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- "Not Air-Guitar, But Air-Palm" - by Submitted on Aug 06, 2013 from Hal Wechsler“You know what Air-Guitar is, What is Air-Palm? • 1. “Did you know that Guitar companies internationally hold contests for big prizes for the best Air-Guitar pretenders?” • 2. “No, why, they are just like Elvis imitators or Mimes.” • 3. “Well, these contests attract thousands, and they ...
Views: 1799 - Delhi – Not Just the Capital of India – But Also a Hub of Astrologers - by Submitted on Mar 31, 2017 from Natural Therapy IndiaFace-to-Face conversation with a Delhi-based astrologer – how? A cakewalk? Obviously not. It is always tough to talk to a stranger, be it an Astrologer in Delhi. It is not like you blurt out your problems and they answer with a solution. A one-way, yes, but not exactly like this. There is ...
Views: 1793 - "Are YOU Normal, and Hate Learning?" - by Submitted on Oct 21, 2013 from Hal Wechsler“Are You ‘Normal’ and Hate Learning?” • 1. Me: “Normal is the opposite of Abnormal, right? Dictionary.com defines ‘normal’ as Average-Ordinary-Common. Add: mediocre & second-rate. • Normal makes you Defensive toward Change, Improvement, and expanding your Comfort-Zone. Are Bill Gates, ...
Views: 1788 - Did women achieve their objectives of being treated as equals to their male counterparts? - by Submitted on Mar 15, 2016 from Thabet Sava HassanOn March 8th, 2016, the whole planet celebrated the International Day of Women. However, one may ask about the reasons that could gear the members of the gentle gender to participate in that precious event. Did they achieve their objectives of being treated as equals to their male ...
Views: 1780 - Relationships: Do Some Men’s Childhood's Set Them Up To Fear Women? - by Submitted on Mar 15, 2017 from Oliver JR CooperIf a man has the desire to in a relationship with a woman, he could end up taking action. This could then be a time when he will go out to different bars and clubs, and he could even join a few dating sites. What this could show is that he has recently broken up with someone, and he now ...
Views: 1769 - "Are YOU Normal, and Hate Learning?" - by Submitted on Oct 21, 2013 from Hal Wechsler“Are You ‘Normal’ and Hate Learning?” • 1. Me: “Normal is the opposite of Abnormal, right? Dictionary.com defines ‘normal’ as Average-Ordinary-Common. Add: mediocre & second-rate. • Normal makes you Defensive toward Change, Improvement, and expanding your Comfort-Zone. Are Bill Gates, ...
Views: 1766 - Would you Like to Improve Your Relationships Dramatically?! - by Submitted on Dec 13, 2013 from Larry CraneWe begin forming relationships from the moment we’re born, yet by the time we’re adults, it’s easy to feel completely inexperienced. Whether we’re raised in loving, nurturing homes or in a less open environment, relationships often leave us feeling vulnerable, uncertain and insecure. A key ...
Views: 1751(2 votes) - Do You Feel Like You’ll Never Overcome Shyness? - by Submitted on Dec 30, 2014 from Chris ChandraThe problem with shyness is it feels like you’ll never overcome it. It takes a grip over you as soon you have to meet people or introduce yourself to someone. And it grips you until the very end of the interaction. To many of us with shyness it feels like an enormous wall that blocks us ...
Views: 1748 - Discovering & Uncovering Men’s Emotional Pain in a Healthy Way - by Submitted on Dec 07, 2018 from Geoff LaughtonToday’s blog is about pain and the prescription for it, all rolled into one! First, let’s talk about the pain. I hear all kinds of complaints about men from women. I hear frustration, genuine concern and fears that mostly centre around the fact that they don’t feel they’re getting what they ...
Views: 1739 - Timing is Everything - by Submitted on May 22, 2012 from Pamela TurleyWhile eating dinner with a single male friend of mine, I was reminded again how important timing is in relationships. There's no way around it. We either manage the situation or the situation manages us. After we both pitched in the obligatory small talk, the conversation turned to the ...
Views: 1736 - Help me sleep - by Submitted on Jul 13, 2013 from Ethan ChongDo you know that prevention is better than cure? In fact, if you prevent insomnia from happening on you, you can lead a better life! Today in this article, I will provide you some tips and tricks that can help you sleep in no time! (I used these methods to help me sleep before, so have no ...
Views: 1732(1 vote) - Learn to Reduce Your Stress in 8 SIMPLE STEPS! - by Submitted on Jan 10, 2017 from Laney Zukerman The Relationship CoachAs featured in the HUFF POST: Learn to Reduce Your Stress in 8 Simple Steps! Stress can make an unfortunate appearance at any time of year, but when we are challenged, tired, or going through a crisis, it can spike. Though we can’t “stop” stress from entering our lives, we can take ...
Views: 1729(1 vote) - How To Improve Your Confidence – And Make Women Notice It - by Submitted on Nov 28, 2011 from Richard LisoOne of the most important "ingredients", if not the most important in your image as a man, and eventually in your success to attract women, is your confidence and the way you convey it externally. Having confidence allows you to remain calm and relaxed. Being confident, allows you to overcome ...
Views: 1714 - What Would You Rather Do: Watch TV Or Make New Friends? - by Submitted on Dec 30, 2014 from Chris ChandraHmm Of course the answer is make new friends right? Especially if you wished you had a more active social life and you’re not social. The reason I’m bringing up this topic is to discuss how we sabotage ourselves when it comes to the social success we want. When you can figure out where ...
Views: 1705 - What It Feels Like When You Overcome Shyness - by Submitted on Dec 27, 2014 from Chris ChandraThe thing is, there really is a difference in how you feel after you overcome shyness. I'm not talking about overcoming shyness where you get bold for a brief moment and then anxiety creeps back in. I'm talking about a full blown recovery where there is no going back. A few years ago I ...
Views: 1703(2 votes) - Men's Sexual Health Treatment - by Submitted on Jan 11, 2012 from lincy thomasMen's Sexual Health Treatment Men's Sexual Health Treatment Male sexual health includes infertility problems, sexually transmitted diseases and erectile dysfunction. This article will focus on sexual dysfunction. Remedies include prescription or non-prescription drugs, surgery and ...
Views: 1699 - How To Attract Women Is Like CRACKING A Top Secret Password - by Submitted on Dec 30, 2014 from Chris Chandra“How do you attract women?” Tell me, what’s the answer? I’m not talking about the politically correct answers like “Ask her out for dinners” or “Tell her how beautiful she is.” That stuff is reserved for people born in the 1920’s More and more women are coming out and admitting that a ...
Views: 1695 - Sex Addiction Is NOT a Moral Issue! - by Submitted on Mar 23, 2013 from Dorothy HaydenSex is surely one of the most powerful of all human experiences. It can drive people to the pinnacle of ecstasy or it can spiral others to the depths of self-loathing and despair. Sexual expression is meant to tie, or connect, to our core sense of self. Sexual energy is part of our life ...
Views: 1695 - Easy, Alpha Dog - by Submitted on May 26, 2011 from Tony MonterastelliWhen most guys become aware of the realities of human courtship - on the street we call it "game" - we become highly attuned to the reality that women test men. "Women test men." I can still remember how it felt to hear those words the first time somebody explained the concept of testing to ...
Views: 1691 - Cialis Tadalafil For Erectile Dysfunction Treatment - by Submitted on Apr 26, 2012 from Ziesha SheyErectile dysfunction is a common sex problem in men especially the middle age and elderly men. Defined as difficulty in holding sustained erections during love making, erectile dysfunction, although a worrisome condition can be easily treated and cured with the help of certain drugs, supplements ...
Views: 1688 - How to Cope with Depression - by Submitted on May 05, 2012 from Rosemary PriceDepression is one of the most awful things to get a handle on because you can be feeling dreadful yet to the outside World you look alright. You may have been feeling fine six months ago and now you are telling them that you wish you were dead, you are suicidal, you cannot get any enthusiasm to ...
Views: 1687(1 vote) - Dear Dr. Romance: I don't know if this is retaliation - by Submitted on Feb 07, 2013 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I recently read "Does First-Love ever die? How to deal with a flame that still flickers" While my situation doesn't parallel the situations you described in the article, it's very similar. About 8-9 mos ago, I ran into a highschool crush on a social ...
Views: 1686(2 votes) - ***Losing Your Voice in the Club Scene? - by Submitted on Aug 05, 2014 from Nancy DanielsDoes this sound familiar? You go to a loud club and your friends tell you that they can’t hear you even though you’ve been talking in a louder voice. Your throat feels raw and sore or perhaps you have lost your voice after an hour or two of straining to be heard. What you are experiencing ...
Views: 1684 - "If You Hate Popeye, Think Again." - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2013 from Hal Wechsler“If You Hate Popeye, Squinting & Smiling, Forgettaboutit”. • 1. “I find your columns boring and mostly irrelevant, but you have wandered off the cliff when you drag in Exodus 3:14. What on-this-planet does the Bible have to do with your damn SpeedReading101? • 2. Oh yeah Professor, your ...
Views: 1676(2 votes) - Dear Dr. Romance: I find her volatile and aggressive - by Submitted on Nov 14, 2013 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance I came across your name and contact details on a web it whilst trying to find info' to help my relationship. I wonder if you might be able to offer me any advice please ? My girlfriend always wants to take control and the way she speaks to me at times is though ...
Views: 1669 - How To Give To Others Builds Our Spirit - by Submitted on Mar 13, 2017 from Mitra ShahidiTo give and not expect return, that is what lies at the heart of love. Blessed are those who are able to give without remembering and to take without forgetting. Give to others builds human spirit. Every act of generosity and the willingness to give of our time, our interest, concern, ...
Views: 1669 - My Separated Husband Lies And Hides Things From Me. Why Won't He Just Be Truthful? How Hard Is It To Just Tell The Truth? - by Submitted on May 12, 2020 from Leslie CaneWhen your spouse pursues a separation, it's natural to be concerned about his motivations. One common concern that I hear a lot about comes from women who are concerned that their husband truly wants a divorce because he wants to start seeing other women. These concerns are understandable. ...
Views: 1669 - Why is it so Difficult to Apologize - by Submitted on Jul 08, 2011 from cedric riceWhy is it so hard for some of us to say that we are sorry even when we know that our actions were wrong? If you don’t know this, allow me to educate you on a fact of life. We are all human so there is not a person in this world who has never made a mistake. We are all capable of making mistakes ...
Views: 1662 - Top 5 Best Relationship Advice's For Men - by Submitted on Jan 23, 2015 from Mike HatcherThere is no specific textbook to teach men and women how to act in a relationship, as everybody is different. That being said, it is always important to stay true to who you are and to the principles you truly believe in, and to always act as your heart dictates you to act. However, there are ...
Views: 1655 - Ghosts of the Wheat Harvest - by Submitted on Aug 05, 2011 from Dan L. HaysIn the fall of 1990, I was meeting with two other men on a regular basis to explore our dreams and aspirations. Every two weeks, we would gather at a Chinese buffet and talk for several hours about things we’d like to do some day. It was around the time of the Men’s Movement, where men went ...
Views: 1650(2 votes) - Overcome Shyness When Talking To Girls - by Submitted on Feb 28, 2015 from Chris ChandraYou know it... That moment where you see that girl and you want to go talk to her. Maybe it's in school, maybe it's at work, maybe it's at the gym.... Who cares where it is! You just want to go talk to her and get her to like you. Right? But the problem is you're too shy to do ...
Views: 1648(2 votes) - Being nice is keeping you broke - by Submitted on Dec 02, 2014 from Kathleen GageHow often do you have someone who sends you an email with, “I have a couple of quick questions.” As you read their questions you quickly realize it will require a fair amount of time to respond to all of them. Wanting to be polite, the temptation is for you to respond. It’s not that you ...
Views: 1643 - How Women are Wired Differently than Men - by Submitted on Dec 02, 2012 from Debbi DickinsonNo surprise to any woman to hear that we are wired differently than men. We approach life differently and we remember events differently. As a broad brush statement, men compartmentalize their memory of events and the emotions. As women, we are wired to tie our emotions around each ...
Views: 1641 - Thoughts, Words, and Feelings - by Submitted on Sep 22, 2014 from Jake AndersenThoughts, Words, and FEELINGS Emotions for me are a necessary evil. I absolutely hate the way emotions can completely blind a mind from logic. This is one of the main reasons that it takes me a long, long time to become emotionally attached to anybody. It seems that whenever I become ...
Views: 1633 - Increasing Competence as a Dad - by Submitted on Dec 01, 2011 from Armin BrottDear MrDad. I'm a new father. I haven't had much experience with infants and I want to be involved in my daughter's care, but every time I try to pick her up, she starts to fret. How can I feel more competent? A: Few things can make a man feel less like a man than feeling incompetent. And ...
Views: 1630 - It Sucks When Nice Guys Finish Last - by Submitted on Dec 30, 2014 from Chris Chandra“Nice guys finish last” I’m sure many shy men can relate with this statement. I’ve seen over the years that shy men have an air of “I’ll always be nice no matter what.” They are easily forgiving of others regardless of what the situation is. Overly NICE guys also tend to remember things ...
Views: 1628(1 vote) - Mother Enmeshed Men: Why Do Some Men Go Off Sex When They Are In A Relationship? - by Submitted on Nov 23, 2018 from Oliver JR CooperBefore a man has even got to the point where he is in a relationship with a woman, there is a strong chance that they will already be having sex. If this is not the case, it could show that he is religious. Conversely, it could be a sign that he is more traditional and wants to take his ...
Views: 1628 - Top-Rated Tech Gifts and Gadgets Men Will Love in 2018 - by Submitted on Sep 14, 2018 from K. SaluLocating the ideal electronics gifts for your man or men in your life is not always as simple a task as it looks. On the flip side, you can not fail with technology and electronic equipment. From clever TVs to smart house accessories, speakers, earbuds, gaming gadgets, and everything in between, ...
Views: 1625 - 5 Secrets of Men That They Won't Say to You - by Submitted on Jul 22, 2013 from Winny KhoSecrets are very common in relationships, and when people hear or find out that their partner is keeping something from them they automatically assume the worst. However, just because you might find out that your man is keeping something from you; this doesn't always mean it is a bad thing. ...
Views: 1615 - What is a Sugar baby? - by Submitted on Dec 21, 2011 from Mira SmithA sugar baby is a male or female that is a companion for a person usually older in exchange for gifts, money, rent etc. A sugar baby is not a hooker or a gold digger, if you need milk you go to a store so I see nothing wrong with someone being compensated for their time. As a sugar baby you are ...
Views: 1602(2 votes) - Dear Dr. Romance: How can I get my husband into therapy? - by Submitted on Sep 28, 2015 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance : I'm getting worried because my husband is drinking more, and laughing less. He works too much, he has lost interest in his guy friends and sports. He's gotten more tense, and is on edge and irritable. Sometimes he even yells at me and the kids. I think maybe he needs ...
Views: 1594(1 vote) - How Humour Can Help You Find the Woman Of Your Dreams - by Submitted on Sep 23, 2014 from Bave New ManIn the world of personal development there seems to be two lines of tought with regards to personality change. On one side of the spectrum, some say yes - you can and have to change. After all, you need to change in order to become the person you want to be. On the other hand, you have those who ...
Views: 1589(2 votes) - Dear Dr. Romance: I'm Desperate: What Else Can I Do? - by Submitted on Mar 12, 2013 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I suffer with sleeping alone in "our" bedroom while my wife of 14 years, sleeps in our two pre-teen sons' bedroom. I've tried to talk and reason with her about this important problem, only to fall on deaf ears. I'm desperate. What else can i do? ...
Views: 1584(5 votes) - In Celebration of Sensitive Men - by Submitted on May 29, 2013 from Judith OrloffSensitive men are incredibly attractive. They are path-forgers in the new paradigm of the evolved man. Strong and sensitive. Intuitive and powerful. They’re able to give and receive love without ambivalence, being “unavailable,” or commitment phobia. In my book Emotional Freedom to help you ...
Views: 1584(3 votes) - Mother Enmeshed Men: Why Do Some Men Only Have Casual Sex? - by Submitted on Nov 24, 2018 from Oliver JR CooperFor some men, casual sex is something that they will engage in from time to time, while there are others who only have casual sex. When it comes to the former, this could be something that takes place after a man has just been in a relationship. Going with another woman, more or less ...
Views: 1584 - Just Another MAN-ic Monday - by Submitted on Jan 22, 2013 from Dwayne KlassenAccording Wikipedia the word, Manic means: affected with, relating to, characterized by or resulting from. It's a perfect word to describe what many men are feeling in this rapidly changing world. For our purposes today we'll use the word MAN tongue-in-cheek in Manic. The reason is, men have ...
Views: 1581 - Seeing an Older Man - by Submitted on Apr 24, 2012 from Rosemary PriceSeeing an older man is now popular for all different reasons and fall into two different categories. The first division you have is that some are for love and others are for sexual or practical reasons. There is a huge difference between a woman wanting to be with an older and more maturee man ...
Views: 1581 - Shy Man’s 3-Step Method To Reducing Rejection - by Submitted on Dec 30, 2014 from Chris ChandraAhh rejection. Rejection is pretty hard on the soul. It can make you feel unwanted, lonely and frustrated. It doesn't matter if you’re the average Joe or a big shot executive. It hurts just the same; and with today’s fast paced society the world can feel extra punishing. When you can ...
Views: 1573 - How do BBW look for men and where to find them? Get to know in here! - by Submitted on Sep 18, 2018 from Thelma TaylorIt is sometimes difficult for women to find the right men and especially for BBW. This is because men tend to be more superficial when it comes to qualities referring to physical appearance of women. This means that there are a lot of women who start as losers in the dating game even from the ...
Views: 1553 - Life Path Numbers - by Submitted on Apr 27, 2012 from Rosemary PriceLife path numbers... heard of them before? If you are very young probably not, it tends to be the older person who knows about these because they can be considered to be old fashioned. This is a shame because they are very helpful to us. Some of us study or follow astrology and many of us follow ...
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