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- 4 Real Dangers of Your Spouse’s Emotional Affair - by Submitted on Feb 10, 2019 from C Mellie SmithAn emotional affair is a situation that is not often addressed when discussing problems that can come up in a marriage. In today’s world, in which men and women work together day-in and day-out, it is very common for one partner to form a close bond with a co-worker. This bond can often ...
Views: 926(1 vote) - Does a Sexless Marriage Justify Infidelity? - by Submitted on Jan 28, 2019 from Todd CreagerI often call infidelity an interpersonal crime- a crime in the sense that it robs the betrayed partner of the opportunity to make decisions for him or herself based on what is actually true. Could you imagine driving blindfolded? Of course not- because in order to make the best driving ...
Views: 1700 - How To Get Your Husband Back From His Mistress: How To Get Your Husband To Leave The Other Woman - by Submitted on Jan 15, 2021 from Maci AspenHow To Get Your Husband Back From His Mistress: How To Get Your Husband To Leave The Other Woman Your husband is treating you not as good as before and you found out the worst truth about him, he cheated on you. You felt angry, sad and disappointed. "How can he do that to me when I still love ...
Views: 2472 - Just Found Out My Husband Cheated On Me: What Should I Do If My Husband Cheated On Me - by Submitted on Jan 15, 2021 from Maci AspenJust Found Out My Husband Cheated On Me: What Should I Do If My Husband Cheated On Me The impact of discovering infidelity can be quite hurtful and angry. Most of the women cannot believe the fact when a husband cheats. You probably have been wanting to go up to your husband and give him one ...
Views: 880 - My Husband Cheated On Me While I Was Pregnant: He Cheated On Me While I Was Pregnant - by Submitted on Jan 14, 2021 from Maci AspenMy Husband Cheated On Me While I Was Pregnant: He Cheated On Me While I Was Pregnant "I have just found out my husband cheated on me while I was pregnant. I am very disappointed, should I stay or leave him?" The man that you adored to the point where you believe that he will not cheat has ...
Views: 886 - My Husband Hates Me Because I Cheated: I Cheated On My Husband He Won't Forgive Me - by Submitted on Oct 08, 2021 from Baker JackMy Husband Hates Me Because I Cheated: I Cheated On My Husband He Won't Forgive Me Trust In a marriage is definitely one of the ways to sustain a long lasting relationship. The trust between husband and wife is broken when one party cheats on the other. However, this does not mean the ...
Views: 2181 - My Husband Is In Love With Another Woman Wants A Divorce: My Husband Is In Love With Another Woman - by Submitted on Oct 07, 2021 from Carmen JimenaMy Husband Is In Love With Another Woman Wants A Divorce: My Husband Is In Love With Another Woman My husband says he loves another woman is something that all married women most fear of. Couples often find themselves not unconnected to each other when they are living in a very routine life ...
Views: 965 - Husband Cheated I Kicked Him Out: I Kicked My Husband Out For Cheating - by Submitted on Jan 12, 2021 from Weston BrantleyHusband Cheated I Kicked Him Out: I Kicked My Husband Out For Cheating Infidelity is considered as one of the primary causes which impacts the integrity of a marriage, even resulting in divorce. Learning that your partner is cheating on you can be the worst pain in the world. Many believe it ...
Views: 1528 - How To Go About Repairing The Humiliation And Injury To Your Husband's Pride Caused By Your Affair - by Submitted on Feb 10, 2019 from C Mellie SmithWhen dealing with infidelity men are surprisingly more easily hurt and more deeply wounded than women in many cases. If you cheated on your husband and are now trying to put the pieces of your marriage back together, you both have a difficult task ahead. The Discovery of Infidelity Colors The ...
Views: 715 - Dr. Romance On Infidelity -- Stay or Go? - by Submitted on Jan 14, 2019 from Tina TessinaDiscovering your partner has been unfaithful is a shock. Your first instinct may be to run, but if you have a shared history, children and finances, you may wonder – should you stay or go? Dr. Romance shows you how to decide. When you get the devastating news that your spouse has had an ...
Views: 866(1 vote) - How to Tell if Your Husband’s Online Emotional Affair is Over - by Submitted on Jan 02, 2019 from C Mellie SmithOnline affairs have become one of the most common forms of emotional affairs, and they have caused many couples to break up. The signs of an online affair can be difficult to detect, but there are subtle clues that something is not OK. Chances are, you’ve noticed that your husband ...
Views: 1219 - 3 Ways to Deal With Post Affair Anger Before it Takes a Toll On You - by Submitted on Dec 27, 2018 from C Mellie SmithWhen you find your spouse has had an affair, your first reaction is likely to be a nearly uncontrollable anger and a strong urge to get away. Giving up and splitting up may seem to be the most logical and easiest method of dealing with infidelity. However, it's important to remember that you ...
Views: 1003 - How to Face up to Your Self-Doubt and Feelings of Worthlessness After Cheating on Your Spouse - by Submitted on Dec 23, 2018 from C Mellie SmithAfter an affair the focus is often on the person who was cheated on. The person who had the affair is often left to manage their emotions on their own. Yet, an affair is an emotional time for both of you. If you’ve had an affair you may feel confused. You may be hurt, angry and ...
Views: 936 - What You Can do to Fix Your Marriage After an Emotional Affair - by Submitted on Dec 06, 2018 from C Mellie SmithAn emotional affair can be just as painful and hurtful as a physical affair. In some cases, emotional affairs are much more destructive. When your spouse makes a strong connection with someone else, it breaks trust and crumbles the foundation of your marriage. All is not lost. An ...
Views: 1017 - Relationships: Can Someone's Split-Off Parts Cause Them To Have Affairs? - by Submitted on Dec 06, 2018 from Oliver JR CooperThere are a number of things that can cause a relationship to come to an end, and some of these things receive more exposure in the public eye than others. For example, it is not uncommon to hear about someone who had an abusive partner and how this caused their relationship to come to an end. ...
Views: 918 - 8 Questions to Ask Before Starting Couples Counseling - by Submitted on Dec 02, 2018 from C Mellie SmithWhen a partner in a marriage has been unfaithful, it may seem that there is no choice but to dissolve the marriage; however, couples counseling may provide another alternative. A skilled couple’s counselor may be able to help both partners see how the marriage got off course and help them ...
Views: 995 - Dear Dr. Romance: I feel almost embarrassed about being a virgin at my age - by Submitted on Nov 30, 2018 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I came across your blog while searching the internet for help for women In dysfunctional relationships. . Your language and spiritual, yet non judgmental approach really resonated with me. I am an ethnically mixed woman in my thirties. My parents ...
Views: 930(1 vote) - Dear Dr. Romance: I have been hurt by every guy I have dated - by Submitted on Nov 26, 2018 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I am in a new relationship for a few months. I haven't dated for a couple of years on the advice of my therapist. I met a really nice guy on an online dating service which was totally out of my character. He is a really nice guy (Thank God) He lives in a different state ...
Views: 968(1 vote) - How to Deal with Your Husband's Emotional Affair - by Submitted on Nov 23, 2018 from C Mellie SmithWith all of the different ways people have to communicate in today's world, it seems that an emotional affair is something that threatens more and more marriages. Today people can talk through text messaging and social network sites in addition to normal conversation. These methods of ...
Views: 927 - After The Affair: Is Suspicion Taking Over Your Life? - by Submitted on Nov 18, 2018 from C Mellie SmithThere is still hope after the affair. All marriages have problems, and you might think that infidelity would cause all marriages to break up; however, you'd be wrong. Surprisingly enough, quite a few marriages do survive infidelity. In fact, recent surveys indicate that only ...
Views: 1109 - DENIAL OF BAD BEHAVIOR – WHAT YOU CAN DO - by Submitted on Dec 14, 2018 from Darlene LancerDenial is serious. It’s a refusal to acknowledge truth or reality. It can have benefits, but denial can also be our undoing and have life-threatening consequences. It affects not only individuals. Denial in the form of "group-think" can dangerously take over families and entire groups. ...
Views: 1269(2 votes) - 4 Questions To Help You Heal And Recover From Cheating on Your Husband - by Submitted on Nov 12, 2018 from C Mellie SmithOne aspect of infidelity in a marriage that is not addressed very frequently is the recovery of the unfaithful spouse. This is especially true of cheating wives. Very often, a man who is unfaithful can expect some understanding and support from friends and relatives and even from his ...
Views: 936 - Does Emotional Cheating Always Lead to an Affair? - by Submitted on Nov 02, 2018 from C Mellie SmithYou’ve noticed your spouse has pulled away. They’re spending more time at work. They’re going out with a friend after work. Or maybe they’ve made a new friend of the opposite sex and are spending a lot of time with them. You suspect they’re having an emotional affair. Maybe ...
Views: 1713 - When to Stop Going Back After Multiple Betrayals From The Same Partner - by Submitted on Oct 07, 2018 from C Mellie SmithFor those who have been cheated on, finding out about the betrayal completely shatters your world and destroys everything that is familiar with it. Beyond the fact that it causes you to question everything and lose trust, it becomes a struggle for many on the moral ethics of whether you ...
Views: 3452 - 5 Obvious Signs (Once You Know) That Your Partner is Not Loyal - by Submitted on Sep 30, 2018 from C Mellie SmithWhen it comes to finding a long-term partner and entering into a loving, respectful, and dedicated relationship, you want to find someone who is loyal. Although most individuals look for loyalty, almost demand it, and certainly want it in a relationship, it’s not a trait that is talked about ...
Views: 9756 - You Are Not The Problem: Why it’s Not Your Fault You Were Cheated on - by Submitted on Sep 25, 2018 from C Mellie SmithWhen you discover that the person you trust the most has betrayed you, whether that be with an emotional affair or a physical one, it can have devastating effects. From getting stuck in an endless cycle of bitterness, depression, and loneliness to being convinced that you somehow were the ...
Views: 3153 - How The Meaning Of An Adult Entertainment Is Different In Nevada From Other Places? - by Submitted on Aug 13, 2018 from Kamal SwamiFrom the years going to the places that are regarded suitable for adult entertainment are considered as a shameful act and not a suitable for the people of the elite group to visit. In fact, even today, despite of changing lifestyle people across the world hesitate in visiting the place for an ...
Views: 3794 - How to Deal With a Spouse Cheating on You With One of Your Family Members - by Submitted on Jul 02, 2018 from C Mellie SmithWe have all been there, reading articles online about how difficult it is to learn of a spouse’s betrayal and infidelity. Beyond heartbreaking, the pain is not something that anyone can even begin to imagine because it is so insurmountable. Unfortunately, cheating and betrayal is all too ...
Views: 1093 - How to Confront Your Partner if You Think They're Cheating - by Submitted on Jun 28, 2018 from C Mellie SmithWhen it comes to suspicions of cheating, whether you think it is an emotional, physical, or cyber affair, it can be extremely tempting to just confront your spouse outright. This natural response makes sense to you because you are probably feeling like your entire world is crashing down ...
Views: 1369 - Should You Try to Salvage The Marriage After an Affair? - by Submitted on Apr 19, 2018 from C Mellie Smith“Fix it, fix it. Fix it” These were Patricia’s words to her friends after Gavin’s death when they could not come to a truce in their marriage in the movie “Why did I get married too?” So you have finally said the “I dos.” It was a beautiful ceremony, and you both are all smiles. I married ...
Views: 1457 - Looking Inwards To Save your Marriage - by Submitted on Apr 18, 2018 from C Mellie SmithWhen you wanted to get married, many people probably took it upon themselves to tell you how hard and tough marriage can get, but you thought to yourself that yours would be the different one. It can’t and won’t be that tough (after all the both of you have dated for a long time), what would ...
Views: 1169 - Dear Dr. Romance: My husband's one-night-stand is pregnant - by Submitted on Apr 09, 2018 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: My husband had a one night stand several weeks ago. He told me about it. We've been going to counseling for several months and were doing great. We just found out she's pregnant. I love my husband, but can I work through this? Dear ...
Views: 1287(1 vote) - Will a Vacation With a Cheating Spouse Help Repair My Marriage? - by Submitted on Mar 27, 2018 from C Mellie SmithGoing through a cheating phase is always a trying and traumatic time in any relationship, most especially in a marriage because the options aren't that simple anymore; there might be long-term investments made together, a baby, families intertwined and so on. Which means for married couples, ...
Views: 1892 - Dear Dr. Romance: I have cheated on my husband 3 times - by Submitted on Mar 22, 2018 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I've heard you on the radio, and I've been married the same length of time as you. We've known each other since grade school. I have cheated on my husband 3 times. He still wants to stay married and rebuild trust but he's got major depression and ...
Views: 1552(1 vote) - Narcissist in Your Life? Get The Support You Need.... - by Submitted on Mar 19, 2018 from Laney Zukerman The Relationship CoachIf you have been dealing with an individual who has severe Narcissistic or Sociopathic Traits, your experience has probably left you reeling and searching for answers! I may be able to help you through your challenges. I am a sought after Relationship Coach and author that specializes ...
Views: 1235(1 vote) - Dear Dr. Romance: the thought of seeing him have sex with other women bothers me a lot - by Submitted on Feb 21, 2018 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I am a bipolar woman with emotional problems. These problems seem to manifest most lately with my boyfriend whom I tend to blame for everything. I feel super insecure when we are out and he notices other women. He taught me a lot about sexuality and commented ...
Views: 1381(1 vote) - Dear Dr. Romance: Why this compulsion to cheat? - by Submitted on Feb 05, 2018 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I'm looking at myself and asking the question, "Why this compulsion to cheat?" What will it take to keep my eye from wandering around? I'm divorced, technically, but trying to make amends with the ex. I love my kids, and an absentee father just doesn't fit my ...
Views: 1404(1 vote) - Dear Dr. Romance: Is it appropriate for him to still have her in his life? - by Submitted on Jan 23, 2018 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I am going through a break-up this week and pretty broken hearted. My boyfriend and I currently dated for the last year and nine months and it ended this week. He is my age, mid thirties but when he was in his early to mid twenties he had an affair with a much much older ...
Views: 1384(1 vote) - Is Staying With a Cheating Partner a Sign of Low Self-Esteem - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2018 from C Mellie SmithWhen you are in a relationship one of the worse crimes your Partner can commit is to cheat on you, it is quite heartbreaking no matter the reason. Before you experience it firsthand your go-to reaction would probably be to deal with said partner and give them the boot. All this probably ...
Views: 3579 - Will Hiring a Life Coach Help You Heal From Your Partner’s Betrayal? - by Submitted on Jan 18, 2018 from C Mellie SmithWhen you are in a loving relationship, you trust your partner and all is right with the world until you they betray you. The thing about betrayal is that you never see it coming most times which is why it is a betrayal; else it is just a person’s behavior. When you hear about it or were ...
Views: 973 - Relationships: Is There A Reason Why Some People Always End Up With People Who Cheat On Them? - by Submitted on Jan 06, 2018 from Oliver JR CooperIf one spends a fair amount of time watching TV, there is a strong chance that they have watched programs where people have cheated on their spouse or partner. This is often a common theme when it comes to dramas and soaps, for instance. At the same time, one may have also have friends or ...
Views: 1187 - Dear Dr. Romance: The most traumatic experience of my entire life - by Submitted on Oct 24, 2017 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: Recently I have been trying to cope with the most traumatic experience of my entire life. I am a grandmother and homemaker who has been deserted by my spouse and left both homeless and penniless. (I am staying at the home of a friend now.) After weeks of ...
Views: 1557 - Dear Dr. Romance: I am beyond confused - by Submitted on Sep 29, 2017 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I need help! I am beyond confused. My husband is having an affair for more than six months with some woman who is 15 years younger than him. He lives with this women for all practical purposes and only comes home to sleep. He shows up at 11:00 p.m. at night and leaves by ...
Views: 1352(1 vote) - How to Heal From An Affair – Surviving Infidelity - by Submitted on Sep 18, 2017 from Nicola BeerNothing is more painful and crushing than finding out the partner you promised to have and hold forever has cheated and lied to you. It can ton feel like your whole world has come crashing down like a ton of bricks. Feelings of anger, fear and hurt can flood your system. Along with the ...
Views: 1610 - Relationships: Why Doesn't It Always Work When Someone Ends Up With The Person They Were Having An Affair With? - by Submitted on Sep 18, 2017 from Oliver JR CooperIf one is in a relationship that is no longer as fulfilling as it used to be, they could take the time to talk to their partner about what is going on. This can then give them the opportunity to look into what needs to take place in order for their relationship to improve. Another Option ...
Views: 1436 - Relationships: Should Someone Ask Themselves Why They Want To Cheat? - by Submitted on Sep 11, 2017 from Oliver JR CooperIn the same way as there are thoughts that one shouldn’t follow through on, there are also going to be urges that they will need to overlook. As if one tried to fulfil every need that was within them, it would end up causing them a lot of problems. A Big Difference For example, one could ...
Views: 1192 - Dear Dr. Romance: he's a drug dealer and she says that's why she loves him. - by Submitted on Sep 20, 2017 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: My wife and I have been married for 17 yrs and we have a 14 yr old daughter. My wife has stated to me that she is unhappily married and wants her own place. I recently found hotel receipts, 1 day vacation cruise receipt, and FaceBook ...
Views: 1630(1 vote) - Dear Dr. Romance: I am determined to make a better life for myself no matter what happens to my marriage - by Submitted on Sep 20, 2017 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I happen to be going through an extremely difficult time in my life right now. My husband was unfaithful during the time that I was "absent" from the marriage due to my mother dying from brain cancer. Of course, there were problems long before this and this ...
Views: 1212(1 vote) - 4 Quick Remedies For A Broken Heart - by Submitted on Aug 07, 2017 from treena murphyWhile the science is completely understood, there is evidence that married people live longer than their single counterparts. Taking it a step further, we could say that people really do die from broken hearts. If you have been through a break up recently, then it's perfectly ...
Views: 1421 - How Do I Get My Ex Girlfriend Back When She Needs Space?Do This - by Submitted on Aug 03, 2017 from treena murphyBreak ups are, to put it mildly, a pain in the tush. The causes of splitting up vary, but whatever the cause, it is quite common for one person to want to get back together. Let's assume that you are reading this because you're a guy, and you have already tried to work things ...
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