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- How To Drive A Girl Absolutely Wild Just By Talking: How To Make Any Woman Want To Sleep With You - by Submitted on Feb 16, 2018 from Melvin SheltonHow To Drive A Girl Absolutely Wild Just By Talking: How To Make Any Woman Want To Sleep With You You might have already exhausted your options when it comes to making your woman crazy enough to hop into bed with you - ways such as suggestive gifts, sensual music and naughty movies. On the ...
Views: 2748 - How To Turn A Girl On: Where To Touch A Girl To Turn Her On - by Submitted on Feb 16, 2018 from Melvin SheltonDo you know that when it comes to girls its not what they actually see but it's more about what they picture in their mind which really gets them going? This is the reason why it's often said that when it comes to women their most powerful sexual organ is their mind and in order to turn a girl ...
Views: 764 - How To Be Great At Foreplay: What Does Foreplaying Consist Of - by Submitted on Feb 16, 2018 from Melvin SheltonThe secret of a great foreplay is to keep the foreplay highly exciting and full of sensational touch. There are a number of ways to keep the foreplay exciting. Use the tongue and mouth to assist in the foreplay.... Foreplay while dressed- To increase excitement gradually, start the ...
Views: 2292 - How To Become Good In Bed: How To Be Better In Bed For Her - by Submitted on Feb 16, 2018 from Melvin SheltonCertainly, any man would want to be his woman's best lover, so if you want to discover how, read the tips below and you are guaranteed to make her extremely pleased in bed! The Sex Angles These are the most excellent angles, elevations and positions which will let you and your woman ...
Views: 710 - How To Talk Dirty To Your Girl And Send Her Into Overdrive: Dirty Things To Say To A Girl - by Submitted on Feb 16, 2018 from Melvin SheltonDo you want to learn how to talk dirty to your girl without embarrassing yourself? Adding some naughty lingo to your bedroom routine is an awesome way to spice up your love life and send your partner's libido through the roof. The problem is that initiating dirty talk in the bedroom can be a ...
Views: 1039 - Super Effective Ways to Stimulate Her G-Spot & Make Her Orgasm Instantly: How To Stimulate A Woman - by Submitted on Feb 16, 2018 from Melvin SheltonIf you have already discovered your woman's G-spot, then certainly it will be a lot easier for you to stimulate it. However, it is still essential that you stick to a number of basic rules so as to make both your experiences a pleasurable and harmless one. Listed below are things that men ought ...
Views: 796 - How To Make A Woman Ejaculate: How To Make A Woman Squirt - How To Make Her Gush - by Submitted on Feb 16, 2018 from Melvin SheltonHow To Make A Woman Ejaculate: How To Make A Woman Squirt - How To Make Her Gush Listen here - would you like to give a woman the best sexual experience of her life? This is a rare skill, but the ability of making a woman squirt during sex will make you the best lover than a woman will ever ...
Views: 837 - How Can I Satisfy My Wife: How To Satisfy A Woman Every Time In Bed - by Submitted on Feb 16, 2018 from Melvin SheltonHow Can I Satisfy My Wife: How To Satisfy Your Wife Every Time In Bed I have just been left in such a state of complete sexual exhaustion that even Jude Law and Brad Pitt couldn't arouse my interest, never mind anything more substantial. Indeed, such is my repletion, that I fear I may never ...
Views: 1087 - How To Satisfy Her In Bed: Pleasuring Your Partner - How To Satisfy A Woman / Girl In Bed - by Submitted on Feb 16, 2018 from Melvin SheltonHow To Satisfy Her In Bed: Pleasuring Your Partner - How To Satisfy A Woman / Girl In Bed It's hard to figure out whether you are good or bad in bed unless you are told...You see being good in bed is one thing every guy out there tends to aim for yet a lot of men out there are plain average ...
Views: 704 - How to Touch a Woman to Make Her Orgasm: How to Get a Girl to Orgasm With Just Your Touch - by Submitted on Feb 16, 2018 from Melvin SheltonHow to Touch a Woman to Make Her Orgasm: How to Get a Girl to Orgasm With Just Your Touch For the men that are having a very difficult time making a woman orgasm, there is some help out there for you. It is not as difficult as it my seem and you can actually make a woman come with ease. You ...
Views: 801 - Signs Your Woman Is Not Satisfied Sexually: Signs She Is Sexually Frustrated - by Submitted on Feb 15, 2018 from Melvin SheltonSigns Your Woman Is Not Satisfied Sexually: Signs She Is Sexually Frustrated So do you feel that you are able to satisfy her in bed? Does she seem happy with your performance in bed? It's a very well known fact that a lot of women out there tend to fake their orgasms on a regular basis and ...
Views: 5478 - Signs She Is Sexually Satisfied: How To Know If She Is Satisfied With Your Performance In Bed - by Submitted on Feb 15, 2018 from Melvin SheltonSigns She Is Sexually Satisfied: How To Know If She Is Satisfied With Your Performance In Bed Men are sometimes confused because it is not easy to tell whether their women are sexually satisfied. Finding her G-spot and stimulating it was not easy and making her orgasm really makes you sweat ...
Views: 6870 - How To Spice Up Your Sex Life: Crazy Things To Try In Bed - Fun Ideas To Spice Up The Bedroom - by Submitted on Feb 15, 2018 from Melvin SheltonHow To Spice Up Your Sex Life: Crazy Things To Try In Bed - Fun Ideas To Spice Up The Bedroom Lately, your sex life has taken a turn for the worst. You and your spouse just aren't having the kind of sex that you want. There is no more passion and the spark is definitely gone. If this sounds ...
Views: 958 - What Women Want In Bed - What Women Want In The Bedroom - by Submitted on Feb 15, 2018 from Melvin SheltonWho else wants to learn how to drive your woman WILD in bed? Are you really curious to know women REALLY want? Do you wonder what sort of stuff we fantasize about when it comes to sex? Are you sick and tired of worrying whether or not you are REALLY pleasing her...or whether she is secretly ...
Views: 795 - Where To Touch A Woman To Arouse Her: Secret Places On Her Body That Can Drive Her Crazy With AROUSAL - by Submitted on Feb 15, 2018 from Melvin SheltonWhere To Touch A Woman To Arouse Her: Secret Places On Her Body That Can Drive Her Crazy With AROUSAL It's a commonly known fact that women can not achieve an orgasm unless they are completely aroused and you simply can not turn her on unless you know the proper arousal techniques which would ...
Views: 1796 - How To Make A Girl Orgasm If You Have A Small Penis: How To Satisfy Her With A Small Penis - by Submitted on Feb 15, 2018 from Melvin SheltonHow To Make A Girl Orgasm If You Have A Small Penis: How To Satisfy Her With A Small Penis Having a small penis is not a problem as you need to know how to perform with help of different tactics. A small penis can work wonders if used properly. Its all in your tactics, the seduction can start ...
Views: 3339 - How To Make A Girl Climax Several Times Over: Best Way To Make A Woman Climax - How To Make A Man Come More Than Once - by Submitted on Feb 15, 2018 from Melvin SheltonHow To Make A Girl Climax Several Times Over: Best Way To Make A Woman Climax - How To Make A Man Come More Than Once The female orgasm is an elusive and magical thing. That is why the men who manage to achieve it can be sure that the woman they are with won't leave them due to lack of ...
Views: 721 - How To Finger A Woman Until She Orgasms: How To Finger A Girl - Best Way To Finger A Girl - by Submitted on Feb 15, 2018 from Melvin SheltonHow To Finger A Woman Until She Orgasms: How To Finger A Girl - Best Way To Finger A Girl Yesterday I went around and asked 10 guys if they were interested to know how to finger a woman until she climaxes. And guess what - nine out of the ten guys guys said that they would absolutely love to ...
Views: 1424 - Dating: Does It Matter What Someone's Political Views Are? - by Submitted on Feb 13, 2018 from Oliver JR CooperIn today’s world, someone can have the need to find out about what another person’s political views are before they are willing to take things further. Whether they are left leaning or right leaning will make a big difference. However, if someone is using an online dating app, they might not ...
Views: 1320 - WHY ROMANCE TURNS TOXIC - by Submitted on Feb 12, 2018 from Darlene LancerMost everyone wants to fall in love, especially codependents. To us, love is perhaps the highest ideal, and relationships give our lives meaning and purpose. They enliven and motivate us. A partner provides a companion when we have difficulty initiating action on our own. Being loved also ...
Views: 1831(3 votes) - Gift Ideas to Celebrate Valentine's with Little Cash in Hand - by Submitted on Feb 12, 2018 from Rachel WestonIn this world of digital technology where human touch is depleting faster than ever, the special days of love like Valentine ’s Day hold a lot of prominence and place. The value attached to human emotions is beyond a price. Your bank balance does not owe happiness and quality of your life. Those ...
Views: 993(1 vote) - Relationships: Do Some Women's Childhood's Set Them Up To Attract Submissive Men? - by Submitted on Feb 07, 2018 from Oliver JR CooperThere are some women who attract men who are in touch with their masculine strength, while there are others who don’t. As a result of this, their experiences with the opposite sex are going to be very different. One Experience If a woman is used to being with men who are in touch with ...
Views: 1619 - Anxiety Blocks Connection - by Submitted on Feb 01, 2018 from Sheryl PaulOn the heels of my post on connection, which was both comforting and spike-inducing for some of my readers and course members, I’m elaborating on the topic of connection, specifically this one line: Of course, when anxiety is at the helm, it’s difficult to feel attached or secure anywhere and ...
Views: 888 - Am I Connected Enough to My Partner? - by Submitted on Feb 01, 2018 from Sheryl PaulThe connection question is one of the most common spikes that darts across the screen of my clients and readers’ consciousness when they’re struggling with relationship anxiety. Do we connect enough? Do we talk enough? What if I feel bored sometimes? Is there a meeting of the minds? Do we have ...
Views: 963 - Relationships: Should Someone To Ask Themselves Why They Want To Get Back With Their Ex? - by Submitted on Feb 10, 2018 from Oliver JR CooperIf one’s relationship has just come to an end, they could feel relieved and happy that they can now move on with their life. Maybe, this was a relationship that was no longer working, meaning that it had run its course. Disconnected For a number of weeks, they might have thought about ...
Views: 917 - Relationships: Why Do Some Women Alternate Between ‘Bad Boys’ And ‘Nice Guys’? - by Submitted on Jan 30, 2018 from Oliver JR CooperWhile there are plenty of women who are only drawn to men who are kind and respectful, for instance, there are also plenty of women who aren’t. As a result of this, their relationships with men are going to be radically different. The Norm Still, when it comes to what a woman’s ...
Views: 973(1 vote) - Nobody is Perfick - by Submitted on Jan 30, 2018 from Sheryl PaulWhen I was young, one of my favorite books was a collection of four short stories called “Nobody is Perfick“. I liked the first three stories, but it was the fourth one, called Nobody is Perfick, that captivated my attention. It was the story about a perfect boy named Peter Perfect. He always ...
Views: 956 - Fear is a Friend in Disguise - by Submitted on Jan 30, 2018 from Sheryl PaulThere’s a common concept in our culture – one that I’ve adopted myself at times – that fear is our enemy. When we’re caught in fear’s offspring of anxiety and panic, it certainly feels like we’re been taken into enemy territory and are being held hostage. It feels like someone wraps a gloved ...
Views: 840 - Relationships: Can Someone’s Unmet Childhood Needs Cause Them To Expect Too Much From Others? - by Submitted on Jan 26, 2018 from Oliver JR CooperBefore one gets into a relationship, they can have a rough idea about the kind of person who they want to be with. Along with this, there can be what they expect to receive when they are with them. If this is the case, there can be what they would like someone to look like and there can be ...
Views: 933 - "Being Vulnerable with a Woman" - by Submitted on Jan 23, 2018 from Barry and Joyce Vissell(An excerpt from the Vissell’s new book, To Really Love a Woman) TO BE VULNERABLE WITH A WOMAN IS TO ALLOW YOURSELF TO BE SEEN AND KNOWN IN YOUR ENTIRETY, not just your powerful, independent, secure, loving and capable self. Yes, you love a woman by being powerful, by protecting her from all ...
Views: 1447 - Relationships: Does A Woman Lack Self-Awareness If She Believes That All Men Are The Same? - by Submitted on Jan 19, 2018 from Oliver JR CooperThere are some women in today’s world who believe that all men are the same, and it could be said that this is nothing new. It might not be inaccurate to say that this is how it has always been, but it has certainly been this way for a little while. However, what is different nowadays is ...
Views: 1433 - Relationships: Can Childhood Trauma Stop Someone From Being Able To Move on After A Breakup? - by Submitted on Jan 14, 2018 from Oliver JR CooperAlthough there are some people who can generally move on after a relationship has come to an end, there are others who find it incredibly difficult to do so. Nonetheless, when one can carry on with their life, it doesn’t mean that they won’t experience pain. Manageable What it is likely ...
Views: 1083 - Relationships: Is Someone's View Of The Opposite Sex Created At A Time When They Couldn't Think Clearly? - by Submitted on Jan 10, 2018 from Oliver JR CooperIn the same way that people have different outlooks when it comes to how they perceive different countries, they also have different outlooks when it comes to how they perceive the opposite sex. There will be some people who generally have good things to say about the opposite sex, whilst there ...
Views: 1016 - Dear Dr. Romance: How can I resume my initial romance with my wife? - by Submitted on Jan 04, 2018 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I am a male Kenyan, married with 2 daughter. Of late, have totally lost urge for sex and it can only appear once per week though a weak one. Outside affair is a norm in my religion, but whenever I site a beautiful lady suddenly the mind switches to sex and I go to an extent of ...
Views: 1109(1 vote) - Relationships: Can Someone’s Unmet Childhood Needs Cause Them To Expect Other People To Be Unconditionally Loyal? - by Submitted on Dec 25, 2017 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone wants to be in a relationship, there can be a number of things that they will be looking for in a partner. Firstly, there can be the need to be with someone who has a certain appearance and, secondly, there can be the requirements that they have when it comes to their ...
Views: 1029 - Relationships: Does Someone Need To Feel Comfortable With Their Own Emotions In Order To Experience Intimacy? - by Submitted on Dec 10, 2017 from Oliver JR CooperWhen someone is in a relationship, there could be moments when they share how they feel, and this could mean that they are also able to be there for their partner. As a result of this, this area of their relationship is going to be in balance. A Close Bond Through sharing their inner ...
Views: 1147 - Dear Dr. Romance: How Can I Sleep with my Ex-girlfriend's Mother? - by Submitted on Dec 08, 2017 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: Maybe you can give me some advice. I am 18. My relationship with my girlfriend ended with her leaving me. She said that we could remain friends. This happened over a month ago. My ex-girlfriend and I have remained friends. She has a new boyfriend and she seems happy. ...
Views: 3089(1 vote) - Relationships: Why Do Some People Expect Their Partner To Meet All Of Their Needs? - by Submitted on Dec 04, 2017 from Oliver JR CooperIf a few hundred people were asked about what the purpose of an intimate relationship is, there is likely to be more than one answer. For some people, being in an intimate relationship could be a way for them to fulfil their basic needs, to have someone to share their life, and to grow. When ...
Views: 982 - Intimacy: Does Someone Need To Feel Safe In Order To Experience Intimacy? - by Submitted on Nov 11, 2017 from Oliver JR CooperThere are a number of things that human beings need in order to survive, and the same could be said when it comes to their ability to thrive. For example, food is something that everyone on this planet needs. If someone doesn’t receive the food that they need, their time on this earth will ...
Views: 1253 - Let's Remove the Obstacles to Intimacy in Your Life! - by Submitted on Nov 07, 2017 from Robyn VogelAre you feeling unfulfilled and disconnected? Single and touch deprived? Feeling the need to share and have someone listen really deeply to you? Ready to discover what it feels like to experience pleasure, passion, joy, and laughter again? BUT JUST CAN'T FIND THE TIME? Allowing ...
Views: 1795 - Dear Dr. Romance: It's tough because we work together and I see her everyday - by Submitted on Nov 06, 2017 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I ran across the post from the man who was being "patient" with the wounded woman who kept projecting her thought and blowing him off. I thought it was so close to my situation, it blew me away. I am a drug and alcohol counselor and found myself attracted to a coworker. ...
Views: 1190(1 vote) - “I Thought All Women Were The Same!” - by Submitted on Nov 01, 2017 from Oliver JR CooperI started speaking to a woman who was a few years older than me on an online dating site and, before long, she called me up. As we hadn’t been speaking for very long this surprised me, and what also surprised me was that she opened up about her own history. This was something that took ...
Views: 1400 - Seeing the Beloved in Everyone - Part 2 - by Submitted on Oct 31, 2017 from Robyn Vogel(This article is the second one of a series on seeing the Beloved in Everyone). Do you have to BELIEVE that everyone you come across with is a potential life partner? Or best friend? Or lover, beloved in order for this practice to work? Well, YES. But also NO. In some way, this is a ...
Views: 1425 - Seeing the Beloved in Everyone - Part 2 - by Submitted on Oct 31, 2017 from Robyn Vogel(This article is the second one of a series on seeing the Beloved in Everyone). Do you have to BELIEVE that everyone you come across with is a potential life partner? Or best friend? Or lover, beloved in order for this practice to work? Well, YES. But also NO. In some way, this is a ...
Views: 1430 - “She Was Emotionally Unavailable!” - by Submitted on Oct 27, 2017 from Oliver JR CooperWhen I met the woman who I would go on to spend a number of months with in 2013, I remember seeing her from a certain angle and thinking about how much she looked like my mother. It wouldn’t be accurate for me to say that this was something that I consciously thought about, though, as this was ...
Views: 1106 - Seeing the Beloved in Everyone - Part 1 - by Submitted on Oct 25, 2017 from Robyn VogelWhat if instead of looking around a workshop (or online even before it starts), or at an event you're at, or party you were invited to, and deciding there's no one there you're attracted to, no "mate material," no one there you want to have sex with...what if... INSTEAD -- you saw EVERYONE AS ...
Views: 1540 - The Modern Practice of Puja - by Submitted on Oct 19, 2017 from Robyn VogelSUMMARY: Puja is an ancient cultural tradition that has unknown roots. Some scholars believe that the practice began during Vedic times (1500 – 600 BCE) where the word puja has been found in the Sutras (which were composed to describe domestic rites, prayers, rituals). In these years, it ...
Views: 1911 - Let’s Get Scholarly Before We Get Sexy: What is a पूजा? - by Submitted on Oct 19, 2017 from Robyn VogelThe word puja is a sanskrit word that translates to mean sacred ritual, or ceremony. It is used by the Hinkus, Sikhs, Buddhists and others for a variety of reasons. It is most often used to honor a deity (god or goddess) to celebrate her character traits (and ideally see them as a reflection of ...
Views: 1649 - Relationships: Can The Fear Of Rejection Cause Someone To Change When They Get Into A Relationship? - by Submitted on Oct 13, 2017 from Oliver JR CooperEven though one can behave in a certain way when they start dating someone, they can end up behaving in a completely different way as time goes by. Therefore, although they are still the same person, it will be as if they have become someone else. Oblivious When something like this ...
Views: 1238 - Relationships: Should Someone Change When They Get Into A Relationship? - by Submitted on Oct 11, 2017 from Oliver JR CooperWhen one comes into contact with someone who they like, they can end up putting on an act. This could be something that will happen without them even releasing it, or they might be able to pick up on this. One way of looking at this would be to say that this is normal, and this is due to ...
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