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- The Narcissist's Stripped Ego - by Submitted on Jul 30, 2016 from Sam VakninBy Sam Vaknin Author of "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" The narcissist's True Self is introverted and dysfunctional. In healthy people, Ego functions are generated from the inside, from the Ego. In narcissists, the Ego is dormant, comatose. The narcissist needs the input of and ...
Views: 2747 - The Nice Guy Problem - by Submitted on May 08, 2017 from Felicity MuscatRelationships are an integral part of most people’s lives. If you are like the majority of people in the world, you want a good, healthy relationship with someone else. The problem is that there are so many different approaches to relationships, and it often feels like the nicest, healthiest ...
Views: 1847 - The Object Subject and Epistemological Functions of Astrology - by Submitted on Aug 05, 2020 from Dinesh KumarAstrology is the practice of ancient wisdom that was divined by some of the oldest civilizations on earth. The Babylonians, the Mesopotamians, the Greeks, the Romans, and the Arabs all played pivotal roles in shaping our modern-day astrology. Together they developed and improved the ...
Views: 1230 - The Power Of Love - by Submitted on Aug 06, 2016 from Donald PillaiNot so long ago, I was talking to a business man in Korea. There we were negotiating a multi-million dollar deal, and neither could understand the other's language. Thanks to God for a good interpreter. Still, it required a great deal of effort on both our parts. I learned as we spoke to each ...
Views: 2156 - The Psychological Underpinnings of Sex Addiction - by Submitted on Mar 23, 2013 from Dorothy HaydenThe diagnosis of sex addiction is the same as every addiction: loss of control and continued behavior despite adverse consequences. Sexual addiction differs from other addictions, however. Our sexuality reflects unconscious conflicts, longings and wishes of which we are not aware. In essence, ...
Views: 3020 - The relevance of updating business news - by Every frequent business traveler needs the latest business travel news. If a new company is in town with great airfare and travel packages, this is valuable information.
Unless you know the good deals, you will pay more than necessary. Or you may have a preventable disaster. Suppose you book ...
Views: 143 - The Ugly Truth About Your Awkwardness and What To Do About It - by Submitted on Dec 30, 2014 from Chris ChandraYeaaah.. Awkwardness sucks. You know that moment when you realize you slipped up and said or did something wrong...and that feeling of dread comes over you? Or you know you’re supposed to say something in a group but you can’t get yourself to do it...and you know others take notice of ...
Views: 2012 - The Unattainable Woman: What She Teaches Us. - by Submitted on Jul 08, 2011 from Tony MonterastelliQuestion: I have noticed throughout my life that the girls I was attracted to tended not to like me back. This has been especially problematic now that I am in my 20's, but it did occur a bit in my teens as well. I am starting to think that I will never get the women I'm interested in, or that I ...
Views: 8774 - The Wordallogic- It’s Over and I Have Nothing Else to Say! – When there is No Closure - by Submitted on Apr 14, 2013 from Aleasa Word*Commentary is not a replacement for professional or legal advice. All articles are under protected property. Permission required to reproduce or duplicate. It’s Over and I Have Nothing Else to Say! – When there is No Closure -Author Aleasa M. Word As a woman, I continually try to ...
Views: 2467 - These Male Behaviors Cause Relationship Problems - by Submitted on Mar 19, 2013 from Clif KHow many times have you been irritated by your boyfriend's or husband's behavior and you thought the best way to help the relationship problem situation and make the behavior go away was for you to somehow either ignore it or try to internalize it in such a way that it doesn't bother you ...
Views: 1000 - Thoughts, Words, and Feelings - by Submitted on Sep 22, 2014 from Jake AndersenThoughts, Words, and FEELINGS Emotions for me are a necessary evil. I absolutely hate the way emotions can completely blind a mind from logic. This is one of the main reasons that it takes me a long, long time to become emotionally attached to anybody. It seems that whenever I become ...
Views: 1621 - Three Important Tips For Creating Romantic Pick Up Lines - by Submitted on Jun 13, 2011 from Jon DanielsWhen it comes to approaching a woman and delivering romantic pick up lines there are three important tips I want to share with you. Before I begin, I just want to give you a bit about my background. You see I used to be really shy around women. All my friends could hold a conversion with ...
Views: 1447 - Timing is Everything - by Submitted on May 22, 2012 from Pamela TurleyWhile eating dinner with a single male friend of mine, I was reminded again how important timing is in relationships. There's no way around it. We either manage the situation or the situation manages us. After we both pitched in the obligatory small talk, the conversation turned to the ...
Views: 1727 - Tip Your Marital Scales Into Joy! - by Submitted on Apr 27, 2012 from Noelle NelsonYour husband wakes up grumpy, stumbles to the bathroom, glances at your reflection next to his in the mirror, and says “What’s wrong with your hair?” You glare: “I slept on it funny. Good morning to you too.” Strike one against husband: “Why do you have to be so unpleasant first ...
Views: 1832 - Tips for Securing Last Minute Reisen (Travel) Packages on Cruises, Flights, and More - by Submitted on Sep 06, 2022 from Hotels Etc.comWith last minute travel, or reisen, you'll find that prices tend to be much higher for cruises, flights, hotels, and car rentals. Fruehbucher (or the early booker) always gets the best deals, right? In many cases, yes! But now, there are some helpful online resources such as last minute or ...
Views: 590 - Top 3 Reasons Why Men Become Insecure - by Submitted on Jul 06, 2016 from Kemi SogunleWe all have insecurities of some sort but when it takes a toll on our relationships, it becomes burdensome. You may have finally met the man of your dreams but it seems you cannot put your fingers on. It turns out he is always defensive or sensitive and has answers or excuses for everything ...
Views: 4141 - Top 5 Best Relationship Advice's For Men - by Submitted on Jan 23, 2015 from Mike HatcherThere is no specific textbook to teach men and women how to act in a relationship, as everybody is different. That being said, it is always important to stay true to who you are and to the principles you truly believe in, and to always act as your heart dictates you to act. However, there are ...
Views: 1647 - Top-Rated Tech Gifts and Gadgets Men Will Love in 2018 - by Submitted on Sep 14, 2018 from K. SaluLocating the ideal electronics gifts for your man or men in your life is not always as simple a task as it looks. On the flip side, you can not fail with technology and electronic equipment. From clever TVs to smart house accessories, speakers, earbuds, gaming gadgets, and everything in between, ...
Views: 1613 - Training in Counselling - by Submitted on Apr 27, 2012 from Rosemary PriceTraining in counselling... Many take this up as a new career but others can be drawn to it simply because they wish to understand themselves and their loved ones and give them the right hep when needed. It is good to help others and it is even better if you can help them to transform their ...
Views: 1439 - Traveling in England on a shoelace - by A good holiday does not have to be expensive. Airline tickets, if booked early enough, cost less than parking fees at airports.
Budgeting is the hardest part of the holiday. Set a budget for the weekend and stick to it. Patricia and I did, and we almost succeeded.
'I never get the credit,' ...
Views: 273 - Understanding Men & Women: Reinventing How We Can BE With Each Other - by Submitted on Oct 15, 2018 from Geoff LaughtonSadly, along all the political back and forth that is polarizing men and women and in many of the relationships I see, I fear humanity is getting thrown in the rubbish. Relationships haven’t been about connecting and community. It’s been about men vs. women. It’s been about truth vs. lies. ...
Views: 1481 - Understanding the Wounds of the Men and Opening to Your Compassionate Heart - by Submitted on Sep 02, 2017 from Luminessa EnjaraAs a writer, I became interested in understanding the plight of men back in the nineties when Robert Bly, Sam Keen and other men who pioneered the Men’s Movement began to write and speak up. I was curious and it fascinated me to read books like Fire in the Belly and Iron John. It also helped ...
Views: 2617 - Want To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back? - Tips To Ensure Your Success - by Submitted on May 04, 2012 from Robbie LeeFocusing more on yourself might seem not logical when in the method of getting an ex boyfriend back. But let me tell you this, concentrating on yourself will get you the most effective results if you want your ex-boyfriend back. It's safe to say that the last thing you want is to go out and ...
Views: 2206 - Want To Repair Your Marriage? Why You Shouldn't Use The Word "Repair" When You Want To Fix Your Marriage. Here's What To Say Instead. - by Submitted on Apr 24, 2020 from Leslie CaneI'm all about preventing divorce and stale marriages through positive means, but I have to tell you, I cringe when I hear the phrase "repairing a marriage." When you vocalize that you want to "repair your marriage," it's as if you view your marriage as a rusty, broken-down car that's been ...
Views: 546 - Watch free movies online? Think again - by One of the most searched terms is "watch free movies online". This indicates that many people are looking for a way to watch their favorite movies without paying expensive monthly cable subscriptions.
While understandable, given the ridiculously expensive rates for cable and satellite, it ...
Views: 216 - Ways to Attract a Man - by Submitted on Apr 22, 2013 from Smith BarlayIs there a shortage of men in this world? Sometimes it sure seems that way. You've noticed one or two good prospects. When will they take notice of you? How can you get him to notice you without embarrassing yourself and looking needy and desperate? Scary behavior will only send him running ...
Views: 1231 - What Are the Causes of Hormonal Imbalance in Men? - by Submitted on Jan 11, 2012 from lincy thomasWhat Are the Causes of Hormonal Imbalance in Men? Testosterone is the natural hormone that is dominant in males. A hormonal imbalance in men is created when a man has an overabundance of estrogen, the female hormone, in his system. It can cause urinary problems, lower sex drive, prostate ...
Views: 4150 - What are the Objectives of a Total Program of Sex Addiction Treatment? - by Submitted on Mar 23, 2013 from Dorothy HaydenFifteen years ago, people didn’t even know there was such a thing as sex addiction, never mind how to get help for it. With Patrick Carnes’ groundbreaking book Out of the Shadows: Understanding Sex Addiction, people who suffer from self-destructive sexual acts had hope of knowing what ailed ...
Views: 2887 - What are vinyl signs made of? - by When you ask the question of what vinyl is made of, you are exploring a chemical process that converts hydrocarbon-based raw materials into polymers through this process. The end result is a product called vinyl that can be both rigid and strong designed for one side of a building, but it is ...
Views: 278 - What Does Your Shop Front Say About You? - by Submitted on May 07, 2011 from Gina HardyIf you were to paint a picture of who you are on the inside, what would you look like? Most of us spend too much time making the best of our outer facade which is just “dressed” skin, muscle and bone structure at the end of the day. We are perceived blessed by media hype if we are stunning, ...
Views: 1472 - What Happened To Tiger Woods? - by Submitted on Oct 09, 2011 from Joan ChamberlainA Deeper Look at the Exaggerated Superiority Personality and Awareness of Self. Good ole’ USA Today; they even make the sports page interesting. Last week in a wire service report, there was a short article about both Tiger Woods and Vijay Singh. Only five paragraphs about Tiger Woods. ...
Views: 2787 - What If My Husband Won't Forgive Me? How Can He Forgive Me For Being So Mean For So Long? - by Submitted on Apr 29, 2020 from Leslie CaneI sometimes hear from people who have begun to do a lot of self-work either in an attempt to save their marriage or as an attempt to improve themselves. Sometimes, they go into this process thinking that much of the problems in their marriage lie with their spouse. But as they really begin to ...
Views: 576 - What is an ideal gentleman in a mod lady's point of view? - by Submitted on Nov 28, 2011 from Joanna AndersAs it turns out the expression "ideal gentleman" is seen by male creatures and women quite differently. It is because of this misapprehension there exist all sorts of struggles and difficulties between madams and guys. This relationship problem is as old as the human race itself. Scholars and ...
Views: 3176 - What is Sex Addiction, Anyway? - by Submitted on Mar 23, 2013 from Dorothy HaydenAddiction to sexual behavior is a complex disorder that incorporates many aspects of your personality, bio-chemistry, socio-cultural environment, family-of-origin issues, thinking/feeling processes, self-esteem, and quality of relations with others. I see sex addiction as a prism; depending on ...
Views: 1421 - What Makes A Man Leave His Wife? 3 Reasons Why Husbands Leave Their Wives - by Submitted on May 12, 2020 from Leslie CaneI often hear from wives who are very confused because their husband has left their home and is now apparently pursuing a marital separation. Sometimes, the wife had a little warning about this beforehand. And sometimes, she didn't. But regardless of the circumstances, it is always shocking and ...
Views: 1167 - What Men Desire In A Relationship - by Submitted on May 14, 2012 from Jon SibbsWhat do men want in a relationship? well not all guys are the same, but across the board there are some common desires, which you can learn to develop a healthy, and successful relationship just by reading this. I've been studying what men have to say about what makes them happy in terms of ...
Views: 2153 - What Must I Do If My Ex Is Dating Someone Else? Don't Worry, It's Not Too Late - by Submitted on Sep 17, 2011 from Mika MaddelaLife is hard enough without going through a difficult break up. Losing someone important can be one of the hardest things to deal with. It only gets worse if you find that your ex is dating someone else. If you are in this situation then following may be the answers you are looking for. Q: ...
Views: 13161 - What to Do When He Pulls Away Emotionally - by Submitted on Sep 12, 2012 from Andrew HunterEver had that daunting experience of losing your partner because you feel even a smidge of distance growing between you two? If so, you’re not alone. Countless women experience this everyday in their relationships, especially when they think the relationship is going so well. Are men just ...
Views: 6252 - What To Say To A Husband Who Is About To Leave You: The Words To Say To Eventually Save Your Marriage - by Submitted on Apr 29, 2020 from Leslie CaneI know the feeling that many wives have when their husband is about to walk out the door to pursue a break or separation. There can be a sense of panic. You can feel desperate. And you are more likely to say or do something that you might regret. This article will outline the things that I ...
Views: 574 - What Would You Rather Do: Watch TV Or Make New Friends? - by Submitted on Dec 30, 2014 from Chris ChandraHmm Of course the answer is make new friends right? Especially if you wished you had a more active social life and you’re not social. The reason I’m bringing up this topic is to discuss how we sabotage ourselves when it comes to the social success we want. When you can figure out where ...
Views: 1696 - What's in store From Wine Tasting Tours - by Submitted on Sep 28, 2019 from Wajahat AliIn case you're thinking about considering going all in by joining wine sampling visits, you are not the only one. As far back as the arrival of the film "Sideways" in 2004, around two men moving toward middle age who choose to set out on a voyage through California wine nation, have wine ...
Views: 912 - What's the "Hook" in Sex Addiction? - by Submitted on Mar 20, 2013 from Dorothy HaydenA sex addiction is a habitual response and a source of sexual gratification or emotional security. It is a way of coping with internal feelings and external pressures that provides the Addict” as “Not You”">addict with predictable and consistent immediate gratification, but that has concomitant ...
Views: 1826 - When Your Father Lets You Down - by Submitted on Nov 29, 2011 from Tony MonterastelliCollege football looms large in the lives of many American men. Even if we didn't put on the helmet and pads for our school, most of us played a few downs with our friends during childhood, or we passed the football back-and-forth with our own fathers. Going to college was a rite of passage for ...
Views: 1990 - When Your Separated Husband Is Apathetic To You And Your Marriage. How Do You Break Through To Him? - by Submitted on Aug 03, 2021 from Leslie CaneA lot of the correspondence that I get is concerning, but one type stands out from all the rest. This type of correspondence is indicative of a very serious problem that shouldn't be ignored. You might assume that I'm talking about extreme anger, sorrow, or even claims of outright hatred between ...
Views: 835 - Who Are Sex Addicts and What are They Looking to Find in Sex? - by Submitted on Mar 23, 2013 from Dorothy HaydenWho are sex addicts and what are they hoping to find through their compulsive sexual behavior? Sex addicts are people who, afraid of real, intimate relationships, repeatedly and compulsively try to connect with others through highly impersonal, non intimate behaviors: masturbation, empty ...
Views: 1473 - Who Is A Sex Addict? - by Submitted on Mar 23, 2013 from Dorothy HaydenA sex addict is a person who misuse sex as means of coping with unwanted feelings and life stressors. He looks to repetitive, compulsive sexual activities to fill a need for constant validation that shores up a fragile sense of self. If women desire him in reality or through pornography, his ...
Views: 1461 - Why choose to be a cougar for a young man, answers are all right here! - by Submitted on Sep 13, 2018 from Justin RamosBeing a cougar might sound like something out of a movie? Cougars exist and they actually found some young men who they can date. What women need to understand is that this role can actually apply to everyone who is looking for a way to have a good time with men who want to take you on the ...
Views: 1337 - Why Didn’t He Want Another Date? - by Submitted on Apr 28, 2011 from Kara OhHave you ever been interested in, or worse, in love with a man and he leaves for no apparent reason? Maybe it’s because you’re a High Maintenance woman and don’t realize it. Men are ever-watchful to avoid getting involved with high maintenance women. Let me explain why it’s one of the worst ...
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