shocked me even more than ...
Views: 1105 - Being a New Single Mom - by Submitted on Aug 30, 2014 from Jessica RectorEven through my 38 weeks of pregnancy, I never once imagined what motherhood would be like. I really never thought about being a single mom. Yes, you hear things will change, but I never truly understood it, which seems to be the case with most things, until you experience them. After ...
Views: 1246 - Including Time to Play in Your Kids’ Schedule - by Submitted on Aug 28, 2014 from Sharon BallantineOne area that is sometimes overlooked when scheduling your kids’ time is how important it is to allow independent play. It might not be necessary to have a literal scheduled block of time for play, especially if play still comes naturally to both you and your children, but if you find that ...
Views: 1395 - ***How to Stop Listening to What Other People Say about Love, Life and Work - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2014 from Dr. LeslieBeth (LB) WishAre statistics about the odds of women finding love and happiness getting you down? Don’t fret — get smart and think about you instead! Virtually all of the women in my study for my books said they had trouble “turning down the background noise” about what statistics and ...
Views: 1612 - ***What We Can Learn from the Suicide of Robin Williams: Women, Moods, and Thoughts - by Submitted on Aug 15, 2014 from Dr. LeslieBeth (LB) WishThe suicide of Robin Williams has shaken—and awakened us up. News of his death has made many of us think: If someone with family, fame, and fortune could do that, could that happen to someone like me who doesn’t have all those things? I’ve been feeling really down lately, and ...
Views: 1742 - ***5 Things You Can Do NOW to Avoid Making the Top Relationship Mistakes - by Submitted on Aug 08, 2014 from Dr. LeslieBeth (LB) WishHave you ever thought that you found The One—only to realize later after much heartache that the person was The Wrong One? Finding healthy love is so important to your mental and physical health. It’s unfair that it’s so difficult to find the right person. It’s not fair. Here ...
Views: 2493(2 votes) - Dear Dr. Romance: I am allowing my narcissistic ex to run circles around me - by Submitted on Aug 02, 2014 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance I am mindful that I am allowing my soon to be controlling, narcissist ex ( civil law attorney) to run circles around me, just as we did when we were married. After attending a divorce group session at my local church, they recommend that I set up some specific boundaries ...
Views: 1534 - Dear Dr. Romance: On my death bed, I will not be in the mood to explain - by Submitted on Jul 26, 2014 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I read your newsletter "How to Heal a Rift with an Adult Child" with joy, how you simplify things for us. I already tried by email, but it got more complicated. I received two emails, the second one, had a picture with the message ''see what you ...
Views: 1682 - America's Love-Hate Relationship with Law: Freedom, Health, Happiness, Prosperity Based on Obedience - by Submitted on Jul 19, 2014 from Richard RuhlingSummary: Obedience to the laws of physics has put men on the moon. Freedom, Health, Happiness and Prosperity are based on obedience to laws. Re-writing those laws will not get us to the moon, and it can hijack us from a higher destiny in life. If we Google Newton's Laws, we find a daunting ...
Views: 1483 - ***Tips To Manage Career Setback - by Submitted on Jul 18, 2014 from Dr. LeslieBeth (LB) WishNo matter how successful and seasoned you are, you may still experience setbacks and disappointments. Setbacks come in many shapes and sizes for each of us. Sometimes they are small, while other times they’re huge — or perhaps they just feel that way. Read this sentence out loud several ...
Views: 1328 - Indirect effect of mothers' gestures on their children's personalities - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2014 from Dr. Mona AeyshaParents do have a strong effect on their childrens personalities. Usually their attitude towards their kids and towards others is very important. Most of parental concerns are about kids education, leisure, social life and behavior in general, in terms of how they are getting along with all ...
Views: 1440 - Remember How Precious Life Is - by Submitted on Jun 20, 2014 from Mike RobbinsI was deeply saddened to learn about the recent death of Hall of Fame baseball player Tony Gwynn. Tony was a star for the San Diego Padres in the 1980s and 1990s. In addition to being an incredibly talented and accomplished athlete, he had an infectious smile and personality. I didn’t know ...
Views: 1511 - ***5 Ways to Reduce Stress about Work, Home and Love: Adding Love & Order - by Submitted on Jun 20, 2014 from Dr. LeslieBeth (LB) WishUh-oh—another study about women’s unhappiness at home. The sociologist Arlie Hochschild wrote in her 1997 book, “The Time that Binds,” that time at home with spouses and children was more stressful than time at the office. The author described home as a place where couples had ...
Views: 1528 - FATHER’S DAY MESSAGE 2014 - by Submitted on Jun 15, 2014 from Robert CrutchfieldFather’s day reminds me of many years ago when I attended a different church. The pastor there was the head of the jail ministry at the local county jail. He would tell us of how on Mother’s Day they would bring Mother’s Day cards so that the inmates who were so inclined could send a card to ...
Views: 1418 - ***5 Signs That He Might Be Cheating on You! - by Submitted on Jun 13, 2014 from Dr. LeslieBeth (LB) WishHere are some thoughts that might surprise you. There is not necessarily a type of person who cheats. Even nice people can be cheaters—and this concept can cloud your ability to see the signs that your partner is a cheater. How many times have you watched true crime ...
Views: 2040 - ***Travel: How to Choose the Right Cruise Cabin - by Submitted on Jun 13, 2014 from Dr. LeslieBeth (LB) WishIt might surprise you that size may not be the most important factor in choosing your cabin. Location and the amenities that are included in your cabin’s category can be much more important. Here are some tips to help you select the cabin that is best for you. You may not be able to fulfill ...
Views: 1439 - Adopting? Ways to Make the Process Less Stressful - by Submitted on Jun 10, 2014 from Anica OaksAn adoption can be a stressful situation for all parties involved, and that is why planning is so essential. For those that want to make this process as smooth as possible, here are a few simple tips to keep in mind before and during the adoption. Make Use of the Waiting Periods An ...
Views: 889 - Take a Summer Break with a Taste of Real Romance - by Submitted on Jun 10, 2014 from Christina WeberThis Type A biz mom has fully embraced the concept of regular recreation and downtime to fuel excellence in my business. I need no convincing that the quality time—away from work and with my family and friends— charge my creative juices for optimal business results. So finally, the kids are ...
Views: 1128 - Fusing Faith, Family, Fun, and Finances - by Submitted on Jun 10, 2014 from Christina WeberYou don’t have to miss out on Catholic family fun this summer, just because you are busy mompreneur. Successful Catholic mompreneurs know how to “be” with their families. They can cut loose when not working, which allows them to pour on the creative and energy into their work when it’s time to ...
Views: 1730 - Travel: Want the Best Honeymoon? Don’t Just Pick a Place—Pick a Feeling! - by Submitted on Jun 05, 2014 from Dr. LeslieBeth (LB) WishWhen Alyssa and Rick returned from their honeymoon in Italy, they were still squabbling. They rented a car in Tuscany because they wanted control of their itinerary. Instead, they ended up losing control of their temper over being lost, low on gas, and parking spaces. They drove to so many towns ...
Views: 1451 - Easy Peasy Food Gifts To Bring to the Sick and Weary - by Submitted on Jun 02, 2014 from Allidah Hicks Bonnie KnutiEveryone knows to bring food when someone is sick or recovering. A snack or a meal sends along a kind wish that lingers with every bite. Yummy food is the perfect gift for helping a distraught family when the loved one has landed in the hospital with a sudden illness, an accident, scheduled ...
Views: 1621 - ***Take the Women’s Love Quiz: Part 2 of 3 - by Submitted on May 23, 2014 from Dr. LeslieBeth (LB) WishDo you want to be happy in love? If you answered, “Yes”, then you need to know the signs of a good relationship. Common sense will tell you to find someone you trust and like. But you can learn a whole more with research-based advice that delves deeper. ...
Views: 1487 - Friends To The Rescue – Giving Breaks To Exhausted Parents - by Submitted on May 20, 2014 from Allidah Hicks Bonnie KnutiSick or exhausted parents can always use a short break. This is your chance to jump in to make a difference. Offer to spend an hour or two with the kids. Here are ten quick and easy things you can do with children: Watermelon seed spitting contest. Just slice up that watermelon, ...
Views: 1123 - Family Violence Q&A - by Submitted on May 19, 2014 from Tina TessinaQ: My spouse and I often have arguments over the “small stuff.” How do we get past this so that we are not constantly bickering? A: I’ll bet neither of you would argue with your boss or work colleagues, or your children’s teachers the way you argue with ...
Views: 1427 - Good News for Boomer Offspring - by Submitted on May 15, 2014 from nancy traversThree Reasons Their Divorce Rate May Be Lower Than Their Parents Baby Boomers, that group of children born after World War II, were extraordinarily lucky in many ways. They never had to fear the Nazis, war on their own turf, death camps or serious hunger. They were born after atomic bomb ...
Views: 1207 - ***Break Up Advice – How To Deal With Your Ex Boyfriend - by Submitted on May 09, 2014 from Dr. LeslieBeth (LB) WishYes—you broke up because it wasn’t working. Every relationship has unique details about unhappiness. You may still harbor some doubts, but, for now at least, breaking up feels the right thing to do. It wasn’t easy—regardless if the relationship was very bad or just not a good match ...
Views: 1432 - Single Mom Finds Success - by Submitted on May 03, 2014 from Jessica RectorWhen I was younger, I had a vision for my life. I was going to be successful... that was always a priority of mine. To be successful. I always connected success with a career, never with a family. Yes, I would get married and have kids, but a successful career was of the utmost importance to ...
Views: 1166 - ***How to Move on After a Break up - by Submitted on May 02, 2014 from Dr. LeslieBeth (LB) WishPerhaps the end of your most recent relationship is a good thing regardless of who did the leaving. But now what’s the best next step for you? Every situation has different details, but here are the top things to consider that emerged from my research and work with thousands of ...
Views: 1720 - Growing Up as an Adult - by Submitted on Apr 27, 2014 from Tina Tessina“Miracles do happen,” wrote Chaim Weizman , the first President of Israel “but one has to work very hard for them.” To grow up and out of a painful, dysfunctional past and all its leftovers—feelings, memories, pain, confusion, anger, fear, and persistent ...
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