What makes me an expert?

 I have been married twice to the same person for the equivalent of twenty four years. I can assure you that we have a wonderful marriage that is Christian based, grounded in the word of God.

DYSFUNCTION: My first marriage was not based on Gods values, because we were not believers, and every decision that was made was based on feelings and emotions, and whoever was the most emotional when the decisions were being made won the dispute, or made the final decision rather it was right or wrong. This is not the bases for a strong marriage.

FUNCTION:The second time around is the greatest gift ever, because we realized that marriage is a gift from God. CJ and I separated for three years in between flesh and salvation. I had been praying for the Lord to give me a husband, and when He gave me CJ back I said to the Lord “ This is not funny” and you can believe that this was no laughing matter to God.

As Director of the lay-counseling department of 
Greatness Church I have counseled hundreds including couples, groups, and singles