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- Honour Your Own Healing Journey - by Submitted on Apr 23, 2021 from Oliver JR CooperMaybe you have been on the healing path for a number of years now or maybe you have only just started out. Either way, what you may find is that you have the tendency to compare your own life with others. Let’s say that you are working through some heavy stuff at the moment and someone else ...
Views: 501 - Inner Child: Can Someone’s Wounded Inner Child Stop Them From Being Able To Move Forward? - by Submitted on Dec 01, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperAlthough someone may want to move forward, they may find that it is not possible for them to do so. Quite simply, there will be where they are and there will be where they want to be. If they were to look back on their life, they may find that is has been this way for as long as they can ...
Views: 501 - Needs: Why Do Some People Believe That They Will Be Rejected If They Reveal Their Needs? - by Submitted on Jun 14, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperHaving needs is part of the human experience but that doesn’t mean that everyone on this planet feels comfortable with their needs. If someone does, their life is likely to be far more fulfilling than it would be otherwise. Through being this way, it will be possible for all of them to show ...
Views: 501 - Law Of Resonance: Can Inner Child Work Allow Someone To Change Their Resonance? - by Submitted on Mar 16, 2021 from Oliver JR CooperAt the deepest level, so beyond mere appearances, it has been said that human beings and everything else for that matter, are vibrating energy. This is might not be something that someone is willing to just accept. Due to the feedback that their fives senses provide them, this can be seen as ...
Views: 500 - Self-Activation: Can Childhood Trauma Stop Someone From Being Able To Activate Themselves? - by Submitted on Apr 27, 2021 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone was to hear the term “self-activation”, they could wonder what it actually means. One way to understand this would be for them to imagine that they have a vacuum cleaner that can either be pushed around a room or it can go around a room by itself. When it is being pushed around a ...
Views: 500 - Self-Awareness: Is This Year A New Beginning? - by Submitted on Jan 23, 2021 from Oliver JR CooperWhen a year ends and another year begins, it is often seen as being a new beginning. What took place for someone in the previous year will be behind them and they will have the chance to create a very different life. To be reminded of this, they will only have to look at down at their watch ...
Views: 500 - Critical Thinking: Are Human Beings Just Observers Of Reality? - by Submitted on Dec 06, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone lives in the western world, or in a country that has been heavily influenced by it, they will probably see themselves as just an observer of their reality. So, in the same way that they will just view what is on a screen, they will also just view what is taking place around ...
Views: 499 - Mother-Enmeshed Men: Why Would A Mother-Enmeshed Man Believe That He Is Betraying His Ex If He Moves On? - by Submitted on Jul 04, 2023 from Oliver JR CooperNow that a man is no longer in a relationship, he will be free to meet other women and take things further. However, although this will be so, it doesn’t mean that he will allow himself to do this. In general, he could keep his distance from women and not go anywhere where he is likely to ...
Views: 499 - Repressed Pain: Does Someone’s Pain Disappear Once It Has Been Removed From Their Conscious Awareness? - by Submitted on Apr 26, 2022 from Oliver JR CooperIn today’s world, someone is often thought to begin and end with their conscious mind. Other than their physical body, then, this will be seen as who they are and there won’t be another part of them. Due to this, if someone’s “mental health” is not in a good way and they were to reach out to ...
Views: 499 - Mother-Enmeshed Men: Why Does A Mother-Enmeshed Man Feel Guilty For Putting His Needs First? - by Submitted on Feb 20, 2022 from Oliver JR CooperAlthough a man will have his own needs to meet, he could spend most of his time meeting his mother’s needs. As a result of this, he is going to neglect most, if not all of his own needs. However, this is something that can take place without him even being aware of the fact that he is largely ...
Views: 497 - Emotional Self: Can Childhood Trauma Cause Someone To Disconnect From Their Emotional Self? - by Submitted on Dec 13, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperIt could be said that there are at least three types of people; those who are connected to their mental and emotional self, those who have a weak connection to their mental self and those who have a weak connection to their emotional self. Naturally, the ideal will be for someone to be connected ...
Views: 496 - Healing Journey: Can Someone Sabotage Their Own Healing? - by Submitted on Jun 14, 2022 from Oliver JR CooperWhether someone has just started to work on their wounds or has been doing so for a little while, they are going to want their life to change. As to why they are engaging in this work, it could show that they were deeply deprived during their early years. If so, this may have been a time when ...
Views: 496 - The Media: Does The Mainstream Media Only Have As Much Power As We Give Them? - by Submitted on Apr 21, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperA number of years ago, the mainstream media, along with other sources, came out and said that ‘fake news’ was a problem. One way of looking at this would be to say that this was something that was said after certain things didn’t go as this source, and those behind the scenes, wanted. Thus, ...
Views: 496 - Is Inspired Action An Important Part Of The Manifestation Process? - by Submitted on Jun 06, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperAfter becoming clear about what it is that they want to attain, or experience, someone may believe that the next step will be for them to have the right thoughts. Through ‘thinking positive’, what they desire will show up. If they have this outlook, it is likely to show that they have been ...
Views: 495 - Critical Thinking: Is Humanity Too Traumatised To Care About The Environment? - by Submitted on Jan 24, 2021 from Oliver JR CooperIn recent years, there has been an intense focus on the environment and the damage that is being done to it. This is an area that the mainstream media, Hollywood and even the British royal family routinely covers. Considering the magnitude of what is going on, it is a good thing that each of ...
Views: 494 - Critical Thinking: Why Is A Large Part Of Humanity Over-Reliant On Experts? - by Submitted on Dec 16, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperThanks to the current pandemic, a lot of people have been looking towards the mainstream media and the government for guidance. For a lot of these people, the aforementioned sources are seen as having all the answers. Therefore, as long as they stay up-to-date with what these two sources say, ...
Views: 494 - The Power Of Perspective - by Submitted on Sep 02, 2022 from Oliver JR CooperThe other day, when I was on my way home after having caught up with a friend, I decided to walk a different route home. This was a road that I hadn’t been down for years and I had only been along the road whilst in a car. As I hadn’t been along this road for so long, I wasn’t completely sure ...
Views: 494 - Unconscious Mind: What Can Happen If Someone Doesn’t Realise That They Have An Unconscious Mind? - by Submitted on Dec 20, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperWhen it comes to what someone’s life is like, there are at least two things that will play a part. Firstly, there will be what is taking place in their mind, and secondly, there will be their behaviour. Nonetheless, what is taking place in their mind will be the most important part, as what ...
Views: 494 - Helpless: Can Childhood Trauma Cause Someone To Feel Helpless? - by Submitted on Mar 21, 2021 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone was able to take a step back and reflect on their life, what they may find is that they often feel helpless. This could be how they have experienced life for as long as they can remember. Consequently, it is unlikely that they have a very fulfilling existence. In fact, they could ...
Views: 493 - Needs: What Can Happen If Someone Had To Fulfil Their Caregivers Needs As A Child? - by Submitted on Dec 03, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperSomeone’s early years might not have been a stage of their life when they received what they needed to receive in order to grow and develop; this may have been a time when the roles were reversed. Consequently, it would have been up to them to fulfil their caregiver’s needs. Now, this would ...
Views: 492 - Disconnected: Can Developmental Trauma Cause A Big Part Of Someone To Be Split Off? - by Submitted on May 25, 2022 from Oliver JR CooperEven though someone will look whole and complete on the outside, it doesn’t mean that they will feel whole and complete on the inside. When it comes to their inner experience, they can feel cut off and as though they lack substance. Then again, how they experience life can just be what is ...
Views: 491 - Mother-Enmeshed Men: Is It Ever Too Late For A Mother-Enmeshed Man To Change His Life? - by Submitted on Feb 03, 2022 from Oliver JR CooperAfter living in a way that wasn’t serving him, a man can now be in a position where is aware of this. There can be a number of reasons as to why he has been able to see what is going on. He may have recently experienced a breakup or he may have just got into a relationship. Then again, he ...
Views: 491 - Neglect: Can Childhood Neglect Cause Someone To See Themselves As An Extension Others? - by Submitted on Nov 21, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperFor around the first two or three years of someone’s life, they will see themselves as an extension of their mother. During this time, they won’t be able to realise that they are physically separate from this person. Through being this way, their mother is going to more or less define their ...
Views: 491 - Critical Thinking: Has Humanity Collectively Manifested What Is Currently Taking Place In The World? - by Submitted on Nov 17, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperRight now, it is clear to see that there is a lot going on in the world, and it doesn’t seem as though what is going on will come to an end any time soon. In fact, there is a chance that things will get a lot worse before they get better. For one thing, there is a virus that has completely ...
Views: 489 - Critical Thinking: What Does America Need To Do For This To Be A Time of “Healing”? - by Submitted on Nov 15, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone is into politics or if they just pay attention to the mainstream media, they probably will have heard that the next four years will be a time of “healing”. This is something that the 'next president has said and this source has routinely spoken about. The reason for this is that ...
Views: 489 - Inner Child: Can Someone’s Wounded Inner Child Stop Them From Being Able To Embrace Life? - by Submitted on Nov 24, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperIn order for someone to be able to fully show up and to embrace the life that they have been given, they will need to have a good connection with their emotional self. This part of them will provide them with the ability to take life in and, of course, to feel things. Further, it will give ...
Views: 489 - Shamed-Based Identity: Can Childhood Trauma Cause Someone To Be Shame-Based? - by Submitted on Nov 05, 2021 from Oliver JR CooperFor some people, shame is something that they experience every now and then and, when they do, it typically doesn’t hang around for very long. For others, shame is something that they experience on a regular basis and, when they do, it can typically hang around for a very long time. When it ...
Views: 489 - Child Abuse: Can Child Abuse Cause Someone To Have A Fear Of Life? - by Submitted on Jul 20, 2022 from Oliver JR CooperAlthough someone will have been given the gift of life, it doesn’t mean that they will see their life as a gift. Thanks to how they generally experience life, it could be seen as a curse and as something that they have to endure. What this can show is that they have the tendency to experience ...
Views: 488 - Do You Need To Forgive Yourself? - by Submitted on Jul 04, 2022 from Oliver JR CooperA lot is said about how important it is to forgive another but, in comparison, very little is said about how important it is to forgive oneself. It could be said that one reason for this is that if someone blames another, it will be easy to spot; whereas if they blame themselves, this won’t be ...
Views: 488 - Healing Journey: Can Black And White Thinking Hold Someone Back On Their Healing Journey? - by Submitted on Jan 11, 2021 from Oliver JR CooperThere can be a number of reasons as to why someone would be in a bad way and unable to simply ‘get on with life’ or to ‘put the past behind them.’ Perhaps their early years were very abusive or maybe they experienced a lot of neglect during this time. It could go back even further than this ...
Views: 488 - Boundaries: Can Someone Build Walls Around Themselves If They Were Abused As A Child? - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2022 from Oliver JR CooperWhat someone may find, if they were to reflect on their life, is that it is hard for them to get close to others. In general, they may prefer to keep their distance and only have surface-level connections. Due to this, they could often feel lonely and yearn to have closer connections with ...
Views: 487 - Critical Thinking: Is It Time For Humanity To Understand How Defence Mechanisms Work? - by Submitted on Feb 13, 2021 from Oliver JR CooperFor some people, usually, those who are into self-development or study psychology, for example, defence mechanisms are something that they are familiar with. This is not to say that they will always be aware of when they are using one or a few of them, though. It simply means that they will ...
Views: 486 - People-Pleasing: Can Childhood Trauma Cause Someone To Be A People Pleaser? - by Submitted on Apr 16, 2021 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone has the need to please others, it can stop them from being able to live a life that is in alignment with their true-self. Through being this way, their priority will be to do what other people want and what they think they want. It is then going to be normal for them to be focused ...
Views: 486 - Critical Thinking: Does The Establishment Mobilize Collective Toxic Shame? - by Submitted on Aug 23, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone was to think about the main thing that the mainstream media was focusing on at the turn of the century, they could think about terrorism. What could also come to mind is how much of a focus there was on the Middle East. Further, it could occur to them that thanks to what this ...
Views: 485 - Manifestation: Does Someone Need A Strong Ego In Order To Accept That They Create Their Life? - by Submitted on Nov 06, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperAlthough there are people that can accept that they are co-creating their reality, there are others who are unable to accept this. In addition to this, there are those that haven’t even considered that this is so. It could be said that this is not much of a surprise, considering the fact that ...
Views: 485 - Nervous System: Can Childhood Trauma Overwhelm Someone’s Nervous System? - by Submitted on Mar 11, 2021 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone is in a position where they are often all at sea and find it hard to feel at peace, their life is going to be far more difficult than it needs to be. With so much going in within them, they are not going to need to live a stressful life in order to feel stressed. They could then ...
Views: 485 - Critical Thinking: Is The Feminine Seen As Being Inferior To The Masculine In Today’s World? - by Submitted on Jan 24, 2022 from Oliver JR CooperIn most, if not all societies around the world there is typically a focus on the doing, so taking action and getting things done. As a result of this, the other side of this, the being, is rarely given much consideration. It is often as though the only thing that matters is achieving things ...
Views: 484 - Adult Self: Can Childhood Trauma Cause Someone To Outsource Their Adult Self? - by Submitted on Aug 02, 2022 from Oliver JR CooperEven though someone is an adult, it doesn’t mean that they will act like one. The reason for this is that, in general, they could look towards others to make decisions for them, to stand up for them and for guidance about how to live their life. Based on this, when it comes to how they ...
Views: 483 - Mother-Enmeshed Men: Is A Mother-Enmeshed Man Giving His Mother His Energy? - by Submitted on Aug 23, 2022 from Oliver JR CooperIf a man is often doing things for his mother, it will mean that a lot of his time and attention will be spent on her. As a result of this, she is going to receive a lot of his life force or energy. Naturally, the energy that he directs towards his mother is going to be energy that he won’t ...
Views: 483 - Relationships: Are Some People Here To Save/Rescue Others? - by Submitted on Dec 21, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperThere are some people who typically come across as weak, powerless and incapable, and then there are those who typically come across as strong, powerful and capable. The former can look towards the latter to save them, and the latter can do what they can to save the former. This dynamic is ...
Views: 483 - Childhood Trauma: Can Childhood Trauma Define What Someone’s Personality Is Like? - by Submitted on Nov 29, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone was asked to describe themselves, they could end up using a number of different adjectives. Furthermore, this could be a time when they use a number of different labels. Now, if this was something that took place online, and they were able to look through what they had written, ...
Views: 479 - Critical Thinking: Why Is It So Easy For The Mainstream Media To Divide People? - by Submitted on Oct 20, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperOne way to look at the current age would be to say that it is the age of division, due to how fractured so many countries have become. In the not-so-distant past, countries were primarily fighting each other and now, some people within countries are fighting each other. Although there has ...
Views: 479 - Neglect: Can Childhood Neglect Cause Someone To Disconnect From Their Anger? - by Submitted on Nov 23, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone was to take a step back and to reflect on their life, they may find that it is more or less impossible for them to get angry. Or, if they can get angry, they may find that they don’t get angry when they need to. Either way, through not being able to get angry when they need to, ...
Views: 479 - Entitlement: Can Childhood Trauma Stop Someone From Developing A Healthy Sense Of Entitlement? - by Submitted on Feb 04, 2021 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone was to take a step back and to reflect on their life, what could become clear is that they don’t believe that they deserve anything. It is then not going to matter what they do or what they contribute, as this won’t change what is going on for them. There is the chance that this ...
Views: 478 - Observer Ego: Can Developmental Trauma Cause Someone To Develop A Strong Observer Ego? - by Submitted on Jul 31, 2022 from Oliver JR CooperWhile there are those who lack the ability to observe themselves and need to take the time to develop this ability, there are those that don’t. When someone has this ability, it could show that they have spent a fair amount of time meditating. Then again, this could be something that they ...
Views: 478 - OnlyFans: Why Would A Man Be Drawn To OnlyFans? - by Submitted on Jul 20, 2023 from Oliver JR CooperThanks to a platform that offers a ‘virtual girlfriend experience’, a man can receive far more than he did in the past. Before this platform was available, he would have been able to view pictures and videos of a woman but that would have been about it. Now, by paying a certain fee to a ...
Views: 478 - Self-Image: Can Childhood Trauma Set Someone Up To Believe That They Don’t Deserve To Exist? - by Submitted on Sep 05, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperDue to what someone went through as a child and even before they were born, they can believe that they don’t deserve to be on this earth. However, while this core belief, along with others, will be defining their life, it doesn’t mean that they will be aware of it. Like a fish in water, how ...
Views: 478 - Terror: Can Childhood Trauma Cause Someone To Carry A Lot Of Terror? - by Submitted on Aug 20, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperAlthough someone’s early years will have left a big impact on their whole being, it doesn’t mean that they will realise this. In fact, they might not even think about what took place at this stage of their life. Still, their body, their inner world and their view of the world could all ...
Views: 478 - Childhood Trauma: Can Someone Have The Need To Be Rescued If They Experienced Childhood Trauma? - by Submitted on Feb 25, 2021 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone was able to take a step back and to reflect on their life, they may find that there is something that absorbs most of their attention. This could be a time when they come to see that they have a strong need for another person to take care of them. Upon closer inspection, they may ...
Views: 477 - True-Self: Can Childhood Trauma Cause Someone To Be Out Of Touch With Their Feelings? - by Submitted on Sep 23, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperFrom the outside, it could seem as though someone has a good connection with themselves and that what is taking place inside them is defining how they behave. However, although this may appear to be the case, it doesn’t mean that there is any truth to it. One could generally be out ...
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