Are you a rational or irrational thinker? You may want to believe you are a rational thinker, but you find that you are the eternal pessimist, able to see only the half-empty glass in many situations you face. You are a rational thinker if you turn negative situations into positive ones. You can ... Views: 1675
Who doesn't want to be healthy? I've been fascinated with health ever since I can remember. My grandmother's best friend was bedridden with rheumatoid arthritis since she was in her early thirties. My own mother had chronic mental and physical illnesses (some would call it hypochondria). ... Views: 1866
How do you figure out what you were meant to do? How do you know what you're really good at? What can you do that makes you shine?
One obstacle most of us have is that we really don't know. People are quick to point out our weaknesses and most of us in childhood and onward were pushed toward ... Views: 1145
Are you suffering from depression or a medical condition? Depression can be a symptom of an undiagnosed medical condition.
Decision trees are used in psychotherapy much like they are in other professions. At the top of the decision tree are always two items to rule out FIRST, before making a ... Views: 3511
I'm a psychiatrist and intuitive in Los Angeles. What I do isn't my job. It's my life's passion. With patients and in workshops, I listen with my intellect and my intuition, a potent inner wisdom that goes beyond the literal. I experience it as a flash of insight, a gut feeling, a hunch, a ... Views: 2495
One of my favorite motivational speakers is a guy by the name of Brian Tracy, who is one of the world’s top experts on success psychology and personal achievement. In case you haven’t heard of Brian, he is sort of like a calmer, more “laid back” version of infomercial guru, Tony ... Views: 1501
I love artists, because I’m a wordsmith and they say things I can never say. Here are two of my favorite paintings about work, both by Caillebotte:
http://www.webstrategies.cc/caillebotte1.jpg ;
http://www.webstrategies.cc/caillebotte2.jpg .
My mother was full of aphorisms. I grew up with ... Views: 5998
If you’d like to know one of the biggest pitfalls of life and how to avoid it remember one axiom, Substance over Illusion.
You see it all around you, the flashy sports cars, the designer clothes,and the latest greatest gadgets. Being trendy is in. It always has been.
One ... Views: 1642
The Essential Conflict in Humans
is between our Species Nature
and our Consciousness.
The two parts of our beings:
One part of our beings is our DNA-based species’ nature, which includes the elements of our brain activity and awareness that evolved to contribute to our survival in the world ... Views: 1542
It has been said that "money makes the world go around." Is this really true? Lets examine this saying a little bit further.
The truth about money is this. Money has absolutely no value what so ever and I can prove it. Money or the numbers that you see on your account balance are worthless. ... Views: 1770
"So, why don't you tell me about yourself?" is the mostfrequently asked interview question. It's a question thatmost interviewees expect and the one they have the mostdifficulty answering. Though one could answer this open-ended question in a myriad of ways, the key to answeringthis question or ... Views: 1862
He did it again – my stockbroker. He rolled a ten-bagger into my lap. That means the stock he picked for me went up x10. Then he had me sell just before it started its decline. I bought low and sold high. Or rather he did.
Making me (and him) that kind of money isn’t what I’d call ... Views: 5683
Since what others may do to us is not in our power to change, we need only concern ourselves with what we do to ourselves . . . for this is in our power.
There is always a moment before a problem starts with another human being where we realize that what we want is not going to happen. ... Views: 1494
"Grief is healing: To take away our grief is to take away our healing. And learning about life after death helps us heal with greater hope, comfort and peace." ~ Bob Olson
In approximately five years of investigating the possibility of life after death, I have discovered convincing evidence ... Views: 1757
Let’s face it, getting and staying in shape can be a costly investment. And, if you’re not careful, its greatest cost is the one commodity you could use the most of: time (keeping monetary costs in check is another volume, entirely). Yet, even many seasoned exercisers often have difficulty ... Views: 1541
In the era of increasing obesity, dieting seems to be as popular as never before. If this issues concern you in any way - you are most likely to be inspired by new coaching approach. By focusing on developing your motivation and strenghtening your will power you will give a fast start to your ... Views: 1679
Clearing Clutter
I live in what I have always considered a pretty clutter-free home. But after reading Karen Kingston's book “Clear Your Clutter with Feng Shui,” I've realized I can still do with less. I started last week. The little clutter I have already cleared has had a surprising affect on ... Views: 1453
--- Why We Fear Death ---
"Men fear death as children fear to go in the dark." - Bacon
There may be a thousand reasons why we fear death, but most of all we fear death because we fear the unknown, and death is an unknown entity to most people. We fear that dying may be painful and we do not ... Views: 1738
Have you ever noticed that in one moment you can be thinking of something and suddenly its right there in front of you? For example, you’ll be wondering about where to purchase a particular product and moments later, a voice on the radio will be advertising that very thing and where to find it, ... Views: 1915
One of the most important aspects of a website today is the webcopy - sometimes called the sales letter.
In days gone bye, banners and graphics were all important but now it's the words that do the selling.
This short article will give you some pointers about writing good webcopy.
1.You must ... Views: 1412
Starting a business or project is one thing, keeping it running successfully is another issue.
Do you recall the initial enthusiasm, drive and passion you had, when you were working on setting up your business or project?
You spent countless hours working on it, researching about it, making ... Views: 1275
Mango is my favorite fruit next to pineapples. They’re sweet, juicy and delicious. This extraordinary fruit contains high amounts of vitamin A (contributing to it’s meaty bright orange color). It also contains Vitamins B, C , calcium, potassium and cartonoids (helps protect against cancer, ... Views: 3759
What you worry about determines the course of your life. Free yourself from the tyranny of your negative "What if..." scenarios, and you will discover that you have everything to lose, and everything to gain!
A number of years ago I had a client who came to me in a really bad stressed out ... Views: 1544
Cure for Depression/Suicide Attempts
Let’s try Bible Wisdom! We’ve queried weejee boards, psychics, astrologers, soothsayers, lovelorn columnists and even movie and sports stars! We’ve taken the blue, the green and even the multicolored pills and still we are depressed and feel rotten.
News ... Views: 2356
One of the drawbacks of operating a small, home-based business is the continuous loneliness caused from operating the business alone. It can be difficult being the only instrument player in a marching band, but since more and more individuals are seeking the freedom of working from home, ... Views: 1455
Do you want to know the magical words which can change your life? No kidding, you already know, the words are “thank you”.
The magical and powerful words “thank you” open the hearts and minds of other people for us and thus pave the way for our prosperity and popularity. Don’t say thank you in ... Views: 1245
Monograph - A Breakthrough in Reading - 1960
Evelyn Wood, Dynamics Reading Institute
To destroy the Western tradition of independent thought, it is not necessary to burn the books. All we need to do is to leave them unread for a generation or two. Robert M. Hutchins
If you could read a ... Views: 2548
To determine your degree of life satisfaction, answer True or False to the following.
I enjoy getting out of bed most mornings, as I look forward to starting the day.
I see the problems in my life as challenges which I can learn from.
I am usually able to focus on what I am doing ... Views: 6274
If you never imagined that a goose could teach you about your personal growth, think again. Here's a bazaar, true story that our daughter told us about her co-worker Ann's experience.
Ann was training for a marathon, running on a bike path in a major city where she lives. As she was running, a ... Views: 1504
One of the most difficult parts of being a father is learning to accept your children's mistakes. It's certainly easy to be loving, supportive, and helpful when your children are mistake-free, but most fathers who are paying attention don't find too many mistake-free periods of their children's ... Views: 2382
Confidence is a requirement for success and happiness. There are amazing differences in performance, achievement and self-satisfaction when you compare the performance of confident and scared individuals under the same conditions. Never feel that it is impossible to gain confidence if it is ... Views: 3169
Author of "Taming Your Inner Brat: A Guide for Transforming Self-defeating Behavior"
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Copyright Pauline Wallin, Ph.D. 2003. All rights reserved
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Comedian George Carlin once remarked, "Have your ever noticed? Anyone going slower than you is an idiot. Anyone ... Views: 1522
Employers and recruiters don’t have time to waste and they have no problem tossing out your resume. More than likely there are hundreds, possibly thousands following yours! The job market is tight and it takes more than a mediocre to open doors. To make it to the second round of reviews, your ... Views: 1210
At a recent outing, a woman seated near us lit a cigarette. My 7 year-old-son commented to her, “Smoking is bad for you.” At which the woman replied, “Yes, so make sure you never start.”
Every day you wake up, you make literally hundreds of choices. You choose your mood and your attitude. You ... Views: 1201
What do you do when you don’t know the language or customs? That’s when your EQ, or Emotional Intelligence, comes in handy.
On my recent tour to Russia, the people in large cities (Moscow, Saint Petersburg) knew English, but not in the small villages (Yaroslavl, Uglich).
I thought I’d pick ... Views: 1499
We are living in a time when we need to look at and hopefully transform our mental and emotional habits. The "season of adversity" is the best time to start dropping a few wealth, health, protection, success and happiness seeds into our deeper mind and fertilizing them with powerful loving ... Views: 2644
If you happen to be a member of any kind of group that meets regularly, I’m calling you to play your part in saving the world from millions of wasted hours in boring, poorly facilitated meetings!
Premise
Any participant in any group, at anytime, can commit a Random Act of Facilitation to ... Views: 1496
I received a disturbing email this week. It's one of many on the same theme which I have received over time, so I knew it was time to address this issue. Here's the story.
A young lady's boyfriend went to see a doctor for depression. She shared with me that the doctor apparently said he has ... Views: 3273
We fill our lives with dramas that rival the Greek Tragedies. We play the lead actors reliving the stressful scenes, keeping the conflict alive and ever present. Anger begins to dominate our thinking. However, who are we really angry at? When someone like a boss, a lover, a friend, or a family ... Views: 1938
I referenced the circus because I just finished another interviewing book that recommends asking for the job before leaving the interview. I can envision up to 15 qualified professionals each asking the interviewer for the job. If each asks for the job, doesn’t that make the question null and ... Views: 1189
A 10-Minute Self-Test
By Dr. Jill Ammon-Wexler
International Success Mentor
www.quantum-self.com
Discover if you're a natural General, or perhaps
have John F. Kennedy, Oprah, or Bill Gates-type
leadership skills. Choose the ONE below numbered
item that best describes your leadership ... Views: 3550
Did you know that tone of voice and non-verbal
language are more important than words in conveying
meaning in communication? We spend so much time
figuring out what we’re going to say that we often
forget that our facial expressions, gestures and
voice tones are speaking volumes.
You can say, ... Views: 1610
Before we begin, let me say that I use the term "personal development" very loosely. Anything that we are doing in life that helps us to grow personally, is personal development. So, taking a new cooking class is personal development . . . Deciding to travel to a new country and experience ... Views: 1412
"Two roads diverged in a wood, and I,
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference."
- Robert Frost
I have become increasingly annoyed at the suggestion of friends and acquaintances that I "must" see My Fat Greek Wedding because of how wonderful the movie is. I ... Views: 1937
There is a law that guides the peace process, and while world leaders may disregard it, your average mommy knows it pretty well.
It is this: The world can be only as peaceful as you are. And it all starts with you.
I have three kids under the age of 5. If I wake up in a sour mood, the day is ... Views: 1358
In the midst of hundreds, if not thousands, of résumés recruiters and employers receive for any given position, your résumé needs to stand out from the crowd. You must make the Hiring Manager want to read your résumé more thoroughly than just the rudimentary 10-20 seconds the vast majority of ... Views: 1313
"Optimum health is not just the absence of disease but the presence of wellness in mental, emotional, physical, spiritual and social areas. Some would also include financial health."
Introduction:
Optimum health is essential at all levels, from the individual to the society we live in to the ... Views: 1977