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The most common word I have heard people use to describe the work that we do is "practical." This is truly what sets our work (and others trained by the Americana Leadership College) apart from everything else out there in the world of spiritual growth and development. It is very practical tools ... Views: 1723
I love being rich!
My guess is the previous sentence conjured up some sort of image or emotion inside you as you read it. You probably instantly thought about money. Isn’t it funny that a sentence of four words can bring up emotion? Here are some typical responses to the above sentence.
I ... Views: 1721
Do you ever get so wrapped up in the small stuff that you forget the great blessings in your life? It’s so easy to do. We are human and we get caught up in the drama of life. It never fails for me, when I am at my lowest (or what I think is my lowest), I always come across someone that has a ... Views: 1720
From last 48 hours I have been HEARING music continuously. Sounds crazy!!! Is Music heard or listened!!! Obviously, it’s listened and enjoyed. But, let me reiterate I am hearing it just like any other noise around.
That’s where I draw my inference that we are at the nth level of ... Views: 1720
While many parents place a strong focus on academic learning through subjects like math and science, education in the arts contributes to overall student success.
In the long run, learning through visual arts, dance, music or drama helps students boost creativity to interpret the world around ... Views: 1719
These days, garage is not just a place where you park your car. Instead, a garage is used for many other purposes. There are a number of reasons for ensuring appropriate garage flooring, including protection from chemicals, oil spills, providing comfort for legs while working in the garage and ... Views: 1718
You get that the common denominator in all your unwanted experiences is you. You're beginning to understand you have influence over the outcomes you achieve. You realize that, at least sometimes, you're the one standing in your own way.
Now you're fixated on fixing your problem. You're ... Views: 1718
In a recent article on the Alabama-LSU football game, I stated, "a fumble is simply a recovery waiting to happen." It was as though Dont’a Hightower heard me, because he sacked Jordan Jefferson, LSU's quarterback and caused a fumble in the fourth quarter of the BCS Championship game. The ... Views: 1718
Anything is possible. There are just a few fundamentals that if understood and once implemented will create success in any venture no matter what the current circumstances
would make most people consider as practical.
I read today of a child who had nothing growing up. No consistent ... Views: 1717
Drip …. drip …. drip …. drip …. my eyes slam open! It takes a moment to decide if I’m dreaming or awake. Damn, I’m awake. I glance at the bedside clock … 2:26 a.m. I make a conscious decision to roll over and go back to sleep. Drip …. drip …. drip …. drip …. so much for that.
Okay, I’ll lie ... Views: 1717
Now that fall has arrived, I have been winding down a little and making time to watch some movies. A friend once recommended Walk the Line, based on the true life story of Johnny Cash, so that is what I decided to watch and I am so glad I did. I thought it was an excellent movie--very sad and ... Views: 1717
Avoid being hustled. Last week someone told me they had been cheated out of a lot of money. Yet really this was not strictly true. They had gone onlne and gone onto a website they had never used before. The website claimed to be able to do powerful white magic and black magic spells.
They ... Views: 1716
After formulating my grocery strategy for the week, I notice something has gone haywire!
Recently I attended a Couponing class - you know, the ones where they teach you the hoarding methods? :) My original goal in taking the class is to save more than I had been, which was no more than $4.00 ... Views: 1716
Knowing where you're going is hands-down the most direct way to get there. When you are clear about what you want, you'll be amazed at how quickly the path to get there will reveal itself.
Yet, sometimes we just don't know.
We still have all our old "stories" swimming around in our head - ... Views: 1716
Did you know that club soda is not only a refreshing drink? It also has quite a lot of uses around the house. It is a very good solution for a lot of household problems. You can use it to clean a lot of things. Here is a list of the most useful things you can do with club soda:
Use club soda, ... Views: 1716
Remember when the transformer action figures were the current got-to-have toys for most boys? I would watch my grandson twist and turn limbs, torsos and heads with a surety and speed that was mind-boggling. “How did you do that?” “Easy!” he would say.
Easy for him. When I tried, I would ... Views: 1716
What does it take to change the world or your world? Have you thought about this awesome concept.
Or do you shrug your shoulders and give up?
What do you have to do? Well firstly you have to tackle your thoughts. Only if you change your thoughts can you begin to change your world and then ... Views: 1716
Recently, out of a coaching session I had with my own coach, I was asked to write down all the expectations I have of myself. I am a bit of a perfectionist, and this tends to come up time and again. I put off the assignment for several days, but knowing my coach would ask me about it, I sat ... Views: 1715
My colleague Agi asked me recently, "so what have you learned from cancer?"
I replied, "I always thought it was about stress - cancer was a lesson on how to avoid stress."
But it's become more than that. Cancer has taught me many things. Some I always know and act on. Others I need a kick ... Views: 1715
A popular topic of discussion these days has been making use of energy from the sun, or possibly the lack of use. It is the case that action is more important than simply declaring the advantages that any alteration can bring. One of the most outstanding advances in the cause to save our planet ... Views: 1715
Many people worry about living on the edge, yet they are already there. Every decision, every thought, and every action is taking them into the unknown. Who knows what will happen next?
We live in imperfect worlds populated with imperfect people working in dysfunctional organizations. One ... Views: 1714
During midlife crisis, your foundation is shaken. You see yourself growing older and realize that your days are numbered. What you thought was true may be called into question. You suffer losses and setbacks, and you begin to ask big questions: “Why is this happening to me?” “Why do I seem to ... Views: 1714
Ever hold on to a situation you cannot change because you were too scared of change? Sometimes the path of least resistance is the longest road to change. So long we may never get there. When we hold on to the past, to anger, to fear, to the unchangeable, we slowly lose a piece of ourselves ... Views: 1713
Embracing My Inner Warrior
They say that you can do anything in Vegas. Well, apparently, you can. My older kids noticed a brochure on the tourist racks for a place called “The Gun Store.” Yeah, I know a gun store? “But dad, they have all of these uber old guns from World War II and stuff and ... Views: 1713
Suppose you've just gone through a divorce and lost custody of your kids. Or a loved one has recently died of cancer. Or you struggled in school as a child because you have dyslexia.
Many writers turn difficult periods in their lives into books for children, hoping to help young readers ... Views: 1713
Time is such an odd subject to talk about. We’re either trying to speed it up, slow it down, or just plain stop it. Sometimes it could be that fraction of a micro second between life and death, or hope and despair. Let’s look at the phrase “Time awaits no one.” You can actually sum up this ... Views: 1712
As time moves on in this 21st century what was once a taboo idea of dating on-line with the internet has now become acceptable it’s quick, easy and accessible to all providing you have internet connection and the time to go surfing.
Well so it would seem! Any one can join any site fill out a ... Views: 1711
It is always toughest to do the things that should be done when we don’t want to do them. We may have other things on our mind to do. We may not feel like doing what we should. We may wonder why we have to do things when others don’t have to do them. We may try to put them off to do ... Views: 1709
When the going gets tough - when you just want to screw it all and grab any kind of pleasure you can get - whipping out the plastic to indulge on a shopping binge isn't the answer. Like a bulimic on a food binge, you'll feel worse inside, want to barf, and hate what you just bought. You'll ... Views: 1709
A glimmer of hope can be an expression on your face, your hand reaching out to someone, a kind word, or a warm embrace. A glimmer of hope is any sign, no matter how small, that things will get better. A glimmer of hope is a prayer, a positive thought or action moving out of a negative place ... Views: 1707
Nothing is stronger than intuition.
Intuition is what I call "inner trust." Most people, including me, do not trust their intuition even though this inner trust guide is almost always in all ways right. But, you should tune in to your intuition. Author Laura Day in How to Rule the World From ... Views: 1707
I don't know my next-door neighbors. I don't ever see them. I don't ever get the opportunity to talk to them. I never visit with them. I don't even know their names. There's been such a revolving door of new next-door neighbors in my apartment building that, to be honest, I no longer attempt to ... Views: 1704
A PRAYER FOR THE CAPABLE
And as you stand there
On time and
Appropriately clad for the event
With a high-fiber bar in your bag
And extra pens
Let us take this moment to applaud you.
You, the prepared.
You, the accomplished.
You, the bills-paid-on-time and the-taxes-done-in-March.
You, who ... Views: 1702
Byron Katie so wisely repeatedly asks her clients: “Who would you be without your story?”
This question has fascinated me the moment I heard it.
Of course this question can be understood in two ways: One way is who would you be if whatever happened to you in your life (that forms your life ... Views: 1702
As we grow up we, well most of us, seem to turn into adults with adult outlooks. What I mean by this is that we tend to put up with what we have and settle for something less than we could have ~ if only we dared to dream.
What stops us, or someone you know well from stepping through our self ... Views: 1701
It has become more and more evident that smoking is dangerous and hazardous to your health. Every pack of cigarettes comes with a warning from the Surgeon General. Due to this increase in health awareness, more people are searching for effective means of quitting the habit. Pharmaceutical ... Views: 1700
"Most of us have two lives. The life we live, and the unlived life within us. Between the two, stands Resistance." ~ Steven Pressfield (Author - The War of Art)
Imagine what your life would be like if you had followed through on every inspired idea you have ever had. I don’t mean those ... Views: 1700
A really young child relies totally on it's mother for survival but as they grow into toddlers and beyond they are increasingly pulled into the outside world. As they grow the need for mother's protection diminshes but they are still seeking some form of guide. In most societies this was ... Views: 1700
Non-surgical options such as physical therapy, spinal decompression, and chiropractic manipulation can treat degenerative disc disease.
Aging affects many parts of the body. Degenerative disc disease occurs as a result of the aging of the spine. However, younger people can also be affected ... Views: 1700
Procrastinating is something we all do at times. I even procrastinated a little about writing this article! You have a task that you need to do, and for some reason there is something else more interesting and urgent that pops into your head. Suddenly, cleaning the bathroom simply cannot wait ... Views: 1700
The other night we all went to one of my favorite stomping grounds in the area, Barnacle Bills. With all of us craving the best burger around, my fiance, Steve and I took our girls out for a night on the town. While my son was at football, we decided to take the night off from grilling and have ... Views: 1700
We live in a very busy, very chaotic, interconnected world. For most of us, it feels like we’re “on” all the time, always rushing from one thing to the next, and it’s as though there simply aren’t enough hours in the day to accomplish all that we’d like to do. We have personal and professional ... Views: 1699
At 4:20am, I woke up, showered and got dressed so I could be at my friend Sujatha’s house by 5am. As I walked a short distance down the hill to her home, people were just waking up themselves as they prepared for their own morning’s puja (ritual). I passed a some cows and a few dogs which were ... Views: 1698
In this article I am speaking to Westerners specifically – not because the information doesn’t apply to anyone else (it most likely does) but because I see how thirsty we Westerners are for something that has been within us all the time.
Humans are a richly diverse package of expressions. We ... Views: 1697
There are a number of new diet fads out there that many people are using with a remarkable measure of success. These are not unlike fad diets of the past in which dieters were required to eliminate entire food groups or cut calories so significantly that their bodies were in danger of entering ... Views: 1697
Delayed gratification. That's a phrase that few people like to hear—we are the "give it to me and give it to me now" generation. Literally, we don't often think along the terms of "grow” rich. We want to start a business and have it do what Google did. Everybody wants that. But can you plan on ... Views: 1696
The holidays are supposed to be a happy time of the year. We have time off, we get to see our families, our kids are excited about this magical time of the year, etc. But for many people the holidays only mean stress, anxiety, and grief. If you have lost a loved one, you may be experiencing this ... Views: 1695
One’s spiritual needs are met by an untroubled inner life.
Happiness comes when your intentions, thoughts and action benefit to yourself and others" Chinese Proverb
Do Your Thoughts Make You Happy?
Do Your Actions Make You Happy?
Do Your Set Goals That Will Create Happiness?
Does Your ... Views: 1694
The effective use of personal energy is something we are never taught when we are growing up, yet it can make all the difference both in our personal success as well as the business success in our life.
Emily, during a recent retreat at Epona Ridge, had an opportunity to work with Cierba who ... Views: 1694
What is respect really?
It is the standing of ground in moments of tests. People have a funny way of challenging each other throughout our interactions. If met with respect, the challenge falls by the waste side to allow for open communication to occur. If met with competition, it creates ... Views: 1694