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- What To Do When There’s No More Trust In The Relationship - by Submitted on Oct 20, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraThere’s a saying that trust is like a mirror, once it’s broken, you might get hurt trying to put it back, and when you get it back, you can never look at it the same way again. Trust is a very delicate, profound and essential thing to have in a companionship. That’s why when trust is gone, the ...
Views: 25661 - Lasik Eye Surgery For Lazy Eye? - by Submitted on Dec 11, 2008 from Menno SpijkstraFour in every 100 people have lazy eye or amblyopia. At birth, the infant usually learns to use their eyes together once they are opened. Seeing is a learned skill and it may not be an easy one because nobody is born with the ability to use the eyes together to focus. The fact is, infants are ...
Views: 18042(5 votes) - Out Of This World Intercourse Positions That Can Drive Your Man Crazy - by Submitted on Apr 23, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraDo you want to have sex tonight? Then better make it as unforgettable and as wicked as possible. Remember, a wise and witty woman always makes her mark every time she makes love to her man. Keep in mind that great sex should not only spice up your love life, but it should also have a lingering ...
Views: 16631(2 votes) - How My Husband Won My Heart Back: Confessions Of A Cheating Wife - by Submitted on May 14, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraIt has been said that women are less likely to cheat but when they do, the affair can be really serious and intense. That’s because when a woman cheats on her husband, she is likely to have an emotional affair rather than a fleeting one night stand. And because of this emotional intimacy based ...
Views: 13788 - Going Desperate: Signs Of A Desperate Woman - by Submitted on Oct 25, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraI have a friend once who is a classic example of a desperate woman. She has been putting up with a married, middle- aged, going bald, stout lawyer for over 6 years! This man neglected and cheated on her several times, but she's still with him. One time, when this married lawyer decided to ...
Views: 12622(4 votes) - Feel The Magic Of Deep Penetration - by Submitted on Aug 11, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraLovers have different opinions about deep penetration intercourse position. Some women are uncomfortable with the idea but most women yearn for it when they make love. Women who love deep penetration say that it gives them the emotional rewarding sensation- a sense of satisfaction that goes ...
Views: 12018(1 vote) - Why Sex Is Important To Men - by Submitted on Apr 30, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraI know, I know some would say that what a ridiculous statement, of course it is important to men but why? Some say that they think about it twenty three hours a day, seven days a week. Even the most famous psychologist, Freud agreed that it is the main goal of men- to get sex when they need it. ...
Views: 10276(3 votes) - Ego Stroking: The Fastest Way To Influence Others To Get What You Want - by Submitted on Apr 14, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraWhat is ego—it is your self. It’s the most self-oriented, most personal part of one’s mind. Your ego is your cardinal soul or spiritual substance and regulates your self esteem and mental state. It leads your reaction or response for each action of others directed toward you. The ego molds and ...
Views: 10257 - Women’s Secret Sexual Desires - by Submitted on May 17, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraAh, women and sex, for a man, nothing can be more interesting than a discussion that includes these two fascinating words. However, if a guy wants to get more out of these two words other than just mere discussion, then he needs to be in depth on not just what women want in bed, but their secret ...
Views: 10227(2 votes) - Lies Married Men Tell - by Submitted on May 06, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraIf you are involved with a married man and believe it’s going somewhere, well think again. Married men are wily, wicked creatures. They will tell you everything and anything under the sun to make you believe that you have a future with them. When in fact, only 3% of philandering married men will ...
Views: 9776 - Vitamin E For Acne Scars? - by Submitted on Dec 14, 2008 from Menno SpijkstraThere has been the common notion that Vitamin E is good for the skin. What about the case of acne scars? Will Vitamin E be effective in diminishing acne scars? Of course there are other options for acne scars treatment such as chemical peels, Fraxel laser and dermabrasion. They seem to be ...
Views: 8901(1 vote) - Characteristics of Pomeranian Dogs - by Submitted on Dec 18, 2008 from Menno SpijkstraPomeranian dogs are what you are looking for if in case you want a small lap dog as a pet. Generally, this breed of dog have a bright personality and easy to get along with. However, they can be temperamental, commanding, and outgoing. That is why it is discouraged to have them with very young ...
Views: 8084 - Never Be Fooled Again- Know The Signs Of Real Orgasm - by Submitted on Apr 22, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraFace it, when it comes to giving a woman real orgasm is like being in the episode of CSI- elusive, mind-boggling and requires hard evidence. On the contrary, some cocky men brag that giving women real orgasm is like a walk in the park. But the truth of the matter is that, 75% of women cannot ...
Views: 8001(4 votes) - Friendless After Divorce - by Submitted on Feb 18, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraDivorce has many undesirable side effects. Whatever you had, you seem to lose. First you lose your spouse’s love and affection. Then you lose respect for one other. Next is the house, the car—even the kids. Sometimes it feels like you could lose your sanity. And, if that’s not enough, you lose ...
Views: 7145 - What's Your Fetish? - by Submitted on Mar 26, 2009 from Menno Spijkstra“Fetish” has several meanings: a. It’s something that is supposed to have magical or spiritual powers, b. An object of unreasonably extreme attention or veneration, c. Something which arouses sexual desire, and may be required for sexual gratification. Although fetish is a word with diverse ...
Views: 6928 - Raising A Cavalier King Charles Spaniel - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraThe Cavalier King Charles Spaniel is small: it only weighs 10 to 18 pounds and stands 11 to 13 inches. Why such a long and big name for a pooch this tiny? Well it's said that they originated from England and were kept amongst royalty as the ideal pet – King Charles II in particular seemed to ...
Views: 6707 - Sexual Pleasure Your Man Would Love For You To Know - by Submitted on Apr 27, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraEver been curious to know what mind blowing sexual pleasure your man would truly appreciate? More important, what tricks a girl does to really thrill him and maximize each level of bliss he hits. We’d probably think that one has to know how a guy thinks and understand his bodily function. ...
Views: 6364(3 votes) - Hand Job 101: Let Your Hands Do The Talking - by Submitted on Apr 30, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraMaking love is one of the factors that keep the passion burning in a relationship. Keeping it exciting and stimulating can awaken any dormant bonding. But keeping sex life alive requires conscious effort. One thing that makes sexual intercourse exhilarating is foreplay and second to giving a ...
Views: 6352(4 votes) - Aggression And Dementia: Old Dog Problems - by Submitted on Jun 25, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraAs your pet ages, there will be many changes that's bound to happen in its behavior and its relationshep between you and your family. We all know that they age a lot faster than us humans and live a shorter lifespan. As they draw closer to the point of their doom, problems will arise and ...
Views: 5918(1 vote) - Pumping The Muscles With Bee Pollen - by Submitted on Feb 02, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraTo achieve a toned and well-sculpted body through muscle building, proper exercises with the right equipments, an obliging diet as well as a good muscle building supplement are essential. Muscle building requires specific workouts especially for the major muscle groups such as the abdominis, the ...
Views: 5848 - The Benefits Of Empowering Others - by Submitted on Apr 03, 2011 from Menno SpijkstraNumerous leaders and managers know that there are great beenfits and advantages to be gained from empowering other people. As a manager or leader, you could choose to either utilize your power and authority to empower others or disempower other individuals. Now, which would you think will bring ...
Views: 5589 - How To Motivate Your Husband Find A Job - by Submitted on Aug 20, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraGroucho Marx once said- “Behind every successful man is a woman." I don’t know if this still holds true today, because personally, I have always believed that a person is responsible for his or her own success. But in cases where your man lost his job and morale, a little push from you is ...
Views: 5479 - Overcoming Insecurity:stop Being Needy And Start Being Happy - by Submitted on Jun 28, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraWhen you look at the mirror, do you like what you’re seeing? How often do you smile in a day, do you even remember to smile? Is it your hobby to gossip and talk about someone else’s flaws and imperfections? Does talking about the misery of other people makes you feel better about yourself? Are ...
Views: 5467(1 vote) - Attracting Good Vibrations - by Submitted on May 11, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraEach and every person, each feeling, each thought and every thing becomes Energy, which radiates and vibrates a signal. According to the Law of Attraction, as these signs are being transferred and relayed, signals of similar frequency are attracted magnetically back to the sender. For instance, ...
Views: 5304(5 votes) - Signs That A Man Is Taking Your Seriously - by Submitted on Jan 17, 2011 from Menno SpijkstraA woman’s love has always been so pure and unconditional. Nothing in this planet can compare with it. It is kind and compassionate, patient and nurturing, sweet and generous. Every man knows that when a woman falls in love, she will walk on water, climb the highest mountain, cross heaven and ...
Views: 5052 - The Burden of Owning an Alaskan Husky - by Submitted on Apr 27, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraThe Alaskan Husky can't just be owned by anybody. Training this breed is totally different from the normal methods of training used for most dogs. It is not like other pooches, where they instantly bond with their owners and require lots of attention. This pet has been endowed with physical ...
Views: 4880 - Facts About Laser Eye Surgery - by Submitted on Dec 10, 2008 from Menno SpijkstraLaser eye surgery is one of the most advanced procedures performed today to correct vision problems. In this surgical procedure, light rays are bent or refracted by the cornea so that they are directed on the retina. (The retina is a layer of cells that senses light). Before you plan to undergo ...
Views: 4842 - Are Rebound Relationships for Real? - by Submitted on Jan 26, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraAah, love. Can’t live without it, can’t get enough of it. Every day, a lot of relationships are formed: people get married, move in together, start a long distance relationship, or an office romance. Love seems to sprout like mushrooms overnight but it seems that love can fade and go ...
Views: 4792 - Sweep A Woman Off Her Feet Without Breaking a Sweat - by Submitted on Apr 29, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraWhat makes women go gaga over a guy? This is one question that guys often ponder upon. Although there’s always this smoother-than-smooth guy who constantly knows every right move for keeping that hottie wrapped around his suave, clever fingers, let’s face it—a lot of guys are still clueless on ...
Views: 4776 - Understanding Men: When He Needs A Break From The Relationship - by Submitted on Aug 24, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraThe beginning of the relationship has always been the most exciting and fun part. It is full of hopeful promises. One can’t help the insatiable feeling of being in love. Yes, those flirtatious phone conversations, the naughty actuations, the first romantic dinner and of course, the first kisses, ...
Views: 4615(3 votes) - The Abc's Of Pleasing A Woman Sexually - by Submitted on Apr 23, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraNothing can be more frustrating for a man, than having his woman reject his sexual needs. If you want to put an end with this cruel rejection, then you better wise-up! Sexually pleasing a woman requires little work, but the pay- off will be worth it. It will surely turn things around! So here ...
Views: 4604(2 votes) - The Joys of Being a Single Parent After Divorce - by Submitted on May 31, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraRaising kids is hard; raising kids alone is near- impossible. It’s absolutely not easy to raise kids when you’re a single parent. However, although it seems awful, (a lot of times it is!) it offers quite a number of astonishing benefits that can make everyday life easier for everyone. According ...
Views: 4562(3 votes) - Getting Past Emotional Pain - by Submitted on May 24, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraAll of us have been emotionally hurt at one time or another—it doesn’t matter who and what you are, really. However, there are also people who seem so totally unreceptive to emotional pain. These are the type who doesn’t give a smack when someone tries to get close to them with a bit of an ...
Views: 4520(3 votes) - A Very Affectionate Boston Terrier= - by Submitted on May 18, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraThere are many breeds out there which many people choose because of their ability to bond well with people. Lots of people find that to be the most desirable trait to look for in a dog, and don't care much about the others such as obedience, appearance, etc. The Boston Terrier is one of the most ...
Views: 4480 - Repressed Anger In A Relationship - by Submitted on Apr 06, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraIn a relationship, anger can have destructive effects. A relationship expert especially a marriage counselor must look for effective techniques to deal with anger to help married couples to build and strengthen a caring, fulfilling and enduring relationship. Rage can have negative repercussions ...
Views: 4458 - Nasty Things Women Do To Men - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraWhether we admit it or not, as human beings, we love to do something fun and pleasurable, it’s human nature to want self-gratification. And sometimes, consciously or unconsciously, we play games to experience self-gratification. If you really think about it, it really makes sense, we spend our ...
Views: 4375 - Happy Being Single - by Submitted on Jan 11, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraBeing single is a great concern for a lot of people. It may cause loneliness, depression and unhappiness, especially in women. Scary thoughts of getting old and still flying solo are enough to drive a young girl frantically looking for the perfect partner before her time runs out. The ...
Views: 4366(2 votes) - Developing Telepathy Easily - by Submitted on May 31, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraSure you have heard about mental telepathy and about some gifted persons having telepathic energy and skills. But is it for real and do you believe it? And if indeed so, what do you have to do or possess in order to open or develop your own telepathic skills in telepathy? Here are some simple ...
Views: 4318(1 vote) - What Women Want When It Comes To Fondling And Kissing - by Submitted on Apr 25, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraIt doesn’t take an Einstein to figure out that a woman’s body is every man’s preferred figure to explore. But you have to remember, my dear enthusiastic explorer that there is so much more in a woman’s body than the breast, vagina and butt. And if you want to have a fulfilling intimacy with your ...
Views: 4313(2 votes) - Signs of Attraction - Finding Signs Through Body Language - by Submitted on Apr 21, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraDid you ever ask yourself if you have the ability to read the opposite gender's body language? How will your know if they are giving you a sign of attraction through their gesture? Can you interpret their signs? Usually parents can recognize if kids are lying or not through their eyes. Well, ...
Views: 4240(1 vote) - Internet and Computer Addiction - by Submitted on Nov 20, 2008 from Menno SpijkstraIs there really such a thing as computer addiction? With most of our jobs these days which require the use of computers and anybody can enjoy the internet, can one become really addicted? But how can you differentiate from simply using or enjoying the computer as opposed to becoming full blown ...
Views: 4109 - Neapolitan Mastiff: The Roman Gladiator - by Submitted on Jul 15, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraThis dog breed has been around for a very long time, you can actually hear stories about it dating back to the Roman and Greek times. This is one massive and muscular pooch – they can stand anywhere from 26 to 31 inches and can weigh a whopping 200 pounds, but usually 150 pounds at average. They ...
Views: 4099(1 vote) - How To Get Rid Of Gossip In Your Life - by Submitted on Jun 17, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraWhy do people gossip? It's maybe because of boredom, they're being mean, they've got nothing to do, or maybe because they do it out of envy--yes, they're torn between admiration and envy, that's why they simply gossip away since they can't do anything about it anyway. From our neighbors outside, ...
Views: 4059 - Where to Meet Men-- The Top 5 Hot Spots You Never Thought Of - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraOn the lookout again: single woman looking for a guy. You already have a list, detailing the qualities of your future perfect partner. There’s only one little problem left—you don’t know where to go to meet men. A girl can always go to a club where a lot of single (and attached) men hang out ...
Views: 3961(2 votes) - Age Difference in Dating - by Submitted on Jul 09, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraThe dating world can be an exciting place where people meet, hook up and form relationships of various kinds. On the other hand, it can be a daunting and challenging place too. First off, an individual has to know how to look around and find the right person to date. As the relationship goes to ...
Views: 3944(2 votes) - Learning to Diffuse Anger Outbursts in Marriage - by Submitted on Mar 15, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraA marriage may suffer from irreversible damage due to a regular existence of anger outbursts from a spouse. Having a limited knowledge on how to handle the situation can make coping with an angry spouse very difficult. Anger is hostility resulting from a variety of triggering behaviour and ...
Views: 3917 - Stress Management: Essential For Preschool Teachers - by Submitted on May 17, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraMore than three decades ago, teachers have a strong power to control their students. Parents allowed teachers to give strong punishment to their children because they believe that teachers can make students learn when they are afraid. Teachers in the past have strong direct authority over their ...
Views: 3906 - Punctuality is a Must! - by Submitted on Mar 31, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraPunctuality is a real sign of discipline, a practice we try to instill in our youth through school bells. Not being on time is a sign of disrespect to someone or to the persons you are about to meet. Even the U.S. President George Bush is also a stickler for punctuality, going too far as to lock ...
Views: 3795 - The Many Forms Of Foreplay - by Submitted on Apr 22, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraWhen it comes to sex, men usually focus on size and stamina. As a woman, I tell you that you are definitely focusing on the wrong things. How to please a woman sexually is all about focusing on the right things… and when I say, “right things” these are the things that are involved not during ...
Views: 3745(2 votes) - Aerobic and Anaerobic Exercises - by Submitted on Nov 26, 2008 from Menno SpijkstraAerobic exercise does not necesarrily mean all heavy exercises. In fact, some forms of strenuous exercise is anaerobic and affects the body in a different way. If you are starting out on a new exercise regimen, it would be a good idea to find out the difference bewteen aerobic exercise and what ...
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