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Myths About Making Someone Love You Do you think that love is just an uncontrollable random process? Do you think that if the person you loved didn’t love you back then nothing can be done about it? Do you think that you can't make someone fall in love with you? The Truth About Making ...
Have you bee Criticised? Did someone criticise you? Was he a close person? Do you feel bad about yourself? If I were you.....
Over sensitivity Some people are more sensitive to criticism and to being mistreated than others.
Why did they hurt me? How many times have you felt that someone did hurt you on intention? How many sleepless nights have you spent because of the feeling of being hurt? Have you ever tried to know whether people really intended to hurt you or whether its jut your lack of understanding of the full picture? Stand right in front of a big building and look at one of the walls then describe what you are seeing.
One thing that is very popular about falling in love is that sometimes people confuse being in love with wanting to protect their egos and public image. How would it feel like if people knew that you were dumped? Or how would it feel like if people knew that you weren’t up to satisfying your partner? After a breakup one of the strongest reasons that make someone feel bad is ego involvement where the person feels bad because of his hurt ego and not because he loved the other person!! Here are some of the common thoughts that come to people’s minds after a breakup:
You Can Easily Know If he/she Loves you It usually takes me less than 30 minutes on the first meeting with someone to know wether he is in love with someone else or not. This is not marketing Hype because after reading Part One and part two (which you are currently reading) of this series you will be to know whether someone is in love with someone else or not by just looking for few signs.
Face reading! Is it true? Whatever you try to hide, is written on your face. Yes, it's true, it's not some kind of magic, it has always been there, but you are the one who did lack the required knowledge. Statistical studies showed that there is a strong connection between face features and personality; you may have noticed that people who look alike tend to behave the same or at least have some common behavior.
As a result of low self confidence many people never see reality correctly but they just see a reflection of their own beliefs. If a person who lacks self confidence wasn’t treated in a nice way then he might assume that one who didn’t treat him well didn’t like him while in fact reality might be way different than this meaning he gave to that situation. Because each situation that a person goes through either lowers or increases his self confidence its extremely important that people learn how to see things correctly so that they don’t mistakenly lower their self confidence.
During our lives we encounter many situations where we become in need to change someone’s mind about something. When someone refuses to change his mind about something it doesn’t mean that he is stubborn or annoying but it simply means that somewhere in his belief system there is something that is preventing him from believing you. In order to be able to change someone’s mind about anything you need to understand how he thinks, what he believes in and how you can insert your ideas into his belief system with minimal resistance.
Are you Wounded? Have you ever tried to put some water on a fresh wound? If you have, you must have felt some pain. Water, which can never harm you if you were not injured, has just made you feel some pain when it touched your wound, simply because when we develop a wound we tend to become over sensitive to factors that didn't bother us before. The same goes for emotional wounds: What if you have some emotional wounds that are making you over-sensitive to factors that other people don’t even notice?
In November 2006 I started my website , 2knowmyself.com, and as of today the site’s sales have exceeded 1 million and made me a dot com millionaire. I know that every person who starts a website with certain financial goals in mind want to reap the most out of his site and as a result I decided to write this post to tell you how you can make the best financial benefit out of your site or blog. The key factors that helped me make good money from my site:
Programming the subconscious mind Programming the subconscious mind is not a hard task, you just need to make the conscious mind go to sleep or at least inactive, through hypnosis for example, or any other method.
If you typed the word “Depression” in any query on the internet you will end up with the same phrase “Depression is a result of imbalance in brain chemicals” and as it appears from this statement, the only solution is find a way to balance brain chemicals, which is to live on medication forever or until your brain’s chemical balance is restored.
In order to sleep well with no worries, there are things that you might consider doing before laying your head to sleep. Things which you should do and things which you might be doing already, but all of them are in order to make you feel better when you close your eyes at night and lay your head to sleep. If you were to set a list on the calendar for each day, those things should be included: 1- Accomplishments:r
I have helped thousands of people get over the depression they felt after breakups and while each one of them had a completely different story than the others they all shared one common cause for the suffering they experienced after the breakup which is having false beliefs about both breakups and depression. In order to deal with breakup depression you must first understand what depression is, how does it occur and how changing your beliefs can help you get over it. In this article I will explain in detail how to deal with breakup depression by helping you correct your beliefs about both
Do you know how babies learn to grasp objects? They first hold the object incorrectly so it drops from their handsr And then they hold it incorrectly the second time and it drops againr And then they hold it incorrectly for the third time and then it falls againr And then they hold incorrectly for the fourth time and the fifth, and the sixth Until they manage to find out the right way to hold the object That learning process is called negative feedback and it governs our learning process. Before you can learn how to do something correctly you need to do it incorrectly many times.
Sounds like a weird title huh? After all, People should give advice on how to reduce worrying and not on how to worry. In fact I am not going to tell you how to worry more but I am going to tell you about the wrong practices some people do that force them to worry more and that ruins their lives. By learning about these incorrect practices you will be able to avoid them and so worry less about your problems. Here are the incorrect practices that force people to worry more:r
Ask anybody about the things he wants in life and he will tell you that happiness is one of them. Ask the same person if he is happy with his job and he will tell you no!! One of the main reasons people are unhappy with their jobs is the incorrect priorities they assign for different things in their lives. While they want to be happy in life they choose jobs that they don’t like and feel bad every morning while on their way to work. In this article I will tell you how to be happy with your job by learning how to avoid the common mistakes job seekers do. But its your job
Certainly we are all aware of the health effects of having a positive attitude throughout life and of the improved mood we are going to experience if we remained positive yet sometimes we betray our knowledge and dwell into negative thinking for prolonged periods. I have been searching for reasons that force us to think negatively in order to find some kind of a formula that can help us maintain our positively and luckily I found some very effective methods that can help us live a more positive life. Here they are:
Lacking confidence around strangers Do you sometimes find yourself feeling very anxious around people? Do you sometimes manage to talk confidently to some people while in other times anxiety prevents you from properly choosing the right words to say? If your answers were yes then read this article to know the reasons behind this kind of anxiety. Feeling anxious around people
Joe was feeling really stressed and afraid of tomorrow’s presentation. He hasn’t experienced such overwhelming emotions before and he realized that he couldn’t bear them anymore. When thinking of the available options he found nothing to do except to keep the bad feelings that were really annoying him. Joe a person who rarely smoked suddenly found himself smoking vigorously that day hoping to feel better. He didn’t smoke because he needed nicotine nor because he loved cigarettes but he smoked because he was feeling bad and unable to deal with his bad emotions.
A friend of mine had intense hatred towards her job, she used to explain to me how much she suffers every morning on her way to the office and how horrible she feels at the end of each weekend. Whenever my friend told her friends or relatives about her problem they always gave her the same answer, "Be strong, everyone is working why do you want to be different"
What attracts women? Psychologists say that men become attracted to women who have higher reproductive abilities like more female hormones and an hour glass body shape. They also say that women are attracted to men who are resourceful and who can protect them. So to put this in another way, men give much higher weight to looks and women give a very high weight to social status, financial status and the ability to become successful. I do agree with most of what the psychologists said but I don’t agree that this should be a rule that has no exceptions.
Certainly we are not perfect humans and no one can claim that he has become so skilled to the extent that people don’t have the right to criticize his work, However, in everyday life we across people who criticize us not because they want us to be better but because of other bad intentions.r
The 5 most effective self confidence building methodsr The presence of hundreds of methods for building self confidence and the information overload we are all experiencing in this era have left many people confused about the best ways to build self confidence. While lots of methods can work for anyone still there are few methods that are extremely effective and that can work for almost everyone. In this post I will tell you about some of the most effective self confidence building methods. How to build self confidence?r
Yesterday i was in the gym and i had a hard time doing my regular exercises because my Ipod was out of charge and i had to listen to the romantic songs that were played there. They weren't that normal kind of romantic songs but they were the type that gives you the impression that the singer is on his knees crying to get his or her love back. After all that might sound romantic to many people so why didn't i manage to exercise? In order to know the answer to this question and to understand how the media affects people then read this article. You are what you listen to
Everyday millions of people try to become more confident by acquiring fame, power, money and popularity but in the end most of them never make any progress and end up feeling the same. Most of those people were told to repeat affirmations, think positively or to believe in themselves but in the end they find themselves feelings worse after doing these advice. The reason most people fail to become confident is that they spend their lives trying to build self confidence the wrong way while in fact there is only one way to do it correctly. Building self confidence the wrong way
Do you think that if you were living alone on an island you would have been doing the same things you are doing now? A very big part of our behavior, actions and thoughts are highly affected by the people around us even if this is not apparent to us. Peer pressure or the pressure a person feels when he breaks from traditions or from others expectations cannot only let a person blindly follow the groups of people he lives with but it can also limit his abilities to what people expect from him rather than what he can really do. In this article I will explain how peer pressure can affect
Certainly we are all aware of the health effects of having a positive attitude throughout life and of the improved mood we are going to experience if we remained positive yet sometimes we betray our knowledge and dwell into negative thinking for prolonged periods. I have been searching for reasons that force us to think negatively in order to find some kind of a formula that can help us maintain our positively and luckily I found some very effective methods that can help us live a more positive life. Here they are:
Dreams can be an expression of the desires we want to fulfill, the reflection of our fears or our current emotional states or even a suggested soloution by our minds to a problem that is bothering us. One of the most common misconceptions about dreams is believing that symbols have universal meanings while in fact the meaning of a symbol differ from a person to another based on his own beliefs, values and life experiences.
Identity Loss Brad is a very happy and successful person; he has a big salary, his wife loves him, and he has accomplished most of what he set out to achieve in life. Everything in Brad’s life was perfect and this was reflected in the way he walks and talks and in his generally confident attitude. One day while he was happily driving his way home, he received a phone call from his wife, “Brad, I don't want you in my life anymore.
most people fail to build self confidence because they don’t work on fixing the right areas where they lack self confidence. I gave the example of the successful person who lacks confidence because of problems in his social life and who never manages to feel confident even though he is achieving more and more success in his career. The one important thing you must know is that this right area might not always be that visible to you but it sometimes needs some effort in order to be located.
Long ago I used to think that persuading people is a hard task but as I learned more and more I discovered that people find it hard to persuade others because they do the wrong things not because its hard to persuade someone. After working as a sales person for years and after running my own business I discovered that there are some very effective ways that can help you persuade others if you applied them correctly and so I decided to write this post to inform you about them This is how to persuade people
4 reasons positive thinking can change your lifer Most people know what positive thinking is but many of them don’t have an idea about how can positive thinking help them in their lives. While positive thinking is not magic and its not a habit that you can use alone to get your tasks done still the benefits you will reap out of it will dramatically change your life. Want to know how can positive thinking help you change your life to the better? Then read the following: This is how positive thinking can change your life
Some people mistakenly believe that being depressed means that they lack self confidence. While this is a completely incorrect assumption still we can't say that there is no relation between self confidence and depression. Being depressed doesn't mean that you lack confidence but in many cases lack of self confidence can lead to depression. In this article i will explain the relationship between self confidence and depression. How lack of self confidence can lead to depression
People can lie to each other in order to reach certain goals or to avoid certain punishments but why on earth would someone lie to himself? In fact, there are lots of reasons that could force a person to lie to himself and to even believe the lies!! The best way to explain self deception is to give you direct examples of it. Here are some examples of self deception:
Some people define happiness as the absence of bad emotions. Its that relaxed moment where you are worried about nothing and where you are not feeling bad because of any major problem that can make you feel really happy. Luckily most bad moods and even mild depression attacks can be dealt with if people knew the right actions to take. Most people deal with bad moods incorrectly by either escaping from them or by acting as if they are not there while in fact bad moods are just signals sent by the brain to motivate people to improve their lives in certain ways.r
Everyone wants to live a happy life but sadly most people never manage to achieve that important goal. Some people claim that happiness can be found through meditation while others claim that happens can be reached through certain religious practices. Some people claim that money can bring happiness while others say that love can bring happiness. So what is the right path a person should take to find happiness? Here are five steps that will help you live a happy life:r
Myths About Making Someone Love You Do you think that love is just an uncontrollable random process? Do you think that if the person you loved didn’t love you back then nothing can be done about it? Do you think that you can't make someone fall in love with you? The Truth About Making Someone Fall in Love with You Most of us believe that love is completely random and can never be controlled or manipulated. However, the shocking truth is that love and hatred are fully controlled by the mind.
The person who is laughing out loud, capturing the attention of everyone in the room while gossiping about someone who is not present is not as happy as he seems. From the outside he seems strong, popular, interesting and in control but if you peaked inside his mind at the time he was gossiping you would have found things that you would never want to find in yourself. You would have found low self esteem,jealousy,frustration,anger and weakness. Does this sound serious? Then read this article to know the truth about gossiping. I couldn’t do it there so I will do it here
What most people don’t know about dreams Dream interpretation is one of the most exiting topics I came across in my journey to learn psychology. Even though dream interpretation is extremely popular online still its one of the most misunderstood topics by common. In this post I will fix all of the misconceptions about dreams and will provide you with the right way to interpret your dreams from a psychological point of view. The biggest mistake people make when they attempt to interpret dreams
Losing interest in a relationship He fell in love with her at the first sightr He kept trying and trying until one day he knew that she felt the same for himr He couldn’t believe himself and felt so happyr Then few days later he lost his enthusiasmr He started to wonder if she was really the one he always dreamt to be withr And after thinking for one complete week, he told her “Sorry, I guess we should just be friends” What’s happening? I am sure you have seen someone before who lost interest in a relationship few days after making sure that th
Top five lessons I learned about achieving success I have always wanted to be a successful person and to reach my goals. As the years passed I managed to reach a great deal of my life goals until I became a success coach. During these years I met thousands of people who were not successful and I found that even though each one of them was different still they all shared the same traits that prevented them from reaching their true potential.r
The Power of Psychology The Clothes that you wear, the way you walk, your face features, your body language, your tone of voice, Your doodles,your hobbies and the music that you prefer can reveal a lot about your personality.
I am not like them Poor Joe, he is not as handsome as movie stars nor does he have a bigger car than his friends, he is not that rich nor he is that intelligent as his college mates, why should Joe feel confident then? He must be feeling inferior to everyone. Is that true?
Feeling Sad So you are feeling Sad. I know how it feels like, it feels like there is something hurting you but you are not aware of it, It feels like you are neither happy nor satisfied. But why do we feel sad? Are these sad feelings nothing more than a part of the usual cycle of mood swings? No they are not; these sad feelings are a message sent to you by your subconscious mind, in order to take an action. Why Do We Feel Sad? Sad feelings are like all the other emotions we experience, they are an indication that something is going wrong in our lives.