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It's rare that someone sees their divorce as a success. Most people see divorce as a failure - their personal failure. The very sad fact is that it's not unusual for someone to interpret the failure of their marriage as their failure in life. This couldn't be further from the truth!
As an ... Views: 899
What do you mean, fire the client? It seems hard enough to find a client – now you want to fire them? However many people take on just any client because they think that they must - to stay in business. But not every client is the right client.
How can there be a wrong client?
A good ... Views: 1138
How to avoid being a victim.. As all women know you can be a victim of love, you can be lied to by a married man or used by a man for sex, you can be used at work by being asked to do lots of unpaid over time, there are lots of ways you can become a victim, but for the same of this article I ... Views: 1117
People are people all over the world. Success is overrated in most instances after all, what standards do we use fro measurement of success yours, mine' or countless other philosophies? Who's right, who's wrong or could it be that it takes a combination of all of the above to create global and ... Views: 1252
When I was being trained to drive for the police service - I learned a new method of driving safely - regardless of the situation.
Instead of focusing heavily on the vehicles around me - I was taught to 'look for the empty spaces'. This forced me to look for escape opportunities in case an ... Views: 1159
I’ve noticed lately more than ever that giving is considered virtuous. The more you give, the better you are. So guess what we all do? We give and give and give even more. I am certainly guilty of this. I love to give. I love working with others who also have generous spirits. It feels good to ... Views: 1420
Silchar is the 2nd biggest city in Assam and is situated 420 km south-east of Guwahati. It is a favorite commercial centre of Assam due to its tea cultivation. Sichar is located on the banks of the River Barak and is famous as Barak Valley. It is the economic gateway to Manipur and Mizoram ... Views: 1774
The power of belief is the major determinant to the events, circumstances and conditions we all experience in our lives.
Our beliefs are without doubt the most powerful and creative force we will ever possess.
'He can who thinks he can, and he can't who thinks he can't. This is an ... Views: 1093
Developing mental toughness is not easy. However, with the right information and a motivation to succeed, you will be able to develop this through your own efforts.
In this article I will discuss the benefits of possessing a mental toughness, and I will also provide you with some mental ... Views: 1084
Positive thinkers and dreamers
Being a positive thinker is one among the most popular advice people give everywhere for dealing with bad moods. From amateur bloggers to PHD holders, everyone tends to talk about the benefits of positive thinking in a way or another.
I do agree that positive ... Views: 1672
Molded Clay
By: Patrice Perkins
My title choice, “Molded Clay”, is an analogy. I am using this analogy because in life, we are formed into many different shapes to accommodate life, and at each turn, transformations occur so frequent until your personality or way of living your life ... Views: 1299
We all know about the importance of play for the emotional growth and development of children. It can enhance their imagination, increase social skills and boost self-confidence. So why don't we place more value on play for ourselves? According to a recent study by the Families and Work ... Views: 1317
Despite the occasional temporary setback, my life is good, and I’m grateful. It wasn’t always that way, however. At 18, just after I left for college, I was essentially orphaned, and have had to go from no education or support to finding a purpose, supporting myself through a PhD, and developing ... Views: 3015
Nature abhors a vacuum and I do too. In the spirit of generosity and kindness, as soon as I have some free time, I volunteer to do a deed. As these commitments accumulate, I find myself out of balance. There is little time for me to do what I really want to do and I begin to feel angry and ... Views: 1127
“You cannot change your destination overnight, but you can change your direction overnight.” Jim Rohn.
When everything is going smoothly, being resilient is probably not on your radar. Yet when the proverbial sh*&t hits the fan, we assume our resilient toolbox will be available and full. ... Views: 1359
Some relaxation music to read by: Dolphins Delight by Ambient Space)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UThOseyShA8&feature=youtu.be
You probably don’t like feeling stressed or that unidentifiable underlying unease that defines anxiety. Many of us lump all of our symptoms into one broad ... Views: 3313
US federal government is of the view that the taxpayer should have easy access to best healthcare facilities so that he/she can earn that paycheck and this is evident from various grants for health care that the US federal government provides to its hardworking taxpayers. Government is run on ... Views: 1587
4 reasons positive thinking can change your life
Most people know what positive thinking is but many of them don’t have an idea about how can positive thinking help them in their lives.
While positive thinking is not magic and its not a habit that you can use alone to get your tasks done ... Views: 1903
The moment the slave resolves that he will no longer be a slave, his fetters fall. Freedom and slavery are mental states. ~ Mahatma Gandhi
How would you define mental freedom? What does it feel like? What would it take to live your life with mental freedom as your foundation? Do you know ... Views: 4978
We are all Prisoners In The Vicious Circle Tit For Tat Bullying Tag Game
By Dr. Bill Cottringer, in association with Storm Door Productions.
“Courage is fire, and bullying is smoke.” ~Benjamin Disraeli.
Bullies
Bullies come in all shapes and sizes—
Countries, religions, girls ... Views: 2004
Self acceptance is a double edged sword. It has its pro and cons too like any other thing you find in this universe. Though self acceptance proves to be a very beneficial trait if implemented but it way too hazardous if not implemented or done in a wrong way.
Self acceptance redeems joys and ... Views: 1602
Experience inner joy when it arises from within you. We can feel it as the result of an experience in the world that inspires happiness. It can also occur for no apparent reason at all.
Recently I experience inner joy for no obvious reason. I pause in order to honor my emotions and I ask ... Views: 1226
Often times, persons blame others for their own feelings. We do shift the responsibility of how we are feeling to others. We all say things like “She made me mad.” “She hurt me.” “He freaked me out.” “He makes me unhappy.” “He makes me feel bad about myself.” These kinds of comment imply that we ... Views: 1329
Nope, it’s not gazing into your eyes in the mirror and spouting Stuart Smalley-like affirmations. (“I’m good enough. I’m smart enough. And doggone it, people like me!”) It’s more about looking at yourself in the mirror — really looking at yourself — and smiling rather than grimacing. Letting the ... Views: 1061
The only way to maintain mental sanity in the uprising culture of the super-industrial economics is to stay with your defunct purpose in it's vast blue clarity. It is wrong economics to create jobs without pensions and social securities. It is like to swim in a tidal ocean with just one hand. It ... Views: 1513
Success in anything is never easy. However the ones who really achieve in life, the ones who stretch the boundaries of possibility, have that vital and persistent habit of Thinking Successthinking success
Thinking success is the key to manifesting success
To achieve anything in life you ... Views: 1193
“In the beginning, the price of giving great love is risking that it won’t be returned. Until you understand, of course, that great love is always returned. With interest.” – Mike Dooley
Remember the first time you fell for someone. Oh sure the stories will vary from, we are married to ... Views: 914
While the Inner Critic is universally destructive and squeezes joy from many lives, its intention is to be a helpful force. It is there to protect. It shames you in an attempt to shield you from experiencing humiliation from external sources. Unfortunately while trying to help, it becomes ... Views: 2055
Happy New Year to you! How is your 2012 so far? What commitments have you made for the year ahead? What changes will take place in your life this year? And what are you doing about being more YOU?
Allow me to explain.
At the beginning of a new year, a lot of advice is flying around … how ... Views: 1978
Panic or Anxiety attacks are the result of a whole number of factors, which can range from stress at home or at work to a phobia to bereavement. They are essentially caused by the body's reaction to fear or emotional distress.
It's thought that as many as 1 in 10 people will suffer a panic ... Views: 1533
Ever since 1894, when the first book written on baby care by Dr. Luther Emmett Holt, “The Care and Feeding of Children” was published, doctors, educators and mothers were told that rapid response to crying babies was detrimental and would inevitably result in the “spoiling of our children”. I ... Views: 1575
Whenever I think about my past I feel like there’s an old movie reel in my head. When I’m feeling down or when I doubt my ability to face up to a challenge, I can hear it click on. It starts replaying all my failures, the hurtful words other people have said, the stupid things I’ve done, and all ... Views: 1355
Humor and laughter are some of the most enjoyable and powerful emotions that we experience in life. It has the power to bond us together as people, regardless of our differences.
Humor is a bonding language that all of us across the world share. While handshakes, hugs, and bows all have ... Views: 1200
Inspiration is where you find it. Sometimes that’s in the movies. My favorite theme for both books and film is what I refer to as passing the torch. It’s pretty simple actually. You can identify a passing the torch story because by the end of the movie one character is far better off as a ... Views: 1119
If you are looking to embark on a stress management course then you have to consider a number of important factors in order to ensure that you are getting the most effective stress management course which always delivers the goods. Firstly, you have to ensure that a stress management course is ... Views: 634
Have you ever met a person that instantly made you feel more capable, more productive, more inspired or more effective? I think that most of us have and we always find these individuals valuable members of our family or group of friends. Just what makes someone so positive in another person's ... Views: 1055
"All that we are is the result of what we have thought. If a man speaks or acts with an evil thought, pain follows him. If a man speaks or acts with a pure thought, happiness follows him, like a shadow that never leaves him." ~ Siddhartha Gautama, the Buddha.
Wow; ponder that for a millennia! ... Views: 1418
Seventeen million Americans today are taking antidepressants, spending 11.3 billion dollars for the privilege of doing so. Kind of depressing, wouldn’t you say? Rather than get depressed, however, I get angry.
Why? Because we have been fed so many phony “facts” about depression, we ... Views: 1372
I don't know about you, but I get annoyed when I look for self esteem boosters, and all I find are things like, "get a makeover", or "just think positive thoughts about yourself".
A makeover only lasts for so long, and if you could think more positively, wouldn't you be doing it ... Views: 2111
(taken from my book)
"It was September 18, 2007, a normal Tuesday in the lives of many millions of people. But on this date a computer science professor, Randy Pausch, Ph.D., gave what is now known as “The Last Lecture.” It actually was the professor’s last lecture, given at Carnegie Mellon ... Views: 1236
The most common question I am asked at speaking engagements and on social media sites is have I considered the long term effects of taking antidepressants. Here’s my answer.
If I don’t see tomorrow, I don’t have to worry about long term effects. Taking daily medication is the reason I am ... Views: 3152
12 Things You Can Do To Manage The Change In Your Life
The technology is helping world make smaller and faster. People have access to instant information and they connect immediately around the world. Social networking is changing how we interact with the world in general. Prolific access to ... Views: 1147
What makes you worthy of being the person you want to be? What is it that makes you deserving of doing and having everything you want in life? Could you just take a couple of minutes, and ask yourself these questions? Take a few moments and think about this. And give yourself some honest ... Views: 1944
What every new Mom needs to know
Seven ancient secrets to restoring happiness and vitality after childbirth:
Childbirth — a turning point in a woman's life. But there is often a big gap in the care that is available to new mothers during the first 6-7 weeks after giving birth -- the ... Views: 1994
Part of self harm help is knowing that being close to individuals who self harm like cutting or burning themselves makes coping really tough and sometimes hard to comprehend. Take note that the reasons why people cut themselves vary from person to person and come in several forms. It is really ... Views: 1622
Know of anyone that would spend Valentine’s Day with young strangers, hugging each one, giving them $20 in a card and a box of See’s candy? He was a 19 year old “tough” guy who had a giant, loving heart.
This happened at a facility for children with emotional problems who had no family ... Views: 1509
You Can. No matter what you thought before.
by Christoph Niederstadt
You probably watched The Secret? It's all about the Law of attraction and how it works. And it's all very inspiring. I watched it may be 60 times during an unemployment period. At the Time it filled me with great hope, that ... Views: 713
When I first realized I was putting immense and constant pressure on myself, and that the pressure was causing my body to revolt, it was like putting on glasses for the first time. I could see clearly how much I was beating myself up, trying to be perfect, judging myself, and otherwise rejecting ... Views: 1009
Why are you giving? Truly ask yourself this question. Are you giving to get? Are you giving to make yourself "feel better?" Are you giving because it is your Divine nature? There isn't a right or wrong answer here. There is an answer that will create a more conscious, sustainable and powerful ... Views: 1274