Each and every person living on this planet has certain unmet needs. A poor man might need more money, an ambitious man might need more success while a lonely man might need more friends.
Whether you know your goals or whether you don’t have any idea about them this won’t mean that you don’t ... Views: 9
I was always wondering why are some people determined to reach their goals and why are others always helpless. What was confusing me even more is that the same person who was once motivated to reach his goals can suddenly turn into a helpless person who don’t know what to do in order to get what ... Views: 25
Most people try to spend time alone when they have a fight with their spouse. As soon as they fight together everyone leaves the other and goes to their friends or relatives. Since both of them are still carrying intense anger emotions, they start mentioning each others mistakes in front of ... Views: 18
Its feels really bad when someone steels something that you own. I still remember how bad I felt the last time my car’s rear sign was stolen and am sure you felt really bad the last time someone stole something from you too.
But if something as little a 100 dollars or a car sign can make us ... Views: 24
When women were asked to describe their dream partners, a big number of them stated being tall is one of the very important criterions they look for when selecting a potential partner. Women prefer men who are tall or at least similar in height.
You might be thinking this section wouldn’t ... Views: 86
Self-concept has many definitions but they all have the same meaning, which is, your perception of yourself and of your abilities. When I ask you to describe yourself in one page, you will dump all you think about yourself. The way you view your capabilities is called "Self-concept".
Examples ... Views: 135
These days job dissatisfaction is one of the most common problems among people.
Many people are either dissatisfied with their jobs, hate the tasks they do or even find it boring.
Just ask 10 people on a Sunday night how they feel and you will discover that the majority of them are feeling ... Views: 103
Sounds like a weird title huh?
After all, People should give advice on how to reduce worrying and not on how to worry.
In fact I am not going to tell you how to worry more but I am going to tell you about the wrong practices some people do that force them to worry more and that ruins their ... Views: 138
Self Acceptance is one of the most important life skills a person should be capable of.
However most people fail to accept themselves the right way because there is a very fine line between self acceptance and self deception.
Some people get self acceptance wrong by believing that it’s a ... Views: 138
Most people want more money and while the majority of them want to become rich still very few people manage to reach their financial dreams or even come close to it.
While I am not a billionaire still I consider myself financially successful when my age is taken into consideration.
For that ... Views: 34
On Monday morning Sam went to a job interview hoping that he would get that job he was after. When Sam first stepped inside the building he started feeling afraid. As time passed and as his turn approached Sam became more and more fearful until they called out his name.
Sam went inside the ... Views: 85
How did you feel the last time you were criticized?
Am sure you felt bad because no one likes to be criticized however the real problem with criticism is not that is hurts but the real problem is that it ruin one’s self confidence if the wrong actions were taken.
Most people do certain ... Views: 70
Everyone wants to become more confident but for some reason most people waste their efforts in incorrect directions and as a result they never manage to increase their self confidence levels.
The main difference between those who manage to build self confidence and those who waste their time ... Views: 99
Broken hearted?
Don’t worry, here 10 things that you can do in order to recover in few days:
1) Kill uncertainty: People usually accept death faster than they accept breakups because when it comes to death people are 100 percent sure that the dead person cant return back once again, in short ... Views: 104
Everyday millions of people try to become more confident by acquiring fame, power, money and popularity but in the end most of them never make any progress and end up feeling the same.
Most of those people were told to repeat affirmations, think positively or to believe in themselves but in the ... Views: 144
We all know that one of the essential ingredients required for success believing in ourselves. After all the road of success is full of criticism, rejections and down times and if you didn’t have enough faith in yourself you might not be able to continue to the end.
While this fact is known ... Views: 75
Why do you compare yourself to that guy standing over there and feel inferior while you totally ignore that other guy on your right?
Why do you feel comfortable when being with certain people and feel completely uncomfortable in the company of others?
Why do certain people make you feel ... Views: 69
The new year is approaching and we all have goals and resolutions that we which to make true but do you know that most people forget about their new year resolutions weeks or even days after the beginning of the new year?
In order to prevent this problem from happening you I am going to tell ... Views: 33
Minimalism is not as simple as getting rid of the extra stuff you have at home but it goes deeper to affect almost all of your life areas.
By making proper use of minimalism you can improve almost all of your life areas and live a better life.
Here are 5 ways minimalism can help you live a ... Views: 60
Certainly we are all aware of the health effects of having a positive attitude throughout life and of the improved mood we are going to experience if we remained positive yet sometimes we betray our knowledge and dwell into negative thinking for prolonged periods.
I have been searching for ... Views: 106
One of the main reasons that makes some people believe that change is not possible is believing that their current behavior will remain the same simply because it have been there for a while.
The person who smokes might label himself a smoker and so make it harder to believe that he can ... Views: 76
Hatred explained
Hatred is nothing more than an emotion you experience when your subconscious mind wants to keep you away from something that might harm your well being.
Lets suppose that you had low ability to manage stress and that your job always forced you to work under stress, after ... Views: 91
Perfectionism is the belief that a person lives in a perfect world and based on this belief he expects everything to go perfectly in his life.
A perfectionist might expect:
• That he should never make mistakes
• That everyone should love him
• That he should always get straight ... Views: 107
After knowing where inferiority come from you might have already guessed what should be done in order for you to get over it. If inferiority developed because of failing to deal with life challenges then learning how to deal with them and to build trust in your abilities will set you free from ... Views: 140
Why do some people feel bad when they gain weight while others appear not to care about that? Of course everybody cares about his appearance to a certain extent but what determines your emotional response to your weight changes are your beliefs.
If a girl believed that she is very slim then ... Views: 165
You might believe that you are aware of the importance of self confidence but actually self confidence has an effect on some aspects of your life that you might have never though of, for example:
- Depression happens because of the combination of genetics and changes in the external ... Views: 105
Everyone wants to be successful in life but only a small percentage of people manage to become successful, why is that?
Is it because people don’t work hard? No, some people work really hard and they never reach what they want
Is it because they didn’t try?
No, lots of people tried to ... Views: 99
Once a friend told me that he lacks self confidence because people think that he is a loser. I told him why not try to do something and prove them all wrong.
He told me that he believes that they are saying the right thing because it’s not just the opinion of one of them but it’s the opinion ... Views: 126
Certainly we are not perfect humans and no one can claim that he has become so skilled to the extent that people don’t have the right to criticize his work, However, in everyday life we across people who criticize us not because they want us to be better but because of other bad intentions.
For ... Views: 122
In order to know how to make money you have to first know how to not make money.
So why is that useful?
Simply by learning about these money making mistakes and avoiding them you will be able to make money in a fast and easy way.
here is how to not make money
Play it safe: no I am not ... Views: 78
Do you know how babies learn to grasp objects?
They first hold the object incorrectly so it drops from their hands
And then they hold it incorrectly the second time and it drops again
And then they hold it incorrectly for the third time and then it falls again
And then they hold incorrectly ... Views: 185
This is what I know about you
What if you discovered that your friend’s IQ was very low and that this would never help him succeed in life, will you be able to tell him this fact or will you just avoid hurting him by hiding the truth?
That’s a tough situation especially if you loved that ... Views: 132
“If money was equally distributed among all living people then within few months those who were already rich will become richer and those who were already poor will become poorer”
Contrary to common beliefs
Rich people aren’t the lucky ones who found great opportunities in their lives and ... Views: 101
Self Acceptance is one of the most important life skills a person should be capable of.
However most people fail to accept themselves the right way because there is a very fine line between self acceptance and self deception.
Some people get self acceptance wrong by believing that it’s a ... Views: 111
When self confidence is mentioned what usually comes to the mind of people is approaching the opposite sex or starting conversations with strangers and while both acts require a good amount of confidence still there is another type of confidence that is much more important that all other ... Views: 124
Everyone wants to be successful in life but only a small percentage of people manage to become successful, why is that?
Is it because people don’t work hard? No, some people work really hard and they never reach what they want
Is it because they didn’t try?
No, lots of people tried to ... Views: 74
All people have goals that they want to reach even the ones who don’t move towards them. I kept searching for reasons that motivate people to reach their goals and ones that prevent others from reaching them and I found one interesting thing.
People who write their goals are more likely to ... Views: 99
There is no doubt that people who live consciously eventually become happier and successful than those who don’t.
Like every other thing that can be developed and learned conscious living is a skill that can be acquired through knowledge and practice.
In this post I will tell you about 5 ... Views: 92
From the outside depression might seem like a complex phenomenon but as soon as you get a deeper understanding of people’s psychology you will find that depression is one of the simplest mood disorders.
The mistake most people do when dealing with depression is trying to blame the chemical ... Views: 156
6 surefire ways to persuade people
Long ago I used to think that persuading people is a hard task but as I learned more and more I discovered that people find it hard to persuade others because they do the wrong things not because its hard to persuade someone.
After working as a sales person ... Views: 231
most people fail to build self confidence because they don’t work on fixing the right areas where they lack self confidence. I gave the example of the successful person who lacks confidence because of problems in his social life and who never manages to feel confident even though he is achieving ... Views: 143
Depression can ruin your life and hinder your progress if it lasted for a long period of time. It’s completely ok to feel down for few days or to have bad moods every now and then but if depression visited you and refused to leave then you must take certain actions to push it away quickly before ... Views: 194
We all have goals that we want to achieve and big dreams that we want to fulfill. Almost everyone who has announced his goals and dreams started facing criticism, rejection and comments that have the purpose of putting him down.
The problem with such comments is that they sometimes come from ... Views: 112
Opposing beliefs can prevent the subconscious mind from accepting a certain belief. For example knowing that you such at math will prevent you from convincing your subconscious mind that you are good at math unless you provide new proofs (like good grades for example)
Repetition is one of ... Views: 101
Life is full of challenges as you already know. Some people always get self confidence wrong because they try to understand it without connecting it to life challenges.
Imagine that you were born on another planet where no difficult tasks ever were demanded from you. Would you feel ... Views: 97
you might be thinking that you are already aware of the importance of self confidence but actually self confidence has an effect on some aspects of your life that you might have never thought of, for example:
-Depression happens because of the combination of genetics and changes in the ... Views: 101
Why do we panic when we approach new people and why do feel anxious around strangers?
I am sure that you wanted more than once to speak to a stranger or to approach someone yet felt anxious and afraid. Most of us want to be outgoing and outspoken but sometimes we fail to maintain our ... Views: 102
People can lie to each other in order to reach certain goals or to avoid certain punishments but why on earth would someone lie to himself?
In fact, there are lots of reasons that could force a person to lie to himself and to even believe the lies!!
The best way to explain self deception ... Views: 147
What most people don’t know about dreams
Dream interpretation is one of the most exiting topics I came across in my journey to learn psychology.
Even though dream interpretation is extremely popular online still its one of the most misunderstood topics by common.
In this post I will fix ... Views: 125
One of the most powerful ways to build self confidence is to maintain a self confidence journal.
Here are few facts to consider:
1) Self confidence is no more than a set of beliefs
2) Beliefs are strengthened by repetition
3) People with low confidence filter out all compliments they get ... Views: 144