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Rebound relationships: We've all seen them and many of us have had them.
These are relationships that are entered into a short period of time after one (or both) person has been through a breakup, separation or divorce.
A rebound relationship can look like any other love relationship. ... Views: 5822
Do single people really have goals that are different from married couples?
Certainly they do when it comes to relationships. Yet, their career goals may be similar, as are their personal and health goals.
However, because of their single status, unmarried folks have more time to focus on ... Views: 5755
Is shyness or insecurity keeping you from meeting your soul mate? Here’s a simple way to become more confident and start having more fun.
Men agree that one of the most attractive qualities in a woman is when she’s self-assured, likes herself, is comfortable with who she is, likes how she ... Views: 5740
A lot of guys struggle with not know what to text a girl in order to get her to feel that same excitement and attraction that she felt when she first met you.
But what if I told you that there is a technique for texting her that could pull her back into the state that she was in when you two ... Views: 5739
After briefly discussing the importance of maintaining a positive attitude about dating in a previous article; one reader commented that although it would probably be much easier for younger women to remain positive when attempting to attract a man, for someone her age, being positive was a lot ... Views: 5733
One of the most classic mistakes that men make with women is that they chase after them. For some reason, a lot of men seem to think that if you chase after woman, eventually she will give up and surrender to you. However, it hardly ever works out that way. Sure, it does in a Hollywood ... Views: 5700
Most guys that have any dating experience at all knows what it is like to feel like you did not quite do he best job that you could in making a woman feel attraction for you. You think that you are doing all of the "right" things, but when it comes time for a date, she somehow seems to always ... Views: 5697
What is it that attractive people have? They don't have to be the most attractive woman or man in the room, and you are naturally drawn to them. Are they more successful? More intelligent? More socially skilled? More poised? Convey positive body language? Or all of these elements that ... Views: 5593
Have you ever come across W4M and not understood what it meant? You’ll often find this term on Craigslist personal ads, although it’s become widespread throughout the internet, even appearing on dating sites and online forums.
Not everyone realises the origin of this term or even what it means, ... Views: 5563
The way a man approaches online dating could be the exact way he plays poker (like Texas Hold’em). If you can figure out how a man plays poker, you might easily see how he dates.
Some men are just bad poker players. They don’t have a lot of experience, aren’t invested in learning, rather ... Views: 5406
Recently, there was an NBC Nightline special about a doctor that fell for a Nigerian money scam. You know, those e-mails that promise you millions of dollars in return for accepting a package on behalf of their government. The reporters where wondering how such an educated individual could ... Views: 5368
Moving on after a break-up can be very difficult to undergo. This is not an exaggeration of feelings, but this is really happening.It's as if your world stops and ends.Your emotions are at its peak and no one can totally understand you unless they have tried it just the way you do – broken ... Views: 5333
Here's A Relationship Question From Jessica:
Jessica says “I met B at a wedding a few months ago and we hit it off nice. After a few dates we started sleeping together and we’ve been in a relationship since then.
The first 3 months were hot and heavy, but since last week B suddenly ... Views: 5278
Being able to increase the attraction that a woman feels for you is important IF you want to be able to go from a guy she meets to a man she dates. A lot of men will have a hard time trying to figure out how to increase a woman's attraction, but when you learn how to do this, you will find ... Views: 5269
I’m no philosopher but I am a good observer. And in my 15-years as a Feng Shui consultant, I have met many clients anxious to find their soul mate. When I ask what approach they have taken, I get the usual answer. “My friends try to play Cupid for me.” “I joined an internet dating site.” ... Views: 5217
Let’s talk about your ego. It is that little voice in your head that says “hey, you’re better than this.” Sometimes its wise to shut that voice up, but sometimes it isn’t. Sometimes you can’t stop the voice from taking over your actions, other times its trained well enough to stay out of your ... Views: 5165
Dating Chinese girl is serious. You can have romantic China love and happy marriage. You may also end up in failure and cannot find your true love. It all depends upon you including your attitude and actions. In order to find your life partner and soul mate among thousands of Chinese women just ... Views: 5162
Did you know that it was more than a little possible to seduce from a distance, and we are not talking about things like looks and charm. These are things you cannot control, because some of us would be borne looking good, some of us borne with average looks, and some of us are not so lucky in ... Views: 5156
NO ONE HAS EVER PROMISSED YOU A ROSE GARDEN
No one has ever said relationships are easy. Neither with a “soul-mate” nor with “loved-ones”. Arguments, disagreements and conflicts always exist. They are part of the relationship.
THE MEANING OF “COMPLICATED”
Yet, when I see from time to ... Views: 5147
Have you ever found yourself in this situation? You started dating a good guy who is full of integrity, charming, funny and considerate. The lines of communication seem to be wide open and you feel connected. You start to imagine life together with him on a daily basis and ponder over fantasies ... Views: 5121
People wonder why some couples make it and others don’t. To begin with, why do some people find love and others don’t. Here are the many factors that can contribute to a successful love life that are often overlooked.
Stability
Men can find stability in a woman attractive because they don't ... Views: 5116
Have you gone to a first date with a girl? If you enjoyed being with her, it is likely you want to take her on another meeting.
Right now it depends on whether you liked her or not. Since if you did not, then just proceed to another girl. You may however get in touch with her and say ... Views: 5076
Rejection sucks. There’s no other way to say it. When he doesn’t show interest, doesn’t show up, or breaks it off after a relationship develops; it’s ugly and icky. No doubt about it.
Thing is: rejection doesn’t have to strike a mortal blow.
I know so many women who avoid connecting with ... Views: 4978
Relationships between the sexes can often be filled with mixed messages and general confusion as to the status of the affair. Add to this the differences between relationships with and without an aspect of emotional involvement, and there is no surprise that so many individuals end up feeling as ... Views: 4926
There are many things and traits that attract women in men. If you ask a group of women, you'll probably get a never-ending list of qualities regarding what women want in a man.
I many of my articles, I discuss the point that women and men have different attraction mechanisms, and ... Views: 4916
In our natural, loving state, we are turned on by select individuals and by life in general. As we encounter others, we recognize that each person has a unique quality that enlivens us. Learning a safe, elegant way to play with this enlivening attraction is part of putting conscious flirting ... Views: 4878
Compliments for girls only work when: 1) the girl is attracted to you already, 2) if the compliment is very understated and surprising, and 3) if you’re presently in a relationship with the girl
When the girl is attracted to you already
The success of a compliment is relies primarily on if ... Views: 4846
My marriage ended not long after it began. One child was conceived and before he was 3 years old, I was living with my son, all on my own. Anyone who has been through a divorce (or the end of any serious relationship) knows that it takes years for the final curtain to close. So, you can imagine ... Views: 4819
It’s time to get real with your relationships. Whether you are currently single or in a relationship, I invite you to ask yourself the following questions because this is part of the process of healing your relationships. In doing this you can heal those from the past, embrace the present and ... Views: 4816
Did you know that even if you never say a word, your face and body are constantly sending out messages to other people about your state of mind, your happiness, and your level of confidence.
And you have been reacting to the body language, voice tone, and facial expressions of those people ... Views: 4792
It is sad to say that all things and happy times can reach to its final end. Thus, it is a challenge for you and for all of us in ending the relationship gracefully. Sometimes, the break up experience is a traumatic one for many, but you can change it if you want. So here are some key points for ... Views: 4727
How do I know if and when it's time to break up?
There's a lot of good in the guy I’m dating, but the bad is unacceptable. What do I do?
I keep waiting for the guy I’m seeing to make the changes I need. How long do I wait? And what if he never changes?
Chances are, at some point in your ... Views: 4727
Tired of being solo when the whole world seems coupled up? Many of the people I work with want to improve their wealth area but I’d say finding a new relationship (or strengthening an existing one) is also the number one priority of most people. When I do an analysis of your home and interview ... Views: 4710
A good conversation starter is like a car engine. If you don't have one, you aren't going anywhere. When can you say, "Haven't we met before?" without sounding like a cliché? There is a way to turn this ancient ice breaker into a good conversation starter without sounding common as dirt, dry as ... Views: 4699
Similar to a job interview, a date should be used as a screening process to determine if both you and he have the same objective in mind and would be compatible. Implementing the following six steps will allow you to immediately weed out less suitable men and stay focused on attracting what you ... Views: 4684
While the following types of men may reserve a special place in your heart and be good for a memory or two, they are not ideal candidates for a serious relationship. If a long term romance is what you truly desire, it is best to avoid these men. While there are always exceptions to the rule, men ... Views: 4638
INTRODUCTION
Your anxiety often harms your attempts at relationships. It works against you as you try to find a partner and develop a successful intimacy. It drives you to react and behave in ways which are counter-productive to a successful relationship. Combating your anxiety enables you to ... Views: 4579
Raising kids is hard; raising kids alone is near- impossible. It’s absolutely not easy to raise kids when you’re a single parent. However, although it seems awful, (a lot of times it is!) it offers quite a number of astonishing benefits that can make everyday life easier for everyone. According ... Views: 4566
Marriage is considered to be the most propitious in any person's life. Gone are the days when the family priest who would research for the ideal match for the family by drawing on his vast community network resources. Then it was an era of matrimonial classified columns which were advertised in ... Views: 4552
Dear Dr. Romance:
I was dating this guy for about two years. During the time that we were together we had some good times and bad. For one he was cheating on me with another girl then we got back together. During that time we worked hard to make the relationship work then I found out that he ... Views: 4537
Here's practical advice for meeting women (or men). You're waiting for an elevator or you're squeezin' the Charmin at the market when you spot someone intriguing. You break the ice with a smile. Even a slight chin or eyebrow lift can get his or her attention. Next comes the fun (or scary) part: ... Views: 4534
“Intuition is truly a feminine quality, but women should not mistake rash conclusions for this gift.”~Minna Antrim
The other day I was listening to my friend tell me about her 25 minute “date” with this guy “who had nothing going for him.” As she’s talking I’m thinking: WTF?! So I ask her ... Views: 4466
We women want to support the men we care about, whether they’re our sons, lovers, brothers or friends. Many of these men are shy with women. They find it hard to form romantic relationships with our gender, and we often don’t know why. After all, we can see what great guys they are!
The ... Views: 4430
A woman likes you if she looks at you, if she talks to you and lets you talk, if she touches you or lets you touch her, and certainly if she kisses you or has sex with you. You see, there are DEGREES to “liking” and a DURATION to how long and how much you are “liked.”
Through this all there ... Views: 4427
I know it is hard to believe getting paid in online dating site when it ought to be the revise. Who will pay you money to date, socialize and get fun in addition? Well there a dating site that does just that! They pays you real cash money to use their site to find a date. It's a fun way to make ... Views: 4391
Being single is a great concern for a lot of people. It may cause loneliness, depression and unhappiness, especially in women. Scary thoughts of getting old and still flying solo are enough to drive a young girl frantically looking for the perfect partner before her time runs out. The ... Views: 4368
What did I do to deserve this? What is so wrong with me that I keep attracting losers? How come I end up with men who mistreat and use me? How could I have allowed it to get to this point? How come I didn’t see him for who he really was until it was too late?
These were all questions I ... Views: 4365
Dating is a process with a beginning, middle and end. Very importantly, the process is different depending on why you are dating.
If you are Dating to Find Your Ideal Partner, be crystal clear; the more you know what you want the more likely you will be successful finding your ideal partner. ... Views: 4358
Every woman deserves to have a great sex life, whether or not she has an accessible partner. If you have a companion who’s willing to embark on this journey of mutual discovery and support, good for you! But if you’re currently alone, don’t let that stop you from enjoying extraordinary pleasure ... Views: 4313
Most guys that want to get a girlfriend are not really looking for just ANY woman. I mean, it's not really hard to get a girlfriend when your standards are low, is it? You want to be able to attract a girlfriend that is both attractive and fun to be around, and you don't want to have to break ... Views: 4300