Can we survive the learning curve of becoming aware, awakened to our truth, to our power and excel at doing so? I would say there is no question that we are on our way to being just that; Speeding up the process is available to us. Tools have been set in place to allow us the options of getting over feeling deprived, unloved, afraid, exhausted, overwhelmed, or in emotional pain now. We can begin the awakening process while still in the midst of chaos and our negative feelings, in fact, that is the best place to begin to gain the knowledge that each and every one of us has the seed of Love in our possession.

Feeling deprived is equal to a child inheriting his father’s rich land, yet the child’s mind focuses only on the one seed that comes with it. He cannot see beyond the limitation of his own thoughts so he has no awareness of the bounty he possesses. He only sees abundance for all of his brothers and sisters and neighbors. He sees others as being left with an abundance of seeds to create an abundance of fulfillment for their lives. This child’s perception is one of deprivation, limitation and alienation from that which would give him comfort and security.

While the seed he is aware of is one and alone, it is held by the child, framed, bronzed, and placed on an alter as his declaration of deprivation and despair, and his confirmation for his right to be sad, and to feel deprived, feeling unloved, unlovable, forever feeling lost and without. What does not occur to this child’s mind is rather than holding on to the single seed he is aware of, he should plant that seed in the fertile soil, to nurture it with his own Love and to watch it grow abundantly, creating far more greater an abundance of wealth and Love than all the seeds in the world.

If the child’s mind had the awareness of the power within the one seed, if it were nurtured within the sacred inner self, it has the potential to outgrow a million seeds thrown randomly into this world with no blessing or Loving thoughts. The seed is our faith and inner knowing, it is the power and the source of who we are and the key to the door of our awakening.

When we feel loss, when we feel deprived, abandoned and betrayed, we choose to remain in one place believing this one space in time will keep us safe from being hurt again. What is really happening is we remain feeling abandoned and betrayed forever within the framework of our own feelings. As long as we are focusing on this feeling, we are still being betrayed, abandoned unloved and hurt within our minds and hearts, because we are committing the crime within our self. The past is over, yet we carry it for many years, recreating the past in the now, and projecting the past into the future. Is it no wonder so many complain that nothing ever changes? If not for the memories of pain and suffering we would not be able to recreate these experiences. However, we may only experience this once, but to live without forgiveness and allowing ourselves the freedom of letting go, we experience the feeling forever.

It is a heart filled with appreciation for self, a heart filled with Love for self that moves forward, attracting the real abundance of peace, harmony and honesty from others and the world. You must possess the Love for yourself first or you cannot give it or attract it. EFT also allows for this kind of awareness because of its ability to break up the negative emotional connection supporting the blockage to this freedom awareness.
We must release our own betrayal and abandonment by reclaiming our power once again. To begin to live through the power of release and forgiveness and thaw or melt down our frozen hearts in order to know what real Love is. We must have it to feel it and if we have it, we must give it to ourselves first or we have nothing to share with others. This is the only way we can feel the life and the Love energy that is readily available to us through each and every new experience which teaches us who we are.

Author's Bio: 

Carol S. Rios BCH is NGH Board Certified Clinical Hypnotist, Certified Master Hypnotist and Certified Emotional Freedom Practitioner. Carol began her practice in 1999. In 2000 Carol added EFT to her practice and has become skilled in it's use of balancing and /or dissolving negative emotional energy which can cause disruptions to one's life. Now you can experience great results from Carol's expertise by scheduling an appointment for an in office session or on the phone or by webcam. Any of these methods will offer the same powerful results.

Carol is the creator and Founder of The Art of Awareness LLC. Creator of Self Healing CDs and Audio Downloads and Emotional Freedom Technique on DVD. Carol is the Publisher of Life Changing Self Hypnosis CDs MP3s and EFT on DVD Utilizing a personally devised Emotional Transformation Technique or EFT Published Writer. A Member of and Board Certified with The National Guild of Hypnotists, Certified by The Florida Society of Professional Hypnotists. & The National Federation of Neurolinguistic Psychology. Carol is the author of a childrens book soon to be published in 2010.

Carol Rios studied Hypnosis at Omni School of Hypnosis with Founder and Director Gerald Kein. and is a graduate of The National Guild of Hypnosis in Connecticut, having successfully completed the Basic through Advanced Hypnosis training in 1999. Carol began her membership with the Florida Society of Professional Hypnotists and Board Certified member of the National Guild of Hypnotists. Carol has maintained her membership with the NGH since 2000 by obtaining continuing educational training classes every year exceeding 20 credit hours per year. Having multiple Certificates of Completion and Certifications in the field. In 2000, Carol witnessed Gary Craig apply EFT to several people at a seminar and was so inspired by the almost instant transformations that she witnessed, Carol applied EFT to almost all of her clients from that point on. Carol obtained her EFT-Advanced Certification in 2000. Certification with Gary Craig the Founder of EFT in 2009.