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- How to stop the struggle of procrastination - by Submitted on May 15, 2017 from Felicity MuscatProcrastination is generated and kept in place by unconsciously hidden negative programming in the form of negative thoughts and feelings that take control over you and your life. In order to fully purge this life destroying habit it becomes imperative to unearth this underlying negativity and ...
Views: 1991 - The Nice Guy Problem - by Submitted on May 08, 2017 from Felicity MuscatRelationships are an integral part of most people’s lives. If you are like the majority of people in the world, you want a good, healthy relationship with someone else. The problem is that there are so many different approaches to relationships, and it often feels like the nicest, healthiest ...
Views: 1851 - How to have the effortless courage to quit your job - by Submitted on May 14, 2017 from Felicity MuscatAll your fears in life are created by your past experiences which have created negative memories. These fears steer you away from risks and from facing life with zest. Did you know that most people that hate their job have been programmed to unconsciously choose a job they hate? They have ...
Views: 1835 - How to stop feeling desperate and become confident, charismatic and attractive - by Submitted on May 15, 2017 from Felicity MuscatWe all know when a needy and desperate person is in our midst. They feel ‘sticky’ and seem to drain our energy. If you suspect that this is you, then you are probably feeling insecure, lonely, in need of validation or love, in need of being cared for, feeling afraid or vulnerable. This is a very ...
Views: 1550 - When early abuse blocks your success in life - by Submitted on May 15, 2017 from Felicity MuscatI find it interesting how many counsellors, therapists and life coaches seem to miss the realisation that the biggest obstacle in achieving success is based in negative beliefs that come from experiences of early abuse. This implies that strategies promoting the limited notion that one simply ...
Views: 1492 - Adult Narcissism and Childhood Criticism - by Submitted on May 08, 2017 from Felicity MuscatPeople who seem overconfident or too interested in themselves are often called narcissistic. Narcissism is a thought and behaviour pattern that involves many negative elements including: • Overconfidence • Fascination with the self • Excess ...
Views: 1443 - How to stop sabotaging relationships and get the love, connection and relationship you want - by Submitted on May 15, 2017 from Felicity MuscatDid you know that many people who are afraid of rejection, intimacy, and abandonment often tend to fall into self-sabotaging behaviours such as manipulation, avoidance, overeating, jealousy, drug and alcohol use, infidelity and so on in order to try and “protect” themselves from being ...
Views: 1377 - How to stop being needy and live with self-respect - by Submitted on May 14, 2017 from Felicity MuscatDid you know that self-respect is impossible if you are needy? Did you know that neediness is the main reason for low self-esteem, low self-confidence, for feelings of inadequacy and feeling extremely unattractive and being rejection-prone? Did you know that your neediness will undermine any ...
Views: 1356 - The secret to having unshakable willpower - by Submitted on May 15, 2017 from Felicity MuscatHaving a weak will is often considered “normal”. Strong-willed individuals are admired for their success. While those with little to no will power just assume willpower is something some people get and some don’t. This belief deters them from ever attempting to change, or find the source of ...
Views: 1234 - Why preparing for the worst doesn’t actually help - by Submitted on May 15, 2017 from Felicity MuscatThe way you react to a situation affects the outcome. Repeat this reaction again and again and eventually this creates a pattern for your whole life. Many people find themselves thinking about the worst case scenario for any situation they are in. As children we are taught to “expect the worst”. ...
Views: 1195 - How to stop delaying your goals and show up for your life - by Submitted on May 15, 2017 from Felicity MuscatDoes procrastination rule your life? Does it feel like you sit helplessly on the sidelines of your life as you watch this uncontrollable force run it into the ground? Do you realise that means you: a) have totally lost control over your life and therefore; b) have no life? Do you feel ...
Views: 1175 - How to become more socially confident - by Submitted on May 15, 2017 from Felicity Muscatdidn’t understand why it always felt as though this debilitating mantle was restricting me. There was always something inside of me that looked at the way I would express myself to the world and compare and see others doing it naturally. If you have shyness you have most likely observed how some ...
Views: 1150 - How to Stop Taking Things Personally - by Submitted on May 08, 2017 from Felicity MuscatHumans are social creatures, as Aristotle taught us millennia ago. We learn who we are by our interactions with others. Every day, we interact with many people. From the moment we wake up we are interacting with our family or our roommates; at school we interact with our classmates or at work we ...
Views: 1132 - Surviving A Breakup – Healing A Broken Heart and Restoring yourself back to feeling confident in yourself and your desirability - by Submitted on May 11, 2017 from Felicity MuscatBy Felicity Muscat Do you know that most individuals have been taught that the healing process of a broken heart takes time to heal, the limitation with this is that although the pain subsides the effects of the scar remain and continually get re-triggered when individuals attempt to move on ...
Views: 1132 - How to go from a distant disaster to happily ever after - by Submitted on May 15, 2017 from Felicity MuscatAre you wondering why your relationship has become distant? Or perhaps it has just spiralled out of hand? This article will help you to understand the first step to creating something new. Did you know that one of the biggest drivers of relationship break down is the fear of abandonment? This ...
Views: 1126 - How to Stop Being Needy and Create a Healthy Relationship - by Submitted on May 08, 2017 from Felicity MuscatIf you are one of those individuals who is at odds as to why your relationships fail and/or wondering why people suddenly disappear from your life or withdraw from you and you are ready to do something about it; then this article is for you. This article will shed some light on what the causes ...
Views: 1119 - How to change your inner chemistry and addiction to toxic relationships - by Submitted on May 14, 2017 from Felicity MuscatIf you have an interest in this topic and a desire for change, I want to start by educating you on why the attraction to toxic relationships has formed inside of you in the first place. This will give you an understanding of what you can do about it and how to replace some of the common myths ...
Views: 1117 - How to stop watching successful people and start becoming one - by Submitted on May 15, 2017 from Felicity MuscatDid you know the only reason most people live in scarcity is because they have been hypnotised into accepting a host of limiting beliefs around their ability to create the abundance they rightfully deserve? Did you know most of those beliefs are held outside of conscious awareness stored deep in ...
Views: 1117 - Why am I not able to connect with others effortlessly? How to achieve connection, attraction and build the foundation for healthy relationships - by Submitted on May 14, 2017 from Felicity MuscatMany people find themselves repeating old relationship patterns, attracting emotionally unavailable people and are perplexed as to why they cannot achieve loving, open, emotional connections with others comprised of closeness, intimacy and natural attraction. When relationships become distant, ...
Views: 1101 - How to stop self-sabotaging your relationships and reclaim the control over yourself - by Submitted on May 08, 2017 from Felicity MuscatHave you ever said something, done something and/or acted in a way that perplexed you? You know you wanted something but then acted in a way that went contrary to what you desired? For example: You were excited about a new relationship opportunity, but found yourself becoming increasingly ...
Views: 1096 - The fear of sexuality and expressing sexual desires naturally - by Submitted on May 14, 2017 from Felicity MuscatIf you have ever been sexually abused or harassed, it’s likely that you still carry the traumatic scars of such a painful incident. Aside from the common symptoms of post-traumatic stress disorder that accompany such unfortunate events, there is something that may be even more significant and ...
Views: 1093 - Are you being held hostage by a self-sabotaging personality? - by Submitted on May 15, 2017 from Felicity MuscatDo you ever feel like there is something, or perhaps ‘someone’ inside you that doesn’t have your best interests at heart? Do you ever get the feeling that this inner force is always two steps ahead of you trying to sabotage any attempts you try to make to improve your life? Do you feel like you ...
Views: 1087 - How to increase your self-esteem - by Submitted on May 15, 2017 from Felicity MuscatDid you know that low self-esteem leaves you feeling like a second class citizen who must regularly submit their wishes to the whims of others? Can you relate to this? More importantly, did you know that low self-esteem is something that is actually programmed into you by negative memories of ...
Views: 1072 - How to Transform Despair into Unstoppable Motivation - by Submitted on May 08, 2017 from Felicity MuscatAre you one of the many people who have trouble with motivation? You are not alone. It is extremely common to simply feel unmotivated to do the things we need to do. But as common as this feeling is, it is not our natural state at all. While motivation experts have made millions of dollars ...
Views: 1064 - How to get the girl – a guide for nice guys - by Submitted on May 15, 2017 from Felicity MuscatRelationships form an integral part our lives. If you are a man with integrity and feel that the tips and seduction techniques online are only giving ineffective results at best – this article will shed some light on why you are having trouble finding and keeping a woman’s interest. Many of my ...
Views: 1026 - Why the personality trait “shyness” is a hypnotic trance, which has you accepting that you are not charismatic by nature, and the key to ending its grip forever! - by Submitted on May 08, 2017 from Felicity MuscatThe one thing that perplexed me in curing my shyness was that, I did not understand why it always felt as though this debilitating mantle was restricting to me. There was always something inside of me that looked at the way I would express myself to the world and compare to see others doing it ...
Views: 1025 - What is causing you to feel stuck? - by Submitted on May 15, 2017 from Felicity MuscatNegative circumstances in our life such as debt, bad relationships, depressing jobs, lack of friendships and other negative situations can cause an array of emotional issues. Your inner resilience to manage stress is essential when navigating the challenges of everyday life. The sad reality is, ...
Views: 1018 - How to change your inner chemistry and addiction to toxic relationships - by Submitted on May 14, 2017 from Felicity MuscatIf you have an interest in this topic and a desire for change, I want to start by educating you on why the attraction to toxic relationships has formed inside of you in the first place. This will give you an understanding of what you can do about it and how to replace some of the common myths ...
Views: 1015 - How to Defeat Procrastination Forever? - by Submitted on May 08, 2017 from Felicity MuscatFirstly, did you know that procrastination is driven by negative feelings and beliefs, such as: • Fear of failure • Fear of disappointment • Fear of taking responsibility for one’s own life • The need to remain dependent of one’s friends, parents or loved ones • The fear of ...
Views: 1012 - How to delete old memories of past failures that continue to sabotage your life - by Submitted on May 15, 2017 from Felicity MuscatDid you know that the main reason one continues to feel like a failure after having endured a negative event is that they harbour the negative memory of that event within themselves? Did you know that memory serves as the solid evidence for the belief that they are a failure? Finally, did you ...
Views: 1009 - How to change your inner chemistry and addiction to toxic relationships - by Submitted on May 14, 2017 from Felicity MuscatIf you have an interest in this topic and a desire for change, I want to start by educating you on why the attraction to toxic relationships has formed inside of you in the first place. This will give you an understanding of what you can do about it and how to replace some of the common myths ...
Views: 1004 - Is your emotional baggage enslaving you? - by Submitted on May 15, 2017 from Felicity MuscatDo you spend your days feeling like you aren’t really living up to your potential? Are you frustrated by the feeling that the way you are today isn’t who you really are? Many people don’t realise it, but your Authentic Self can, and probably has, become buried over the years under old emotional ...
Views: 1000 - Is the fear of change keeping you stuck? - by Submitted on May 14, 2017 from Felicity MuscatIs the fear of change weighing your life down? Are you unable to experience the fullness in life? Are you willing to change that? Then read ahead… The fear of change has many negative consequences on a person’s life. These include the following (to name a few): 1. Perpetuates unfulfilling ...
Views: 992 - How to Take Back Your Life after Abuse - by Submitted on May 08, 2017 from Felicity MuscatAbuse is a tragically common experience. People who survive abuse often have a different perception on life than people who have not been abused. On the surface level, they learn to fear other people at a time when they should be learning to discover and explore. At a deeper level, their very ...
Views: 991 - How to Stop Self Doubt from Killing Your Motivation - by Submitted on May 08, 2017 from Felicity MuscatOvercoming Self-Doubt If you are an individual who has this toxic program called “Self-Doubt” inside of you and have just about given up on the battle with it, this article is for you. It will help you regain control over your subconscious self, and to get rid of those lies that have been fed ...
Views: 987 - Is the fear of taking full responsibility for your life driving you to procrastinate? - by Submitted on May 14, 2017 from Felicity MuscatDid you know that procrastination is directed by negative beliefs and feelings such as the fear of disappointment, fear of failure, fear of taking responsibility for one’s own life, the need to remain dependent of one’s friends, parents, and loved ones, the fear of facing the world and becoming ...
Views: 987 - How to attract what you want and stop attracting undesirable situations from reoccurring - by Submitted on May 14, 2017 from Felicity MuscatDid you know that it is not a coincidence that you attract situations that make you question if you should accept them? The man with kids, or the job with less pay, the unsavoury housemate, the woman who isn’t fully committed when you truly desire to be with someone who is. Many people live ...
Views: 963 - How to change your inner chemistry and addiction to toxic relationships - by Submitted on May 14, 2017 from Felicity MuscatIf you have an interest in this topic and a desire for change, I want to start by educating you on why the attraction to toxic relationships has formed inside of you in the first place. This will give you an understanding of what you can do about it and how to replace some of the common myths ...
Views: 957 - How the fear of loss stops you from attracting healthy, loving relationships - by Submitted on May 15, 2017 from Felicity MuscatDo you find yourself asking “why am I not able to connect with others effortlessly?” Does it make you think there is something wrong with you? Maybe you think you don’t like people in general? So how can you achieve effortless connection, attraction and build a natural foundation for a healthy ...
Views: 952 - How to remove feelings of not being good enough and replace them with natural feelings of confidence, peace and adequacy for who you are - by Submitted on May 14, 2017 from Felicity MuscatDo you ever experience feelings of not being good enough? Do you feel that it’s normal to actually have the belief of not being good enough inside you, creating self-doubt? Do you feel like it’s normal that you have to be and do things in order to feel good within yourself? Do you find yourself ...
Views: 951 - Why your authentic self would not allow you to stay a prisoner in a toxic relationship, and why the fear of abandonment will - by Submitted on May 14, 2017 from Felicity MuscatMany individuals “deep down in their heart” wish they were in control of their decisions. If they thought it was possible to have a choice, they would not stay in any form of toxic relationship. However, fear generates an internal cage, and once the individual attempts to cross the line of this ...
Views: 942 - How to change your inner chemistry and addiction to toxic relationships - by Submitted on May 14, 2017 from Felicity MuscatIf you have an interest in this topic and a desire for change, I want to start by educating you on why the attraction to toxic relationships has formed inside of you in the first place. This will give you an understanding of what you can do about it and how to replace some of the common myths ...
Views: 941 - How to Lose Your Shyness and Develop Unstoppable Charisma - by Submitted on May 08, 2017 from Felicity MuscatAre you one of the millions of people in the world who suffer from shyness? Would you like to develop confidence, and become the attractive and carefree person you really are inside? If so, this article is for you! First, I want to address some of the most common myths about shyness. Many ...
Views: 936 - How to restore freedom, peace and reclaim your authentic self - by Submitted on May 14, 2017 from Felicity MuscatAnxiety is largely the result of what I call ‘emotional landmines’ i.e. negatively charged memories stored in your unconscious mind and body that keep getting re-triggered by daily events. The triggering of these ‘landmines’ leads to anxiety and other painful emotional and physical experiences ...
Views: 931 - How can I Become a Great Leader? - by Submitted on May 08, 2017 from Felicity MuscatIf you would like to be able to: • Harness the qualities that make you a natural leader • Become a dynamic and powerful leader This article is for you. While leadership courses are great for enhancing knowledge; becoming a dynamic leader rests in your own capacity to navigate ...
Views: 926 - Release the past: completely erase the negative memories which are retriggering pain in your relationships - by Submitted on May 14, 2017 from Felicity MuscatLearning from your past experiences is great, but I’m sure you’ll agree that being stuck in the memories really isn’t. Are you constantly living in your past, and do you want to break out? If so, read on! Do you continually find yourself rehashing past events, all the while wishing they could ...
Views: 920 - The truth about accepting the excuses your brain gives you - by Submitted on May 11, 2017 from Felicity MuscatOops, another excuse… Do you ever catch yourself making excuses when things don’t turn out as you had expected? Have you ever neglected taking responsibility for the events and circumstances of your life? Or have you ever tried to explain why you didn’t, couldn’t, shouldn’t or simply wouldn’t ...
Views: 916 - How to unleash natural charisma for better connection and confidence - by Submitted on May 14, 2017 from Felicity MuscatAs you know, shyness can create an array of problems. You struggle in pretty much every social situation. You ask yourself, how can these people speak so effortlessly? whilst you’re stuck trying to form a sentence. You look at the more spontaneous people, wonder how they do it so easily and wish ...
Views: 913 - Re-programming the subconscious mind’s hard drive to take back control over your life choices - by Submitted on May 14, 2017 from Felicity MuscatAs you move through your life do you ever find yourself repeating or recreating situations that are less than desirable? For instance, do you find yourself caught in certain self-sabotaging or self-destructive habits that have taken control over your mind and life? Do you feel sufficiently ...
Views: 907 - How to Quit Your Horrible Job and Live the Life You Want - by Submitted on May 11, 2017 from Felicity MuscatDo you hate your job? Welcome to adulthood, most of the world would tell you. Suck it up and do what you have to do so you can have a halfway decent pension in retirement, most of the world would tell you. You’re no better than all the rest of humanity who also has to do jobs they hate so stop ...
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