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- Relationship-Making - by Do you know how to establish a new relationship to guarantee that it will meet all of your and your partner's relationship needs?
Most people don't know how to do this. As a result, most relationships go through a predictable cycle:
=> Honeymoon: 1 week to 3 months
=> Struggle: Up to 3 ...
Views: 788 - Out with the Old - by Think back to a situation where you felt resentful. Or think back to the last time your heart was broken. The next time you encounter a similar situation, will you be free to choose how you act, or will you instead automatically attempt to protect yourself? If you are like most people, the ...
Views: 827 - Getting Complete with Your Parents to Attract a Great Relationship - by Not all you learned about relationships came from your parents - your learning has continued throughout your life. But, what you saw your parents do in relationships, how you interpreted what you saw and how you felt about it, is the foundation of your adult relationships.
That is not to say ...
Views: 828 - How to open up while staying safe - by When you've had your heart broken in a relationship, it can be difficult to open up to love again and entrust your heart to another person.
Similarly, when your partner hurts you, it can difficult to open up and bring trust back into your relationship. It's hard to give your heart back to ...
Views: 815 - Surviving Valentine's Day - by I ran across something on another website the other day that shocked me. It went something like this: Don't be in the doghouse this Valentine's Day...buy XYZ. Later I spoke to one of my single clients who asked me to help her survive Valentine's Day.
The commercialism associated with this ...
Views: 1328 - Principles of Being a Love Magnet(TM), Part III - by This is the final article of a three-part series on the principles of attracting love easily. If love is what you are after, these principles, when incorporated into your life, will deliver just that.
Working Definition: Love magnet -- a single person able to attract the right partner ...
Views: 806 - Principles of Being a Love Magnet(TM), Part II - by Working Definition: Love magnet--a single person able to attract the right partner effortlessly and able to form a gratifying, long-term relationship. Also, a person in a relationship who is able to attract his or her partner's love and affection effortlessly.
Attracting and getting love does ...
Views: 755 - Ways to be extraordinarily romantic this Valentine's Day - by Whether you are in a relationship or single, rarely will Valentine's Day pass by without your notice. If you are single and even if you think the day has no significance, on Valentine's Day you will think about and want a relationship more than usual. If you are in a relationship and Valentine's ...
Views: 1554 - Principles of Being a Love Magnet(TM), Part I - by Working Definition: Love magnet--a single person able to attract the right partner effortlessly and able to form a gratifying, long-term relationship. Also a person in a relationship who is able to attract his or her partner's love and affection effortlessly.
We all want love. For a certain, ...
Views: 1033 - Easy Resolutions - by New Year's Eve, as you know, is the traditional time to make New Year's resolutions. Most resolutions are about something we really, really want. Even if you are not the kind to make New Year's resolutions, notice that somewhere, quietly, in your mind, you are probably making some anyway.
The ...
Views: 810 - Relationship Q & A - by Many readers of the Relationship Coach Newsletter, www.WhatItTakes.com, send in relationship questions to be answered by Relationship Coach Rinatta Paries. Below is the latest installment of readers' relationship questions and Rinatta's answers. If you have a relationship situation or question ...
Views: 1694 - 10 Powerful Reasons To Start A Mass Dating Campaign - by We all know people who are burned out on dating. Perhaps you are one of them. Perhaps you have thrown yourself into the dating world more than once, looking for that Mr. or Ms. Right, only to come up empty handed and disappointed.
And so, the heck with dating, you say. If Mr. or Ms. Right is ...
Views: 904 - What Women and Men Want, Part III - by The following is a lesson learned from interviewing men and women on what they want from the opposite sex in order to create fulfilling, happy relationships.
These interview are detailed in Parts I & II of this article can be viewed at www.WhatItTakes.com in the archives of the Relationship ...
Views: 900 - What Women and Men Want, Part II - by Top Six Things Women Want From Men
in Order to Build a Satisfying Relationship
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1. Clear, open, responsible communicator & listener
Women want men to communicate. Women specifically want communication about feelings, needs, ...
Views: 1313 - Relationship vs. Marriage: Top five ways a new marriage is different from a committed relationship - by For your free copy of the How To Attract Your Ideal Relationship? Questionnaire, email Relationship Coach Rinatta Paries at coach@WhatItTakes.com or visit http://www.WhatItTakes.com.
1. “I have to live with this for the rest of my life.?
Relationship:
If your partner says something or does ...
Views: 948 - Single and Happy - by Whether choosing to be single, or in between relationships, you can build a terrific life as a single person. In fact, if you are in between relationships and want to attract true love, having a terrific single life is just the thing to do.
Some singles put their focus on the fact that they ...
Views: 856 - Reader Q & A - by Q. I love your newsletters. I read most of them and anything that I miss my friend tells me about... but I don't recall any information on how to tell the wrong person it's not working when you've discovered Ms. Right isn't so right. -- Cameron
A. Dear Cameron,
There are no specific words. ...
Views: 749 - How to Complete with the Past, Part II - by The first step in being able to attract and create your ideal relationship is to clear the way for it by dropping baggage from your past. Baggage here refers to resentments, hurts and fears towards anyone who was either a role model or participated directly in a relationship with you. Some ...
Views: 782 - How to Complete with the Past, Part I - by The first step in being able to attract and create your ideal relationship is to clear the way for it by dropping baggage from your past. Baggage here refers to resentments, hurts and fears towards anyone who was either a role model or participated directly in a relationship with you. Some ...
Views: 850 - Ten Tips to Proposing - by If your summer looks anything like mine, then your calendar is packed with weddings. Don’t get me wrong, weddings are great and as a married man myself, my wedding was the single greatest day of my life. As a guest these events can be one hell of a party, but for a lot of single guys I know it ...
Views: 1295 - 7 Ways to a Successful Psychic Reading - by Submitted on May 17, 2012 from Psychic GraceSeven Ways to a Successful Psychic Reading A psychic reading is an open channel of energies between yourself and your psychic. Consequently, your attitude and approach to the reading is as important as the psychic reader's intention. 1. Have a list of questions ready for the reading. It ...
Views: 1765(1 vote) - The Fabric Of Love - by Submitted on Jun 24, 2007 from Mark Ivar MyhreRemember seeing a photo of the earth taken from outer space? A beautiful blue sphere painted with swirls of white. Pretty incredible, huh? Now imagine the blanket of atmosphere that completely covers our earth like a glove. We're cradled in this fabric that protects us and keeps us ...
Views: 1384 - Four Things Greater Than All Things Are: The Successful Seduction of Women - by Submitted on Jun 22, 2007 from Susan DunnServing as “Attract Your Dream Partner” expert for a major website, I get questions. I get the same questions in my coaching practice. “I saw this girl in the bookstore and I want to ask her out. What do I do?” “I want to ask this woman out but I can’t get her attention.” “There’s this woman ...
Views: 3636 - Big boys don't cry - by I’m a man (heard that one before) and generally seen as a bit of a macho, but average size. I look somewhere between De Niro, Paccino and Garcia and I have the personality to match, in part. I’m trying to write this article as I cry, really.
“Big boys don’t cry” of course. We are conditioned ...
Views: 879 - Navigating Troubled Waters - by "One word frees us of all the weight and pain of life:
that word is love." - Sophocles (BC) .
But it isn't always so easy!
Many difficulties in a friendship, including marriage, can be put to the back by the simple act of resignation. Some ideas of one may never suit those of the other, and ...
Views: 808 - IS LOVE A FOREIGN LANGUAGE? - by If you can't answer YES to all of the following questions....then love just might be a foreign language to you.
1. Do you know how to recognize when you are loved totally and unconditionally?
2. Do you know why it is important to love and be loved?
3. Are you aware of the ways you can ...
Views: 820 - IS LOVE A FOREIGN LANGUAGE? - by A Special Report by Bill McGrane, III
If you can't answer YES to all of the following questions.... then love just might be a foreign language to you. 1. Do you know how to recognize when you are loved totally and unconditionally? 2. Do you know why it is important to love and be loved? 3. Are ...
Views: 743 - Do You Love A Man? - by Do you love a man over the age of 40? Dad, brother, friend, spouse, lover, etc? Do you love a man whose family members have had cancer?
Then go get your phone - yes, right now and call them. Or send them an email. Ask them to speak to their doctor about taking a PSA test. This is a simple ...
Views: 758 - Cheat ... and You Cheat Yourself - by Submitted on Jun 14, 2007 from Jan DeniseCheat … And You Cheat Yourself "I know what it sounds like," she says, "but he's the love of my life." What makes her situation so unique is the "I." And that makes everybody's situation unique, particularly in their own eyes. It's easy to look from the outside and observe that he betrayed ...
Views: 964 - Can Your Relationships Make You Sick? Part deux - by Submitted on Jun 12, 2007 from Rone de Beauvoir“I can’t help losing my temper, everyone in my family is that way, deal with it!” “You’ve tried everything under the sun, but you’re still fat!” “I hate when you do that, you make me sick!” “I’m just sick and tired of your ...
Views: 1576 - JUDGE JUDY SAYS, "HEARSAY DOESN'T COUNT!" - by Hey Doc,
Every Saturday night, I go to a certain club with a group of my friends to have fun. Every once so often, I see this attractive woman who is always with a new guy that she doesn't seem to be involved with. One nigh while I was on the dance floor, she gave me a "buying signal" by ...
Views: 1727 - Could George Costanza Have Avoided the Telephone Time Waster? - by Women Don't Lie - Men Don't Listen
What's up, Doc!
I read your articles every week in askmen.com and I consider myself a follower of The "System." I wonder if you could help me out. My brother's girlfriend told me about this girl she works with. She told me that we had a lot in common, ...
Views: 857 - The Rehearsal that Makes a Lifetime Difference Excerpt from Choices and Illusions - by Within every human being exists a propensity for greatness. The gifts may vary, and the greatness may live out in a vast array of alternatives—say from carpentry to rocket science—but the gift that gives one true self-respect, lifts the spirit from “same old, same old,” resides within. It is our ...
Views: 651 - How to Make Someone Fall in Love with You (Based on the Psychology of Falling in Love) - by Submitted on Jan 17, 2010 from M.Farouk RadwanMyths About Making Someone Love You Do you think that love is just an uncontrollable random process? Do you think that if the person you loved didn’t love you back then nothing can be done about it? Do you think that you can't make someone fall in love with you? The Truth About ...
Views: 8937 - Are Truth and Love in the Stars? Here's what I found out... - by As long as I can remember, I've been looking for truth and love. Truth, because I'm gullible and I have been hurt as a result. Love, because I felt insecure and lonely. I figured that there must be someone I could trust to open myself up to who would not ridicule me. As I looked for truth and ...
Views: 655 - The Candle Light Ritual For Couples - by This candlelight ritual is for couples who wish to have a greater sense of communion with each other through spirit. This ritual can help build a stronger bond of love, understanding, and respect. Many of my clients include this as a daily or weekly ritual. It opens the door to more clear loving ...
Views: 1163 - Does Love at First Sight Really Exist? - by Submitted on Jan 09, 2010 from M.Farouk RadwanDoes Love at First Sight Exist? Before exploring outer space, people used to think that the earth was flat and that you could fall off the edge if you ever went that far. The same goes for everything else that we don’t understand. People usually try to associate all that is unknown to ...
Views: 1902 - Are You Ready for True Love? - by Have you ever thought 'This is THE one for me' and discovered sometime later you couldn't bear the thought of staying with him or her a moment longer? Has this happened more than once? Do you want to stop the heartbreak cycle? Do you want to meet your soulmate and enjoy a lifetime of lasting ...
Views: 800 - How Honest Are You In Relationships? - by I had always thought myself to be a fairly honest person, and by society's standards I was. But what society considers honest and what true honesty really is, are two separate things. We've been systematically taught in our culture to make lying a part of our lives. We do it so often that we ...
Views: 850 - What Is Love? - by For some reason, throughout the history of mankind, we as a world culture have made love out to be mysterious, complex, difficult, and un-definable. It’s the subject of endless poems and literary works. There is an enormous amount of material available out there about love, allot of it ...
Views: 1193 - Is Love Painful? - by Who hasn't experienced the pain of love? Or is it the pain of love or the pain of rejection? This is where we start getting into all the “add-ons?of love. The love baggage, we might call it. For some reason, many people assume negative emotions are a PART or element of love. Love is not painful. ...
Views: 1015 - Be Selfish In Love - by Who comes first, you or your relationship? Although answering “the relationship?may sound honorable and based on a deep level of love and commitment, its an unhealthy and destructive way to live. It is only when you can honor and love yourself first, that the relationship can be a truly loving ...
Views: 1067 - Ingredients of a Successful Relationship: An Interview with Paul J. Hannig, Ph.D. - by In this excerpt of a full length interview with Dr. Paul Hannig, the basic elements for success in love relationships and working on your self will be explored. Utilize the suggestions in the article and you may find them helpful in all areas of your life.
R: What makes for a good, long term ...
Views: 1656 - Love and Communication - Five Languages for Healthy Relationships - by Submitted on May 20, 2007 from Amy JohnsonWhen we are not feeling loved, valued and cared for, many of us tend to be crankier, more depressed, more sure something is our fault or their fault or somebody's fault. We can be less patient, and life can seem more difficult. Some of us pass this off as a bad day, a really long week, a rough ...
Views: 2842 - Is Love A Choice? - by Submitted on May 18, 2007 from Raphael WettensteinWhile exploring the answer to this question I came across a definition in Wikipedia on-line: Love: Love is a profound feeling of tender affection for or intense attraction to another. It is considered a deep, ineffable feeling shared in passionate or intimate interpersonal relationships. ...
Views: 1343 - Soul Mates - by What is a a soul mate? Have you found your soul mate? Many of us go through life wondering these and many other questions regarding soul mates. Few of us ever find the true answers. A soul mate is someone that you feel an instant spiritual bond with. He or she can come in the form of a friend, ...
Views: 908 - Is There More Than One Type Of Kissing? - by Submitted on May 11, 2007 from dale mazurekKissing has to be one of the best ways in the world to show good emotions. At this very moment I can’t think about a negative impact of kissing. Oh sure we have heard about bad kissers but even bad kissers don’t hurt any one. There are a number of different ways to kiss. There are ...
Views: 1020 - What His Bed Reveals - by Submitted on May 11, 2007 from Diana LaSalleWhen a man takes you on that first tour of his house, he's revealing more than he might intend. This is especially true of his most intimate space - his bedroom. Think about it. Have you ever walked into a man’s bedroom and had the feeling you never wanted to leave—or that it’s time to run, ...
Views: 1634 - Bad Sex Is Good - by Truth: Sooner or later, even sex with someone you love can become a routine.
Sex seems to promise so much. Skin aflame with unbearable bliss. Sobbing embraces of vulnerable rapture. Transcendent merger as utter oneness. But usually, sex is fairly mundane.
Men get hard, pump and grunt, squirt ...
Views: 1801 - How Love Addiction Leads to Break-ups - by Submitted on Jan 15, 2010 from M.Farouk RadwanLove or Need? Suppose that you broke a leg in some kind of accident and had to use crutches in order to move around; as the days pass, you'll find yourself getting more and more used to them. In your current state of injury, you certainly can't walk without them, so imagine how you'd feel if ...
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