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- Ending the Victim Advantage (Part I) - by Submitted on Sep 26, 2012 from Cathy EckThe Poor Me Control Drama Nearly every day someone says to me, “I'm sick of hearing victims whine.” Aren't we all? Taking responsibility for our lives has finally come of age. Those who pretend that they are always innocent victims just rub us the wrong way. If we turn away from them, we ...
Views: 1307(1 vote) - Ending the Victim Advantage (Part II) - by Submitted on Jun 18, 2013 from Cathy EckThe Lost Secret of Masculine and Feminine Roles In Part I, I shared with you the ancient masculine/feminine secret. The victimhood advantage allowed power-hungry authority figures to take all the power but none of the blame. We learned to blame the feminine through the perpetuation of stories ...
Views: 1214(1 vote) - Finding Free Divorce Lawyers - by Submitted on Jan 23, 2013 from Devango BobsWhen times get tougher and it’s making your relationship with your spouse more burdensome, then it is time to sit down and think about it. But you have to clear your mind first before talking with your spouse. This way, you can get access to your thoughts freely without being angry or annoyed. ...
Views: 796(1 vote) - Getting Back Your Ex In Your Life After a Break Up - by Submitted on Nov 18, 2011 from John VickiIt can be a really bad ordeal to go through a break up. It can be lonely, especially since you just broke up. If you had the opportunity to get back with your ex would you take it? I believe a lot of people would jump at the opportunity. Would you do it if it meant sacrifices and compromises? I ...
Views: 818(1 vote) - Guaranteed Breakup Advice to Pull You Through These Troubling Times - by Submitted on Apr 11, 2013 from Uadiale AmberBreaking up is never fun. What you need is guaranteed breakup advice to help you pull through the days and weeks following your breakup. While this is not a one size fits all solution by any means these steps will provide you some degree of comfort despite your heartache. They may even give you ...
Views: 602(1 vote) - Homelessness Haunting Veterans - by Submitted on Jan 29, 2014 from Abigail FazelatMany members of the military get to enjoy the luxury of on-base housing while in service. But when returning back to civilian life, hundreds of thousands of veterans are left homeless, but for various (and mostly preventable) reasons. According to Military.com, “one-third of adult homeless ...
Views: 720(1 vote) - How to Get Him Back In Your Arms After a Breakup - by Submitted on Jul 18, 2011 from Phillip TomIf you are thinking how to get him back after a break up, in that case let me let you know that it is achievable. But, it takes a lot more than pleading and apologies to get your ex boyfriend back. I know after a relationship ends you feel very hurtful, confused and emotional. In situation ...
Views: 888(1 vote) - Is All Hope Lost With My Ex: Is There Hope For Me And My Ex - by Submitted on Jun 02, 2019 from Lyra NoaIs All Hope Lost With My Ex: Is There Hope For Me And My Ex A lot of people go through a breakup and think they might try to reunite with their ex but just do not pursue it. There is usually a good chance that the relationship can continue after things cool down and the two are able to ...
Views: 89(1 vote) - Learn How to take Anger Management Classes - by Submitted on Nov 10, 2010 from Ari NovickWhat is the best length anger management program to take? Ironically, this is one of the most frequently asked questions we get asked of prospective anger management customers who are thinking about registering for a program. There are several ways to determine what what duration class would ...
Views: 1422(2 votes) - Signs Your Ex Still Loves You - Determine If Your Ex Still Cares - by Submitted on Jul 10, 2011 from John OnyekaIf you are depressed and lonely after a split up, you are most likely on the lookout for even a subtle signs your ex still loves you. It seems unbelievable that they could break up with so easily. While it is hard to know if your ex still has strong feelings for you because all relationship ...
Views: 3135(1 vote) - Signs Your Ex Still Loves You and How to Know For Sure! - by Submitted on Jul 26, 2011 from Phillip TomYou might probably be anguished in the pit of separation from your ex. Now, you felt confused and lost. You have no idea what to do or who to turn to and your world is ending. A lot of people have similar experience. So, you are not alone. Let me share some very important tips with you, so that ...
Views: 698(1 vote) - Sleeping Over Ex Boyfriend's House: Staying At Ex Boyfriend's House - by Submitted on Jun 03, 2019 from Lyra NoaSleeping Over Ex Boyfriend's House: Staying At Ex Boyfriend's House You're thinking about having sex with your ex boyfriend because you believe it's the best way to get him back. Simply put, you're wrong! When a woman is still in love with her ex one of the worst things she can do is sleep ...
Views: 210(1 vote) - Some Effective Ideas About How To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back By Using Text Messaging Ideas To Win Him Back - by Submitted on Jan 14, 2013 from Franklin FashayaDo you feel lonely after your breakup? You wish if you can be back with your ex boyfriend. Then If you are determined enough, you can get your ex boyfriend back by using text messaging ideas to win him back. There are some rules that can be followed to make your text message effective on your ...
Views: 840(1 vote) - Stop Being Friends With Ex Boyfriend - How Win Your Ex Boyfriend Back - by Submitted on Mar 25, 2011 from Charles UadialeStop Being Friends With Ex Boyfriend If you wish to find out how to win your ex boyfriend back in that case you ought to stop being friends with him, and begin thinking about how to get your ex boyfriend back. Given that he looks at you as only a friend that is all you are going to be to ...
Views: 3617(1 vote) - The Ultimate Ex Back Formula For Reconciliation - Ways to Win Back Your Ex - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2011 from John OnyekaWhat is the best technique to get your ex back? A proven ex back formula can definitely boost your opportunities. Here is a blueprint to win back the one you love. To express it in mathematical terms: (S+W)T=Love The initial part of the formula is S + W. S equals separation. Breaking up with ...
Views: 2103(1 vote) - Ways to Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back - Get Him Back by Dating Someone Else - by Submitted on Jul 16, 2011 from Phillip TomGetting your ex boyfriend back by dating another man may look like a crazy idea. It seems totally the wrong thing to do and can worsen the situation of things. However would you start seeing another man if it can bring you closer to your ex boyfriend? When you have broken up with someone you ...
Views: 2135(1 vote) - Ways to Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back in Love With You After Break Up! - by Submitted on Jul 16, 2011 from Phillip TomRelationships can be complicated things. You can be crazy about a man who someday lets you know that he is not in love with you any longer and he wants to call it a quit. It is shocking and it actually makes you feel as though you can’t move on without him. Your emotions are going to be ...
Views: 1302(1 vote) - You're Obsessed with Your Ex Boyfriend - How to Win Him Back - by Submitted on Jul 10, 2011 from John OnyekaWhen you wake up in the morning he is the first thing that enters your mind and he is the only one who you think about all day long. It is hard since even if the two of you had a failed relationship, you are still in love with him. You may have even attempted to move on without him however it ...
Views: 3122(1 vote) - What's Narcissism, What's Abuse? - by Submitted on Sep 29, 2013 from Tina TessinaNarcissistic Personalities & Sociopaths Conscience is a type of judgment, that tells us what is right and wrong. It begins in early childhood, when (hopefully) parents teach a child what he can or cannot do (beginning with "no!"), then gradually how to tell right from wrong. ...
Views: 970(3 votes) - Dear Dr. Romance: I feel my sister's life is in danger - by Submitted on Aug 01, 2013 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I recently stumbled upon your article "Friends in Need: Interventions for Domestic Violence." The information you provided resounded heartily with me. Last fall my brother in law discharged a weapon DIRECTLY NEXT to my sisters head. She was 8 months pregnant at the ...
Views: 989(3 votes) - Dear Dr. Romance: Is he trying to make me jealous? - by Submitted on Feb 21, 2013 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I need your advice. My ex and I broke up a while ago but still talked everyday. Anyways, long story short, I decided I can't talk to him anymore because we both need to change and find out who we are and learn to treat each other better. He continues calling and ...
Views: 3004(3 votes) - Family Lies; the Binding Ties - by Submitted on Nov 18, 2010 from PD RiversDr. John Bradshaw has written many books about families and relationships but the best of those books was about family secrets. Family secrets can destroy you. It does not matter why they have been kept; they will eventually come back to smack you in the face. Take, for instance, the story of ...
Views: 2491(3 votes) - Keep Anger from Spoiling Your Holidays with 3 Tips from Anger Management Experts in 23 Countries - by Submitted on Nov 28, 2010 from Tom WilsonHoliday stress can ruin the holidays when anger raises it's ugly head. Here's a deadly formula; add together holiday stress, poor communication, poor anger control skills and alcohol. Stir together and you get a deadly anti-love potion that is sure to increase verbal and physical conflict among ...
Views: 768(3 votes) - ***Ending Cycles Of Violence: What Part Will You Play? - by Submitted on Jan 10, 2014 from Grace ChattingI recently had an email from one of my readers, who felt very irate about what he described as the “M” omission in my articles on abusive relationships. He went on to explain that although he agreed with WHAT I said about abusive relationships, in his view it had all been said ...
Views: 2406(1 vote) - 3 Immediate Things to Do to Win Your Girlfriend Back After a Breakup - by Submitted on Jul 08, 2013 from Uadiale JohnBreakup fog. Everyone suffers from it after a breakup. You can't think. You struggle to form coherent sentences. Even simple tasks, like brushing your teeth, seem impossible. "What went wrong?" you wonder. "How did this happen? Why doesn't she love me anymore?" "How do I win my ...
Views: 4286(1 vote) - Dear Dr. Romance: I am worried about marrying him - by Submitted on Oct 08, 2013 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I was reading your article "When Love is Kind: Mutuality in Relationships" and need your advice. My boyfriend of 5 years is quite selfish and literally a narcissist. He never did anything as a gesture of love except for buying calling cards to call me from ...
Views: 1118(1 vote) - Does Your Ex Want You Back Even Though You Cheated? - by Submitted on May 22, 2013 from Uadiale AmberIn the initial days after you broke up over your cheating, you probably had plenty of fantasies about your ex coming back to you with hat in hand asking for a second chance. Your ex was hurt by your cheating and you were hurt by how easily your ex chose to end the relationship. Now, a little ...
Views: 397(1 vote) - Dr. Romance: Is your Partner too Selfish? - by Submitted on Oct 04, 2013 from Tina TessinaRelationships: Tips to Recognize if your Partner is Emotionally Abusive Ever look around at who stays married, and who doesn't? Overweight people far outnumber the thin and beautiful in successful marriages. The svelte and attractive get far more dates, but don't seem as able to close the ...
Views: 1198(4 votes) - Get Ex Back After Begging For Months: Can You Recover After Begging For Ex - by Submitted on Jun 02, 2019 from Lyra NoaGet Ex Back After Begging For Months: Can You Recover After Begging For Ex It is not as easy as it seems to get someone back after a break up. Despite the heart breaking part that you have already experienced, all your mind thought of was all sorts of ways that can make your loved one back to ...
Views: 132(1 vote) - Get Your Boyfriend Back in 30 Days? Why Not? - by Submitted on Jul 23, 2013 from Uadiale JohnGoing through a breakup is one of the most difficult experiences a woman can go through. You feel torn apart between hating your ex and wanting him back. There will be times when you feel you're in a muddle of confusion, and you can not get over feelings of being abandoned, being used and the ...
Views: 513(1 vote) - Getting Your Boyfriend Back - Best Advice on How to Get Him Back - by Submitted on Oct 14, 2012 from Patrick UadialeChances are that if you've been dumped recently you're interested in finding the best advice on getting your boyfriend back. There's plenty of good advice floating around out there but if you want the best advice you're going to have turn to a few tried and true methods that go a little bit ...
Views: 785(1 vote) - Making Choices That Empower You and Your Relationship - by Submitted on Oct 11, 2010 from Diane and Lewis DenbaumDo you want to have an extraordinary marriage? Having an extraordinary marriage requires choices that serve both you and your relationship. If you always choose in favor of the relationship, you can lose yourself; if you always choose in favor of yourself, the relationship may suffer. Balance is ...
Views: 742(1 vote) - Power in Relationships - by Submitted on Oct 11, 2010 from Diane and Lewis DenbaumAsymmetry refers to the imbalance in a particular area between the partners in the relationship. For example, one partner may have a higher paying job or more financial assets. Another partner may be much more outgoing and have many more close friendships. In our minds, we call these ...
Views: 801(1 vote) - Stop Smoking Hypnosis with EFT Most Effective to Overcome Self-Sabotage - by Submitted on Apr 07, 2014 from Annalena Gulliksson-CavalloTHE POWER OF TAPPING I became interested in Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) a few years ago when one of my clients developed lower back pain, which he believed was due to stress and incorrect posture. He had difficulty moving and even though the discomfort decreased after seeing a ...
Views: 1528(1 vote) - The Best Anger Journal - by Submitted on Feb 11, 2013 from Dr. Carl Robinson112558 FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE Dr. Carl Robinson Publishes a Journal for Addressing Pervasive Anger A decade of successfully touching lives in trainings and sessions inspires his new book PLANO, Texas – (Release Date TBD) – Dr. Carl Robinson, honorary consular diplomat to the Congolese ...
Views: 1177(1 vote) - The Best Breakup Advice is the Simplest - by Submitted on May 22, 2013 from Uadiale AmberYou should note that this doesn't say the best breakup advice is the easiest. There's just nothing easy about it. With most things in life, just like breakup advice, the simpler the steps are to follow the better the advice is. Why is that? It's best because people will find it a little more ...
Views: 697(1 vote) - Want to Know a Super Sneaky Proven Method to Break Up Survival? - by Submitted on May 22, 2013 from Uadiale AmberWho knows the super secret proven method to break up survival? It's a little sneaky and may feel as though you're really getting the best end of the deal. More importantly though is that it's an effective method to help you prepare to move on and enjoy the single life. Take a Little "Me" ...
Views: 510(1 vote) - Why Men Dump Women - Knowing Why Can Salvage Your Relationship - by Submitted on Oct 14, 2012 from Patrick UadialeIt's important to understand why men dump women so that you can avoid being dumped for many of the usual suspects. Before you make all kinds of changes based on these reasons alone it's important that you understand they aren't the only reasons men leave women. They are simply some of the more ...
Views: 1228(1 vote) - Why Women Dump Men - Do You Know Why She Left You? - by Submitted on Oct 14, 2012 from Patrick UadialeIf you really stop and think about it you might still have a difficult time figuring out why women dump men. That's because many men still find women to be a huge mystery. It's part of their charm most of the time but in moments like these can be the bane of your existence. The good news is that ...
Views: 2584(1 vote) - Benefits of Company Incorporation - by Submitted on Jan 11, 2011 from rikvin offshoreWhy incorporate? This is a question you might ask should you plan to start your own company. Incorporating your own company has its advantages, but it is still your own choice whether you will proceed with the incorporation or not. The first advantage of incorporating a business is the ...
Views: 842 - HOW CAN I ACTUALLY GET MY LOVER BACK - USE THESE LESSONS TO GET HIM BACK - by Submitted on Aug 29, 2015 from Franklin FashayaLife is all about learning every single day as, we learn lessons that help us grow and make us better. As we grow older we make decisions that affects the course of our existence in every way possible thus, this situation with your ex is just one of the numerous experiences you must have had. ...
Views: 350 - My Boyfriend Broke My Heart - What To Do When A Guy Breaks Your Heart - by Submitted on Jul 28, 2016 from Patrick UadialeIf you have a situation like me, then you might feel stuck like I do. I am working really hard to get my boyfriend back because I acted like an idiot. I didn't know how to stop myself from feeling possessive. I hated when he went out with his friends and talked to other girls. I couldn't stand ...
Views: 2260 - Rich Intimacy Between Parents Brings up Confident Kids! - by Submitted on Aug 31, 2015 from Dr. Mona AeyshaHow can you give a different Background to your kids? We, being parents, want to give our kids the best of all: education, health, success, happiness and whatever they desire. To gain the goals above, we adapt different strategies and techniques. Some hire classes of different kinds to keep ...
Views: 844 - Sprouting the Seeds of Infidelity by Susan Sheppard - by Submitted on Mar 10, 2011 from Susan SheppardInfidelity affects 8 out of 10 marriages in this country. This is a shocking statistic! What happens between the time the marriage vows are spoken and that first episode of cheating? It's an assumption, of course, but I don't think that 80% of the people who get married intend to cheat or ...
Views: 1905 - TOP SECRET ABOUT CHILDHOOD PTSD - by Submitted on Jun 30, 2016 from Bettina Sparkles ObernuefemannTOP SECRET ABOUT CHILDHOOD PTSD Are you experiencing too many PTSD Triggers? Do you still get “startled” or “react with rage or suffer other symptoms? I have shocking news for you. You haven’t fully released all your childhood demons or core PTSD issues. The least known fact about ...
Views: 923 - We Broke Up But I Still Love Him - Why Is It So Hard For My Ex Boyfriend To Let Me Back In - by Submitted on Jul 27, 2016 from Patrick UadialeYou may be wondering how I know I can get my ex boyfriend back and why I think he still loves me but seriously, I can and I do. I can get my ex back because I have been through this before and I know he still loves me because he isn't seeing any body new. Have you said this to yourself ...
Views: 608 - What Does it Mean When a Guy Says He Wants to Take a Break? Do This Now to Keep Him! - by Submitted on Jun 22, 2016 from Michael UadialeWhat does it mean when a guy says he wants to take a break? By far, this is the one question that women most often ask me about their boyfriends. It’s one of those very obscure things that men say that we can’t quite understand. We want to believe it means one thing. That’s because all of our ...
Views: 2805 - "I Admire and Support him and He Abuses Me!" - by Submitted on Oct 08, 2013 from Sam Vaknin“I admire and support him. I am his biggest fan. I am his right hand and one woman audience. I am his best friend and his only source of succor. Yet, he constantly humiliates and berates me and abuses me in subtle and not-so-subtle ways. What gives?” He may be a narcissist. The narcissist ...
Views: 1470 - ***Celebrity Fascination Ends With Mel Gibson - by Submitted on Jul 22, 2010 from Teagin Maddox,Here we are, once again, outraged by Gibson’s racist and misogynistic remarks. The audio tapes of Mel Gibson tearing into his ex-girlfriend reveal the truth about this man once and for all; he doesn’t deserve any more support. While some criticize his ex girlfriend, Oksana Grigorieva, for ...
Views: 1870 - ***Chris Brown Annoyed At Robin Roberts - by Submitted on Mar 22, 2011 from Teagin Maddox,This morning, March 22, 2011, Chris Brown made an appearance on Good Morning America to promote his new album F.A.M.E., which stands for “forgiving all my enemies,” he said. He quickly became uncomfortable and irritated by Robin Roberts as she interviewed him, barely probing into his past to ...
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