Dating Articles

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She Will Fall in Love With You - But You Have to Know How to Make Her Feel That Way - by Chris Tyler
Submitted on Feb 06, 2010 from Chris Tyler
So, you've met or know a woman that you just cannot seem to get out of your mind. Everywhere you go and everything that you do, you find yourself drifting back to thoughts of her. You want to be able to make her fall in love. You want her to say that she feels the same way about you. Feeling like ...
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Friend to Girlfriend Secrets - by Chris Tyler
Submitted on Feb 06, 2010 from Chris Tyler
Time and time again, the question seems to come up from men that really want to turn around their personal life and finally get the reaction from women that they want. Guys want to know how they can turn a friend to a girlfriend and there is a very common and a very good reason for this. Men ...
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How to Reconcile With Your Ex-Girlfriend - Get Her to Want You Back - by Chris Tyler
Submitted on Feb 06, 2010 from Chris Tyler
The hardest part of going through a breakup with your girlfriend is when you get the feeling that you want to be back with her. If you want to reconcile with your ex-girlfriend, then you probably are going through a lot of emotions right now. Sometimes she's all you can think about and then other ...
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Are You Sexually Connecting With Women? - by Jonathon Birrell
Submitted on Feb 06, 2010 from Jonathon Birrell
Desire for sexual abundance was probably the reason most of us got into the seduction community… …but it may be our greatest undoing as well. The allure of it is all-pervasive. With the promise of complete sexual abundance, whether that be with many women, or just that “one” you’ve ...
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Finding Love Through Online Singles Dating Websites - by Tamara Wilkins
Submitted on Feb 05, 2010 from Tamara Wilkins
Being with someone without ever having enough of them and still missing someone like crazy even though you're apart for just few hours is what best describes love. Love is an abstract emotion that has no comparison with any other, it can be impulsive, long lasting, mysterious, caring or ...
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Social and Dating Anxiety - by Pam Babbitt, Sex & Relationship Coach
Submitted on Feb 05, 2010 from Pam Babbitt
Social or dating anxiety resulting in reluctance is a situation that can be changed by following a plan of action to gradually increase your comfort level. This plan should contain low risk actions and will have a greater success rate if you can enlist friends for support and feedback. If shyness ...
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***Dating Games Men Play - by Dr. Diana Kirschner, the Official Guide to Dating
Submitted on Feb 08, 2010 from Dr. Diana Kirschner
Dating Games Men Play 16 Deadly Dating Patterns You Need to Know Now Excerpted from Love in 90 Days By Diana Kirschner, Ph.D. © 2010 Have you ever asked yourself about guys … How could he disappear after he was so totally into me? ...
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What Does "Taking a Break" in a Relationship Signify? - by Sarah Scott
Submitted on Feb 04, 2010 from Andrew Hunter
Have you ever heard those words before? “We have to take a break.” It hits you like a bucket of frozen water. Taking a break inside a relationship regularly means doom for couples, however it really doesn’t have to. What does “taking a break while in the romantic relationship” really ...
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5 Must-Know Tips for Boomer Women Dating Online - by Bobbi Blum
Submitted on Feb 04, 2010 from Bobbi Palmer
Dating sites report that their fastest growing segment are people over 50. My clients, women ranging from 35 – 65, are having great success with it. Face it: online dating is the new hot spot for people who wouldn’t dream of meeting someone in a bar. You know I’m a huge proponent of online ...
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Three Resons Why Guys Breakup with Girls - by Sarah Scott
Submitted on Feb 04, 2010 from Andrew Hunter
Many my women friends ask me why guys breakup with their female partners. I made a decision that this was really quite a fascinating issue. You’ll see other women complain quite often about all the reasons why they suddenly find themselves alone. But I made the decision to dig just a little ...
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The Biological Reality: There ARE Psychological Differences between Men and Women - by Kongit Farrell, MA
Submitted on Feb 03, 2010 from Kongit Farrell
Men and women think differently - I don’t think anyone will argue that point with me at all! In my work as a therapist, I see males and females totally disillusioned with the selection of mates of the opposite sex to choose from. I think that the problem is largely due to a misunderstanding of ...
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Time for a Change? - by Dr. Dennis W. Neder
Submitted on Feb 03, 2010 from Dr. Dennis Neder
So here's the thing, I've been dating this girl for a while now. She's the type that seems like crave attention from other men, so she likes going out to clubs, parties etc. She also likes interacting with men online, flirting and things like that. I can't say I like the way she interacts and ...
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The History of Lipstick? - by MaryAnna Donovan
Submitted on Feb 02, 2010 from Mary Anna Donovan
I can hear it now – who cares about the history of lipstick? First, we are still in some pretty depressing and difficult economic times. Second, lipstick is a perfect way to perk up a gloomy day and add some cheap chic to our “wardrobe.” Finally, a brief look at the history of lipstick ...
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Ask Maryanne Blog: Addictive love and relationships - by Maryanne Comaroto
Submitted on Feb 02, 2010 from Maryanne Comaroto
The Greeks had five words to describe the different levels of love: eros, passionate love, essential desire and longing, romantic love; philia, friendship, loyalty; storge, natural affection; agape, selfless giving; and thelema, desire or will to do something. In the English language we have many ...
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Are You Sabotaging Your Relationship? - by Pam Babbitt, S.I.
Submitted on Feb 02, 2010 from Pam Babbitt
Meet Bob and Carol Carol has shared with Bob again about her new co-worker, aka Matt McDreamy. Carol: You seem irritated. Why? Bob: Oh, no I’m not. Bob chooses to deny his irritation. He believes that by not making an issue out of everything, he and Carol will have a good ...
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How To 'Invite' Your Partner to Try Anal Sex - by Pam Babbitt, Sex & Relationship coach
Submitted on Feb 02, 2010 from Pam Babbitt
Question for the Sex Coach: I really love my new partner. We get along great and sex is good, but anal sex is my favorite and I don't know how to get her into it. I've mentioned it a couple of times and she doesn't say anything. How can I talk her into it? Eddie from Colorado Response: A ...
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Online Dating Sites begin the Dating Process, not the Engagement Period! - by Sarah Elizabeth Malinak
Submitted on Feb 01, 2010 from Sarah Malinak,
A friend I love dearly was recently asked out on a date through a dating site membership. She was thrilled and frightened. But she was scared in that good way when you are facing down a fear, stretching yourself to be more, and confident that no matter what happens, you will love yourself for ...
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5 Tips for Love - by Candace Czarny
Submitted on Feb 01, 2010 from marge admin
If your focus is on attracting love into your life whether it’s a new love or spicing up an current love feng shui will help you create the energy to make that happen. It makes sense that many Feng Shui tips are going to focus on the bedroom when you want to attract love into your life. And by ...
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The Only Relationship Article You Will Ever Have To Read (Really) - by William S. Cottringer, Ph.D.
Submitted on Jan 31, 2010 from William Cottringer
The Only Relationship Article You Will Ever Have To Read (Really) By Bill Cottringer “Good relationships are when your head, heart and hands agree most of the time and besides it doesn’t matter quite that much.” ~The author. Centuries of research would agree that relationships ...
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How To Find Your Soul Mate - by Candace Czarny, ASID, CFM, LEED AP
Submitted on Jan 31, 2010 from marge admin
Marie sat and looked around her empty home. It wasn’t empty of furniture and possessions; it was empty of another person. Marie wanted her soul mate. Her last relationship was a disaster and after taking time to heal emotionally, she was ready to find the love of a lifetime. Unfortunately it ...
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Love - How To Find , How To Keep It - by Candace Czarny, ASID, CFM, LEED AP
Submitted on Jan 31, 2010 from marge admin
Though we hear that all we need is love, why is it so difficult to find the right woman or the right man? While it can seem as though we might never find the perfect person for us, this is far from the reality of relationships. There are many happy couples and many more happy married couples. You ...
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Dating Advice for Men: The Dating Power Gap - by Angel Donovan
Submitted on Feb 04, 2010 from Angel Donovan
Liaisons and dating is undoubtedly the most important part of our life. Almost all our conversations are about them. They affect us emotionally more than most things in life. We get more dismayed , mad , convivial and educated through relationships. But it is the most 'bungling' area of our ...
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The Dance of Intimacy - by Darlene Lancer, MFT
Submitted on Jan 30, 2010 from Darlene Lancer
The relationship duet is the dance of intimacy all couples do. One partner moves in, the other backs-up. Partners may reverse roles, but always maintain a certain space between them. The unspoken agreement is that the Pursuer chase the Distancer forever, but never catch-up, and that the Distancer ...
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Rejection From Women - How to Get Over It, Under It, And Around It - by Chris Tyler
Submitted on Jan 28, 2010 from Chris Tyler
Rejection from women. For some guys, the mere thought of getting rejected by a woman is almost more than they can handle. The catch is, if you really want to be successful with women, you have to be able to deal with it. Yes, the guys that ARE successful with the ladies, they get rejected from ...
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How to Prepare for Life Long Love - by Dr. Torri L. Griffin, LPC
Submitted on Jan 28, 2010 from Torri Griffin
Many people spend their lives searching for that ONE TRUE LOVE--that one love that will satisfy all their human longings and fulfill all their needs. For most, that is expected to be created by one relationship that completes them and satisfies all of their love needs for the rest of life. They ...
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Overcoming Approach Anxiety - Overcome Your Fear Of Rejection - by Chris Topher
Submitted on Jan 27, 2010 from Chris Padgett
Approach anxiety is the only thing keeping most men from love, unwavering confidence, and true happiness. Unless you start overcoming your approach anxiety, you could be lonely for a long time to come. When I first started approaching women, I suffered from the same problem. Sometimes even the ...
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How to Beat Anxiety: How To Meet 'Quality' Women Without Fear Of Rejection - by Chris Topher
Submitted on Jan 27, 2010 from Chris Padgett
Approaching women can seem daunting to any man who doesn't know exactly what he is doing with women. If you are letting your low self-esteem with women stop you from meeting the kind of women that you really want to meet, then you could use some approach anxiety advice, too. Learn how to beat ...
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Get the Love You Desire and Deserve - by Candace Czarny, ASID,CFM, LEED AP
Submitted on Jan 29, 2010 from marge admin
Feng Shui Love Advice Love is something that all of us want more of in our lives. Whether it is from friends, family or an intimate partner you can never have enough love. With a few simple Feng Shui tips, you can not only support the love you already have, but you will also be able to bring ...
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3 Way to Beat shyness and Improve Your Life - by Kate Irwin
Submitted on Jan 27, 2010 from Kate Irwin
Shyness can have a huge impact on your life. It can stop you socialising, getting on at work and generally living the life you want to. Do you often feel like there is no way to overcome your shyness? Have a hopeless feeling that stops you taking all sorts of opportunities? Take heart! You ...
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7 Ways for Women to Improve Confidence and Get More Out of Life - by Kate Irwin
Submitted on Jan 27, 2010 from Kate Irwin
It seems almost everyone would like to improve their self confidence. Women have so much to juggle it is all too easy to see why self esteem and self confidence can plummet - it is just not possible to do everything. Here are 7 small things that every woman can do regularly to improve ...
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Here Are 8 Online Dating Tips to Success - by Francis Hosein
Submitted on Jan 25, 2010 from Francis Hosein
Online dating can be good when you put into effect these simple ideas for finding your soul mate. 1) Taking your time It is important that you take your time to learn about your online partner so taking your time is necessary. Taking your time helps you to feel secure, and to learn more ...
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How to Attract a Taurus Man - by Annie Sherwood
Submitted on Jan 24, 2010 from Annie Sherwood
One of the best qualities of a Taurus man is his down-to-earth reliability. He can be counted on always to be the anchor in the storm. This can be a wonderful trait in a long-term relationship, but it can create some difficulty in starting a fire at first. You will have to be the one to move ...
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How to Attract a Leo Man - by Annie Sherwood
Submitted on Jan 24, 2010 from Annie Sherwood
Here comes the king of the jungle! The Leo man really does feel like the master of any domain he is in, and therefore he thinks he can have his pick of the field, so to speak. You may disagree, but don't let him know that. The Leo man expects the best of everything, because he feels he ...
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How to Attract a Gemini Man - by Annie Sherwood
Submitted on Jan 24, 2010 from Annie Sherwood
The duality of the nature of the Gemini man can present a real challenge if you want to attract him. His interests are numerous, because he needs to satisfy the facets of his inner self. He can be an exciting person to be around, but can switch gears at the drop of a hat. So if you want to ...
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How to Attract a Virgo Man - by Annie Sherwood
Submitted on Jan 24, 2010 from Annie Sherwood
If you want to attract a Virgo man you will need to appeal to his nature. He is a critical thinker and likes to analyze everything very meticulously. Perhaps sometimes he tends to over analyze things. His analytical and critical nature means he likes to talk about philosophical questions and ...
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How to Attract an Aries Man - by Annie Sherwood
Submitted on Jan 24, 2010 from Annie Sherwood
An Aries man has a busy life. He meets a lot of people and participates in a variety of activities. If you want to attract an Aries man, be sure that you are interested in his activities too. Several of his unique activities might involve riding a bike, horse riding, swimming, hiking, and trekking. ...
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The "Cold Read" Tactic For Flirting With Girls - by Dean Cortez
Submitted on Jan 22, 2010 from Dean Cortez
My name is Dean Cortez and in “Mack Tactics,” my well-liked dating strategy manual for men, I stress that being original is the single most essential quality that you can convey to a female -- from the way you dress, to the way in which you approach the girls start conversations with them. ...
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Top 10 Hot Men - from a Sex Coach Perspective - by Pam Babbitt
Submitted on Jan 21, 2010 from Pam Babbitt
It all started with Sarah Palin. Whenever she steps into the spotlight, multitudes of men around the country utter simultaneously, ‘She’s hot!' Some are more verbose: 'Palin's so hot she's the reason the polar ice cap is melting.' 'I'd love to drill her for natural resources.' 'Hugh Hefner ...
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The Secret to Online Dating Success! - by Catherine Cardinal, Ph.D.
Submitted on Jan 21, 2010 from Catherine Cardinal
The Secret to Online Dating Success! Internet dating is the rage and although it may make your neck hairs bristle, more and more women are looking for love online. Here are some great, tried and true tips for online dating success: 1) Create a great profile. Let yourself, be a little alluring ...
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Why Nice Guys Have No Chance With Hot Women - by Chris Tyler
Submitted on Jan 19, 2010 from Chris Tyler
When it comes to dating hot women, nice guys really haven't got much of a shot. It's a cold and cruel reality of the dating world and it's not likely to change anytime soon. That doesn't mean that you should suddenly turn into a real jerk just to try and get women, or that you should give up ...
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How to Flirt With Women and Not Look Like a Fool - by Chris Tyler
Submitted on Jan 19, 2010 from Chris Tyler
One of things that I get from other guys is that they sometimes feel like a fool when they are flirting with women. True, it can put you in a place where you feel like you are on stage and that she is noticing everything about you, and this can make you feel a bit put off or self conscious, but ...
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How To Make A Man Fall For You - 3 Critical Strategies - by Brandi Bailey
Submitted on Jan 19, 2010 from Brandi Bailey
A man and a woman’s needs are sometimes entirely different. Knowing how to love and please your man will be very easy if you understand these 3 basic rules: 1. Acknowledge him for what he is doing for the relationship 2. Admire him for his accomplishments 3. Appreciate him for who he ...
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What Attracts Men To Women - Easy Tips To Attract Him - by Brandi Bailey
Submitted on Jan 19, 2010 from Brandi Bailey
The first thing a man will observe about you is your appearance so if you want to make him fall in love you, it is important that you focus on this visual aspect of yourself. How you carry yourself, what you wear, and how you look, are all part of your appearance. Three tips about ...
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How to Attract Men - Six Extremely Easy Steps - by Brandi Bailey
Submitted on Jan 20, 2010 from Brandi Bailey
Many single women wonder how they can get a man. It is difficult sometimes to know if we are taking the right steps to get his attention. If you want to get Mr. Right’s attention right away follow these tips: STEP 1: Make a list of all the great qualities you want Mr. Right to have. This ...
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How To Be Irresistible To Men - 5 Critical Steps - by Brandi Bailey
Submitted on Jan 19, 2010 from Brandi Bailey
The dating scene is like a potluck dinner. Each participant has a distinct dish or specialty. So how can you make sure that your Mrs. Jones famous spaghetti casserole and not the store bought potato salad? You have to master being irresistible. 1. Have heaps of fun. When you are having fun ...
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Signs That He Likes You - 7 Clues He Is Totally Into You - by Brandi Bailey
Submitted on Jan 19, 2010 from Brandi Bailey
Have you ever thought if that certain guy feels the same way about you as you do for him? Are you looking for some ways to determine if he likes you? Do you worry that you might miss out on the man of your dreams because you haven’t read his attraction signals correctly? Being able to detect ...
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Awesome Dating Ultimate Ideas - by Clifford Mchanter
Submitted on Jan 19, 2010 from Clifford MacHanter
The thing about dating is that it all comes down to your mentality how you see it. If you go into it thinking right away that you’re going to be disappointed, then you probably are. So why waste time in bars or on websites that are packed with fraudulent people when there is a much easier way out ...
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Romantic Things To Do for A Girl: 3 Romantic Ways To Make Any Girl Fall For You - by Michael Lee
Submitted on Jan 18, 2010 from Michael Lee
Everyday is an opportunity to find romantic things to do for a girl. It’s time we live up to the legacy of all the Romeos and Don Juans that came before us. Don’t just settle for simple text messages or cheesy greeting cards! We can all do better than that! If you’re ready to step up your ...
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How To Take A Girl On The Ultimate First Date - by Dean Cortez
Submitted on Jan 18, 2010 from dhale mercado
Learning how to get girls goes further than being aware of the right approaches, opening lines and conversation techinques. You will also have to know how to cope with the first date -- even though this will not be a "date" in the conventional sense, exactly. You see, when the majority men take ...
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How To Approach A Woman And Get Her Phone Number - by Dean Cortez
Submitted on Jan 18, 2010 from dhale mercado
Let me share with you some tips on how to approach women and get phone numbers fast -- mainly how to get a girls phone number during the day time. These are essential techniques to learn, because I'm sure you are seeing gorgeous single women on a daily basis and not taking advantage of these ...
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