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Most couples can revitalize their relationship after they’ve lost desire for each other and/or after being in their non-sexual relationship (10 sexual encounters a year (less than one per month) for a while, even for decades! This is good news! These dissatisfied couples loose hope of ever ... Views: 1030
“Can I make my ex boyfriend regret leaving me? That’s a question I’m asked at least a few times a week on my blogs or in email. It’s a heady question. If you were dumped you’re aching to show your ex boyfriend that he made a mistake, right? You know that eventually one day he’s going to realize ... Views: 6347
At some point after sobbing one to many times you are probably going to find your self asking. What are some things to do to get over a breakup? When a relationship doesn't work out, and you look at it realistically. Most relationships are not healthy. A healthy relationship is designed with ... Views: 1096
Now, a lot of ink has been spilt over how you should make certain that you actually develop a writing habit and that you don’t just end up one of those people who calls themselves a writer and imagines themselves to be, but never actually puts anything on paper. So that is not the part I’m going ... Views: 1049
From ancient wisdom to cutting edge science there are innumerable ways to boost our libidos naturally. Every culture throughout history has searched for, experimented with and embraced an amazing variety of ways to elevate our sexual drive and pleasure to greater and greater heights. Thousands ... Views: 1133
Have you ever utilized the power of positive affirmations?
Some say you can reach any goal, including improving your sex life, with positive thinking. Though we believe some things are out of reach no matter what you do, positive affirmations can help you with what is within reach. ... Views: 4025
“If your compassion does not include yourself, it is incomplete.” ~Jack Kornfield
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Before retiring from the practicing clinical psychology for forty years, diagnosing and treating mental illness, I saw day to day, the scourge of self-loathing. Now that I’ve retired and am coaching ... Views: 990
If you read this Dr. Romance blog, you know that I am always talking about the importance of good communication, urging better communication, and giving skills for being better understood. Communication is one of the most important aspects of relationships; positive and negative. ... Views: 1090
While there are some people who experience deeper connections with others, there are others who don’t. This means that the interactions that they do have with others will generally be surface level.
One way of looking at this would be to say that they will be on the side of a swimming pool; ... Views: 1458
Valentine’s Day is a holiday few of us like but most of us feel compelled to participate in. Many people I know, friends and clients alike, resent the commercialism of this holiday and its authoritative “celebrate or else” feel. It’s true that no one likes to be told to be romantic and ... Views: 8364
Dear Dr. Romance:
I found your site by accident and I hope you can help me. I have been divorced for one year and have been seeing a co-worker for most of that time. I have known him for five years and have been in a "relationship" with him for one of those. He is my ... Views: 1082
So…we might be a little early but I thought I’d add some spark before Valentine’s Day. You see, sometimes the best advice for relationships is to just give plain old love quotes or messages to your loved one. These simple gestures are perfect because it requires little effort and gives your ... Views: 4033
If one was to read a description about what it means to have a healthy relationship, they are unlikely to come across the importance of one person controlling the other. If they were to come across the word ‘control’, they may hear about the importance of self-control.
This is because there ... Views: 1455
Questions keep on flying in the mind eyes wondering how to get my Ex back. If you believe in the power of the mind; creativity comes from the mind and any action you take is first previewed in the mind’s eye, the problem of how to get back with an ex lies in our minds. Indeed, this theory of ... Views: 1114
I am writing to those who have experience heart breaks. It may sound like a common thing but the pain is unbearable. Couples fight and make up every time but there is a particular instance in life when you will know within you there is no hope for reconciliation then everything resolve to an end ... Views: 1013
My intention with this article is to bring to the light of day the process that is born between, in this case, two individuals who clearly have a lot of love for one another, yet don't know anymore how to share it and simply end up on a path of mutual recrimination, often, or perhaps mostly, ... Views: 988
Dr Romance writes:
As life develops, many of us have an urge to focus on the deeper issues -- our dreams and goals, and our emotional and spiritual development. When this happens, life gradually becomes more about meaning and satisfaction and less about obligations and ... Views: 1099
"The magic moment is the moment when a 'YES' or a 'NO' can change our whole existence." Paul Coelho
Dear Friend,
Happy Summer! Over the next few months, we’ll have a golden opportunity for some potentially life-changing healing and growth as Love Planet Venus retrogrades over ... Views: 1423
Once upon a time, in the city of Bathgate, Scotland, a full term pregnant girl, poorly dressed, was walking around the streets of the city aimlessly, carelessly but with great passion. She was quite educated, but no work at that very moment had put her in the most vulnerable situation. She had ... Views: 1338
You have probably heard me say this a bunch by now but your life is what you make it. If it is lacking passion then, it is your job to bring it back. Sometimes, this requires a mental shift. Sometimes, this requires taking action to create more of what we want in our external life. A little of ... Views: 1412
I want my ex boyfriend back so bad; What's the best relationship advice you can get? Obviously it is that which stops your break up from happening or helps g you get your ex back. How you get advice can be bad or tricky sometimes, especially when you are seeking it from your friends or family. ... Views: 1321
I need my ex lover back; If you find that your ex wants to get back together with you but you are not interested, you may be in a difficult position. You may have no interest in getting back with your ex for whatever reason or may just want to be friends. If your ex is putting pressure on you to ... Views: 1869
How to get your ex back through text; Are you looking to try and get your ex boyfriend to come back to you? Expectantly you have thought it over to make sure you are doing this for the right reasons. You should not be doing this just because you are feeling lonely or just cannot be by yourself. ... Views: 907
How To Make Up With Your Ex Girlfriend; If you are wondering, if you can get your ex back the answer is yes, depending on your actions. Your best bet is your girlfriend still loves you even if you caused this break up. How to make up with your ex girlfriend; In this case she would be more ... Views: 1138
Ex relationship advice; It is painful when you lose someone you love to a break up. It can be hard to deal with and you may do just about anything to get them back. If you really want to get your ex back it is possible if you follow methods that have been proven to work.
What do i do to get ... Views: 1084
I previously wrote about the assumptions and expectations we bring into a relationship, and the patterns of forcing they can set up. Sounds simple in theory but what exactly am I talking about? How do you recognise your own automatic assumptions and patterns and then change them in ways that ... Views: 1177
Relationships are the core of Life, but they can be a challenge. The real challenge is the way you deal with the differences that start to show up. They always show up because you have two people with different communication styles, different ways of resolving issues, different needs and ... Views: 1372
I miss my ex boyfriend so much it hurts; You had been in a relationship with a guy and the two of you broke up, and it was your thought. Now that he is gone you are having second thoughts about the break up and why you initiated it. Why did you break up? This is something you need to take a hard ... Views: 3602
Guaranteed way to get your ex girlfriend back; You dumped your girlfriend and you want her back, these are common problem with guys so don't feel alone. This inevitably happens after you realize what a good thing you had going and that you have made a mistake. Unfortunately guys can get bored ... Views: 935
When this subject is mentioned, people often think about about sex and intimacy and all the physical and emotional stimulation that goes with it – the excitement of it all. That is part of passion, but I want to broaden it out beyond that and explore how we cultivate passion for the whole ... Views: 1630
Almighty Allah SubHanuhu wa Ta’ala has prescribed certain duties of the husband towards their wives. The Holy Qur’an says: “The women have enjoy rights over men as men have certain rights over the women in kindness.”
Beloved Prophet SallAllaho Alaihi wa Sallam has said: “The best among you are ... Views: 758
Our relationship with ourselves is our first and most fundamental relationship: all other relationships flow from that. So the most powerful thing you can do is to love yourself unconditionally and allow that to flow into your relationships.
Two of the core issues underlying relationship ... Views: 989
There is a pervasive myth that somehow happy couples just agree on everything automatically all the time. Believing this myth, we enter relationships convinced that whatever problems or differences we have with our partners will be easy to solve. But, in reality, the individuals who make up a ... Views: 1091
Practicing your confident sexual self
Do you feel confident sexually?
We often think of sexual confidence in terms of “skills.” If someone knows the “correct” hand motions or what to do with their tongue, they should feel confident. But sexual skills can be difficult to acquire if you ... Views: 1039
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Why Better Is Better Than Best - by Donald Pillai - Author of You Are Better Than That - How to re-ignite your spark, re-claim your place in the world, and shine like never before.
No matter what your present circumstances are, the first step to becoming better is the commitment to do just that. It is amazing how many businesses, marketing gurus, mentors, coaches lawyers and doctors, even rocket scientists like to present themselves as "the best." To claim that you are the ... Views: 1852
I once attended a retreat on how to live with passion and fulfill one’s life’s work. The facilitator posed the question, “If money was not an issue, yet you had to work full-time, what would you do?” Answering this question was a turning point for me. Now - years later - I am doing much of what ... Views: 955
For years I held back, thinking success was for others but not for me. It wasn’t until I was willing to step out in a big way that things began to change. And change they did! I went from struggling day-in and day-out to having an abundance of money, business, and impact.
Not only had my fear ... Views: 1104
What would life be like if you could decide moment by moment your state of mind? What if you could have complete control over your response to any situation life holds for you? What if you could live in the space of gratitude and appreciation regardless of the economy, loss, change or ... Views: 955
One of the most fascinating lies we tell ourselves is if we believe something to be true, right or so, it must be. The fact is, much of what we try to convince ourselves and others as true is often a matter of judgment based on ego. If something is happening that we simply don’t approve of, then ... Views: 1338
What happen to those days where you would bat those luscious eyes or lick your lips just to grab his attention? Gentlemen, what about you? When was the last time you wrote that little love note expressing your deepest feelings for her? Perhaps even bought the little gift or flowers to show her ... Views: 1157
A little more than six months ago, I was training for a marathon as a power walker. During one of my longer workout sessions, I hit a pothole and instantly broke my ankle. I was literally stopped in my tracks. Knowing I would be laid up for a few weeks, I took the first few days to relax and ... Views: 982
A couple days ago I was listening to a CD by one of the most successful speakers in the industry. He has been around for many years and is considered one of the greats. He is also considered to be somewhat off the beaten path. As much as he is admired and respected by many, he is judged by just ... Views: 839
Our experiences are what move us into our life’s work. The choice is whether to respond to whatever life throws at us in a proactive way and keep moving forward, or stay stuck and flounder about.
There are people fulfilling their life’s work each and every day. Some are visible in the ... Views: 952
As with anything you do in your business, becoming a bestselling author is not an end in and of itself; it is simply a means to an end. It's not the bestseller status that is going to bring you more business and more money; it's what you do with the status that will make all of the ... Views: 1474
Consider this... when you do a kind deed, do you need to get credit for the action or do you take action simply because the task needed to get done? Your initial reaction may be that you took action on something because it needed to get done. Yet, many people (on a hidden level) can't stand the ... Views: 1071
“As human beings we don’t lack for things. We lack an appreciation of things. For instance, how often do we notice, much less appreciate, the natural beauty that is there to be seen in our life – a bird singing high atop a telephone pole, a flower growing through the crack in a concrete ... Views: 849
What do “sexy” women do differently?
Have you ever seen a woman who is physically less-than-perfect, maybe touting a larger schnozz or carrying an extra ponch, and yet somehow she manages to steal all of the glances in the room -- oozing sex appeal?
On the other hand, the physically ... Views: 9113
When you use smart decisions and self-awareness to shape your life, it will reflect your deepest aspirations and your fondest dreams.
1. Make your life your own. Decide to re-decide. Re-examine your goals and dreams. Don't just assume that what you wanted yesterday is ... Views: 1041
Dear Lorraine,
I met a guy a year ago. We dated weekly for 2 months. Our dates were fun and passionate.
Then after that he started asking me out on dates every couple weeks or so for the next 4 months. The dates were still very passionate and so much fun.
One day he started to invite me ... Views: 6483
Did you know that romance and passion are actually energy?
Romance and passion are a balance of masculine and feminine energy. And it doesn’t matter if you are married, single and want to be married or in a committed relationship…no matter what body you are in, male or female…when ... Views: 1056