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By Sam Vaknin
Author of "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited"
The abuser abuses his intimate partners, significant others, and nearest and dearest because it helps him to regulate his excruciating abandonment anxiety in 4 ways:
(1) By devaluing others, he restores his sense of ... Views: 190
When your guy loses interest or breaks up with you, it can be a time when you feel miserable and alone. You may replay the situation in your mind and wonder what you could have done differently. Perhaps you know that you acted needy or demanding or perhaps you have no idea what went wrong. You ... Views: 153
If you have a situation like me, then you might feel stuck like I do. I am working really hard to get my boyfriend back because I acted like an idiot. I didn't know how to stop myself from feeling possessive. I hated when he went out with his friends and talked to other girls. I couldn't stand ... Views: 193
A common question I receive is about whether or not someone may be able to get back with his or her previous other half after this person is the one caused the relationship to go sour in the first place. After some time has passed and they believe they have mended their ways, they wonder if the ... Views: 204
I Keep Thinking About My Ex Boyfriend / Girlfriend - I Can't Stop Thinking About My Ex
Great scavenger hunts lead you on an adventure from spot to spot, following clever clues to obtain your cache. On the other hand, horribly thought out scavenger tips will have you facing oncoming traffic in ... Views: 141
Reconnecting with an ex lover after a breakup can be extremely tough, especially if the breakup was your fault. Depending on how the relationship ended, the actions you take to get your ex lover back will greatly vary.
The best way to approach your ex after the breakup, how to properly ... Views: 188
You may be wondering how I know I can get my ex boyfriend back and why I think he still loves me but seriously, I can and I do. I can get my ex back because I have been through this before and I know he still loves me because he isn't seeing any body new. Have you said this to yourself ... Views: 131
I want him back, a common enough feeling for women to have. I truly believe it is possible to find new love from a past romance.
I want you to notice that you once had a connection with your ex, re-establishing that connection is actually easier because of this.
I know the connection hurts ... Views: 140
How To Stop Missing Your Ex - What To Do When You Start Missing Your Ex
There is no easy way on getting over a break up. It takes time and tons of effort to totally forget and accept everything that has happened. Regardless of your gender, it has never been easy to let go of someone you ... Views: 142
It can be difficult to know when a relationship needs to end, particularly if you've been with your partner for a long time. While there are things you can do to improve a relationship that has simply become stagnant, sometimes it's best for everyone to simply cut your losses and end things. ... Views: 142
So, your boyfriend hates you, or perhaps he said he doesn't love you anymore and you feel like you've just lost the most important thing in your life. Don't worry too much, most of the time this is not a statement of true feelings, and more of a reflection of a moment of anger or situational ... Views: 101
What should you do to win your ex back? You just need to speak to your ex without any hostility. It'd be difficult as breakup is something that affects a person very much emotionally and is very disturbing. But if you want to get your ex to call you back and maintain contact with you, you need ... Views: 82
What you do after the break up matters! Relationships on the verge of permanently falling apart can still be saved, but only few are successful. That's because unfavorable moves and mistakes are done on days following the big breakup. Heartbroken people are so weighed down by what happened that ... Views: 106
Harboring ill feelings on being dumped will affect your present and your future. No matter what the reason for the breakup if you forgive and forget you earn the respect of your ex and also earn an opportunity of being lovers once again. If you too want to date your ex boyfriend then read ... Views: 193
The two of you have had a massive fight. You're worried because it's been several days since it happened and you have yet to hear from him. Being a woman in this position is never easy. You replay the conflict back over in your mind and you wish with everything that you could find a way to ... Views: 171
Trying to convince your ex soon after the breakup will not yield positive results; in fact will only firm their resolve to stay clear of you. You need a much nuanced approach to convince them that you are their best bet and here is how you can do that. Read on
Let the anger dissipate
No ... Views: 182
If you are reading this then you want to know how to get him back after a break up.
There are several ways to go about this sort of thing but truth be told, many of them do not work and none of them will work on every guy.
You know him best so check out these tips and choose the ones you ... Views: 158
So ladies, want to know how to get a man back after a break up no matter the situation ?
After recently getting back with my girlfriend of 3 years I know what your going threw at the moment and can relate to you.
That is why i have some info you should take serious.
Check this out, only ... Views: 165
Just when you think that your relationship is wonderful, something unexpected happens and your relationship is ruined. Whether this be a relationship that just begun, or a marriage losing your spouse can be one of the most difficult things to deal with. You are left with pain and questions that ... Views: 125
For those of us women that still have feelings for our ex, it can become a emotional rollercoaster. Many times men can be quite difficult to read, and you don't know whether or not he still loves you. You want him to be crazy about you like he once was, but are unsure of how to make it happen. ... Views: 171
How To Get Your Ex Attention?
So you are sick and tired of your ex acting as if you don't exist. You know your ex sees you, but they don't seem to notice you enough to want you back. Crushed, you try harder and harder, only to find your ex still having no response. Let's stop this game right ... Views: 141
TOP SECRET ABOUT CHILDHOOD PTSD
Are you experiencing too many PTSD Triggers?
Do you still get “startled” or “react with rage or suffer other symptoms?
I have shocking news for you. You haven’t fully released all your childhood demons or core PTSD issues.
The least known fact about ... Views: 142
Are you interested in possibly getting back together with your ex after a recent break up? Can I ask you this tough question? How are you feeling after just recently breaking up with your ex? Getting back together or reconciling with an ex after a breakup is very possible if you're determined to ... Views: 125
Your girlfriend just broke up with you and now your feelings have turn into feeling very alone. What should you do now? This is all depending a pond you. You should start by figuring out if you want your ex girlfriend back or not. If you find that you have no ambition to try to get your ex ... Views: 131
Your boyfriend just broke up with you and now your feelings have turn into feeling very alone. What should you do now? This is all depending a pond you. You should start by figuring out if you want your ex boyfriend back or not. If you find that you have no ambition to try to get your ex ... Views: 115
Is there anything more mortifying than making a fool of yourself in front of the ex boyfriend you still love? If you've done it, you're likely going to say it's the worst thing that can possibly happen to a woman. It's not, not in the big picture of life, but it is awful in the moment and in the ... Views: 87
Relationships can sometimes be something of a challenge. If you've been dating a guy for awhile and you've fallen into a predictable routine you may start to feel as though you are being taken advantage of. Many women feel this when they realize that their once attentive man, now rarely calls ... Views: 82
Feeling regret about anything is never an easy thing. When that regret is tied to a long term relationship it's a horrible feeling. In the heat of the moment, we may find ourselves in a position where we feel a break up is in order. That's until we realize that the man we love has just walked ... Views: 91
"I want my ex boyfriend to miss me." Have you said that recently? Do you wish for nothing more than a second chance with your ex? Sadly, many women feel exactly the same way you do. Going through a break up is hard enough. It's overwhelming when you are still in love with your boyfriend. It's ... Views: 111
Every quarter iPhone comes with all the new games that have been released for all the fans that can make use of them as they commute back and forth from office. There is lot of role playing games which many enjoy. Here players take the role of characters in the fictional setting through ... Views: 78
There is a cruel game being played on and in our romantic relationships. It is one that I have devoted my adult life to conquering, attempting to give one individual at a time the tools necessary to be victorious. Unfortunately, we enter romance with no experience and zero preparation. Our ... Views: 121
"I want to get my ex back, but everything I do seems to push him away!" "How can I get my ex boyfriend back when everything I do seems to take us farther apart?"
I get questions like this every day from women who want to repair their relationships with their ex-boyfriends--but who seem to ... Views: 143
"I miss my ex boyfriend" is the sorrowful cry of a woman suffering from a recent break up. This can be an extremely painful and depressing thing for any girl to go through. Especially if she is suffering as a result of a break up which was unforeseen and completely unexpected. There are many ... Views: 113
Should you tell your ex boyfriend you miss him? You do so wouldn't the right thing be to express that to him? It will make him realize just how much he means to you and he'll want you back, right? Wrong! Telling your ex how much you truly miss him is actually an incredibly bad idea for several ... Views: 112
Going through a break up when you are still in love with your boyfriend is its own unique type of emotional suffering. Sitting idly by as the man of your dreams packs up his things and walks out of your life is one of the most challenging situations any woman will ever have to face. If you're ... Views: 76
Love doesn't come along every day. Most women know this all too well, so when they do find a man they love, they will likely do everything in their power to hold onto him. Unfortunately, sometimes relationships end. However, those deep feelings of adoration can't simply disappear. If you are ... Views: 91
If you and the woman you love aren't together anymore you are either feeling one of two things. You may be feeling as though the weight of the world has been lifted off your shoulders because the relationship was incredibly difficult and tense. On the other hand you may be saying to yourself I ... Views: 127
Are you worried that your ex will never come back to you and you will never be able to get him back? Do you miss him and wish that you knew what to do to get him to change his mind? Do you dream of being held by him again and wish that this whole nightmare was over with and that he would just ... Views: 120
Are you missing your ex boyfriend? "I miss my ex boyfriend" seems to be so common among women who have just broken up. It is a human instinct that you miss a person or thing that does not belong to you anymore and this theory can also be applied to relationships.
However, you need to know ... Views: 119
We broke up in March, did not have any kind of contact until May when I initiated contact via Facebook. We send each other emails and talk on the phone once in a while. Back in June I asked him if we should give the relationship another chance and he said he is not ready to get back with me ... Views: 108
"I dumped my girlfriend and now I want her back." When a man says this it's always tinged with a deep sense of regret. It's unfortunate that we can't get a quick glimpse into the future before we end a relationship. Sometimes the grass seems greener on the other side but it just ends with you ... Views: 105
You regret it, don’t you? You had no idea what a wrong move it was at the time. To you it felt right. You believed that breaking up with your girlfriend was the absolute right thing to do. You felt distant from her, the love had changed and you realized that if you let her go you’d be free to ... Views: 124
You and your girlfriend have gone through a difficult transition in your relationship. You’re not together anymore. She’s stopped virtually all contact with you and when you two do communicate she never mentions the idea of getting back together. It’s painful and that’s incredibly ... Views: 109
I recently got a letter from a visitor to the blog who said essentially, “my boyfriend is playing mind games, and I’m tired of it.” That I could understand. It’s difficult trudging through the emotions you’re already feeling related to the break up, but when your ex decides now is the time to ... Views: 112
What does it mean when a guy says he wants to take a break? By far, this is the one question that women most often ask me about their boyfriends. It’s one of those very obscure things that men say that we can’t quite understand. We want to believe it means one thing. That’s because all of our ... Views: 82
You’ve suffered through the break up and now you’re trying to put your heart back together. It’s hard, isn’t it? Emotions are fluid and constantly changing as you try to absorb that you and your boyfriend aren’t together anymore. The situation takes on an even more sombre tone if you haven’t ... Views: 92
There’s a question that I’m asked on an almost daily basis on my blog. It’s asked by women and it typically follows a rather painful break up. “I think my ex boyfriend is seeing someone else. What should I do?” You may be asking it too now that you’ve realized that your ex has moved on and is ... Views: 76
The question you’re wishing you had an answer to is, “how can I make him realize what he lost?” It’s understandable given the circumstances that you’ve been forced to deal with. You were dumped by a man you utterly adored. You know, deep within your heart, that you’re the perfect woman for him. ... Views: 109
Do guys ever want their ex back? There’s a feeling of sheer and utter panic that a woman feels after a break up if she still loves her ex. You know the feeling all too well, don’t you? You break out in a cold sweat at night when you dream about the man you love dating other women. You start ... Views: 177
One question I’m repeatedly asked by women on my blog is, “should I tell my ex boyfriend I’m doing no contact or not?” It’s a legitimate question and if you’re unsure you should always double check either by searching for some information online or asking someone with a bit more insight. Here’s ... Views: 65