Discover The Inner Soul Magic of Christmas

Does the Christmas season seem more of hassle than a gift? With extended family more into dysfunction than blessed family reunion? Do you often end up spending more money than you can afford on people who don’t even seem to appreciate what you give them?.

If you find yourself feeling resentful and exhausted this time of year, it is truly time to let go of outer situations for a few moments in time- family fights, ungrateful gift recipients,financial over-extension..and in that divine quiet ask yourself.. where is the meaning of Christmas for me? What comes to mind as you review old memories of positive, joyful experiences, family feelings or even unhappy times? .

And what do you expect Christmas to be as you look into the past to see the reality of your present circumstances?

Each of us brings to this time of year the story of Christmases past and we hold to that story, its joy or its pain as we recreate and relive this holiday. Approaching Dec. 25 th each year, we draw to us opportunities to examine our beliefs, our expectations and our disappointments. But we are given the gift of new consciousness with each re-birthing of the Christ within. We can choose to accept this gift or continue to live with old patterns that no longer advance our soul’s growth.

If Christmas is a time of resented obligations, then what belief do you hold about your need to feel obligated? If you are part of family arguments over external Christmas trappings, then what drama attracts you into the fray of discord? If you are giving without feeling appreciated, look to your own gifts to your own clearest self..what have they been lately?

External realities of holiday stress will surely curtail any Christmas magic if you allow yourself to be hooked by their power instead of the power of your own integrity. You are being asked by the birthing Christ to make a conscious choice about where you place your energy and in what manner you accept the boundless love that this season offers you. By acknowledging your truest feelings you have already begun to stake the claim for your authentic self which will be revealed as you begin to give to that self with love and compassion.

To gift yourself further in this process, consider lighting a white candle of intent both on a physical and metaphysical plane to release the attachments to situations and feelings that keep you from your joy. In meditation, quiet stillness, ask your higher self what non-material gift you can offer your loved ones. And in prayer, affirm the courage to be open to new channels of gift giving and celebration. Your answers may surprise you, but they will also bless you.

Any changes you create in outer traditions and conditions may challenge others, but if you offer them with genuine love and from the unfolding of your truest self, then others will also receive the gift of your whole truth and integrity.

We each create our own magic. Embrace the inner peace and consciousness this season offers and its magic will uplift you.

Copyright 2007 by Lucille Ann Meltz,

Author's Bio: 

Lucille Ann Meltz, MSED, MA is a personal life coach from a spiritual perspective and owner of “Touch the Soul”Coaching and Arc of Light Practical Spirituality. As an experienced workshop leader and group facilitator she helps others to integrate their spiritual self into everyday reality. As a trained professional in the esoteric art of hand reading she is able to assist individuals in discovering their Life Purpose and Soul’s Agenda. Her healing guided meditation CD “ A Little Light Into Your Soul” has been called “a beautiful treasure,” profoundly loving and life changing. For more info on her coaching, her hand readings and a free demo of her CD, go to www.ltl-light.com