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- Friends with Benefits - by Submitted on Aug 05, 2012 from Tina TessinaIf you’re thinking about having sex with a friend, be very careful, because it is not easy to preserve a friendship once you have sex. We think we can control our feelings, but it's not so simple. If one of you becomes romantically attached as a result of the sex, the friendship will ...
Views: 2923(1 vote) - Sex and the Single Girl ~ How Long Should I Wait? - by Submitted on Nov 18, 2011 from Jonathon AslayAs a Relationship Confidant, I often hear that women wonder how long they should wait before having sex. My answer would depend on what the woman wants out of the relationship. If she is looking for a solid committed relationship and she just met the guy I would answer very differently than if ...
Views: 2918(2 votes) - 3 Reasons You Need to Treat Dating Like Shopping for Shoes - by Submitted on Jul 06, 2016 from Kemi SogunleEvery woman or man wants a pair of good shoes. No one would buy smaller-sized shoes or an uncomfortable pair to start with. We all like to mix and match while ensuring that we stand out at any event we attend. Just like shoes, no one wants to be with the wrong partner. Here are three reasons ...
Views: 2881 - Six Secrets Of Successful Russian Dating And Marriage - by Submitted on Jun 11, 2012 from lisa yungMany men like Russian girls and many are dating them online. How can you have successful dating online and a happy marriage? Read through the six secrets, also the keys to successful date with your dream soul mate. Be Devoted to your dream Russian bride Love calls for devotion. It is ...
Views: 2876(2 votes) - Do You Need to Upgrade Your Small Talk Skills? - by Submitted on Nov 30, 2009 from Royane RealBillions of people are doing it every single day. In fact, you could say it makes the world go round. Some of the people who are doing it are very young. Some are very old. And billions of hours are spent on it every single day. What is this activity that is so common that nearly everyone ...
Views: 2868(3 votes) - How to Love Your Loneliness - by Submitted on Jan 29, 2010 from Brenda AdelmanVienna, Austria circa 1987: I had just graduated from college and was alive with the excitement of exploring the world. My brother, Warren, had been living in this breathtakingly beautiful city for several years and I missed him. He was acting in an English-speaking movie starring Ben Kingsley ...
Views: 2862(2 votes) - The Different Styles Of Communication Between Men And Women - by Submitted on Oct 04, 2010 from Lori PinkertonIt is no secret that men and women haven’t always been able to communicate properly. The concepts and ideas that are innate in most women are usually difficult concepts for most men to grasp. By the same token, things that are obvious to men are not easily understood by the majority of women. ...
Views: 2852(3 votes) - The Ups & Downs of Being Single - by Submitted on Jan 10, 2015 from LaToya CampbellThe single life has its ups and downs and being single could either be the most exciting part of a person’s life, or the loneliest part of life for someone. On one hand, you are free to date who you want and could potentially have fun doing so. Unfortunately, this time for some is not ...
Views: 2848(2 votes) - ***Why You're Dating and Not Finding Quality Men - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerDating can be a real pain in the butt, right? It can be a lot of work that leads to a lot of nothing. I conducted a survey recently and asked women what their biggest challenge was when they date. The #1 response was: I’m not meeting quality men. Can you relate?? I hear this from women ...
Views: 2840(5 votes) - ***Why Married Men Adore You But the Single Guys Don't - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerAs a Dating and Relationship Coach for Women, I talk to many women who say they are buddies with many married and attached men; yet they don't get asked out on any dates. The complaint comes under one of these two categories: 1. She talks to a lot of men and they seem to like her; but none ...
Views: 2830(4 votes) - Dating Advice for Christians: Online Dating Tips - by Submitted on Mar 19, 2011 from Suzanne WiebeMany Christians are starting to visit online dating sites like RealChristianSingles.com and ChristianCafe.com. The controversy over whether Christians should date is a hotly debated one, and often leaves Christian singles frustrated and confused. I’ve spent a year on an online dating site ...
Views: 2824(2 votes) - Find Gorgeous Cougar Women Looking for Younger Men - by Submitted on Nov 02, 2013 from Jenny TranThe cougar has become a common part of the dating scene in recent years. Cougars are older women who often spend their time taking a look at younger men. Men can find attractive older women like these cougars when they know what they have to do. First, a younger man should be looking into ...
Views: 2816 - How to Write the First Message to Her - by Submitted on Mar 03, 2010 from Andrew HunterAmong the list of hippest things at the moment is internet dating. You are able to find women online with just a couple of clicks. There once was a stigma round online dating, but seriously a man would have to be brainless not to try it out. Consider This. Certainly you'll find lots of ...
Views: 2806(8 votes) - What is the most Widespread Shoes-Nike - by Submitted on Dec 06, 2010 from xiao shaoThe most leading designer of shoes is Nike throughout the world, the Nike basketball shoes are light, soft and are famous for their exquisitive workmanship and novel pattern. A extreme appreciated outline shoe is named Nike zoom Kobe belong to basketball shoe and the shoes depend on what you ...
Views: 2806 - 5 Tips To Help You Find A Serious Relationship Online - by Submitted on Mar 26, 2013 from Lynn LoopHave you been online dating for a long time and just can’t seem to keep a man interested for more than a few weeks at a time? If this is the case for you, do not worry; you are far from alone in having this problem. One of the most difficult parts of meeting men online is that men have access ...
Views: 2791(1 vote) - ***Manifest Your Mate - by Submitted on Jan 15, 2008 from Jill CrosbyFinding the love of your life can be a daunting challenge these days, without having a little help! Most singles on a conscious path are relatively happy and content with their lives; however, they would usually prefer to be in a loving, spiritual partnership with a person that enhances their ...
Views: 2779(4 votes) - The Art of Approaching Groups of Women - by Submitted on Jan 29, 2012 from Richard LisoAs human beings, we tend to gather and travel in groups. Especially when it comes to social venues, such as restaurants, cafés, bars and clubs – people will rarely be alone. Women are not different, and in fact will be almost always hanging out in groups, usually groups of ...
Views: 2777 - Amusing Questions To Ask Women: Learning To Make A Girl Chuckle And Use It To Your Benefit - by Submitted on Sep 06, 2011 from Andy YangIf you would like be effective in women, particularly for the first time you are to approach her, then you've got to be good at funny questions to ask a girl. Moreover, the perfect kinds of funny questions to ask a girl may lead straight to getting her serious about you, having her telephone ...
Views: 2769 - How to Flirt and Start a Conversation With “What’s Your Sign?” - by Submitted on Nov 12, 2010 from Tracey BennettStarting a conversation with men and women is easy. Follow these tips and “What’s your sign?” will lead from casual talk to flirting to genuine first-date conversation. The conversation starter “What’s your sign?” had its heyday in the 60′s when the musical Hair turned everyone’s attention to ...
Views: 2758(8 votes) - Five Deadly Dating Mistakes Women Commit - by Submitted on Jun 18, 2011 from Jonathon AslayThe very nature of a man drives him to conquer, protect and provide. With that being said I wish to conquer wrong thinking many women may have entertained and protect you from harm by providing you with information that could prevent you from getting hurt and damaging your relationships. When ...
Views: 2754(4 votes) - ***The Truth About Reading Men’s Minds – And Quieting Yours - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerIf you’re a woman who tends to over think and over analyze (and let’s face it…what woman doesn’t?) I want to advise you when it’s appropriate to do so about men: N-E-V-E-R! Oh how we love to dwell in conversations with ourselves about all kinds of fascinating things. Is he attracted to me, ...
Views: 2747(10 votes) - Get Back Together With Your Ex Girlfriend After A Break Up - Don't Just Wait But Take Actions - by Submitted on Jul 05, 2011 from Alan KavanderDo you wish to get back together with your ex girlfriend after she broke up with you? Are you attempting to do something or simply sitting in the room waiting for her to come back to you by her own? Well, when you do nothing but just sitting around ready for her, then there is a very good chance ...
Views: 2738 - Master The Art Of Firting - by Submitted on Dec 07, 2008 from Menno SpijkstraMen flirt in different ways and for different reasons. Some flirt primarily to get into the ladies’ underpants, while others do it to meet new people. For some, flirting is just pure fun. But not all men have mastered the art of flirting. A few may still have trouble approaching a girl ...
Views: 2705 - What Makes An Excellent Flirt? - by Submitted on Mar 30, 2010 from Meghan GehanWhat makes an excellent flirt? What do you think of when you imagine yourself in a situation where you are getting ready to flirt with someone? What do you notice inside yourself in those moments? What do you feel self-confident about and where do you feel you need help? Here are some things ...
Views: 2704(4 votes) - ***Are Solitude And Loneliness Different? - by Submitted on Apr 21, 2008 from Dr. Jackie BlackHave you ever wanted some time alone? The notions of solitude, loneliness and being alone are often confusing or misunderstood, especially by committed partners. One way to look at this is to say that solitude is the joy of being alone while loneliness is the pain of being alone. Being ...
Views: 2697(1 vote) - Husband Hunting - by Submitted on Jul 08, 2008 from Arthur LevineNo one said this was going to be easy, but if you follow the twenty-four keys to finding a husband I am going to tell you about, you can be successful. Look at this as a tiger hunt. You wouldn’t go hunting a tiger without the right equipment, would you? Think of the man you are hunting ...
Views: 2694 - How to Catch a Man and Keep Him Happy - by Submitted on Aug 05, 2011 from Jonathon AslayIt doesn't take a rocket scientist to realize that men are attracted to gorgeous women, but it does get complicated for women to understand what keeps men interested. As a Guy Spy into the Male Mind women are always asking me what men are looking for in a woman. They want to know what he needs ...
Views: 2670(3 votes) - ***Nasality Puts a Real Damper on a Sexy Speaking Voice - by Submitted on Mar 26, 2012 from Nancy DanielsWhenever I hold a 2-day workshop, my clients do a ‘before & after’ video which is not only eye-opening but most definitely ear-opening as well. What is striking is the decrease in nasality no matter the background, the language or the culture of the individual. This change occurs because of a ...
Views: 2665 - The Law Of Attraction & Relationships - by Submitted on Sep 11, 2009 from Dawn Michaels"There is an inner awareness that a soul mate exists. So, then, begins the divine search." ~ Unknown Applying the law of attraction to any area of your life is always an exciting experience. But finding your true love is an especially wonderful adventure filled with joy, hope, passion and ...
Views: 2641(2 votes) - Dating After Divorce – What to Do - by Submitted on Aug 31, 2009 from Dr. Dar HawksIt is daunting to consider dating after experiencing divorce, especially after spending ten or more years with someone. By implementing the tips in this article, I am certain you will become more comfortable and even enjoy dating because dating is a process and can be structured to fit your ...
Views: 2637(3 votes) - Book Review: Single - The Art of Being Satisfied, Fulfilled and Independent - by Submitted on Mar 25, 2009 from Douglas PakThis book review is part of a series that covers the topic of Singles. Whether looking for marriage, long-term relationships or short-term flings, singles life encompasses all those searching for relationship partners. Jill Crosby is the Official Guide to Singles. Single: The Art of Being ...
Views: 2616 - Ask Lisa Daily! Why Did My Girlfriend Dump Me? - by Submitted on Jul 22, 2009 from Lisa DailyDear Lisa, I am a man, and I would like to know why my girlfriend dumped me! Women also do the dumping! Why do you NOT have a WHY WOMEN DUMP MEN column on your site? Is it only a figment of the mind that men are also human? –Representing Dear Representing, Yes, men are human. Most ...
Views: 2615(4 votes) - Fun Ways to Spend a First Date - by Submitted on Feb 19, 2011 from Zuri EberhartMemorable Date Ideas to Jumpstart Your Romance From the hip twenty-something to the experienced dating diva, everyone’s always on the look out for fresh, fun ideas to spice up a first date. Check out my list of thoughtful ways to make your time together memorable and special: 1. A ...
Views: 2613 - The Top 3 Reasons You're Single - by Submitted on Apr 30, 2010 from Shay BanksThere are a lot of single people out there. I interact with them everyday, hell, I am one! What I’ve learned in my own dating and relationship life is that single people are single for three reasons: • you wanna be • your relationship just ended • there’s no one for you to date (or so you ...
Views: 2604(1 vote) - Good Conversation Starters: What to Do When Your Great Ice Breaker Fails to Start Conversation - by Submitted on Nov 18, 2010 from Tracey BennettYour great ice breaker just melted on the floor. Do you know how to recover when your ice breaker fails to start conversation? Follow these two tips and you'll successfully talk to men or women every time. The Ice Breaker That Belly Flopped As a new member of the National Association of ...
Views: 2595(7 votes) - Encouragement for Young Single Moms - by Submitted on Apr 26, 2009 from Samantha GregoryI have been a single mom for 12 years. I had both of my children outside of marriage and they are from different men. I could be ashamed and for a long time I was. I could barely hold my head up on some days. It seemed like everyone was looking down on me and criticizing me about my life ...
Views: 2586(1 vote) - 5 Self-sabotaging Behaviors That Are Keeping You Single - by Submitted on Apr 03, 2012 from Erica JohnsonDo you know that you are an amazing woman who deserves love and a man that is going to treat you like the queen that you are? What I find so disturbing sometimes is that there are single women who deserve to be in a healthy fulfilling relationship with their ideal mate however they self-sabotage ...
Views: 2584 - Five Good Rules for The First Post Divorce Date - by Submitted on Mar 24, 2011 from Suzanne WiebePreparing for the first date, post divorce, can be traumatic, unfortunately it doesn’t get any better after time. Even the most mature, well balanced people get their share of jitters at the thought of a first date. The key is to be prepared, to know the rules, and to prepare for a fun time. ...
Views: 2571(3 votes) - Life After Divorce: How to Move Past the Hurt - by Submitted on Aug 31, 2012 from Marni BattistaFor most women the end of a marriage feels like starting life completely over from scratch. So although it might feel strange, divorce can ultimately become the “best, worst thing” that ever happens. And, armed with that mindset, life after divorce can signal a new beginning. One day, your ...
Views: 2565(1 vote) - Getting Back Together With Your Ex - by Submitted on Jan 10, 2015 from LaToya CampbellThe first step in making it work again with an ex is to remember and understand the reasons behind your break up in the first place. If you decide to make it work again with your ex, the question would then be if you could get past the reason for the initial break up. Once you’ve made up your ...
Views: 2564(1 vote) - Taking Off Your Masks is a Prerequisite to Succeed in an Intimate Relationship - by Submitted on Oct 28, 2011 from Doron GilINTRODUCTION Masks you wear might have a heavy toll on your relationships. You are not “who you really are”. You can’t develop a truly intimate bond. Acknowledging the masks and removing them is a prerequisite for a successful intimate relationship. DO YOU PRESENT TO YOURSELF AND OTHERS ...
Views: 2564(1 vote) - 3 Keys To Beating Loneliness - by Submitted on Apr 29, 2008 from Jack ZavadaLoneliness may be life’s commonest problem, but you can rise above it if you keep these three truths in mind. 1. Loneliness is caused by fear. We fear being rejected by others. We fear for our physical safety and we also fear investing our precious time. Most of all, we fear entering into a ...
Views: 2554 - Is it really possible to find love online - by Submitted on Apr 15, 2010 from Dean HopkinsOnline dating sites and social media sites are exploding so is it really possible to find love online or is it just filled with too many cheats liars and scams? Well I have gained a lot of personal experience this last year on this topic and I have spoken to hundreds of people looking to find ...
Views: 2554(6 votes) - I'd Rather Stay Single than be A Home Wrecker - by Submitted on Dec 21, 2011 from Grace AbonilloBeing a single mother, most of us happen to have a hard time getting into a serious relationship. Almost all the time it always ends up to a short lived love affair. There are some men who thought that when you are a single mother, you are that desperate to have a relationship and most likely ...
Views: 2553(3 votes) - Why Hasn't He Called/Why Hasn't She Called Back? - by Submitted on Jan 20, 2012 from Dr. D. E. XanderWell that is the question that is always asked when the object of your affection fails to call you as promised or fails to return your call. Let’s say that a guy is introduced to a woman at a social event and they really hit it off. They talk to each other for most of the night. At the end of ...
Views: 2538 - How to Tell if a Man Is Interested in You - by Submitted on Sep 09, 2012 from Marni BattistaFive Sure-Fire Ways to Tell He Is Definitely Interested in YOU! Whether you are making eyes at some hunky guy over your latte, or on a first date with a man you think might be a keeper, you need to know how to tell if a man is interested in you. Check in using our Five Point “Is He Into Me” ...
Views: 2535(2 votes) - I Miss My Ex - How To Make Your Ex Boyfriend-Ex Girlfriend Miss You Like Crazy - Freshly Pressed - by Submitted on Oct 17, 2016 from Tiemo DonaldI miss my ex; Have you broke up with someone and want to get back together with them? You are probably overwhelmed over this break up but you will stay alive. You just need to get past the pain and irritation you are feeling right now and you will then be able to think clearly about what you ...
Views: 2518 - Can Men Think for Themselves? - by Submitted on Jul 18, 2010 from Mike EdwardsCan Men Think for Themselves? I am an independent person, I can look after myself. Can I? Really! Well I thought I could. Six moths ago I split with my partner of sixteen years. Although the outcome was traumatic but inevitable, the aftermath has been amicable; my ex-partner is my new best ...
Views: 2517(1 vote) - Women over 50-Find out Why Quality Men of All Ages Want to Date You as a Mature Dater - by Submitted on Aug 27, 2012 from Lisa CI hear so many women mistakenly think they are too old to date now. Not True! One of the coolest things about dating over 50 is that you NOW have CHOICES when it comes to dating men of all ages! Believe it or not younger men are standing in line to date you along with men our age as well as ...
Views: 2517 - Help for Singles: End the Frustration of Not Meeting the Ideal Mate - by Hale Dwoskin, Featured Teacher in "The Secret" and author of the New York Times best seller "The Sedona Method," reveals how people can finally end the frustration of not meeting their ideal mate.
In their quest for true love, Americans spend hundreds of millions of dollars on online dating ...
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