5 Dos And Don'ts Of Getting Your Ex Back

These are the 5 dos and don'ts you need for getting your ex back smoothly and successfully. Otherwise, your chances of being back together will be very slim.

1. Give Ex Sufficient Time

Getting back together after breaking up takes time and consideration.

You cannot expect your ex to give you an immediate answer. You need to give him or her time and breathing space to think and organize what needs to be done first.

But if you expect your ex to get back to you immediately or shortly after breakup, my advice to you is don’t.

2. Talk And Listen To Each Other

As much as you want your ex to give you a chance to explain, you also need to do likewise.

By allowing your ex to talk and listen to what he or she has to say, you will have a better understanding of why your ex felt that way about you and what needs to be done to get him or her back.

3. Be Sincere To Your Ex

You need to prove not just by saying but doing as well.

Otherwise if you get your ex back successfully, it will only be a matter of time before you break up.

Now that I have shown you the dos, let us talk about the don’ts.

4. Don’t Use Mind Games To Get Back Together

This will only make the problem worse than it is already.

If you intend to make your ex jeolous by dating another partner so that you can get him or her back, I will have to disappoint you by telling you that it will never work with the current young generation.

Usually in 9 out of every 10 cases, your ex will not only not feel jeolous but feeling happier and even encourage you to date your new partner instead.

5. Don’t Be Too Pushy And Possessive

These will only succeed in making your ex even more convinced to break up with you.

By disregarding her feelings, you are not giving her any room for negotiations. You need to allow your ex to say whatever he or she want to say. Whether or not the decision will please you is another matter together.

If she says she is happy with her new partner and only want to be friends with you, please respect her decision. By doing this, you are not only showing your magnitude but love for what she is rather than wishing what you want her to be.

It is difficult but has to be done. Otherwise it could lead to tragedy. I may sound awkward but this is usually the case.