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Dear Dr. Romance:
I'm hoping you can offer some advice. I recently fell in love with a guy going through a divorce. We weren't together for ages but I feel like it was. He was separated About 10 months when we started dating and he had confessed to having a crush on me for a really long ... Views: 761
Dear Dr. Romance:
I'm in need of some help. My partner has had some emotional problems and I don't know what they are. is she bipolar or what else? She gets angry about everything and is very negative, she is very incecure and thinks I dont love her even if I told her 10 mins ... Views: 779
Dear Dr. Romance:
I have been married for nearly 20 years and thought we had a great marriage. 10 years ago I got hurt and have had 6 back surgeries. At one point I would double up on meds and drink to ignore life. During this time my husband was an angel; until he discovered I ... Views: 1370
" You will never cross the ocean until you have the courage to lose sight of the shore." Christopher Columbus
Denial is a mechanism we use consciously or unconsciously to alter reality, usually to pretend it is better than it is. We don't want to see aspects of life for which we have no ... Views: 986
Codependency is based on false, dysfunctional beliefs that are learned from our parents and environment. Recovery entails changing those beliefs, the most damaging of which is that we’re not worthy of love and respect – that we’re somehow inadequate, inferior, or just not enough. This is ... Views: 1161
Desperate To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back – Do This; There is no doubt about how desperate you are to get your ex boyfriend back after a breakup. That is why you chase him and accept his rejection. You will do anything to get your ex back in your arms and that includes losing your pride and self ... Views: 6184
Detailed life predictions free is the service where one can get full insights into his/her life events easily. A life prediction report provides exact future details like marriage prediction, children, career/job prediction, etc.
“Life Prediction” is the old technique of predicting the future ... Views: 507
Valentine's Day has been, gone and the shops are getting rid of all the hearts and special love offers. It is just one day for everyone in love to proclaim their love. To be fair this can and should be done every day of the year. Is it vital you get flowers, chocolates or anything else that says ... Views: 1977
Are you and your spouse having an immensely tough time relating to each other these days? Perhaps, no matter what you've tried, you just cannot get back on your partner's good side. Keep on reading if you want to discover two ways you can improve your relationship and get that thriving and ... Views: 1270
Many a poet and philosopher has said that love is for all seasons. That’s true, but there’s nothing like Valentine’s Day to remind your significant other that you’ve fallen in love with her 365 times over the past year. The tried and true ways of showing your appreciation are always safe—cards, ... Views: 2753
Approaching beautiful women is nerve cracking even for the most confident guys. Overcoming that initial approach anxiety can seem like an insurmountable task to accomplish. In fact, many men have passed up a lot sexual opportunities because of approach anxiety.
Approach anxiety however is ... Views: 1485
didn’t. I thought loving myself was basically treating myself to a night out with friends or buying myself a hot new pair of shoes.
To be honest, it took me quite a while to really understand the whole concept of ‘loving myself’ and it was only then did it really start to have a profound ... Views: 1735
It’s easy to fall in love with narcissists. Their charm, talent, success, beauty, and charisma cast a spell, along with compliments, scintillating conversation, and even apparent interest in you. Perhaps you were embarrassed when your mate cut in front of the line or shuddered at the dismissive ... Views: 3037
The love of self is strong and powerful. It is the greatest gift you can give yourself. Everything starts with you. Every part of your life comes from you. The people in your life are from you. You are the one who chooses the experiences and events in your life. You are the one who allows ... Views: 1333
You are a sugar daddy who wants to enjoy the youth and beauty of a charming sugar baby who is willing to please you. You are willing to give her money, gifts, luxury trips and take her to exclusive events. Best of all, there is no formal commitment between you two. You have reached an agreement ... Views: 639
I'm sure you have heard couple's of all ages say to each other "I love you." You would probably like hearing it said to you, if it's not already. Sometimes when one person says "I love you" to another person, the response is "me too." I find that an absurd response. What does it mean? That I ... Views: 3563
Do you trust love? Because most people don't. Could it be because most people encounter so many imitators and obstacles before they meet the real thing? Probably.
Society, in general, does not educate people about true love. It's a mystery to most. It requires vulnerability. Therefore, it ... Views: 966
For over two decades Coach Hu Dalconzo, along with his staff of HuMethod™ Spiritual Life Coaches have demonstrated time and again that their well field-tested coaching exercises will create Permanent Behavioral Change for anyone who is willing to internalize and emotionalize them as ... Views: 1768
Does My Ex Miss Me? Relationships are always beautiful until that moment when everything falls apart, and you have to break up. When your partner left, you may have realized forever doesn’t last that long. The heartache may have almost turned your life upside down. But somehow you found a way ... Views: 2331
Does real love really exist?
“Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.”-Lao Tzu.
Sometimes we wonder how two people brought together by what they called "destiny" and survived the tests of time. My view about this subject matter ... Views: 1135
We all want to be loved. However for many achieving happiness within a healthy relationship has escaped us. Many of us have spent most of our lives in relationships that were co-dependent and needy, but did involve huge life lessons and karma. Knowing that each relationship we experience brings ... Views: 1910
How do you assess whether your marriage therapy is just taking up time and money or genuinely helping you and your spouse? Most folks in marriage therapy are uncertain as to what to use as a measuring stick. Whether or not the therapist is “a nice person” is not sufficient. Would you take ... Views: 1145
For many people sexual and romantic education is derived a great deal from television, movies, and, particularly for men, pornography. Objectification, one-sidedness, and unrealistic expectations take hold resulting in a loss of intimacy and connection. The movie, "Don Jon," written, directed, ... Views: 1614
Women beware of men who feel inferior to you. Men that feel like they are inferior are deadly and their thinking process can be very twisted. It does not take much to set them off because they have a hairline trigger mindset. The inferior man always thinks that everyone is against him. They are ... Views: 1754
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It's way too easy, in the throes of a new romance, to decide to live together without considering the problems that might arise. Dr. Romance gives you some things to think about before making the leap, to guarantee success.
When dating and getting to know ... Views: 2762
Dr. Romance writes:
Valentine's Day gets a lot of media attention, and it can be hard to avoid. When you don't have a special someone to spend it with, or worse yet, you've just lost a relationship, it can be brutal. If you're alone, it's important to take good ... Views: 881
For you men who ask, "What Do Women Want?" Here are Dr. Romance's 10 Things Married Women Want:
Women value intimacy, safety for themselves and their children, and emotional connection. Therefore, they long for the following qualities in a man:
1. Good Judgment Good ... Views: 698
Many years ago an Edwin Markham poem inspired me, and I’ve tried to live by it:
"Outwitted"
He drew a circle that shut me out —Heretic, rebel, a thing to flout.But Love and I had the wit to win:We drew a circle that took him in!
As Markham says, we could see people who are distant or ... Views: 3147
Dr. Romance writes:
Love, commitment and relationships seem to be in disfavor these days. I'm seeing a lot of articles and TV shows saying love doesn't last, so why bother. No matter what the media is saying, I believe that all of us want to be loved, and I know from experience that a ... Views: 794
Dr. Romance has had many clients who are grieving, and wrote this to help.
None of us wants to think about it, but the standard definition of a totally successful relationship is the old, traditional "til death do us part." Any time we love, whether it’s a life partner, a dear ... Views: 1345
If you're lucky enough to be living with someone else while you're isolating to avoid this virus, you may be having some difficulty with being alone together for more time than you're used to. The following guidelines will help you get along better and perhaps even improve your ... Views: 728
Dr. Romance says: I can’t escape it, it’s in the news every day, and it fills my counseling office. Recently, the news told of a four-year-old who was shot to death by his own father, because the father was jealous of his divorced wife’s new relationship. "O, beware... of jealousy; ... Views: 1200
So many couples are now separated part-or full-time because of military deployment and/or work travel and schedules, I get a lot of questions about faithfulness. Your marriage vows may have said, "'til death do us part" but no one said anything about what happens when a military career or ... Views: 1890
Kindness is the lubrication for life, love and relationships. When you spread kindness, it comes back in many ways, and it’s the foundation of happiness. "Dr. Romance" shows how kindness works and why it’s important to learn to live kindly, even in today’s cynical ... Views: 689
Dr Romance writes:
As life develops, many of us have an urge to focus on the deeper issues -- our dreams and goals, and our emotional and spiritual development. When this happens, life gradually becomes more about meaning and satisfaction and less about obligations and ... Views: 1409
"And then, not expecting it, you become middle-aged... You achieve a wonderful freedom. It is a positive thing." -- Doris Lessing
Maturity or middle age means different things to different people, writes Dr. Romance, but for most, reaching a mature age means developing a new set of ... Views: 1292
Dr Romance recommends couples increase their mutual respect and appreciation by having a regular "State of the Union" meeting. Here are two simple techniques you can use in all kinds of relationships: couples, families, even work partners and friends, to enhance your cooperation, ... Views: 1178
Dr. Romance writes:
In my therapy practice, I witness a lot of confusion about the proper role of judgement in life and relationships. Often, when I ask clients to analyze whether a person they’re dating has good character, they tell me they don’t want to be judgmental. People in twelve step ... Views: 1113
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Politeness and sensitivity are not held in high esteem in the media these days. The nastiest politicians get the most air time. Many media spokespeople, stars and commentators, “gangsta” rappers, nasty radio talk show stars and “edgy” comedians; as well as personalities ... Views: 1635
When your partner refuses to help solve the problem, you have no choice but to focus on your own need until you get cooperation.
As long as you offer every opportunity to cooperate and you extend an invitation to your partner to join you whenever he or she wishes, you are free to focus your ... Views: 571
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Dr. Romance's 3 Tips for Finding New Love
For a while after a relationship ends, you may not feel like considering a new relationship, which is probably good. Jumping right from one relationship to another usually doesn't work. A relationship that ... Views: 1597
Moving in together is a financial commitment, and so is marriage, so it’s important to consider the tough issues you’ll face as a cohabiting or married couple.
Dr. Romance's Financial Questions to Ask Before Marriage or Moving in Together
The family you grew up in shapes an ... Views: 830
Especially during trying times like isolation, relationships can be devastated by simple, thoughtless things. Bad behavior will ruin your marriage faster than any temptation from the outside. Dr. Romance points out the worst mistakes to make in a marriage.
Dr. Romance's 3 ways to ... Views: 740
Work can be the ideal environment for falling in love: you are in close proximity for a long period of time, you may have developed a good working partnership, and from there it is a short step to romance. However, workplace romance can present big problems.
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Dr. Romance wishes all of you a happy, healthy and loving 2012!
We all are inspired to make resolutions in the new year, to celebrate new beginnings. Rather than resolving to exercise or diet, try:
Dr. Romance's Top 5 Resolutions to Take Your Marriage from Good to Great
Resolve ... Views: 2028
Dr. Romance writes: Many people ask me, “How will I know if I'm in love?”
Answer: Anyone who's in love usually knows it; the real question should be are we mutually in love, or am I wasting my time? If you want to be secure in your primary relationship, knowing how to create mutuality and work ... Views: 1006
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We need people who have a lot of common sense and experience of life. You may have hard a difficult childhood or gone ... Views: 571
It’s a well known and accepted fact that human is the most complex creature on this planet. Sometimes his sight captures the depths of universe and sometimes his mind is busy in solving complex physical and scientific problems. Human in one way made a lot of developments. The matter and material ... Views: 1246
It has been my observation that most of our society participates or has participated in different levels of abuse. No matter what role we have held, collectively we might benefit from pondering how we can stop the cycle of abuse. Some might think this is a strong word; however, I feel it is ... Views: 2321
A romantic vacation has the ability to super recharge your relationship. Therefore, all the couples who live out there in the world are strongly encouraged to think about romantic travel. It would be one of the best options available for them to take a break from the busy life and spend some ... Views: 757