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He loves me, he loves me not, he loves me… and her too? I can’t tell you how many times friends or clients have complained about their disenchanting, painful encounters with “leakers.” Men and women who seem so great at first, almost to good to be true and then…wham, bam, ouch, waah…
What’s a ... Views: 1872
Is It Possible To Stay Lovers For Life?
For twenty years Sharyn Wolf, LCSW has been a marriage counselor and psychotherapist practicing in Manhattan New York City. She is considered a relationship expert whose advices and suggestions have supposedly helped married couples to build successful ... Views: 2685
One of my favorite accounts of sacred sex is contained in the Hua Hu Ching, a little-known collection of teachings attributed (as is much Daoist wisdom) to master Laozi (Lao Tzu). In the Walker translation, which includes material passed down orally, Laozi warns:
Although most people spend ... Views: 4687
Seduction is a process of building up attraction and developing trust to your woman. Just like any other reaction that requires a catalyst to reach the optimum standards, seduction is a catalyst that helps you to win a woman over.
In most cases, man bears the responsibility of seduction. You ... Views: 3513
I grew up hearing “NO” a lot. As much as I rebelled against the ideas that I can’t have what I want, that deprivation is somehow noble, and that I certainly can’t have it all, I internalized those ideas and lived them out for years and years.
Yet a part of me always knew it wasn’t true. I ... Views: 1185
Face it, when it comes to giving a woman real orgasm is like being in the episode of CSI- elusive, mind-boggling and requires hard evidence. On the contrary, some cocky men brag that giving women real orgasm is like a walk in the park. But the truth of the matter is that, 75% of women cannot ... Views: 8109
Each of us is exposed to and bombarded by – on a daily basis – an evil that is extremely enticing and appealing, so selfishly gratifying (temporarily), so unavoidably addictive, and so incredibly damaging to our thoughts, lives, families, and society. It is a plague and modern day slavery that ... Views: 17361
As a Relationship Confidant, I often hear that women wonder how long they should wait before having sex. My answer would depend on what the woman wants out of the relationship. If she is looking for a solid committed relationship and she just met the guy I would answer very differently than if ... Views: 3052
Most men snooze after sex, but do women?
Personally, I become energized in a relaxed, relieved, happy, “let’s go get some things accomplished now” kind of a way.
I recently heard about a study on The Today Show where men and women respond differently to partnering, mating, and being ... Views: 1194
Brian is an investment backer in his early forties who, in graduate business school, first began to visit prostitutes, spend money on phone sex, compulsively masturbate and, finally spend as much as 5-10 hours a day looking at internet porn. When sexually acting out, he would feel that someone ... Views: 4095
Aren’t sexual intimacy problems everywhere? People who have come in for emotional intimacy issues can be communicating clearly to their partner: “Get lost!” “It’s all YOUR fault!” It’s so very normal to get caught up in these communication pitfalls. It’s a negative loop of hope, desire, ... Views: 2593
Want to have better sex in the new year? Apply these principles to your life and you'll not only have a more pleasurable sexual relationship, but a healthier, richer, more fulfilling relationship all around.
1. Keep Priorities Straight
Your intimate relationship with your partner should ... Views: 1899
Here are ten characteristics that can indicate sex addiction:
Uncontrollable sexual behaviour;
Considerable consequences caused by sexual behaviour;
Not be able to stop despite these considerable consequences;
Persistently pursue self-damaging behaviour or behaviour that carries with it big ... Views: 1545
Just like fine wine, women get better with age – and so does the sex. During our younger years, social time is spent either in excessive party-mode or completely focused on academic and personal development. Curiosity about sex is generally fulfilled by amateur experimentation, books, films, ... Views: 5395
The sex usually starts off great. It’s fresh, it’s exciting and you worship your partner. Why then does this excitement fade away? Why does the sex and the relationship fade out over time? Well, there are many reasons but keeping your sex life healthy is all about self growth.
As a guy, the ... Views: 1512
I learned about the destruction of Pompeii back in Grade 10 in 1954 when I was translating the ancient Latin text by the writer, Pliny, about the eruption of the volcanic mountain, Vesuvius, and the subsequent burial of the town. The devastation unleashed was the equivalent of a nuclear ... Views: 5218
In just about any kind of relationship, honesty is one of the qualities that many people want, hands down. After all, who doesn’t want a truthful, genuine and honest partner? These traits are very important, particularly in an individual’s sexual relationship with another person. While sex for ... Views: 1980
Hi there everyone!!
You've heard of living in the moment and the Power of Now, right?
Does it make sense to live life that way 100% of the time?
It actually wouldn't work. There are times when we want to contextualize the past, anticipate the future, and be conscious of impact that we ... Views: 4097
I have worked with individuals and couples for the past 42 years, and I have heard this question countless times: "Why doesn't my partner want to have sex with me?"Over and over, I discover that there is often ONE major reason he or she doesn’t want to have sex.Take Lawrence as ... Views: 5106
Do not be fooled, women are quick to criticize the shortcomings of their partner. Throw out the comforting notions that it is not the size, but what you can do with it. Women are not buying into it. In fact, over half the women asked say they want a man with a fuller, larger and firmer penis and ... Views: 3971
Yes, your lack of volume is the issue. I can’t tell you how many people get in touch with me because of this problem. And, it doesn’t just affect those who are soft-spoken.
The amount of volume needed in a loud bar or club (or even a wedding) is at least 50% more that what I refer to as ... Views: 2400
Open relationships are otherwise known as polygamous or polyamorous relationships. It is defined as a situation wherein couples go into mutual agreement to date and engage in sexual activity with other people although they still continue being in a relationship with each other. In the past, ... Views: 3118
If you’re a guy and you’ve been hanging around a girl you like quite a lot, but nothing sexual happened between you, chances are you’re in the friend zone. Here’s how to escape it.
The friend zone is an emerging concept in to world of dating and male-female encounters. This term is used to ... Views: 3397
Sex isn’t just something that a lot of us enjoy; it’s also something that could improve health. Yes, sex is actually good for everyone! Studies prove that having sex regularly helps increase immunity from viruses, reduces stress, and also helps protect a man’s prostate gland by emptying the ... Views: 1720
With Thanksgiving drawing near, I believe this would be an ideal time to discuss the role of gratitude, validation and appreciation in the art of lovemaking.
Of course, when we feel validated and appreciated in any aspect of our lives it deepens our sense that we truly matter in this crazy ... Views: 5696
I want to address an important issue from my reader, about guys who lose their sexual mojo when they're settled with you (something that isn't very uncommon -surprise, surprise- which is the main reason why my marriage fell apart). So here it goes:
I have been with the same man for almost 3 ... Views: 24797
An email from a troubled young man asked, "Is Law of Attraction not working for me because I'm gay?" He went on to say that his life was “doomed no matter what” because of the “sinful” nature of his sexuality. He even mentioned that few of his gay and lesbian associates have successful ... Views: 1649
Swingers are all around you. They may be your neighbor, a co-worker, or the person sitting next to you. Swingers come in all races, shapes and sizes. Most swinging couples range in age from 20 to 50, are educated, and many have professional occupations. Be cautious on limiting yourself to Ken ... Views: 1616
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Keywords: Remember, Invincible Fourteen, Young Again
Do you remember the feeling that you were invincible, that no one could cause you any harm?
Do you ... Views: 1783
Is there any "right" or "wrong" sexual behavior? Here is how to step out of this dilemma and make your sexuality a source of freedom and joy...
Sidenote: words "sexual behavior"" jump out at you a bit too many times from the text of the article. Neglect it. It's done with a sole purpose to ... Views: 6096
Question:
The question that I am about to ask is one I feel a lot of parents and educators try to abdicate. My belief and curiosity comes from a desire to be a good parent myself and to be prepared for the situation(s) when and if they happen. I am also aware that others may have ... Views: 5254
How to Make First Sex Fabulous Sex
By Al Link and Pala Copeland - 4 Freedoms Relationship Tantra
The heat is on. You can literally feel it arcing between you. Whether it’s an enticing stranger you’ve just met or a special someone you’ve been slowly getting to know, ... Views: 4454
Yes, Fran Drescher is a beautiful woman, but when she opens her mouth to speak, it is hard to take her seriously. If you are hoping to meet the man of your dreams, have you ever considered what your speaking voice is saying about you? Do you sound nasal and high-pitched or whiny and irritating ... Views: 5658
Sometimes the fire dies. The flame doesn’t have get enough oxygen and the embers are left to fizzle out. I am talking about passion in the bedroom. The steamy feelings that keep you occupied in wrapped sheets and your lover’s limbs.
Busy schedules, stress and age can all decrease those ... Views: 2208
Okay ladies, are you ready to discover how to become multi-orgasmic? Any woman can learn to experience multiple orgasms and Serial Orgasms with training, practice, and of course, surrendering to pleasure and her own body.
First of all, in order for a woman to become multi-orgasmic and serial ... Views: 1255
Hello Ladies,
Some of you believe to have figured men out, while others are clueless when it comes to understanding men. Even though most men are different, they have similarities at the same time. Every good woman should know how to satisfy and keep her man happy in bed. Believe it or not: ... Views: 4759
Ladies, are you fed up with all the nonsense advice you get from magazines promising you to lose 50 lbs in 3 days? So am I. As a guy, I am a just another "victim" of these tips and I urge you gorgeous ladies to stop listening to that nonsense. Instead, here's some common sense from me. I won't ... Views: 28055
Ladies, let's get real here for a second. You've probably read dozens of magazine articles on making a guy fall in love with you and let's face it - most of them are complete nonsense. They are missing the essence of what makes men go nuts, like, for real and only touch the whole topic on the ... Views: 14581
It happens to everyone: sex becomes routine or passionless. It doesn’t have to be that way! In fact, it’s easy to get that tingle back if you try easy ideas to generate new excitement.
1. Sex 911. That’s right, you can declare a “sexual emergency.” Text your partner and tell them that ... Views: 8933
Whenever someone asks me what I do for a living, I'm always a little bit hesitant to tell them that I run an online sex toy store. There are so many negative connotations in that one phrase that usually causes surprise, some disdain and usually I get no respect from my peers, or even parents and ... Views: 10255
1. Your bubbliness and extroversion does not distract us from the fact that you are fat.
Observe a group of girls in a bar. There is always one who is louder, acts crazy and seems to dance and drink more than everyone else. She's very talkative and laughs a lot - she's the centre of attention ... Views: 2131
Ladies, you can find a bunch of tips out there on the internet on pleasing your boyfriend and being a better girlfriend for him, but most of the advice out there is missing the essence. You have to focus on pushing the right buttons in your boyfriends mind so that he'll literally go mad of ... Views: 21998
Do you want to learn how get a guy literally addicted to you? No problem. You can do it, all you need is the right information. I've been with more women than I can remember, and I'm not telling you this to brag. I don't care if you believe me or not, I just want to help you become more ... Views: 15997
Marriage can get boring. And when it's boring - it's usually because of bad sex. Your husband's maybe just not that into you any more. Or he is - you just don't know which switch to turn on in him. Spice it up a bit, your sex life could be far more interesting. Here's 5 real life ways to make ... Views: 13960
Ladies, if you are serious about satisfying him better than ever before - listen up. Men aren't as complicated as they may seem at first. If you want to conquer him and make him go insane over you, you have to give him the best sex humanly possible. You have to give him more pleasure in bed than ... Views: 37500
Ever been on a date that really sucked? That you wondered if you could successfully drown yourself in your soup before the waiters pulled you out? Maybe you couldn’t think of anything to say or maybe everything that came out of the other person’s mouth grinded on your soul a little bit and made ... Views: 1371
Most men don't understand what the biggest threat facing their life can be. The number one cause of cancer in men is the prostate. Now that it is time for you to learn how to keep your prostate healthy, you have to recognize that there are very specific types of nutrients that your body must ... Views: 3259
Sexual problems are fairly common in men and in most cases these can be easily treated. In simple terms, sexual problems in men refer to any problem that prevents a man or the couple from enjoying satisfying sexual activity. More men have been seeking help and returning to normal sexual activity ... Views: 2687
Aphrodisiac foods are nothing but the food or drink or drug that stimulates sexual desire.
Naturally have a lot of Aphrodisiac foods that spice up your sexual thoughts and stimulate sexual hormones.
Please note every medicine has some side-effects, except homeopathic medicines (these ... Views: 7173
Being in a romantic relationship has its rewards. And one of these great rewards, other than having someone to love and be loved in return, is having the chance to experience the magic of sex. Sex may not be the only thing we think of in a relationship but it is something to consider.
It may ... Views: 1195