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- Why Hasn’t He Called Me Back? - by Submitted on Sep 29, 2009 from Katie Krienitz“He still hasn’t called, Angelina,” I stated matter-of-factly to my girlfriend. “Don’t worry, Katie,” she assured me, “he’s probably just busy. You said he’s been crazy at work, right?” As much as Angelina’s excuses attempted to salve the sting of imminent rejection, I had to finally face the ...
Views: 3832(2 votes) - Why Men Need Women and Reasons to Not Stay Single - by Submitted on Nov 02, 2013 from Jenny TranSome men like to believe that they can get by in life without having to get married. The truth is that it is a real necessity for a man to get married at some point in his life. The reasons for why a man should understand this are too important for him to ignore. Men need women because it ...
Views: 2400(2 votes) - Woman, not Women - by Submitted on Sep 11, 2011 from Stella SinglesIt sure is great to be a guy in this day in age, isn’t it? It is not uncommon for men to hold multiple relationships with women in various places, while they decide which one they want to be with. It’s almost like a reality show when you think about it. Yet, when women do the same thing they ...
Views: 1376(2 votes) - “I Deeply Want to Find a Love that Will Last. But I'm still Hurt from a Cheating Ex? ” - by Submitted on Aug 14, 2009 from Nanette GeigerNanette Geiger, Relationship Expert , writes... ... Donna from North Carolina wrote me to ask me that question As a Law of Attraction relationship coach, here's the relationship advice I have for her. Donna, I'm so glad that you know that you definitely need to let go of the past before you ...
Views: 1114(1 vote) - ***The Truth About Reading Men’s Minds – And Quieting Yours - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerIf you’re a woman who tends to over think and over analyze (and let’s face it…what woman doesn’t?) I want to advise you when it’s appropriate to do so about men: N-E-V-E-R! Oh how we love to dwell in conversations with ourselves about all kinds of fascinating things. Is he attracted to me, ...
Views: 2752(10 votes) - The Biological Reality: There ARE Psychological Differences between Men and Women - by Submitted on Feb 03, 2010 from Kongit FarrellMen and women think differently - I don’t think anyone will argue that point with me at all! In my work as a therapist, I see males and females totally disillusioned with the selection of mates of the opposite sex to choose from. I think that the problem is largely due to a misunderstanding of ...
Views: 3147(6 votes) - From a Bird's Perspective - by Submitted on Aug 04, 2009 from Chrissy KohlerWho’s not scared of love? I mean whether you are scared that it will or will not find you, that it will or will not last, that it can or cannot exist – in some theory we are each scared of love. Scared of getting our hearts broken – scared of taking a risk – scared of putting ourselves out ...
Views: 1507(6 votes) - Finding Love After 30 vs. Finding Love After 40 - by Submitted on Apr 15, 2010 from Shari JonasYes, countries are starving, flooding, fighting and financially struggling and these are all major issues on a global level. But in the hearts and minds of millions of women (and men), finding love after 30 and finding love after 40 might just be one of the biggest personal dilemmas of our ...
Views: 2993(5 votes) - Why You Still Can't Get Over Him - by Submitted on Mar 04, 2014 from Lorraine JacksonIf you’re still pinning for a man who has long since moved on with his life and a new love, it may be what you believe about a previous relationship that’s keeping you stuck. These insights will allow you to look at the break up from a more empowering perspective which may just be the key to ...
Views: 1892(5 votes) - Zero is the Norm? - by Submitted on Feb 09, 2010 from Chandi DeviWhat sort of people join dating sites? Well, you have respectable business people who have no time to find someone to date, people seeking others who share similar interests, there are shy people or people who do not have opportunities to interact or meet others in social settings, people just ...
Views: 1820(5 votes) - Good Conversation Starters - How to Start a Conversation With the Cliche "Haven't We Met Before?" - by Submitted on Aug 05, 2009 from Tracey BennettA good conversation starter is like a car engine. If you don't have one, you aren't going anywhere. When can you say, "Haven't we met before?" without sounding like a cliché? There is a way to turn this ancient ice breaker into a good conversation starter without sounding common as dirt, dry as ...
Views: 4708(4 votes) - The Do’s and Don'ts of Mastering The First Date - by Submitted on May 31, 2010 from Lisa SteadmanIn 2010, finding someone to date isn't nearly as tricky as mastering the art of dating. Between online dating, singles events, and the old-fashioned in-person meet and greet, it's possible to date someone new on a regular basis. But how do you make the most of these chances to meet your perfect ...
Views: 1985(4 votes) - Single and Scared: Debunking the Scarcity Myth - by Submitted on May 31, 2010 from Lisa Steadman“There are no good men left.” Sound familiar? If you’re feeling freaked about being single, you don’t need to give up on your search for Mr. Right. You may just need to debunk your attachment to the scarcity myth. How? By participating in a fun 3 week experiment. All you need is an open mind, ...
Views: 2223(7 votes) - ***The Secret to Being a Happy Dater - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerWhy is it that when we date — even at 40, 50, or 60 — we can become an alien woman from planet WTF? If you’re anything like I was, it’s sometimes difficult to recognize yourself when you’re in the presence of a hot, nice, or simply available man. The beliefs and habits of our 25 or 30 year ...
Views: 2153(3 votes) - Alone Time - by Submitted on Sep 29, 2009 from Katie KrienitzWhen my ex and I parted ways years ago, something in me knew I was going to be single for quite a while. Though I actively tried dating (acquiring many priceless dating stories), nothing stuck and I knew the reason why: I needed my time alone. Many of us are looking for the romantic ...
Views: 1255(3 votes) - Can I Find Love When I Have Serious Life Problems? - by Submitted on May 24, 2012 from Bobbi PalmerI received an email yesterday that I want to share. I hear some form of this a lot: “I’m [not perfect because of fill-in-the-blank] and I’m worried no man will ever want me!” I get it but I can’t tell you how much this breaks my heart. I lived in the “no man wants a fat girl” reality for a ...
Views: 1730(3 votes) - How to Make Women Chase After YOU! - by Submitted on Oct 05, 2009 from Chris TylerOne of the most classic mistakes that men make with women is that they chase after them. For some reason, a lot of men seem to think that if you chase after woman, eventually she will give up and surrender to you. However, it hardly ever works out that way. Sure, it does in a Hollywood ...
Views: 5707(3 votes) - Nine Ways to Make Your Date Great (in the First Ten Minutes!) - by Submitted on May 20, 2012 from Bobbi PalmerThe first 10 minutes of a date often determine whether a second date is even going to happen. And let's face it: second dates are not the norm for many. That was definitely my story until I learned about (what I now call) "Date Waste." Date waste is when a date is a drag but has little to do ...
Views: 1515(3 votes) - Un-lucky in love? - by Submitted on Jun 05, 2010 from Alisa Goodwin SnellNot dating? Haven’t been in a relationship for a long time? Don’t know why? It’s sounds too simple, but it’s true—you probably do not look men in the eyes and smile—a real smile! Not just that dry, half turned-up smile you greet fellow co-workers with as you glance up from your work ...
Views: 2276(6 votes) - What *Sign* Are You Wearing? The Truth About First Impressions - by Submitted on Nov 23, 2009 from Janice BennettIt’s not uncommon for singles to ask, “What’s your sign?” when meeting someone new. Depending on the extent of their belief in astrology, knowing someone’s astrological sign can aid in making assumptions or conclusions about someone’s personality, character, and consequently, their potential ...
Views: 2134(3 votes) - Why Nice Guys Have No Chance With Hot Women - by Submitted on Jan 19, 2010 from Chris TylerWhen it comes to dating hot women, nice guys really haven't got much of a shot. It's a cold and cruel reality of the dating world and it's not likely to change anytime soon. That doesn't mean that you should suddenly turn into a real jerk just to try and get women, or that you should give up ...
Views: 3621(3 votes) - Mr. Wrong or Mr. Right? How to tell if it’s time to stay or go - by Submitted on May 31, 2010 from Lisa SteadmanHow do I know if and when it's time to break up? There's a lot of good in the guy I’m dating, but the bad is unacceptable. What do I do? I keep waiting for the guy I’m seeing to make the changes I need. How long do I wait? And what if he never changes? Chances are, at some point in your ...
Views: 4736(8 votes) - ***3 Ways to Manage Rejection So You Can Move On - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerRejection sucks. There’s no other way to say it. When he doesn’t show interest, doesn’t show up, or breaks it off after a relationship develops; it’s ugly and icky. No doubt about it. Thing is: rejection doesn’t have to strike a mortal blow. I know so many women who avoid connecting with ...
Views: 4981(5 votes) - Six Secrets Of Successful Russian Dating And Marriage - by Submitted on Jun 11, 2012 from lisa yungMany men like Russian girls and many are dating them online. How can you have successful dating online and a happy marriage? Read through the six secrets, also the keys to successful date with your dream soul mate. Be Devoted to your dream Russian bride Love calls for devotion. It is ...
Views: 2887(2 votes) - Does Your Success with Dating Make You Spin Your Head? Know When to Stop & Develop a Serious Relationship - by Submitted on Jan 06, 2013 from Doron GilIntroduction “Enjoying life” and “winning” date after date might give you a good feeling – a boost to your ego, to your sexual drive, to your availability. But don’t let it distract you from your initial goal of finding a partner with whom to develop a truly intimate relationship. Knowing and ...
Views: 1093(2 votes) - How to Become the Man Women DESIRE - by Submitted on Sep 29, 2009 from Chris TylerAs a man, it is natural to want to know how to make women want you. And I'm not talking about her wanting you to take her out shopping or to do chores around the house. You want to know how to make women DESIRE you. You want to know how to make women see you as the kind of guy that they will ...
Views: 1379(2 votes) - How to Empower Yourself to Find a Suitable Partner with Whom to Develop a Successful Intimate Relationship - by Submitted on May 01, 2013 from Doron GilWhen you see a couple holding hands, does it make you feel unhappy? At times, whether you are single or in an unsatisfying relationship, you feel unhappy when you see others who seem happy in their relationships. You see couples holding hands, even walk embraced, and this makes you think you ...
Views: 1123(2 votes) - How to Love Your Loneliness - by Submitted on Jan 29, 2010 from Brenda AdelmanVienna, Austria circa 1987: I had just graduated from college and was alive with the excitement of exploring the world. My brother, Warren, had been living in this breathtakingly beautiful city for several years and I missed him. He was acting in an English-speaking movie starring Ben Kingsley ...
Views: 2873(2 votes) - How You Know if She’s Your Soul Mate--5 Tips - by Submitted on Jul 26, 2011 from Scott & Stephen PetulloAlthough love life connections seldom offer pure romantic fantasy, they do offer fantastic opportunities for emotional and spiritual growth, inevitably drawing to the surface anything but bliss and your romantic expectations. Almost everyone wants to be in love and be loved, but ...
Views: 6731(2 votes) - Liars, cheaters, manipulators, beaters--Spot them in 3 dates or less - by Submitted on Jun 08, 2010 from Alisa Goodwin SnellSingle men and women are vulnerable to the risks of exploitation, deception, infidelity, stalking, and abuse, especially if they don’t know the early warning signs. With statistics that range from 20 to 60 percent of partner’s cheating during a relationship or marriage,** and reports stating ...
Views: 8274(6 votes) - Looking For Love - by Submitted on Jun 28, 2011 from Adam BenedettoDuring life, we all seek to know someone well enough to feel love and be loved; we seek to connect and be a part of another person's life. When we look for love, sometimes we are looking for a lot more than love itself. We are not just looking for someone to be with, but we are also looking to ...
Views: 1101(2 votes) - Make Your Own Decisions in Finding a Partner & Developing an Intimate Relationship - by Submitted on Jan 09, 2013 from Doron GilIntroduction The “choices” you make when choosing a partner as well as when reacting and behaving in a relationship are often unconscious and affected by many factors from the past which control you, and are liable to harm your relationships. Self-awareness enables you to understand which ...
Views: 1203(2 votes) - Single For the Holidays? - 8 Ways to EnJOY it! - by Submitted on Dec 02, 2011 from Lisa CaroselliIf you are single right now, you may be feeling it more than ever around this time of the year. Holidays focus on partnership, family gatherings, and holiday parties. Even the most self-assured single can feel a little bit blue or isolated. The best attractant for joy is to find the joy ...
Views: 930(2 votes) - Survive A Break Up The Easy Way - by Submitted on Oct 06, 2009 from Tim RyanThe majority of people at some point in their lives will go through the ugly experience of a break up. This is always a difficult time and the stress can cause physical symptoms such as nausea, sleeplessness, over or under eating to name but a few. So how can you get yourself from feeling all ...
Views: 1316(2 votes) - The Greatest Attraction In Euro 2012 --- Meet Ukrainian Girls - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2012 from lisa yungThe European Cup In 2012 has drawn football fans from all over the world to Poland and Ukraine. And football fans who came to Ukraine were not only able to watch the exciting games but also meet many Ukrainian beauties. In Ukraine, the Ukrainian girls who dress fashionably and with slim figure ...
Views: 1768(2 votes) - The Right Way To Get Your Ex Back Without Messing Up - by Submitted on Dec 12, 2009 from Tim RyanOccasionally relationships come to a natural conclusion, maybe you both simply drifted away from each other and maybe you had different goals in mind. It is not so bad in these situations when it just feels like time to move on. It can be extremely difficult however if your relationship does ...
Views: 1450(2 votes) - Why are More Single Women Seeking Men Online? - by Submitted on Nov 07, 2013 from Jenny TranThe world of online dating has become very popular to the point where more single ladies are looking for men than what people saw years ago. Whether or not online dating is going to complete take the place of physical dating in the future is unknown but it is clear that many single women looking ...
Views: 1760(2 votes) - Intuition or Inner Knowing - by Submitted on Mar 03, 2013 from Tina TessinaWhen I met Richard, my husband, October 10, 1981, he was sitting outside, and the sun was glinting off his red hair, and my whole body and soul said {wow!” Twenty-three years later, we’re still happy. It turned out to be a lasting love at first sight. How did I know? I didn’t. It’s a lovely ...
Views: 1562(5 votes) - ***Dating Tip: First Decide Whether You Like Him - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerIt’s pathetic how easily I can find my self acting like the insecure kid I was in high school. These days it doesn’t come up too much, but can happen when I meet someone I especially like and admire, and get the sense they don’t return the feeling. I can get to feeling so hurt and undeserving ...
Views: 2119(8 votes) - ***Are You What's Holding You Back from Finding Love? - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerWhy do we hold on to the man who isn’t good for us, our feelings of insecurity and being less-than, or our pattern of picking jerks and liars? These are all self-sabotaging behaviors and beliefs, and intellectually we know it. Yet we cling on for dear life, feeling powerless over our unfortunate ...
Views: 2303(12 votes) - Confidence Matters - by Submitted on Jun 08, 2010 from Alisa Goodwin Snell“It’s not you—It’s your technique.” This is one of the first things I teach singles. It is core to my coaching program and essential to your success in the dating game. To grasp the significance of this principle and how it can increase your confidence, you need to understand the ...
Views: 2368(6 votes) - Dr. Romance Happiness Tip: Alone on Valentine's Day? - by Submitted on Feb 14, 2013 from Tina TessinaDr Romance’s Happiness Tips Alone on Valentine’s Day? There's no need to mope around. Having a plan that makes you happy is the best way to fend off the blues. Gather your best friends around you and make some special plans to have a wonderful day. Send valentines or ...
Views: 1507(3 votes) - Good Conversation Starters - 3 Sure-Fire Tips to Flirt Successfully & Break the Ice With Women ... or Men - by Submitted on Aug 05, 2009 from Tracey BennettHere's practical advice for meeting women (or men). You're waiting for an elevator or you're squeezin' the Charmin at the market when you spot someone intriguing. You break the ice with a smile. Even a slight chin or eyebrow lift can get his or her attention. Next comes the fun (or scary) part: ...
Views: 4543(3 votes) - HIV Singles Dating Made Simple - by Submitted on Jan 25, 2011 from Whitney SeguraOne of the constants in this world is the fact that there are many, many single individuals. Some of them are looking for a long term relationship, and some are simply looking for a causal encounter.In any case, there are many different types of people, one of which happens to be those suffering ...
Views: 1263(3 votes) - The Joys of Being a Single Parent After Divorce - by Submitted on May 31, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraRaising kids is hard; raising kids alone is near- impossible. It’s absolutely not easy to raise kids when you’re a single parent. However, although it seems awful, (a lot of times it is!) it offers quite a number of astonishing benefits that can make everyday life easier for everyone. According ...
Views: 4574(3 votes) - The Six Elements of a Winning Dating Profile - by Submitted on Jun 14, 2010 from Eric LercaraFor a while now I’ve been working on finding the essential elements that you must include in an online profile. After reading hundreds of books on psychology, philosophy and attraction, I’ve come up with these six fundamentals. I strongly believe they need to be conveyed properly if you’re going ...
Views: 12463(12 votes) - ***One Thing You Can Stop Doing to Improve Your Dates and Relationships - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerRaise your hand if you can accurately read the minds of your girlfriends. My guess is that, at least for a few, you actually can. Larry and I can read each other’s minds at times. When you’ve spent about 2000 days with someone you love, that happens. (It’s not always a good thing, btw.) Now, ...
Views: 1800(4 votes) - Have You Mastered This Essential Conversation Skill: How to Change the Subject? - by Submitted on Aug 05, 2009 from Tracey BennettHave you been at the mercy of a bore or windbag? Did you want to change the subject and talk about something interesting? You can. And when your date or interviewer asks questions you don't want to answer, you can deftly change the subject and talk about something else. Media trainers have a ...
Views: 3916(4 votes) - ***Why You're Dating and Not Finding Quality Men - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerDating can be a real pain in the butt, right? It can be a lot of work that leads to a lot of nothing. I conducted a survey recently and asked women what their biggest challenge was when they date. The #1 response was: I’m not meeting quality men. Can you relate?? I hear this from women ...
Views: 2849(5 votes) - ***The 10 Style Secrets of Hip, Healthy & Sexy Women Over 40 - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerDo you walk out of the house each day feeling good about yourself, and ready to run into that one man who is going to rock your world an put that proverbial cherry on your cake? Check out this guest post by Sybil Henry, The Style Concierge. Sybil joined me Wednesday night for my GGNO Club ...
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