Do you catch yourself in patterns of self-sabotage? Maybe you set yourself a goal and then find yourself doing everything except what you need to do to achieve that goal. Maybe you actually do things that will make it even harder to achieve your goals in the future. If you do, you aren’t alone. ... Views: 893
Are you a worrywart? Do you find yourself worrying about things that don’t even matter, to the point where it negatively impacts your life and keeps you from enjoying your everyday experiences? You can change the way you think, take back control over your mind, and regain peace and joy.
If ... Views: 891
Do you know many people compulsively find themselves seeing the worst scenarios in situations they find themselves in? Do you know this leads to unnecessary amount of stress, anxiety, panic attacks, despair, depression, energy depletion, unhappiness, failed relationships, health concerns and ... Views: 890
Did you know that many people make themselves door mats because they believe deep down that they will be rewarded for doing so? Did you know that there is no “reward” for this self-destructive strategy besides a downward emotional and physical spiral?
Did you know that this tendency to submit ... Views: 886
Self-esteem is a value that you unconsciously place upon yourself. It is based upon choices that you make throughout your life and you will find that it fluctuates. The main reason why psychology experts have failed to increase self-esteem through many different approaches is because self-esteem ... Views: 860
Wherever you are in life, no matter how much money or how big a house you have, chances are you feel that there is some circumstance or another that is holding you back from where you want to be. If you feel this way, you are not alone. In fact, it is far rarer to not feel this way than to feel ... Views: 858
Do you spend your days feeling like you aren’t really living up to your potential? Are you frustrated by the feeling that the way you are today isn’t who you really are? Many people don’t realise it, but your Authentic Self can, and probably has, become buried over the years under old emotional ... Views: 856
If you are looking to attract a healthy relationship with someone who is looking for what you are also wanting, but you find your current reality different to what you desire, then this article is for you
For most people the dating world seems confusing, frustrating and downright annoying! You ... Views: 851
When you think of the future, do you find yourself thinking about the worst things that could possibly happen? Do you worry about things that haven’t happened yet and might never happen? Do you feel the need to be prepared for everything bad that might come your way, no matter how unlikely? If ... Views: 843
If you have ever been sexually abused or harassed, it’s likely that you still carry the traumatic scars of such a painful incident. Aside from the common symptoms of post-traumatic stress disorder that accompany these unfortunate events, is something that may be even more significant and ... Views: 841
Did you know that most people who hate their job have been programmed to unconsciously choose a job they hate? This is because they believe and have been programmed to believe that their choices are fallen, as they make these choices unconsciously.
Many people, who find themselves stuck in a ... Views: 829
There is one very simple reason for all emotional depression.
I have discussed how feelings of “happiness” and “sadness” emerge spontaneously from within our self on every decision we make for ourselves in our lives.
When the feeling of happiness emerges, it does so in recognition that the ... Views: 821
How do you banish the fear of stepping up permanently? Why are the excuses this fear generates in your head more than just fear? And why it has unconsciously programmed you into allowing it to reside inside of you?
Are you someone who is haunted by these questions and the thought of stepping ... Views: 788
I can’t imagine a better metaphor of how your past affects your self-esteem than the following.
Imagine that you are in the deep end of a swimming pool and are an excellent swimmer. Next, imagine that spontaneously and without warning, lead weights start becoming attached to various parts of ... Views: 787
If you are someone who is haunted by the fear of stepping up, or are unsure as to why fear motivates you to avoid doing the one thing you know you want to do – you are likely feeling helpless to understand why its hold on you is so strong. You may also be wondering why so called “experts” have ... Views: 783
People who seem overconfident or too interested in them selves are often called narcissistic. Narcissism is a thought and behaviour pattern that involves many negative elements including:
• Overconfidence
• Fascination with the self
• Excess ... Views: 775
If you struggle with procrastination, and are avoiding what you have set out to do or its a mild dream you cannot seem to ground, you are not alone! Our tendencies toward procrastination are driven by old emotional programming hidden deep in our subconscious minds. This programming reveals ... Views: 768
If you are someone who has “failed” at something in the past and you are now struggling with the negative self-talk generated by these memories, this article is for you. If you have bought into the unconscious trap of how these memories of failure are useful to you then consider this question. ... Views: 768
Do you ever feel like the whole world is against you? Do you struggle with feelings of anger and betrayal? Do you envy others or feel that life has dealt you an unfair hand? If you answered “yes” to any of these questions, you may be suffering from victim consciousness. You believe yourself to ... Views: 743
Marriage, by definition, is a union of two individuals committing to themselves from a place of freewill and love. I have found that many of my clients who are in cultural marriages, have been sucked into a life-depleting situation without any idea of what caused them to make a decision. This is ... Views: 726
There are hundreds of methods out there for people who want to improve their lives. If you are looking for change in your life, you can choose basically any technique and any acronym you want – EFT, TFT, EMDR, hypnosis, psychotherapy, cognitive behavioural psychotherapy, the Sedona Method, and ... Views: 724
Anxiety is largely the result of what I call “emotional landmines” i.e. negatively charged memories stored in your unconscious mind and body that keep getting re-triggered by daily events, thus leading to anxiety and other painful emotional and physical experiences. If you would like to know how ... Views: 692
Did you know that the need to be liked is driven by an unconscious strategy trying to protect you from hurt, harm, rejection and humiliation? Did you know that this strategy implemented by the unconscious mind is causing others to lose interest in what you say? Others will feel weird in your ... Views: 672
By Felicity Muscat
Do you know that most people only have a vague recollection of who they truly are, i.e. their true happy self? Do you know that this Authentic Self has become progressively buried under many layers of early life conditioning that is collectively referred to as old emotional ... Views: 602
Did you know that narcissism involves an inordinate fascination with self-love, vanity, self-absorption, self-centredness, smugness and ego centrism? Did you know that it is considered to be a ‘normal’ condition of the infantile level of personality development?
Did you know it means that ... Views: 571
If you have an interest in this topic and a desire for change, I want to start by educating you on why the attraction to toxic relationships has formed inside of you in the first place. This will give you an understanding of what you can do about it and how to replace some of the common myths ... Views: 0