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- Abused Children: Why Do They Have Boundary Problems? - by Submitted on May 13, 2013 from Oliver J R CooperThis article has the description abused children and therefore gives the impression that it is going to be all about children. However, this will be about adults who were abused as children and as a result of this now have a real challenge with boundaries. When it comes to child abuse, there ...
Views: 53 - Are You A Punching Bag - by Submitted on May 08, 2013 from Cindy OrtizIn some relationships, unhealthy ones to say the least, one person or the other uses their partner as a punching bag as a way of punishment; punishment for hurting them and making them unhappy. Instead of taking responsibility for their own happiness, they make you suffer. They may criticize ...
Views: 62 - How to Decide When to End a Long Term Relationship - by Submitted on May 07, 2013 from Joshua UebergangBeing in a long term relationship can have so many wonderful aspects. People fall in love and remain together all the time. However, being in a long term relationship can also become stale and boring. There are times when stale and boring can be fixed, and there are times when other issues mean ...
Views: 76 - What's Behind Your Anger? - by Submitted on Apr 22, 2013 from Zarla LeahThe majority of people on the planet have had some sort of problem with anger and with people doing things that make them feel angry. People have looked at and dealt with anger in a variety of ways. I want to speak about anger today and what I have learned about it over the years. For a few ...
Views: 71(1 vote) - 3 Smart Moves for Women who are Separating - by Submitted on Apr 17, 2013 from Nancy KayIf you are considering separating from your husband, you are probably overwhelmed with the emotional swings of wondering what will happen next. You may not even want a divorce and are trying hard to reconcile. During a time like this, you may not realize just how critical it is to take ...
Views: 185(1 vote) - I should have said “NO” but I couldn’t. Have I been manipulated? - What is Emotional Manipulation and how does it work? - by Submitted on Apr 17, 2013 from Zita FeketeHow many times have I felt that way and how often have I heard this sigh coming from others before I began to deal with Emotional Manipulation? Weeding out manipulative attempts from straightforward communication or rightful influence is not always an easy ride. Cloud of negative ...
Views: 101 - Relationships: Why Do Some People Sabotage Healthy Relationships? - by Submitted on Apr 29, 2013 from Oliver J R CooperTo have a relationship that is healthy and functional is something that most people want in this world. Now, for some people this is reality and for others; this is often nothing more than a good idea and something that eludes them. And while there are people who have fulfilling relationships ...
Views: 134 - Use This Method to Get Him Back Fast - by Submitted on Apr 12, 2013 from Uadiale AmberWant to get him back fast? The secret to getting him back fast involves a number of things on your part. The tips below assume that you and your boyfriend are experiencing a minor break up - as in, you two are still on speaking terms. If this is not the case, continue to read on because I do ...
Views: 160 - The Art of Getting Your Girlfriend Back - by Submitted on Apr 12, 2013 from Uadiale AmberIt's heartbreaking for a guy to hear those awful words, "I want to break up," but there is an art to getting your girlfriend back. No matter what the cause, aside from physical abuse, there are ways to win her heart all over again. Depending on what happened, it may take a lot of work, but it's ...
Views: 77 - How to Get a Girl Back - Real Tips That Work - by Submitted on Apr 12, 2013 from Uadiale AmberSuffering a break up with one's girlfriend can send you into despondency. You may struggle with continuing your daily life. However, if you want to regain this relationship, knowing how to get a girl back can determine whether or not you has a place in her future. The first thing that you ...
Views: 137 - 4 Common Pitfalls to Avoid When Dating Your Ex Boyfriend - by Submitted on Apr 11, 2013 from Uadiale AmberDating your ex boyfriend might be a great idea. Some relationships really are meant to be no matter how many obstacles you come across along the way. When you're making the decision about whether or not dating your ex boyfriend really is a good idea it's important to weigh all your options and ...
Views: 107 - Getting Your Girlfriend Back After Cheating on Her - Is it Possible? - by Submitted on Apr 11, 2013 from Uadiale AmberAre you holding out hope for getting your girlfriend back after cheating? It is possible but you'll have to tread carefully and really commit to making things work in order to pull this off. Cheating is one of the things that not only breaks her heart but also wounds her pride. It's a hard one ...
Views: 91 - How to Keep Things Real When Dating Your Ex After a Breakup - by Submitted on Apr 11, 2013 from Uadiale AmberDating your ex after a breakup may be a little bit awkward at first. You both want to keep things pleasant and you may be going to extraordinary measures to avoid making waves and really rocking the boat. What are some things you can do that will help you keep the peace without exploding from ...
Views: 99 - Guaranteed Breakup Advice to Pull You Through These Troubling Times - by Submitted on Apr 11, 2013 from Uadiale AmberBreaking up is never fun. What you need is guaranteed breakup advice to help you pull through the days and weeks following your breakup. While this is not a one size fits all solution by any means these steps will provide you some degree of comfort despite your heartache. They may even give you ...
Views: 102(1 vote) - Ready to Start Dating Again - Why Not Try Your Ex Boyfriend? - by Submitted on Apr 11, 2013 from Uadiale AmberAre you ready to start dating again? How about giving your ex a try? You can probably sit down and write a mile long list of all the reasons that dating your ex boyfriend is a bad idea. At the same time, it's quite likely that you could write an equally long list of all the reasons it's a great ...
Views: 83 - What Makes (Mike) Rice Boil? A Look at Aggressive Behavior - by Submitted on Apr 10, 2013 from Janet PfeifferAggressive behavior - many believe it is a sign of power, self-confidence, and courage. Nothing could be farther from the truth. Last week the country witnessed the termination of Rutgers University head basketball coach, Mike Rice. Video surfaced of his mean-spirited treatment of his players ...
Views: 193 - Do You Feel Trapped in a Relationship? - by Submitted on Apr 08, 2013 from Darlene LancerDo you feel trapped in a relationship you can’t leave? Of course, feeling trapped is a state of mind. No one needs consent to leave a relationship. Millions of people remain in unhappy relationships that range from empty to abusive for many reasons; however, the feeling of suffocation or of ...
Views: 234 - ***Should Your Marriage Be Saved? - by Submitted on Apr 06, 2013 from Drs. Charles and Elizabeth SchmitzBy America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts. We have said for many years, “Most marriages and relationships are worth saving and can be saved, but not all!” Here’s what we mean. In the case of abuse – sexual, physical, mental – many failing marriages and relationships are simply not worth ...
Views: 208(11 votes) - How to identify a Domestic Violence Relationship - by Submitted on Apr 05, 2013 from Priscilla BlancoHow to identify a domestic violence relationship?? Many people feel trapped in a domestic violence relationship and are in denial. Some people believe that no the problem is not that big of a deal, others believe they can change their partner, and/or there self -esteem is so low that they ...
Views: 62 - Some Tips to Get Your Ex Back – What You Will Need to Remember - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2013 from Franklin FashayaSome people say that there is no way that they want to go back with their ex girlfriends or boyfriends. On the other hand, there are men and women, who are still hopeful for having a second chance. Depending on the kind of relationship a couple had, getting back together can still be considered. ...
Views: 164 - Some Helpful Tips to Get Your ex Boyfriend Back- Strategies to Use to Get Him Back - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2013 from Franklin FashayaA break up is bad no matter the reason why broke up happened. If the break up was initiated by him, you are bound to feel cheated and sad. No wonder you want him back just because you liked the way you felt when you were with him. Get you ex back by implementing these strategies and get back to ...
Views: 156 - How to get back your Boyfriend through Text Messages - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2013 from Franklin FashayaLosing your boyfriend can be very painful and difficult to cope especially if you genuinely loved him. Forgetting the sweet memories is even more difficult. Worse still, it’s wrenching to discover you lost him to a close friend or someone you know or even someone you consider not his type. Your ...
Views: 179 - How to Get my Boyfriend Back by Using Reasonable Words and Text Messages - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2013 from Franklin FashayaRelationship issues are major causes of stressful lives among many people, men and women alike. One of the many issues that counselors have had to deal with mostly is women wanting to find out ways of how to get their ex back, how to make it work, and stuff. Even though it depends on the kind of ...
Views: 156 - Using Text Message to Win Your ex Boyfriend Back - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2013 from Franklin FashayaDo you have an ex boyfriend? Do you still have feelings for him? If you have some feelings for him, getting him back can be an idea in your mind. Who ended the relationship? If you are the one who ended it because you felt tired of the relationship at that time, as a lady you will feel shy to ...
Views: 136 - How Much Do You Owe Your Abusive Parents? - by Submitted on Mar 27, 2013 from nancy traversAbraham Lincoln did not attend his father’s funeral. When Abe was nine years old, his father, Thomas, left him and his sister for six months in their backwoods cabin in the charge of their 20-year-old cousin, Dennis Hanks. During that time, they often went hungry and barely scraped by. Later, ...
Views: 91 - The Power of Text Messages in Winning Back Your ex Boyfriend - by Submitted on Mar 25, 2013 from Franklin FashayaGetting your ex-boyfriend back is a decision you can reach after realizing his importance in your life. It depends on who ended the relationship for you to strategize on how to bring him back. There are several ways you can use, one simple method that is common and you probably prefer in getting ...
Views: 159 - How to Set Personal Boundaries - by Submitted on Mar 24, 2013 from Darlene LancerLove can’t exist without boundaries, even with your children. It’s easy to understand external boundaries as your bottom line. Think of rules and principles you live by when you say what you will or won’t do or allow. If you have difficulty saying no, override your needs to please others, or are ...
Views: 303(6 votes) - Are You In A Toxic Relationship? - by Submitted on Mar 21, 2013 from Virginia PintoAll relationships are complex. However, when one partner becomes intensely and chronically critical of the other, it becomes a “toxic” relationship. A toxic relationship is when a person essentially drains the life out of their partner with their criticism and discontent, thus killing the joy ...
Views: 253(4 votes) - Abusive Mothers: Why Are Some Mothers Abusive? - by Submitted on Apr 12, 2013 from Oliver J R CooperThere are some mothers out there who are loving and supportive and these are the epitome of the mother archetype in action. And then there are mothers who are anything but loving and supportive. These are mothers who have gone against their natural inclination to nurture. Instead of doing all ...
Views: 227 - HOW TO KEEP YOURSELF OUT OF A VIOLENT RELATIONSHIP - by Submitted on Mar 10, 2013 from Tina TessinaIt’s not always easy to tell which strangers are dangerous, and which are not. Here are some guidelines for protecting yourself and telling the difference. 1. Don’t be alone with a new person too quickly, and don’t go to the other person’s home, or allow him or her in yours, especially if you ...
Views: 229(3 votes) - Abusive Relationships: Why Does Abuse Make People Feel Uncertain? - by Submitted on Apr 12, 2013 from Oliver J R CooperWhen it comes to the consequences of abuse, there are many and some will be more severe than others. One of these consequences is that it usually creates uncertainty in the victim. And this has the potential to create all kinds of problems, because to the degree that one feels uncertain ...
Views: 190(1 vote) - Controlling Abusive Women and Men - by Submitted on Mar 08, 2013 from Joshua NyamacheProbably you have come across abusive women and men. By the way, I usually watch my favorite programs. Do you watch television regularly? Probably you do, but there happen to be some people who don't watch TV at all. They don't like watching television due to reasons best known by them. As ...
Views: 121 - How Do I Win my Lover Back – Some Tips for You - by Submitted on Feb 24, 2013 from Franklin FashayaSo your relationship with that special guy that means the whole world to you has come to an end but you are not ready to just let it go. All you are doing right now is trying hard to figure out how to win your lover back. Well, if you really need him back you will have to do something about it ...
Views: 255 - I want my ex boyfriend back but I don’t know what to do to get him back - by Submitted on Feb 24, 2013 from Franklin FashayaAfter a break up in a relationship or a break-up with your boyfriend for that matter, a lady sometimes would usually realize that the break up, perhaps was not warranted and that she is not able to erase the memory of her ex from her mind due to the fact that she still feels in love with him or ...
Views: 212 - How to use a male psychology to get your ex boyfriend back - by Submitted on Feb 24, 2013 from Franklin FashayaBefore you even attempt on how to use male psychology to get your ex boyfriend back, it is important to first understand the male psychology itself. For it is true you cannot use what you don’t know. The male psychology involves a way of thinking, the feelings felt and the emotions expressed. ...
Views: 278 - Guidelines to help you get your ex back - by Submitted on Feb 24, 2013 from Franklin FashayaA lot of women who have been left by their boyfriends and still hold them dear to their hearts would do anything to get them back. It might not be an easy task especially if you are the one who did him wrong but, if you are determined, patient and smart; you will get them back eventually. Here ...
Views: 179 - Child Abuse: Why Has Child Abuse Gone On For So Long? - by Submitted on Apr 12, 2013 from Oliver J R CooperAwareness around child abuse has gradually increased over the years. This can only be a good thing and something that will help to reduce the amount of child abuse that is in the world. However, in this day and age it may be hard for some people to comprehend why this has gone on for so long ...
Views: 190 - Steps to Get Your Ex Back - How to Get it Done! - by Submitted on Feb 23, 2013 from Charles ScholarDon't you wish there was a simple six (or twelve or twenty) solution of steps to get your ex back? Life would be so easy if there was a 12 step program for everything from cooking a better pot roast to winning at the lottery month after month, wouldn't it? Of course there are few things in ...
Views: 277 - 4 Reasons to Date Your Ex After a Breakup - by Submitted on Feb 22, 2013 from Charles ScholarThere are some occasions when it's the right move to date your ex after a breakup. But, how do you know when it's the right move to make? Obviously, this isn't the right choice for all relationships. Some are just not meant to be. That doesn't mean that yours, with a little work from both of ...
Views: 260 - To Get My Ex Back Or Not to Get My Ex Back? - by Submitted on Feb 22, 2013 from Charles ScholarAre you asking yourself do I really want to get my ex back? Sometimes that's the best place to begin. Before you start making plans to get your ex back it's wise to figure out whether you want to and why you want to. Getting back together with an ex may seem like the right thing to do when ...
Views: 134 - We Broke Up - What Do I Do Now? - by Submitted on Feb 22, 2013 from Charles ScholarYou're sitting there numb. You're probably still reeling from the experience. The only thought going through your mind is this: we broke up; where do I go from here? Breakups are never fun. Even in mutual situations where the relationship has just fizzled on all sides breakups are ...
Views: 155 - Dear Dr. Romance: Is he trying to make me jealous? - by Submitted on Feb 21, 2013 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I need your advice. My ex and I broke up a while ago but still talked everyday. Anyways, long story short, I decided I can't talk to him anymore because we both need to change and find out who we are and learn to treat each other better. He continues calling and ...
Views: 353(3 votes) - Am I in an Abusive Relationship? - by Submitted on Feb 20, 2013 from Yamaya CruzBe aware! There are people who are committing the most heinous spiritual crimes. They look like regular people. They could very well be your ex-boyfriend, current wife, or psycho girlfriend that you just can’t get rid of. Some people may refer to them as divas, or ladies men, pimps, or ...
Views: 229 - Negative People In Your Life - by Submitted on Feb 19, 2013 from Yamaya CruzI am a sporadic sleeper, so I have many nights when I am up at 3am. There is really nothing to do at this hour aside from flipping through 321 television channels, and finding nothing good to watch. Then, I try to surf the Internet, but I slowly lose interest. Finally, I try and go back to ...
Views: 160 - What a woman must know and do to get her lover back - by Submitted on Feb 16, 2013 from Franklin FashayaHuman beings are social creatures and they are bound to agree or disagree at least at some point in their lives. When two partners come together, obviously they promise to live together for the rest of their lives until death do them apart. This vow in some circumstances end up being broken of ...
Views: 240 - The intricacies of winning and getting your ex back - by Submitted on Feb 18, 2013 from Franklin FashayaIt is quite unfortunate that even the best of our relationships turn sour sometime due to reasons known or seen or vice versa. There is a myriad of reasons as to why good and sound relationships go bad leading to breakups. You might have braved petty arguments or your ex simply halted all ...
Views: 127 - Child Molester or Pedophile - Is there a difference and what drives them? - by Submitted on Feb 15, 2013 from Roni Weisberg-RossSexual abuse of children is not a new problem, nor have the statistics changed. “1 in 4 girls is sexually abused before the age of 14; 1 in 6 boys is sexually abused before the age of 16.” (Hopper, J. (1998). Child Sexual Abuse: Statistics, Research, & Resources. Boston, MA Boston University ...
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