"It's a funny thing about life. If you refuse to accept anything but the best, you very often get it." - W. Somerset Maugham

Have you ever gone to a restaurant and said to the waiter, "Oh, I don't care. Just bring me anything?" Do you tell the waiter - "I want this, but I don't think I can have it?" Do you place your order and then give up, thinking, "Why bother? They probably won't bring it to me anyway. I never get what I want."

No, of course, you don't. Ordering in a restaurant is easy and you know the waiter will bring you whatever you request. Well, it's the same in the Cosmic Café. If you've been doing without, not ordering what you really want in life because you believe you can't afford it or don't deserve it or won't be able to get it, then this article is for you. It's all about the Magic of Placing a Clear Order.

So how are your ordering skills? Are you getting what you want most of the time? The process for ordering and receiving what you desire begins with offering a clear and specific signal rather than a fuzzy vibration. To order and receive exactly what you desire, try these four simple steps:

1. Know What You DON'T Want. Knowing what you DON'T want is sometimes easier than knowing what you DO want. So get clear about what you don't want and write statements about what you don't want, such as: "I DON'T want to be in debt. I DON'T want to be alone. I DON'T want to be sick and tired."

2. Decide What You DO Want. OK, now that you know what you don't want, what DO you want? Turn your DON'T WANTS into DO WANTS, for example: "I DO WANT to have lots of money. I DO WANT to have a loving partner. I DO WANT to enjoy paradise health."

3. Ask Yourself WHY You Want It. Determine precisely how you expect to benefit from attaining your desire. As you ask yourself WHY you want to be healthy, wealthy, and happily partnered, GET EXCITED about living the ideal life you have envisioned. With passion and enthusiasm, you transmit your order at a zillion watts and your transmission is received and acted upon with equal intensity.

4. Focus on What You DO Want. Now that you're clear about what you DO want and WHY you want it, order it by giving your full attention to what you DO want. The more attention you give to your desires, the more certain you are to receive them. By concentrating on your dreams for a few minutes each day, you create a mental picture of the life you want to live and you're offering a clear and definite order that the Cosmic Café can easily fill.

Several years ago I was teaching a friend how to drive and her three-year old daughter was riding in the back seat. About 15 minutes into our driving lesson, the little sweetheart started chanting Happy Meal!!! Happy Meal!!! Happy Meal!!! She had placed her order and had absolutely no intention of giving up. The only thing for us to do was to drive to the nearest McDonalds and fulfill her request.

The Cosmic Cafe is similarly persuaded by your single-minded determination. I have learned from the purity of this child's request that, by placing my order clearly and unequivocally, I become a vibrational match to my desires and they manifest quickly and easily. So get clear about what you want and why you want it. Get excited about it and offer a signal as focused as a laser beam. When you do this, you're utilizing the Magic of Placing a Clear Order and the Cosmic Chefs will prepare it for you, fulfilling your order to perfection!

Author's Bio: 

Kate Corbin is a Law of Attraction Life Coach and the creator of Gold Star Coaching. Both her coaching practice and her two ebooks - Dining at the Cosmic Cafe, How to Be and Do and Have Whatever You Desire as well as Think and Grow Thin with the Law of Attraction - are designed to empower you to truly live the life of your dreams. To contact Coach Kate, check out her books, and subscribe to her free ezine, Magical Musings, visit Gold Star Coaching.