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Marriage Therapy: 8 Signs You Should See a Marriage Counselor - Dave Turo-Shields- How To Get An Ex Boyfriend Back From A Hopeless Situation - by Submitted on Oct 10, 2016 from Vanessa MooreHow To Get An Ex Boyfriend Back. Dating advice on how to get the attention of an ex Boyfriend How Can I Make My Ex Boyfriend Fall Back in Love With Me. Tips to make your ex Boyfriend love you again and Expert advice to get your ex Boyfriend back in your life. How To Get An Ex Boyfriend Back ...
Views: 9479(1 vote) - How to get over someone you see everyday - by Submitted on May 07, 2012 from Raymond FohjemI decided to come out with this topic this morning because one of my students posed her worries to me during my coaching lesson yesterday. Her biggest problem was that she broke up with her boyfriend 2years back when they were still schooling together to become future teachers. She said ...
Views: 9475 - Ingredients Of A Healthy Relationship - by Submitted on Oct 07, 2008 from Susan PeabodyCreating a relationship is like backing a cake. You must have the right ingredients, in the right amount (not too much and not too little) and you must put them together in the right order. The ingredients of a healthy relationship are as follows: 1. Honesty that engenders trust. 2. Readiness ...
Views: 9471 - Money, What Is Your Story? - by Submitted on Feb 21, 2013 from Laura YoungMany of our cultural beliefs about money are confusing and conflicted. In addition to cultural pressures, we have familial beliefs, that are unexamined, “hand me downs.” In the book “The Road Less Traveled”, Scott Peck alleges that parents give children a second hand God to worship, a God in ...
Views: 9449(7 votes) - How to Regain a Love Lost In 7 Easy Steps - by Submitted on Aug 01, 2013 from Michael LoisThere are many similarities in each relationship and there are hundreds of reasons that can cause breakouts. The analysis did exclude abuse and / or other reasons that violate the law. Whatever the reason for the breakup, one thing is pure reality … was lost respect for you as a person. How ...
Views: 9447 - Exactly How to Get Your Ex Back after Being Needy: I Acted Needy How Do I Fix It - by Submitted on Sep 04, 2017 from Michael BradMany people, mostly women, lose relationships because they are too needy. Calling or texting 20 times a day, needing help with even the smallest decisions, trying to get them to spend almost all their time with you. Needing help from time to time is one thing, being needy and weak and ...
Views: 9427 - A Perfect First Date With Your Ex Boyfriend - by Submitted on Aug 30, 2012 from Michael LoisFind out how to get your ex boyfriend back. First, you must be leading a better life than you had before you break up with your ex. No time-consuming. It just takes you commit to do things they never did before and take a dance class, do gym, a new hobby, yoga, keep you updated with the news, ...
Views: 9421 - Make Your Ex Boyfriend Want You So Bad – Simple Tips - by Submitted on Oct 20, 2016 from Joan RiversMake Your Ex Boyfriend Want You So Bad – Simple Tips; You can make your ex boyfriend want and desire you yet again. It's pretty painful to get dumped by your boyfriend, especially if you are still in love with him. You wish you could make him see what a big mistake he is making and want you as ...
Views: 9392 - How To Text Girls - 3 Common Mistakes You Should NEVER Make When Texting Girls - by Submitted on Nov 04, 2011 from Ethan ZelmandoEven though most guys think they know how to text girls in order to build attraction and interest, many of them regularly commit simple mistakes that end up murdering any attracting the girl might have had. The worst part is, these are simple mistakes that could easily be avoid. In fact, ...
Views: 9353 - Love And Despair: Recovering From A Break-Up - by Submitted on Jul 15, 2010 from Ken FieldsWhen we are in love, the world is golden and nothing gets us down. When we are out of love, we are desperate to regain those feelings we had while in love. The desperation can be so intense, we find ourselves thinking and doing things we would be ashamed to tell our best friend. The excitement ...
Views: 9336(1 vote) - ***How to Fall In Love Again with Your Spouse - by Submitted on Sep 17, 2009 from Dr. Charles and Dr Elizabeth SchmitzBy America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts. Let’s face it – we love our spouse more than life itself. And frankly, we cannot imagine life without them! But the truth is, from time to time, our love for each other needs renewal. While love can be forever, it often needs nurturance, ...
Views: 9329(42 votes) - How to Deal When She Plays Hard-to-Get - 5 Ways to Make Her Go After You Instead! - by Submitted on Oct 28, 2009 from Mark TaylorMost women have the tendency to play hard-to-get and the more you try to pursue them, the stronger they'll try to resist you. Although this doesn't necessarily mean they don't like you or that you're simply dumped, this is the part where you have to prove yourself worthy of their attention and ...
Views: 9268(1 vote) - Romantic Ideas To Impress Your Girlfriend - by Submitted on Mar 14, 2011 from Dingane .Have you ever been accused of not being romantic enough? While most guys tend to think that they are romantic, most simply aren't. Most guys, rightfully so, tend to caution on the side of being safe for the fear of stepping over the line of normal manly behavior. The truth is that women need ...
Views: 9264 - I Haven't Heard From Him In 3 Days: My Boyfriend Hasn't Called Me All Day - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2017 from James UadialeI Haven't Heard From Him In 3 Days: My Boyfriend Hasn't Called Me All Day You've been dating a great guy. Things were going along very well but now you haven't heard from him in 3 days. You've been replaying the last time you saw him over and over again in your mind. You can't seem to pick ...
Views: 9261 - ***The 5 Things You Should NEVER Say to Your Spouse - by Submitted on Jun 18, 2010 from Dr. Charles and Dr Elizabeth SchmitzBy America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts. Just as important as saying the right thing to the one you love is to avoid saying statements that have the potential to destroy the foundation of the relationship. Saying just one wrong thing can negate an entire day of good statements and actions. ...
Views: 9256(34 votes) - How to Get My Boyfriend Back When He Doesn't Want Me - by Submitted on Jan 07, 2011 from Charles Uadiale"My ex boyfriend won't talk to me... so how can I get my boyfriend back?" The most difficult task to engage in is to get an unresponsive ex boyfriend attention. Think about this,the fact that he might not be talking to you at the moment doesn't really implies he doesn't want you back. Don't ...
Views: 9218 - Relationship Issues? - It's Not All About You! - by Submitted on Dec 17, 2009 from Beth Banning and Neill GibsonDo you sometimes feel hurt by the things the people you care about say? Do you find yourself thinking, "What did I do to deserve being talked to that way?" In any relationship, problems can be amplified by the stressful resentment people feel when their feelings have been hurt. This article ...
Views: 9208 - Why Men Don't Say 'I Love You'... - by Submitted on Mar 11, 2008 from Dan And JenniferYour guy may change your tires, buy you presents and open the door for you at a restaurant, but he has not yet uttered those three words. Does that mean he doesn't love you? Without hearing the utterance, you may wonder what's going on in his skull. Is he just sticking around for the sex? Has ...
Views: 9181 - Mentally Abusive Relationships - A Classic Example of Brainwashing Being Used As A Dominating Tactic - by Submitted on Aug 19, 2008 from Leo RyanMentally abusive relationships are very common. In fact there would be people in these types of relationships, on either side, who may not even be aware their relationship could be classified this way. This kind of relationship could also be placed in the emotionally abusive relationships ...
Views: 9162 - What to Say to Your Ex Boyfriend to Get Him Back - Win Him Back With This - by Submitted on May 15, 2016 from Patrick UadialeAre you struggling with what to say to your ex boyfriend to get him back? Finding the right words to say in a situation like this can be a struggle. The problem is that this is generally a highly emotional and tense situation for both of you. It's far too easy to take one step further only to ...
Views: 9156 - 6 Proven Ways to Keep Your Boyfriend Faithful by Making Him Happy and Satisfied in Bed - by Submitted on May 18, 2012 from Jack HutsonHey girl. There's no reason for your boyfriend to cheat on you or even think about leaving you if you know how to keep him happy and satisfied in your relationship. How do you do that? The answer may sound shallow, but it's the truth. It's sex. And not just good sex, but truly amazing sex. If ...
Views: 9140(2 votes) - 4 Powerful Secrets to Attract a New Loving Relationship in 30 Days! - by Submitted on Jun 14, 2019 from Michaiel BovenesYou may have tried to find someone special to share your life with only to be disappointed over and over again. Don’t give up on finding your Soul-mate or worse settle for someone who is more of a roommate than anything else. Even though you probably enjoy your own company, (most spiritually ...
Views: 9120(4 votes) - Signs Your Ex Boyfriend Wants You Back Even If He Says He Doesn't - by Submitted on Feb 04, 2011 from Charles UadialeFor people to lie concerning if they want their ex back or not isn’t strange any longer, that is reason you ought to not accept as true right away if your ex boyfriend says that he wants a break up. Simply to be certain whether your ex boyfriend is or is not interested in you, watch out for the ...
Views: 9116 - How To Get Over An Ex-girlfriend - by Submitted on Aug 01, 2009 from Chris RobertsBreaking up in any relationship is hard and especially when your breakup is with a girl friend it is very tough to get over an ex girlfriend from your heart and soul. Everything around you is dull and meaningless and you find solace only when you are isolated from the world round you which keeps ...
Views: 9111(2 votes) - Don't Let A Big Fight with Your Boyfriend Ruin Your Relationship - by Submitted on Jul 16, 2010 from Andrew HunterDid you and your boyfriend get into another fight? Was it over something trivial? Or was it heavy, like catching him with another woman? Fight with Boyfriend Tip #1 Check out the reason for the fight. Simple things require only simple remedies. If he's constantly late, find out why. If ...
Views: 9107(7 votes) - Relationships: What Does It Mean When Someone Says They Are Too Busy? - by Submitted on Jun 25, 2014 from Oliver JR CooperJust because someone is available at one point in time, it doesn’t mean that they will continue to be available. There is the chance that they will continue to be around or everything could change, and they may be extremely hard to get hold of. However, without even going into how much ...
Views: 9099 - This Works Like Magic to Convince Him to Stay With You: He Wants To Leave Me What Do I Do - by Submitted on Jun 24, 2017 from Michael UadialeDo you still love him? Are you still willing to give your relationship a second try? Will you be able to convince him to stay and tell him the words "love me again?" Second chances especially when it comes to relationships can be hard. Contrary to the saying that love is sweeter the second ...
Views: 9070 - Broken Promises - A Five-Step Plan to Get Your Husband to Keep His Agreements - by Submitted on Feb 04, 2010 from Laurie WeissAre you a woman who has moments when you sometimes want to murder your loving husband because he agrees to do everything you ask him to do and then somehow never seems to get it done? It's even more frustrating when you gather your courage to talk to him once more, and he promises he'll ...
Views: 9067(1 vote) - I Cheated On My Husband And He Wants A Divorce: My Husband Is Leaving Me Because I Cheated - by Submitted on Oct 08, 2021 from Baker JackI Cheated On My Husband And He Wants A Divorce: My Husband Is Leaving Me Because I Cheated I cheated on my husband, how do I fix it? Did you ever think you would be in this situation or ask yourself that question. You don't know how you let things ever get this out of control and you did not ...
Views: 9062 - My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Me Everyday: What to Do When He Doesn't Call - by Submitted on Jul 20, 2017 from James UadialeMy Boyfriend Doesn't Call Me Everyday: What to Do When He Doesn't Call "My boyfriend doesn't call me everyday, what does it mean?" That's one of those ages old dating questions women continue to wonder about. Women and men approach dating from very different places. When a woman is crazy ...
Views: 9055 - The Signs That Your Ex Boyfriend Hates You After the Break Up! Or Does Your Ex Boyfriend Still Love You Anymore? - by Submitted on Feb 17, 2011 from Charles UadialeEven though you have had a beautiful, long relationship, you have as well had an awful clash that has left you questioning: does your ex boyfriend hates you after the break up! Or does your ex boyfriend still love you anymore? Here's how to know certainly the way your ex boyfriend feels about ...
Views: 9033 - Your Partner Has Been Sexting Behind Your Back...Part Six - by Submitted on Aug 07, 2011 from Daniela RoherThe other day you were looking, totally innocently, for a telephone number in your partner’s phone, and what you found was much more than the number you were looking for! Now you don’t know what to do with the information. You have discovered your partner has been sexting with a coworker for ...
Views: 9028 - Advantages of Online Dating - by Submitted on Mar 19, 2011 from Suzanne WiebeThe online community does offer some advantages. The most valuable lets people chat and get to know each other before meeting. This lets people ask some serious questions before any emotions or attraction sets in and clouds your judgement. It also lets you ‘block’ those people who are pursuing ...
Views: 9023(3 votes) - Understand the Libra Man - by Submitted on Feb 07, 2010 from Annie SherwoodThe dating game can be very complicated. Are you looking for a guy who is easy-going, loves art, and can hold a great conversation? Then you should date a Libra . Libra guys are very appreciative of beautiful things, and they understand that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. They are not ...
Views: 9023(1 vote) - He Wants To Make You Happy But You’ve Got To Tell Him How! - by Submitted on Sep 30, 2010 from Kara OhMen tell me all the time that they want to make their wife or girlfriend happy, but they need them to tell them how. I can also tell they’re heartsick and quite frustrated that you not only don’t tell them how, you make them guess. And heaven help them if they guess wrong. I have actually ...
Views: 8955 - How To Get Your Relationship Back On Track After Infidelity - by Submitted on Dec 23, 2010 from Rachel MohebanInfidelity is a complex beast. It goes by many names and has many faces and can crop up even where you least expect it. It is naive to believe that only those in a troubled relationship can be plagued by infidelity - I’ve seen it rear its ugly head even in (seemingly) blissful ...
Views: 8917 - How Can I Make My Ex Want Me Back And Love Me Again? - by Submitted on Nov 04, 2008 from Mo SimpsonIf you've never had a breakup in your life, then you've either lived a very sheltered life or you've been really lucky! I mean most of us have been left by someone we're still in love with and most of just figure out, in a hit and miss way, how to move on and get over the heartbreak. But what ...
Views: 8900 - How To Get Her Back For Good - One Thing You Can Do to Win Back Your Ex Girlfriend - by Submitted on Aug 07, 2011 from Larry GateIf you’re thinking about how to get her back after a break up, then you are most likely wondering what she is up to at the moment. You are possibly worried about what she is doing, who she is seeing. You begin reading her facebook status messages and stalking her profile. Then you attempt to ...
Views: 8898 - How to End No Contact with Your Ex - by Submitted on Oct 07, 2011 from Andrew HunterSo, you’ve been giving the No Contact Rule a try. I really want to congratulate you. It’s no small feat to embrace the common fears and apprehensions about the No Contact Rule. As you’ve probably discovered, fighting off those urges to talk to your ex can be one of the most difficult things ...
Views: 8864 - Sometimes Love Isn't Enough: Accepting the End of a Relationship - by Submitted on Feb 11, 2011 from Sil Lai AbramsThere are few things in life more agonizing than realizing that despite our best efforts, an important relationship cannot be sustained. Sometimes the pain of this realization is too much to bear. Instead of accepting the truth, we slip into denial. We pretend that the problems don’t exist. ...
Views: 8855 - Hot Tips to Make Him Fall in Love - by Submitted on Oct 05, 2009 from Nicole GayleIn order for you to increase your chances for a man to fall in love with you, you must spend time playing with him…a lot. This advanced technique will make you drip with so much sex appeal, your man may mistake you for ice crème. Women who win can turn anything into a laughing matter. They ...
Views: 8843(6 votes) - Some Women Get Mad When You Say "No"! - by Submitted on Feb 04, 2011 from Dr. Dennis NederHi Doc! Why is it that when women turn men down for sex, they expect us to be understanding and caring, and when men turn women down, they flip out?? Here's the situation: I broke up with a girl I had been with, but have been able to remain minor friends. I know you don't think that's a ...
Views: 8827(1 vote) - ***The Ten Essential Virtues of Love - by Submitted on Apr 20, 2010 from Dr. Charles and Dr Elizabeth SchmitzBy America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts. This morning, a great friend of ours sent along an article that we were really taken with. For those who have read our book, Building a Love that Lasts (Jossey-Bass/Wiley 2010), you may recall a chapter entitled, “A Tribute to Lasting Love” (pp. ...
Views: 8813(47 votes) - 6 Signs Your Partner is Love Avoidant - by Submitted on Sep 18, 2013 from Jim HallAre you in a relationship with a Love Avoidant? In addictive love relationships, the Love Addict repeatedly attracts individuals with particular signs - and in turn, people with these particular signs are attracted to the love addict. The type of person I am speaking of is the Love Avoidant. ...
Views: 8810(1 vote) - Best Ways For Women To Attract Aquarius Men - by Submitted on Feb 13, 2010 from Annie SherwoodOne of the first things you have to do to attract an Aquarius man is to be able to hold a good conversation. Aquarius men are always up-to-date on the latest happenings and they are often very involved in activities around town, as well as in humanitarian efforts. You can catch his attention ...
Views: 8804(1 vote) - Pointers When Writing A Letter To Get Ex Back - by Submitted on Nov 27, 2011 from Andrew HunterThere are several techniques you can try to get your ex back. Since some guys might get turned off by the idea of girls pursuing them; nevertheless, there are really few choices for girls. One remarkably helpful technique that's ideal for girls is to write a letter to get ex back. Rather than ...
Views: 8787 - Should I Wait For Him to Contact Me? Don't Call Him and He Will Call You - by Submitted on Jul 17, 2017 from James UadialeShould I Wait For Him to Contact Me? Don't Call Him and He Will Call You Should I wait for him to contact me? We've all asked this question. It typically comes up when the guy you're with disappears and that call he promised he'll make, never arrives. You're left wondering what you did wrong ...
Views: 8778 - Are You Just an OPTION For Someone Else, Instead of Their PRIORITY? - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Elaine SiheraOn the welcoming page of my Relationship website I have 12 Lessons in Life which are very important to me. Among them is the statement: Never make someone your priority when to them you're only an option. Those words have ended up being the most popular search key words for the website, ...
Views: 8773(4 votes) - How To Apologize To Your Boyfriend - 6 Easy Ways - by Submitted on Jul 20, 2010 from Andrew HunterExactly how do you go about apologizing to your boyfriend once you realize it's necessary? Apologies imply fault, and for many people, the two hardest things to do are to admit they were wrong and say they're sorry. These steps are designed to help your boyfriend overcome whatever issues he's ...
Views: 8757(5 votes) - 8 Simple Rules for Contacting Your Ex - by Submitted on Nov 16, 2008 from Yangki Christine AkitengWhen trying to get your ex back, acting aggressive, needy, pushy, angry or irrational, especially at the onset of the process is usually unwise. Emotions flare up, problems multiply and smaller problems become much larger problems. What may have been manageable at the beginning becomes much more ...
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