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- Relationships: Do Some Women’s Childhoods Set Them Up To Surrender To The Wrong Men? - by Submitted on Feb 20, 2019 from Oliver JR CooperThere are women in the world who will be only too happy to surrender to a man, while there are women out there who won’t. As a result of this, these women are going to have radically different expectations. Therefore, there will be what the first group of women look for and then there are ...
Views: 844(1 vote) - Singles and Valentine's Day: Ten Tips for Less Stress - by Submitted on Jan 31, 2010 from Phyllis GoldbergValentine's Day is a romantic time for couples - a special day to express love. But it can also put pressure on people who, every other day of the year, are perfectly fine with their single status. Are you one of the millions of singles who is lonely on this day? Feeling alienated or insecure ...
Views: 1529(6 votes) - The 6 Best Craigslist Personals Alternative for Everything - by Submitted on Jun 23, 2020 from Mike AndersonDo you remember Craigslist personals? Are you looking for a viable Craigslist replacement due to the developments that occurred over the past few years? Here are five viable suggestions for you. Why Were Craigslist Personals Removed? Craigslist personals dominated the casual sex and ...
Views: 1166(1 vote) - Where Is My Valentine? - by Submitted on Feb 11, 2010 from Kathleen SimsYes, you read that right! “What will be my Valentine?” We usually ask, “Who will be my Valentine?” - which can bring up a myriad of uncomfortable answers, particularly if you are single. Those who are in a romantic relationship tend to think romance is a ‘shoe in’. Wait a minute – is it? ...
Views: 900(1 vote) - “Loving Your Partner” or “Loving Too Much” Determines Whether the Relationship Fails or Succeeds - by Submitted on Jun 05, 2011 from Doron GilYou may see yourself as someone who loves “taking care” of your partner. You do “all you can” to pamper, give and be there for him/her. But is it really “love” or are you driven by insecurity and a deep unconscious need to be loved? “LOVING” and “LOVING TOO MUCH” Do you, each time you ...
Views: 1438(1 vote) - ***Why Do Women Go Out With Jerks? - by Submitted on Mar 15, 2011 from Paul Dobransky, M.D.Women go out with jerks because of reasons you would not suspect. None of them are logical. None of them are “right” or “fair” in a fair world. It is unfair that sexual attraction and dating are “unfair” once you learn the nature of human instincts between the genders. The reason that they ...
Views: 3505(10 votes) - ***What To Do On A First Date With A Woman - by Submitted on Mar 15, 2011 from Paul Dobransky, M.D.A first date with a woman had better not be the only date on your social horizon. Get that straight right from the beginning. I don’t care if you are short, fat, bald, “ugly,” haven’t ever played a guitar or rode a motorcycle. I don’t even care if you can’t dance, have a small penis, and ...
Views: 3237(9 votes) - ***Dating and Looking for Love? Why You Should Think of Yourself First - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerDo you know that you are special, that you count big time, and that you deserve to think of yourself first when dating and developing a love relationship? This is such a difficult concept for so many women. Think of myself first? That’s so selfish! I’ve never done that before…ever! I don’t ...
Views: 2360(12 votes) - 30 Things You Can Do This Weekend (With or Without a Man) - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerHappy Memorial Day weekend! How about a little trivia to start your day? In 1868, May 30 was designated as a holiday to honor the nation’s Civil War casualties. Now called Memorial Day, it was originally known as Decoration Day. Red poppies are commonly associated with Memorial Day and are ...
Views: 2523(11 votes) - Learn to Create Your Own Social Life! - by Submitted on Sep 22, 2009 from Royane RealPeople who are lonely and who have few friends often dread the arrival of evenings and the weekends, because they have nothing to do, and no one to do it with. Weekends can become a long stretch of lonely hours and nothing to do. Why not change that! Many lonely people stay lonely because ...
Views: 1666(10 votes) - ***Manifest Your Mate - by Submitted on Jan 15, 2008 from Jill CrosbyFinding the love of your life can be a daunting challenge these days, without having a little help! Most singles on a conscious path are relatively happy and content with their lives; however, they would usually prefer to be in a loving, spiritual partnership with a person that enhances their ...
Views: 2788(4 votes) - 7 Tips for Singles to Survive the Holidays - by Submitted on Dec 16, 2010 from Donna Marie ThompsonAre you dreading the upcoming holidays because you are single? The holidays are right around the corner and you thought you'd have plans by now. Well, many people are going into the holidays single. But being single does not need to mean being alone. Perhaps it's your first time as a ...
Views: 1655(4 votes) - Five Keys to Avoid Desperate Dating - by Submitted on Sep 11, 2011 from Jonathon AslayIn my 10,000+ hours of listening to women who are dating at 40 or older, I hear they want men to fall for them before they take the time to find out if the guy is worthy of their affections. As a Heart Protector of Women let’s explore the dangers of dating desperately rather than with ...
Views: 3258(4 votes) - Best Friends and Lovers - by Submitted on Nov 21, 2009 from Lilly WhiteFirst meeting should be about building a friendship before initiating sex. The friendship will be the foundation to keep the relationship cemented in place. When working on a friendship there is no fear of being your self. Trust is built first out of friendship and grows more with every ...
Views: 2397(11 votes) - Signs of a Controlling Relationship - by Submitted on Apr 20, 2010 from Michael FehlauerThe following are signs of a controlling relationship: 1. Flattery – Flattery is different than a compliment – A compliment adds to a person. It builds within you a sense of confidence free from any ulterior motives. Flattery on the other hand is insincere and selfish in its motive – which is ...
Views: 3786(7 votes) - ***Let's Agree to Face Our Fear - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerDo you go month to month, year to year, repeating the same mantra about men? It leaves your mouth in various forms, but you’ve got only one point: to release yourself from any responsibility and keep you safe and snug-as-a-bug-in-a-rug without the worry of that pesky intimacy thing. "There ...
Views: 1613(6 votes) - 10 tips on how to stay happy living the single life... - by Submitted on Nov 10, 2009 from Nicole BaikieBeing single at any age can be challenging in a world that seems to put so much importance on finding the love of your life and becoming a couple. The whole world seems to be geared up to support you in this quest. There is very little support given to those who are consciously choosing to be ...
Views: 22936(3 votes) - 4 Signs of Emotionally Unavailable Men - by Submitted on Sep 10, 2012 from Marni BattistaAre you frustrated by your "broken picker?" Learn how to navigate the tricky space between picky and selective using these four tips! If you are sick of attracting men who are emotionally unavailable, it's not because you have a "broken picker!" More likely, you are not listening to what he ...
Views: 4079(3 votes) - Are YOU ready for LOVE? - by Submitted on May 12, 2010 from Elmasue ZylberbergHi, this is Lexie Moon and Elmasue Zylberberg and we are going to be discussing You-getting ready for love. We all want to manifest perfect love and our soulmate. We dream of spending the rest of our lives with that perfect partner. There are many programs out there that promise to help ...
Views: 3739(3 votes) - Building Trust in Your Relationship Using these 7 Critical Steps - by Submitted on Mar 14, 2010 from Helena JacksonThese 7 steps to building relationships are critical to couples looking for long-term love and partnership. However, some of these tips are not what most of us think of first! These deceptively simple steps are most effective in improving and maintaining your trust and connection together in ...
Views: 1475(3 votes) - How to Be Noticed and Get More Respect – The Art of Sensuous Seduction - by Submitted on Oct 08, 2011 from Allura JoyIf you’re single looking to find the guy of your dreams, or you already have a partner but feel overlooked at times; then listen up for some great tips on enchanting those around you. Seducing a man doesn’t necessarily mean stealing him from someone else, or convincing him to do something he ...
Views: 3195(6 votes) - I'd Rather Stay Single than be A Home Wrecker - by Submitted on Dec 21, 2011 from Grace AbonilloBeing a single mother, most of us happen to have a hard time getting into a serious relationship. Almost all the time it always ends up to a short lived love affair. There are some men who thought that when you are a single mother, you are that desperate to have a relationship and most likely ...
Views: 2563(3 votes) - Poker Players and Dating Slayers ~ Men Playing Poker May Reveal How They Date Online - by Submitted on May 17, 2011 from Jonathon AslayThe way a man approaches online dating could be the exact way he plays poker (like Texas Hold’em). If you can figure out how a man plays poker, you might easily see how he dates. Some men are just bad poker players. They don’t have a lot of experience, aren’t invested in learning, rather ...
Views: 5416(3 votes) - She Will Fall in Love With You - But You Have to Know How to Make Her Feel That Way - by Submitted on Feb 06, 2010 from Chris TylerSo, you've met or know a woman that you just cannot seem to get out of your mind. Everywhere you go and everything that you do, you find yourself drifting back to thoughts of her. You want to be able to make her fall in love. You want her to say that she feels the same way about you. Feeling ...
Views: 1315(8 votes) - ***How to Spot the Bad Guys and Chase Them Away - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerDo you want to be in a relationship with a man who doesn't care what you want and need? I'm going to assume the answer is "no." So I have to ask: Why would you date a man who doesn't care what you want and need? Two of my private coaching clients are struggling with the notion of ...
Views: 1874(5 votes) - Let's Talk About SEX, Baby!! - by Submitted on Sep 20, 2009 from Danish AhmedLet's talk about sex, baby Let's talk about you and me Let's talk about all the good things, And the bad things that may be Let's talk about sex - Salt N Pepa (1992, Written by Herby Azor) - - - - - - - - - - Let's Talk About Sex... Sex can be an uncomfortable topic for some people. ...
Views: 3825(5 votes) - Tips for Attracting Your Soul Mate - by Submitted on Oct 28, 2011 from Beata KulitskayaI’m no philosopher but I am a good observer. And in my 15-years as a Feng Shui consultant, I have met many clients anxious to find their soul mate. When I ask what approach they have taken, I get the usual answer. “My friends try to play Cupid for me.” “I joined an internet dating site.” ...
Views: 5226(5 votes) - Relationship Red Flags: Truth and Consequences - by Submitted on Sep 04, 2009 from Anna MossWhen they first flutter across your path, red flags are so small and benign, you may hardly notice them. In hindsight, you may swear at yourself for not paying attention to them because of what they later reveal. Red flags are subtle signals that show up when something is not quite right. They ...
Views: 1940(12 votes) - The Single's Guide to Healthy Self-esteem - by Submitted on Jul 08, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraMany people would agree that being single is fun, liberating and definitely much better than being in a relationship. However, not all singles have it easy all the time. Single women, especially, are at times faced with difficulties about how other people perceive their current status. Friends ...
Views: 1021(2 votes) - ***How To Ask A Woman Out - by Submitted on Mar 15, 2011 from Paul Dobransky, M.D.The best situation is of course, for a woman to ask YOU out, but that presents a different set of challenges than those around how you’re going to “get up the nerve,” whether or not she is already with someone else, or any other manner of concerns you may have that prevent you form what comes ...
Views: 2941(2 votes) - ***How To Get A Woman's Number - by Submitted on Mar 15, 2011 from Paul Dobransky, M.D.Under most circumstances with a woman, it’s utterly fruitless to get a woman’s number if she is a.) not sexually attracted b.) not friendly or feel a sense of fun or friendship from you, or c.) not a good match for you intellectually, in maturity, culture or tastes. Why would you even bother? Or ...
Views: 3279(2 votes) - ***How to Know if He is Merely Hot...or Maybe Husband - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerLooking for a life partner but keep picking players, paupers, or just plain zeros? Finding a partner is like finding a good job: you only need one, but making a bad choice wastes your time and sticks you in an unpleasant situation. To avoid that, you need to make a grown-up decision about ...
Views: 2203(14 votes) - ***The 6 Keys to Spiritual Dating - by Submitted on Mar 10, 2009 from Jill crosby“Spiritual Dating” or “Conscious Dating” is an enlightened way of meeting and dating. There are no rules or expectations, and it’s about being true to oneself and staying in the flow. Conscious dating is more fun than the traditional style of dating, and it yields much better results! As we ...
Views: 3433(2 votes) - ***Why Married Men Adore You But the Single Guys Don't - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerAs a Dating and Relationship Coach for Women, I talk to many women who say they are buddies with many married and attached men; yet they don't get asked out on any dates. The complaint comes under one of these two categories: 1. She talks to a lot of men and they seem to like her; but none ...
Views: 2838(4 votes) - 8 Most Common Dating Mistakes People Make on The Internet - by Submitted on Dec 04, 2011 from Jennifer Elizabeth Masters8 COMMON DATING MISTAKES MOST PEOPLE MAKE ON THE INTERNET Finding love We all want to be loved. It is a very profound human need. But how do we get it? Where do we look for it? Why don't we find it? ...
Views: 1681(2 votes) - A New Way Of Dating - by Submitted on Oct 01, 2014 from Tatia DeeCircular Dating is a tool used in the Rori Raye (www.coachrori.com) Method of relationship Coaching. Let me start off by saying that Circular Dating is NOT about “dating” a whole bunch of men at one time. Circular Dating is interacting with men! Circular Dating is all about ...
Views: 1876(4 votes) - Are You Rushing the Relationship? - by Submitted on Oct 08, 2011 from Jonathon AslayHave you ever found yourself in this situation? You started dating a good guy who is full of integrity, charming, funny and considerate. The lines of communication seem to be wide open and you feel connected. You start to imagine life together with him on a daily basis and ponder over fantasies ...
Views: 5130(2 votes) - Ask The Asia Dating Coach - Andrew Chow - by Submitted on Mar 12, 2011 from Andrew ChowSTUDIES have shown that late marriage is a becoming common phenomenon in modern, developed countries. Singapore, Korea, Japan are three of the worst hit countries in Asia, and Malaysia is fast becoming the infamous 4th. The more developed a country, the higher the mean age for marriage. So ...
Views: 2447(2 votes) - Confidence in love: How to find true and lasting love ~ part 2 - by Submitted on Feb 09, 2012 from Anna Aparicio7 billion of us on Earth, and yet so many people feel so alone. With more avenues than ever to connect with each other, quicker than ever before, many people find it harder than ever. We can Skype, twit and poke people on the other side of the globe. So far, yet so close. So close, yet so far. ...
Views: 2097(2 votes) - Dating Advice for Christians: Online Dating Tips - by Submitted on Mar 19, 2011 from Suzanne WiebeMany Christians are starting to visit online dating sites like RealChristianSingles.com and ChristianCafe.com. The controversy over whether Christians should date is a hotly debated one, and often leaves Christian singles frustrated and confused. I’ve spent a year on an online dating site ...
Views: 2833(2 votes) - Dating Games Men Play - by Submitted on Apr 11, 2011 from Suzanne WiebeThis article is inspired by a dating forum where a lengthy conversation caught my attention. It amazed me how many people fear doing the wrong thing. The same questions continually pop up in the forums, and in coaching sessions. Can a woman ask a man out? What is the proper etiquette when ...
Views: 9927(2 votes) - Dating Help: Is He Married? - by Submitted on May 13, 2011 from Suzanne WiebeOne of the most devastating betrayals for a woman is to find out that the man she is dating is a married man. The betrayal goes deeper than a break up. There is rarely, if ever, a chance to confront the man. The relationship will break up just as it is ready to move to the next step. In fact, ...
Views: 1617(2 votes) - Dating Online And Learning To Play Safely - by Submitted on Sep 28, 2012 from Kevin SparksDecades ago people would meet in crowded bars and try to start conversations with complete strangers in the hope of quickly creating a relationship that would last a lifetime. As you can imagine, that didn't have a high rate of success. Then the internet evolved and people progressed from simple ...
Views: 2426(2 votes) - Disadvantages of Online Dating - by Submitted on Mar 19, 2011 from Suzanne WiebeDating online has many problems not faced when dating from your church or denomination. The most common is distance. I’ve heard many horror stories in the last year. One woman reported that she dated someone over the phone for a year. Then, when it was time to meet he disappeared and she never ...
Views: 13286(2 votes) - Dr. Romance's Happiness Tip: Alone on Valentine's Day? - by Submitted on Feb 14, 2012 from Tina TessinaValentine's Day gets a lot of media attention, and it can be hard to avoid. When you don't have a special someone to spend it with, or worse yet, you've just lost a relationship, it can be brutal. If you're alone, it's important to take good care of yourself. Gather your best friends around you ...
Views: 1946(2 votes) - Finding Mr. Good Guy - by Submitted on Jul 26, 2011 from Jonathon AslayFrequently I receive emails from women that desire a romantic relationship yet never go anywhere or do anything that would help facilitate meeting good men. Landing a partner for life does not usually happen at the grocery store, nail salon or single moms club. Even if you go register with ...
Views: 1956(2 votes) - Five Deadly Dating Mistakes Women Commit - by Submitted on Jun 18, 2011 from Jonathon AslayThe very nature of a man drives him to conquer, protect and provide. With that being said I wish to conquer wrong thinking many women may have entertained and protect you from harm by providing you with information that could prevent you from getting hurt and damaging your relationships. When ...
Views: 2762(4 votes) - If You Want to Meet Your Soul-Mate, Meet Yourself First - by Submitted on May 22, 2011 from Doron GilIf you haven’t been successful in cultivating an intimate relationship in spite of your continuing attempts, and are tired of disappointments, failed relationships, unfulfilled promises and/or partners who mislead you, you may resort to believing that you haven’t met your soul-mate yet. He/she ...
Views: 2364(2 votes) - Internet dating: How to make yourself stand out with online dating services? - by Submitted on Jul 10, 2011 from Eileen ParksIn the year of 2011, online dating has been even more popular than ever. More than 80% singles worldwide have joined all kinds of online dating services, niche dating sites for the purpose of locating the right people for romance, dating, relationships as well as marriage. Message says, just in ...
Views: 3072(2 votes) - Sex and the Single Girl ~ How Long Should I Wait? - by Submitted on Nov 18, 2011 from Jonathon AslayAs a Relationship Confidant, I often hear that women wonder how long they should wait before having sex. My answer would depend on what the woman wants out of the relationship. If she is looking for a solid committed relationship and she just met the guy I would answer very differently than if ...
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