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Our moms were always full of good advice when we were
growing up and they had to put up with a lot of crap
(quite literally) from us... So don't forget to thank
your ... Views: 1026
Children need to feel good about themselves. They need to be accepted and valued by the adults in their lives and their peers. Children with high self-confidence feel that the important adults in their lives care about them and would go out of their way to make them safe and well. They feel ... Views: 7151
Did Your Whirlwind Life Turn into a Raging Tornado in 2009? Here’s What You Can Do for 2010.
In 2009 with the birth of my new children’s yoga book “What I See, I Can Be: A Guided Yoga Flow for Children” I felt like a new mother. Just like a new mother, my busy schedule left me feeling ... Views: 2611
Instant Relief from Grief: Tip Sheet
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Grieving is one of life’s most unpleasant events. Like falling in love, experiencing grief can make you feel as though you are going a little crazy—except ... Views: 2434
Activities that excite us make us feel good about life, love and ourselves. We are all pleasure-seekers, and there are endless things that can make us feel re-vitalized. We like to be carried away.
Take a closer look at Cookie. She is having a great time. Joe is smart, successful, fun and ... Views: 2233
Suicide is one of the most taboo subjects any parent can discuss with their children. For a lot of parents when they start to see the signs of someone who might be suicidal, showing in their children they start to go in to denial. But, just turning the other cheek and pretending nothing is wrong ... Views: 1441
It has been many years ago but I still remember it as though it was only last month. I was in the sixth grade and we were told by our teachers that we were going to sell magazine subscriptions. This excited me and I was raring to get out and start selling because of the promised prizes we could ... Views: 1409
It was a beautiful cold day outside. I know it is cold when my outdoor thermometer says it is 4 degrees. I thought it might be broken but when it warmed up to 6 degrees I knew it was working as the temperature had changed.
This is the perfect kind of day to stay inside and bake cookies, read ... Views: 1250
In the book Alice in Wonderland Alice falls down a hole. The first time I read this I felt so closed in I never finished reading the book. I know this is silly but that’s the way it was. Do you ever have fears about how to declutter your home and it seems silly but that is just the way it ... Views: 1464
Of all the relationships in the world, the bond between parents and kids remains the strongest without any doubt. Right from the moment a child is born, nature plays its tricks to keep the parents and the child closely attached. However, the fact is that no bond can remain strong unless aptly ... Views: 604
I was a social service worker for 24 years. I worked in an office and commuted to work every day 18 miles one way. Totally out of the blue one day my supervisor came to me and asked if I would be willing to telecommute. This meant I wouldn't have to drive to work every day, I wouldn't have to ... Views: 1556
The sky was over cast and the day was cold. But I was warm inside the home of
a delightful, intelligent, interesting, busy mom who also has the role of
being a wife, counselor to her family, chef, and chauffer just to name a few
of her jobs that she does every day. Oh and she works as a ... Views: 1429
Do you find yourself nagging your spouse to get rid of clutter and to organize? Nagging doesn’t work and can drive a wedge between you. These 7 tips will help get your spouse organized without nagging.
As a professional organizer one question I am often asked is, “How do I get my husband to ... Views: 7283
I just love the UPS truck when it is parked in front of my home and not just zipping by. I always wail..."come back, leave me something". How about you? Doesn't your mind leap to the possibilities of what he (I have never had a she) is delivering to your door? This was the case yesterday when my ... Views: 1373
You see the small envelope sitting in your mailbox and you know it’s either a Thank You card or an invitation. You think to yourself, “Hmm, I haven’t done anything worth being thanked for lately, so it must be an invite!” Upon opening the invitation, you’re greeted with primary colors, festive ... Views: 4010
Given your current limited budget, have you made any plans for a family vacation? Any time of year, a low cost getaway can create memories to cherish. But for some Sandwiched Boomers, squeezed between caring for growing children and aging parents, the choices may be slim.
According to a ... Views: 1131
Another very ancient New Year
By Jon Sandifer.
Each year on 4 February, the world’s most ancient astrology, I Ching Astrology, celebrates the New Year.
This system first formulated over 5,000 years ago in the Tibetan Himalayas uses the Chinese solar calendar.
2011 is ruled by the ... Views: 873
A new study in the United Kingdom found that 66 percent of cell phone users have developed a technologically advanced medical condition called Nomophobia. (1) Nomophobia is an intense fear of losing or becoming disconnected from being able to use one’s cell phone. Unfortunately this cultural ... Views: 1715
Being alive at any age has a lot to do with your attitude. What I'm talking about is an attitude toward life and the people around you that is caring. Let me give you an example of what I mean:
Back in the days when the knights of old were spurring their horses toward unknown horizons, they ... Views: 1174
You've found the love of your life. You've fallen in love. You've dated, become engaged and gotten married. You've longed to make your duo into a trio and after some waiting you now have a baby!
What could possibly go wrong?
We know that even the strongest relationships are challenged ... Views: 856
Do your kids long to fit in with the crowd? Are you worried they’ll do the wrong thing just to be liked? Inside you’ll find 3 parenting tips to help them make good choices and become people of character.
Peer Pressure Quote:
“There’s one advantage to being 102. There’s no peer pressure.” – ... Views: 939
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CHILDHOOD STRESS - by Marta Hatter, LCSW revelationcounseling.com
CHILDHOOD STRESS
There are many steps parents may take to reduce the stress children are experiencing in out culture.
The following bullet-points represent areas of life that may be modified to increase the security and comfort in our childrens lives.
* Provide a safe, secure, ... Views: 1513
A wise man has said, “Not all those who wander are lost.” Definitely, traveling has an intrinsic spiritual and intellectual value. It connects us to different cultures, broadens our horizon, expands our mind and makes us a more tolerant species. For all travelers, who want to experience the ... Views: 2176
I lived ten years with an alcoholic. I used to wonder why I was with that person, since I did not have the prior experiences normally associated with choosing unwisely. I had a pretty good upbringing, with fairly normal parents, and had never been abused or molested in any way. It took me a ... Views: 1257
Consistency is something that I think most people desire as part of their lives. Though change brings the opportunity for new beginnings and renewal, the things that give us a "sameness" are comforting. This is especially true for children. The people and things that remain consistent and steady ... Views: 1978
Personalized photo calendars offer a unique combination of the useful and the touching. As practical as any other kind of wall calendar, and just as easy to use, they none the less boast the advantage of being one of those rare household items which will bring pleasure each and every time ... Views: 1102
Mental illness is a lifelong struggle, and many sufferers feel like they are left to deal with their conditions all on their own. Oftentimes, people who suffer from any sort of mental illness feel that they are completely alone and alienated by their condition. Many veterans diagnosed with ... Views: 984
When I opened Google today there were these pretty little circles at the top of the screen and I clicked on it to find out what they were. I found out they are crop circles. These are patterns created by the flattening of crops such as wheat, barley, rye, or corn.
Many people think these ... Views: 1435
When people get to the stage of seeking help for the dissatisfaction or conflict in their marriage, they often wonder “Did I marry the wrong person?” or “Did I marry right or well?” These are common thoughts many share with me that they struggle with. So, how do you know if you have? Is there ... Views: 1467
Children are Bundles of Joy!
They are our own creation; our own extension. So it is so very natural and obvious that lot of our happiness comes from our children.
Happiness comes as we realize that our kids are turning out to be good human beings, with good virtues being reflected in their ... Views: 484
The Double wall glasses are now the favourite because of many reasons. The unique qualities of drinking from these make drinkers fall in love with them. The strongest point is the look of the beverage when poured into the double walled glass. The inner glass makes the content look very ... Views: 854
At a recent meeting of the Future Business Leaders of America Advisory Council, I heard some interesting, or should I say, disturbing comments. At least they were to me. We were discussing the need for a new program in high school education titled "Business Operations Support and Assistant ... Views: 1396
In the next few weeks, my parents, Jim and Dudley Seale, will each celebrate their 79th birthdays and enter into their 80th year. They have been happily together for over 60 of those years. There is much to celebrate about their lives—the many gifts they have given and continue to give to ... Views: 1393
The following is an excerpt from Traveling Hopefully: How to Lose Your Family Baggage and Jumpstart Your Life by Libby Gill. For more, go to www.libbygill.com.
It took me a long time to realize how much of my personal story — that is, my beliefs about myself, my value system, and ... Views: 1546
An aunt visited us a few years ago just after we had our living room carpet replaced with blue carpeting. As we visited she said she didn’t like the color blue. I was amazed that anyone could not like the color blue. After all the sky is blue and the ocean is blue.
Now I have no room to talk ... Views: 1517
In these economic times, practically no one has the luxury anymore of joking “I can’t be broke – I still have checks left!” Managing your money is a necessity. Unfortunately, all of the information out about how to set up a budget almost always ignores the most important point: the purpose of ... Views: 3529
Talking to teens and family communication is very important while raising your family. What's interesting is that your teen wants to communicate with you as much as you want to communicate with them. Make as much time as possible to do this so you know what is happening in your teens ... Views: 2406
The room is filled with people. Old, young, men, women, different styles, different postures, open curious faces, closed sceptical ones, intent, cautious, waiting. Bert Hellinger sits calmly at the front of the large, airy room, the well-known smile resting comfortably on his face. We have come ... Views: 1767
If you are at a loss for what to get for your father this Father's Day, get him an audiobook.
Why would your father want to listen to an audiobook? Well, first of all, they require less time and effort than actually reading a book. Your dad can listen to an audiobook in bits and chunks ... Views: 974
Families and individuals often struggle to find words which describe what they are feeling. Many find themselves referring back to mad, sad and happy, especially if the parents were never allowed to express feelings in their childhood homes. One of the cornerstones of successful families is ... Views: 8525
New York and California are each home to thousands of restaurants. It can be about as difficult to find a needle in a haystack as it is to find a great restaurant where you can spend time with friends, family, or that special someone. If you have a "smart phone" you probably have an app or two ... Views: 532
The five-year-old is surer of himself and is generally dependable. He has learned to do what is expected of him. You can usually reason with him, and he will understand why you want something done a certain way. A five-year-old may still have some difficulty using small muscles, but can usually ... Views: 1578
Flowers are often gifted to close one as flowers have a universal affection. Flowers symbolize emotions of joy and pride. Whenever there is a special occasion, people buy flowers to celebrate or gift them to friends to make them feel special. There are several unique flower gifts that are ideal ... Views: 737
“Follow your heart.” We hear those words a lot. However, sometimes saying it and actually doing it are worlds apart.
Two years ago my dear husband, Steve Amos, passed away of a sudden heart attack. His death rocked my family’s world and shook us to the core. I can’t tell you how painful ... Views: 2142
Valentines Day, February 14th, is a fun day for both young and old! It is a day to think of those we love and celebrate friendship and kindness. It was one of my favorite winter holidays when the kids were younger as I loved all the hoopla of the parties in school, Scouts and Sunday School. It ... Views: 2105
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Get Kids To Help At Home - by (c)Judy H. Wright aka Auntie Artichoke, family relationship coach and author
It is not always easy to combine fun and work, but it is possible. The goal of family relationships should be one of mutual respect and cooperation. The sooner the chores are done, the sooner you can go have fun. Or, if you use the techniques and ideas listed below, you can do both at the same ... Views: 1458
Let’s face it, there are some things that we don’t like to do either because we think they are hard or we don’t know where to begin or how to do them. A few years ago I was making one of my daughters her freedom quilt (this is a red, white and blue quilt I give them on their 21st birthday). I ... Views: 1303
Your intention is to motivate a child or employee to do better. You are clear in your mind what you want to achieve and the behavior that you want changed. You expect to be listened to and obeyed! You are right and they are wrong. Someday, they will be grateful that you cared enough to show them ... Views: 2276
HUMANS JUST DON'T GET IT
We had a visitor stay with us over the holidays. It was funny how our cocker spaniel Leaf, our cockatiel Sunshine, and our cat Cuddles reacted to everything being different in the house.
Our visitor was amiable, relaxed, and friendly toward our pets. It was a nice ... Views: 1829