It is easy to forget why you do what you do in the heat of everyday challenges…
And I certainly forgot yesterday…
All kinds of events being thrown at me…
Facing fears…
Teaching children…
People trying to tell me what to think…
Me forgetting that I don’t have to listen…
Me ... Views: 766
Man!!! When last were you just ‘YOU’?
When last did you let yourself express your own thoughts, your own feelings, your own individual personality?
We have all been trained and trained to be anything but ourselves so before you say ANYTHING, you check yourself, you see if it will stand ... Views: 783
Today, I got a message asking me how I help people...
My first reaction to this question is usually "Go look!" It is not like I hide what I do - It is everywhere if you care to look.
But then because I know people, I went beyond that to wondering why this person had reached out to ... Views: 1101
The resistance feels strong within you. So strong that you keep holding back on saying the words that you want to say. YOU think no one cares and so, you stay stuck doing work that you do not really want to do because you think that that would make you safe.
Except you are bored to ... Views: 999
Ok, let’s get real here…
You are a leader with a message…
You want to teach, to speak, to coach, to heal, to transform people with that message…
But to date, you have not got the traction you want with this message of yours…
And mostly because you think you have to wait for the right ... Views: 550
I see you…
Walking around with a cage around your heart…
You think that you have to be hard, callous, calculating in this world…
And so you hide from the world…
Because that is not who you are…
But you have been hurt…
Hurt badly…
By those who should have loved ... Views: 732
You may be called to the whole 7 billion people on the planet…
Or you may only be called to 10 people
Are your people hearing your voice?
You may wake up feeling down and out…
Or you may wake up feeling full of the joy of life…
Are your people hearing your voice?
Stop buying into the ... Views: 752
You think that you always have to be appear to have it all together…
You think that you have to pretend to be a superhuman type of person…
You doubt yourself and what you have to offer and so you put on this front…
The problem is that no one can relate to that…
And so, you drive ... Views: 841
It takes courage to be the leader…
To be the one that keeps showing up even when it feels like no one is listening…
To have a dream, a huge big dream that no one else can see…
It takes courage to believe enough in yourself to just keep putting it out into the marketplace…
To keep ... Views: 958
You do know that you are THE product of your online business, right?
And you do know that that is why you struggle so much to sell anything in your business?
There is a part of you that doubts yourself and actually does not like yourself. You know all the mistakes you have made, you know ... Views: 816
As I write this, I am taking a group of people through the EMPOWERED TO WIN bootcamp and also working with more than the usual number of private clients and something that I know more and more to be true is that most people do not understand the level of discipline required to live a rich, ... Views: 862
Just start writing…
Just start speaking…
Just start doing whatever the heck you want to do…
Stop over thinking it…
Stop trying to be the guru…
Stop trying to be super-professional…
Stop trying to be anything other than YOU!
Stop telling yourself that ‘you’ is not good ... Views: 818
You long to be free…
Free from the shackles of a life that is okay but not quite what you want.
You kinda know what you want but you are scared that it is too big…
Or it is impossible for you…
Or you are simply scared that you have invested so much time and energy following the rules ... Views: 769
It can be so hard at times, right? To keep pushing forward when the fire of change is burning through your body and every fibre of your being wishes you were not a maverick and you could just quit and pretend to be happy with the status quo.
OK, lets be honest – quitting is not an ... Views: 893
You have always known that you were born to win…
It has been a constant burning within you…
A refusal to settle for the nonsense…
A refusal to be less…
A refusal to back down and give into the fear and shame and guilt of mistakes made…
And you have been tempted, OH SO tempted to give up ... Views: 577
You have something to say but you think and think and think yourself out of it because you are scared about how it will be received…
The message you have for today does not seem politically correct enough…
You worry that people will hate you for saying it…
Your friends will be shocked that ... Views: 789
I hid myself all the time…
So scared to be seen…
So scared that I was not good enough…
So scared that whatever I said would be used against me…
So scared that I was a fraud…
I had a solid shield around me…
More like a high tower and no one was allowed in…
No one was allowed ... Views: 617
I catch myself doing this every now and then…
And it is usually noticed because my productivity goes down…
I am second guessing again…
Trying to get the words of that advert exactly right…
Trying to choose the perfect image to get the perfect ‘YES’ response…
I know that there is no way to ... Views: 696
This morning, I got caught up again in trying to know before taking any action whatsoever, if something would work or not…
I fell for it again…
I got to thinking and overthinking what text to put in my adverts for Facebook…
Trying to go see what others had done…
Trying to see the end before ... Views: 732
I get tired of knee jerk responses from people who are not willing to question their beliefs.
Beliefs that have been passed down to them by other people who were not willing to question their beliefs. And so, these unfounded beliefs keep going from person to person, generation to ... Views: 1306
You posted the offer once on your Facebook page, sent one email to your mailing list and did one video and then you go stare at your emails, waiting for the paypal notifications to come…
And nothing happens…
And so, you get disappointed and tell yourself that no one wants what you ... Views: 1061
Stop holding back thinking you are greedy or selfish or not allowed or any other reason you come up with…
You are created for freedom but YOU MUST CLAIM IT…
No one will give it to you until you have the confidence to decide that it is yours and you go after it against the odds of living in a ... Views: 650
You think that no one wants to hear what you have to say…
And yet, right now, in the world, there are so-called ‘leaders’ who tap into a vein of malcontent amongst the everyday, regular people and they say what those malcontents are thinking and use it to give themselves an advantage…
Not for ... Views: 853
You feel it in the resentment and annoyance that is beneath the surface everytime you do things just because you think you have to…
You feel it in the lethargy that dogs your every waking moment when you have to get up to go to that job…
You hate what you have to do to grow your business ... Views: 635
Yesterday, I had friends round and it was lovely to hang out…
Not many are let into my inner crazy but these are because they get it more than most…
They get the push, the need to be all we are created to be…
Now that does not mean we agree on everything but it means I can just be…
I can say ... Views: 771
1. You Actually Show Up
This weak impression of yourself that you are currently indulging in, is not sufficient.
You are not a marketer, you are a leader, a champion and no one knows it because you hide!
You hide behind your brand, your logo, your company name, your perfectly professional ... Views: 598
So you don’t know what to say…
Say anything…
Start by typing anything that comes to mind…
Start by expressing whatever is in your head…
Start now, there is no right or wrong…
There is just you choosing to show up anyway, regardless of how wise what you are ... Views: 542
There you are, sitting on your awesome arse, waiting for a shot of powerful inspiration.
There you are, with so much to say and yet you hold back because you are worried it will not be great enough!
There you are, wishing, waiting, hoping that whatever you do finally come out with, will be the ... Views: 836
Man, one of the most freeing things that happened to me in 2016, was just releasing the need to look good, to get it right, to be perfect all the time. It held me back sooooo much and I imagine it is doing the same thing to you.
There are so many things you want to experience, so many ... Views: 809
Unless a kernel of wheat is planted in the soil and dies, it remains alone. But its death will produce many new kernels—a plentiful harvest of new lives. Those who love their life in this world will lose it. Those who care nothing for their life in this world will keep it for ... Views: 787
One of the hardest things you will face in this quest for unlimited success and freedom is your past history. It is such an all-pervading thing and in some ways, you do not even realise just how much your past story holds you back because you have always lived this way. And everyone in your ... Views: 1181
Yes, like many before you, you want something big…
You want to win at life…
You want to create a life and a business that makes you feel great!
You want to wake up feeling awesome and full of purpose and the joy of living a life you are designed to live…
And you want to make lots of ... Views: 1728
I wanted to be a stripper when I grew up…
I was about 7/8 sitting in my mum’s office, reading ‘The Happy Hooker’ and thinking how cool it would be to be a stripper…
Thankfully, I was too wise to say that out loud to anyone or else I would have been beaten, probably…
Yep, you can say I was ... Views: 850
It is so easy to fall into the trap of looking for affirmation about who you are from other people. It is even worse now with social media. You look for engagement as a measure of how well loved you are but really, it is no measure at all.
Tell me, how many pieces of content do you read a ... Views: 797
There comes a day in everyone’s life when they realise that learning to love yourself is pretty important. It is usually after years of living to the agenda of the masses and realising that there is no reward to be found there and then, suddenly people remember that their own opinion is ... Views: 823
You think that your success will come down to you being good enough…
It won’t
You think that you only get to serve people and make a heckuva lot of money when you have jumped through all the hoops and been the best person for the job…
It does not depend on that…
You think that ... Views: 895
$300 a day over 30 days adds up to $9000 a month
$9000 a month over a year makes you $108, 000
For a lot of people, that income would change your life…
Especially when you consider that this is based on you being you in your own business…
Working when you want, doing what you want, with ... Views: 829
So, this morning, I decided to level things up…
I mapped out the plan for where my daily £10, 958. 90 was going…
Why that number exactly?
Because for whatever reason, I have decided currently that £4 million pounds is what I am working towards as a yearly sum?
You have heard me mention the ... Views: 701
Every day, you have one less day to realise the vision in your heart
Are you doing everything you can to live it out?
Every day, you feel less sure that you can change the trajectory of your life…
Every day, you get more and more stuck in your ways…
Every day, you give up a little ... Views: 1322
I know…
I get it…
You feel as though you have just about enough money to get by, at the moment…
And the crazy thing is that it really does not even matter how much you are earning, you could be making millions at work and still feel as though you do not have the extra you need, to do what you ... Views: 891
Yes, I know I cannot control you…
I cannot control what you choose to do or not do…
I cannot make you stick around if you choose to run off…
But I will do my best!
Because honey, I am showing up!
Every single day and I will keep doing it.
Join me!
You have a call, a deep inner longing to ... Views: 1268
I see you with the big ideas, the big dreams, the big goals…
You think about it, you talk about it…
And then you go back to live out your ‘settled-for’ life because you don’t actually think that you can have everything you dream of.
You think your dreams are too big…
You think that if it ... Views: 1145
Gosh! Life can feel tough at times…
Incredibly tough!
I could tell you all my sad stories about what this parent did or what that friend did and how it hurt me and yep, it did…
It hurt me so bad, deep down inside of me…
It made me clam up, build walls around me…
It made me ... Views: 1502
It is tempting to look to Facebook to get you organic reach and think that every algorithm change is a call to battle stations…
So much frustration is brewed this way.
It is tempting to think that if you throw enough money at it then THAT will solve your business issues…
Again, lots of ... Views: 600
This is exactly the right moment for you to begin…
Who cares what went before… NOW IS YOUR TIME!
Who cares what you failed at in the past… NOW IS YOUR TIME!
Who cares who said you can’t do this or that… NOW IS YOUR TIME!
Who cares about anything other than the fact that NOW ... Views: 1153
Most people, and I call them ‘norms’, think obsession is a bad thing but then you look at their life and their huge desire to spend as much downtime as possible in front of the TV, or drinking and getting drunk with friends, or at church all day everyday…
Trying to drown out the lack of ... Views: 668
Some days, it feels really, REALLY tough to keep building your business.
No one seems to care about what you have to offer and you are trying and trying to get them to pay you some attention but NOTHING is working.
You release a program that people asked for but they do not buy...
You ... Views: 752