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You may or may not be aware of this, but while a lot of women want to be beautiful, so many couldn’t be bothered putting the effort, time and commitment to color coordinating and matching their clothes, put some make up on and smile for the day. It sounds crazy, but it's true. Most women only ... Views: 1384
When you think about attracting men and winning their hearts you may not think of compliments and using them to your advantage, but I'm here to tell you that if you use compliments the right way you can puff up their manhood and win their affection.
When we give compliments we tend to focus ... Views: 1283
I met my husband three years ago on Match.com. Many times when I tell people that they get this shocked look on their face as if to say “What were you thinking by dating on-line????” Well to be honest, it wasn’t my idea.
I was a 10+ year Realtor who was suddenly faced with limited ... Views: 1709
Asking for what we want can difficult. As regards relationship, historically in Western society men have been the askers and pursuers. They are the gender that is expected to take the first step. This is challenging for many men and women. It is not easy for a man to ask when he does not know if ... Views: 1152
You like him, but does he really like you? Is there any way to tell how well a first date is going?
1) What day of the week did your date ask you out?
It’s generally a good sign if your date asks you out with a few days notice — it means he’s thinking about you and wants to lock in weekend ... Views: 6366
HOW TO AVOID THE SINGLE SUPPLEMENT
Many cruise lines charge extra when you have a cabin to yourself, anywhere from 25 percent to 100 percent extra over the per person rate with double occupancy. But some cruise companies are single friendly. They have small cabins for single occupancy or ... Views: 1552
Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Expert , writes... ...
As a coach, giving advice on dating and relationships is my passion. It's understandable to feel skittish, especially if you've been hurt before. You want things to start out on a stable footing, but you feel like your past starts to ... Views: 993
When you first start dating someone, there are a few specific clues you could recognize as red flags. Nobody is perfect, but there are few characteristics and behaviors that should absolutely be deal breakers for you. Below you can find the Dating with Dignity List of Deal Breakers in ... Views: 2236
Dear Dr. Romance:
I live in Southeast Asia. I knew about you from the internet. I have a problem that I haven't found the way out till now. Before I tell you anything, first please forgive me if my english is not too well. I am in my late 20's and for most local people at that ... Views: 1598
Dear Dr. Romance,
I have read some of your articles and am very impressed. I am about to write about something that will probably be one of the most bizarre cases you have ever heard. About 12 years ago, I felt a strong attraction towards a girl who was in my high school. We both were in ... Views: 1674
Dear Dr. Romance:
I have been reading your article "The Fine Art of Squirrel Hunting". I certainly will appreciate any wisdom or guidance that you can share. I'm a minister who ministers to congregations, and I was widowed several years ago.
1. I've pretty much ... Views: 1009
Dear Dr Romance : I just read about you and some articles you wrote about Age Differences in Relationships and really enjoyed what you had to say and how you said it. I now have a question: I am 49 years old and very attractive. I look ... Views: 1018
Dear Dr. Romance:
I am in an unusual situation. I was speaking to a random person on Facebook one time. We became Facebook “friends”, and we kept chatting back and forth on e-mail. This girl was already dating someone (not very happy though), but I guess she kind of ... Views: 1036
Dear Dr. Romance:
I am in an unusual situation. I was speaking to a random person on Facebook one time. We became Facebook “friends”, and we kept chatting back and forth on e-mail. This girl was already dating someone (not very happy though), but I guess she kind of ... Views: 1036
Dear Dr. Romance
A question for you: I have a female friend that I dated for 7 months - she dumped me - and is, I think, dating some other guy.
The question is: I have tried to ask her for 5 or 6 different events - and have gotten turned down for each one - with some excuse - the excuse sounds ... Views: 1278
Billions of people are doing it every single day. In fact, you could say it makes the world go round. Some of the people who are doing it are very young. Some are very old.
And billions of hours are spent on it every single day.
What is this activity that is so common that nearly everyone ... Views: 2737
If you are unsuccessful in developing an intimate relationship you might – like many others - perceive yourself as being “particular” – hereby justifying to yourself the fact that you are unsuccessful. But the fact of the matter is, “particular” are those who are willing to develop ... Views: 1214
Do You Want Your Ex Back?
September 27, 2011 by Kara Oh
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Do You Want Your Ex Back? by relationship author Kara OhIt’s a common scenario. He breaks up with you, then BAM!, he’s immediately in a new relationship. But you’re still in love with ... Views: 1394
A few years ago a surprising survey discovered that people who spent a lot of time on the Internet were a lot lonelier than people who didn’t spend much time on the Net.
This was an unexpected find because many people view the Internet and e-mail as a great way to make and keep connections ... Views: 3883
A low self-esteem might push you to impress your dates and “potential others” by being “too nice”, “too accommodating”, “too easygoing” and so on, whether when you post your profile on social media or when you meet new people face-to-face. Even though you might be going on endless dates, as long ... Views: 1674
Introverts can enjoy the parties, too, if they respect who they are and don’t let negative fantasies take over. Limit your social engagements to those that are manageable or meaningful to you, and allow plenty of time for being by yourself or with a single friend, if that's what makes you ... Views: 1848
Dr. Romance writes:
I’ve been dealing with a lot of unwanted changes, and it’s not easy. Losses, disappointments, changes – we all struggle when life doesn’t go our way. Why is it so hard to handle change? Then there are the changes we want to make, fight hard to make – losing weight, ... Views: 1021
Are you really ready for a relationship?
So often I hear, I want a boyfriend, I’m married but I’m not happy. I just got divorced and I don’t want to make the same mistake again. When will I find someone? It occurred to me recently that in order to be in a relationship that works, it’s ... Views: 1445
Hello ladies - today we're talking about what to expect in love and dating. Expectations can be a useful meter to test a particular guy against what you feel you deserve. The obvious problem though is setting these expectations too high and demanding more from a potential relationship than is ... Views: 2148
Why Should You Use Facebook Flirting?
Put simply, Facebook flirting done correctly could easily lead to a real life meeting. Apart from being free and fun, Facebook helps you to be a lot more casual and a lot more undercover. Using Facebook, there is also less risk compared to a phone call and ... Views: 3118
Trying to figure out the right words to string together with a woman is one of those things that a lot of men tend to struggle with. We all know there have been times when it seems like we can put our foot in our mouths when we are talking to a woman and to really be able to get past this stage ... Views: 1101
Good job! You landed the date. Let's go over a few things that will help make the date a good one.
On a first date, you can find out what sort of woman you are dealing with. I do not recommend distracting dates like concerts or the theater. These make it hard to really have a conversation ... Views: 2223
There are many small things that go into making a great date. Only a few big errors in judgment can make it a horrible experience for both you and your date. Here are five frequent faux pas that men commonly make on first dates and how to avoid them.
Taking About the Ex
This is one of the ... Views: 1021
Its possible there is a girl you are aiming to put the moves on and you just want to learn how to make an impression on a girl.
Typically, I do not suggest you try to impress women. It’s a bit useless and a thing that any girl worth dating will see through. What's a bigger factor is just ... Views: 2323
Time and time again, the question seems to come up from men that really want to turn around their personal life and finally get the reaction from women that they want. Guys want to know how they can turn a friend to a girlfriend and there is a very common and a very good reason for this. Men ... Views: 3595
Need some Fun Date Ideas? You've come to the right place. A lot of the fun dating ideas listed below are not recommended as a first date unless you know the person very well or have known them for a long time. But if you have had a few dates and want to really impress, the list below should be ... Views: 6871
I actually prefer to go on dates at night time as opposed to the day time. I prefer it because it means that I can get dressed up and have a drink in a better atmosphere. The key here is that it all depends on your personality and the personality of your date, you need to think about what they ... Views: 3839
Are you feeling prepared to try out internet dating and contact a lot of excellent girls? Here I'm will describe the right way to build your user profile page to ensure it really excels and I will explain to you how to get her away from the net and hanging out with you in person.
For your ... Views: 759
Plenty of guys nowadays are really concerned with how to begin a conversation with a woman. I can relate why. It is that significant first minute when you proceed from being absolute strangers to possibly something more. Any time you don’t act in the correct way, then it will likely be plenty ... Views: 864
It’s that time of year again. Countless Valentine’s Day ads remind you of your happy love life, or if you’re like most people, your less than perfect romantic life.
Contrary to the implications of this commercial holiday, there’s nothing wrong with being single, or having a non-traditional ... Views: 1052
A lot of guys will try and find any excuse that they can to avoid approaching women. They will say things to themselves like, she probably is not interested or she probably already has a boyfriend or something along those lines. More often than not, it's the nerves that keeps them from ... Views: 1467
A lot of men hold back from approaching women due to fear. They are afraid that they will be rejected and as a result, they allow beautiful women to pass them by, instead of taking the chance to approach her and get to know her. You cannot expect to improve your dating life if you are not ... Views: 1189
Have you ever looked out into the ocean of ‘single’ possibilities and wondered, “Where are all the good ones?” Maybe you’ve thought to yourself, “All the good ones are married”, or “I have no idea how to find who I am looking for.” Would you like the secret answer to these questions? Would you ... Views: 946
It's the age old question that men have been asking for years. How can you attract more women? How can you go from the nice guy that ends up as a friend to being the guy that women want to date? Most men never really come up with the answer to this question. I can't tell you how many guys I ... Views: 3092
Knowing how to attract women is the cornerstone to any kind of success dating women.
You have to be able to cause a woman to feel attracted to you, if you want to be seen as more than just a friend or a nice guy. Most men are not able to do this with women they meet. Instead, they end up ... Views: 1410
One of things that I get from other guys is that they sometimes feel like a fool when they are flirting with women. True, it can put you in a place where you feel like you are on stage and that she is noticing everything about you, and this can make you feel a bit put off or self conscious, but ... Views: 1113
Okay so maybe it’s the fact that it has been way too long since you have gone out on a date that you have basically become celibate, or possibly all your pals seem to be hooking up and wondering why you are not, but you want to know how to get a date. Let me share a few things you can do to ... Views: 1590
Getting a girlfriend, to many guys can be a difficult endeavour. They have to join tons of online dating sites, use social media, join a cooking class in the hopes that they will find the perfect girlfriend. Yes, these are some of the things you can do to find yourself a girlfriend. Or you can ... Views: 1150
Okay, if you’re reading, I am going to expect that you could now walk up to women and hold a decent dialogue. The next thing is how to get a woman's telephone number so you're able to go out with her again.
The most effective way to get a girl’s phone number is to just tell her to give it to ... Views: 4120
Online dating has become so popular these days that everyone wants to try it. So, if you are also looking for a partner through online dating but are clueless on how to start the first conversation on it. If you have fears about ruining your image when you start talking or do not know how to ... Views: 651
A lot of men out there want to know how to talk to women in a cool and confident way that will build attraction. It is actually pretty easy if you stop doing all the normal, things men do that just turn women off.
These are my personal secrets on how to talk to women:
Quit using pick up ... Views: 2154
It’s often been said that the number one fear that people suffer from is speaking in public. What is not quite as well known is that the second most popular fear is speaking to strangers. You only have to walk about during the day in a busy city to appreciate this. A buzzing metropolis of people ... Views: 1611
Knowing how to use conversation is a big part of being able to succeed with women. You have to be able to talk to women in a way that keeps their interest and their curiosity, otherwise, they will not feel the attraction towards you that you would like them to feel. A lot of men have trouble ... Views: 1034
Five Sure-Fire Ways to Tell He Is Definitely Interested in YOU!
Whether you are making eyes at some hunky guy over your latte, or on a first date with a man you think might be a keeper, you need to know how to tell if a man is interested in you. Check in using our Five Point “Is He Into Me” ... Views: 2381
One of the easiest and best ways to create a feeling of attraction between you and any woman that you want to approach and attract is to use humor. Making a woman laugh is one of the best ways to make her feel comfortable AND attracted to you, all at the same time. So many men wonder about all ... Views: 1123