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Access POWER - by Joseph Riggio- How To Improve Communication With Interpersonal Insights - by Submitted on Jan 31, 2008 from Peter MurphyCommunication that is interpersonal is the process of sending and receiving messages between two or more people. Examples of interpersonal communication are: 1) a conversation between two people 2) small group communication 3) a speech made to a wide audience. All these can be considered forms ...
Views: 649 - How To Improve Communication In Relationships - by Submitted on Jan 31, 2008 from Peter MurphyUnless you are a hermit living on a desert island or high on a mountain, you will most likely have to learn how communication in relationships works. You will have relationships with your family members, your neighbors, people in school, colleagues at work - even vendors in the market place. To ...
Views: 891 - Great Ways To Influence People - by Submitted on Jan 31, 2008 from Peter MurphyWe all have our own mentors - people who, in one way or another, has played a big role and influenced us in the way that we perceive things. At some point in your life, you will also find that what you have done or said has a way of influencing people. In these two cases, you will see that there ...
Views: 723 - How To Win Friends And Influence People In 3 Easy Steps - by Submitted on Jan 31, 2008 from Peter MurphyCan you count on the fingers of one hand the number of true friends that you have? Would you like to increase your circle of friends and prove to yourself that you have 'people skills' and you can get more people to like you? This may be easier said than done, especially if you are the loner ...
Views: 1199(1 vote) - Talking To People Made Easy - by Submitted on Jan 31, 2008 from Peter MurphyHave you ever noticed how personalities with 'people skills' just seem to naturally radiate a positive energy which makes talking to people absolutely easy for them? In parties or in bars, you will see 'people magnets', or those who make a crowd gather around them because their personality or ...
Views: 715 - 5 Powerful Interpersonal Communication Skill Secrets - by Submitted on Jan 31, 2008 from Peter MurphyHaving good interpersonal communication skill is a combination of being able to say what you mean clearly and concisely, and being able to take on board opinions of others and adapt what you say accordingly, as well as making them feel they can speak freely. To do that, you have got to be aware ...
Views: 634 - Improve Your Communication Skill And Succeed - by Submitted on Jan 30, 2008 from Michael LeeImprove your communication skill and you can slowly work your way towards success. In today's world of information, it is essential to improve your communication skill in order to move forward and prosper. Being able to effectively communicate with others means that you have the capability to ...
Views: 530 - 9 Great Solutions To Difficult Conversations - by Submitted on Jan 30, 2008 from Peter MurphyWhat makes difficult conversations difficult? Difficult conversations arise in our daily lives. What makes them difficult is that they tend to be the most emotional ones. Emotions make us feel awkward and out of place. They make us feel very uncomfortable. We are very concerned with how our ...
Views: 626 - 10 Good Conversation Starters That Work Everytime - by Submitted on Jan 30, 2008 from Peter MurphyGood conversation starters put people at ease immediately. That is how all good conversations start - when people feel comfortable and relaxed. To start a conversation like that is a skill - and you can learn it. Starting a conversation is often the most difficult part of all. Once you are over ...
Views: 3556(1 vote) - 4 Good Topics Of Conversation People Love To Talk About - by Submitted on Jan 30, 2008 from Peter MurphyWhat makes for good topics of conversation? Well, this depends on why you want to have the conversation. But the basic rule is that conversations need to be a two-way process. Pick topics that everyone involved in the conversation is interested in. That way, everyone can feel comfortable and ...
Views: 1184 - How To Start A Conversation In 10 Easy Ways - by Submitted on Jan 30, 2008 from Peter MurphySo many people worry about how to start a conversation. It makes them feel anxious and afraid. Are you one of those people who keep your fingers crossed that someone will come up to you and speak because you would never make the first move in a conversation in a million years? You can put all ...
Views: 558 - 10 Funny Conversation Starters For Every Situation - by Submitted on Jan 30, 2008 from Peter MurphyFunny conversation starters can be a risky business, but they can also add interest and sparkle to your conversations. People like, listen to and trust people who make them laugh. Get your conversation off to a great start by making people laugh straight away. Humor is personal, though, so if ...
Views: 3192 - Harsh Discipline: Does It Do More Harm Than Good? - by Submitted on Jan 29, 2008 from Nicholas TanRecent studies suggest that low-income parents tend to endorse much harsher discipline, partially because they hold stronger beliefs about the value of spanking and experience higher levels of stress. However, parents who work in high-stress jobs or are stay-at-home parents who are feeling ...
Views: 731 - Persuading The Board - by Submitted on Jan 29, 2008 from Harlan Goerger7 Points in persuasive group presentations Brian is more than nervous, this is a big deal! Actually the biggest deal to date for the financial advisor. He paces and tries to think of what and how he should present his solution to the Board of Directors. Now Brian has done public speaking ...
Views: 1035 - Be Confident Even In The Face Of Confidence Killers - by Submitted on Jan 29, 2008 from Peter MurphyYou can be confident! All you have to do is rid yourself of confidence killers. Confidence killers are self-defeating thought patterns. Many of us walk through life with these harmful assumptions. See if you’ve got any of these evildoers in your thoughts: 1. The All or Nothing ...
Views: 491 - Confidence Building Secrets Of True Winners - by Submitted on Jan 29, 2008 from Peter MurphyWe all need some confidence building from time to time. Part of feeling confident has a lot to do with how we feel about ourselves. Feeling like we can accomplish things we set out to do is important to feeling confident. Remember that we all have talents and gifts. Whether we feel confident in ...
Views: 554 - How To Improve Communication Skills And Your Personal Style - by Submitted on Jan 29, 2008 from Peter MurphyHere are six tips for improving your communication style: 1. Knowing how to improve communication skills will come easier once you become aware of your own communication style. Each person has a unique way of communicating. Listen to your own speech. What sorts of words do you use? Which sort ...
Views: 552 - How To Communicate Better With Body Language Secrets - by Submitted on Jan 29, 2008 from Peter Murphy"I don't let my mouth say nothin' my head can't stand." Louis Armstrong Since the 1970's, learning how to communicate better has had a lot to do with understanding body language. Julius Fast wrote a book entitled, Body Language in 1970. He talked about a new science called Kinesics. It opened ...
Views: 490 - People Skill And The 4 Basic Types - by Submitted on Jan 29, 2008 from Peter MurphyDo you have the people skill needed to handle difficult people? Best selling author, Peter Urs Bender has come up with four basic personality types. Based on the fact that you really can’t understand someone who’s being difficult, until you can see the world through his or her eyes, ...
Views: 618 - Good Conversation Every Time When You Avoid 6 Common Mistakes - by Submitted on Jan 29, 2008 from Peter MurphyThere are six common ways that people ruin a good conversation. You need to be aware of them to ensure you avoid these common mistakes: 1. Blah, Blah, Blah. The Blabbermouth is the number one enemy of the good conversation. The other party soon tunes out. Never letting the other person get a ...
Views: 596 - Self Confidence - T4 Power Secrets - by Submitted on Jan 28, 2008 from Peter MurphySelf confidence is something that many people struggle with. Society has built up certain guidelines on how one should look and act. If we do not live up to societies expectations then we feel a lack of self confidence. For some people this lack of self confidence effects every aspect of their ...
Views: 551 - People Skills Magic In 7 Steps - by Submitted on Jan 28, 2008 from Peter MurphyGood people skills come naturally to some and are a struggle for others. Learning people skills is usually a matter of just being a member of society, but to truly understand the proper ways to interact sometimes involves instruction. There are some basic guidelines to cultivate good people ...
Views: 863 - Interpersonal Communication Secrets That Work Every Time - by Submitted on Jan 25, 2008 from Peter MurphyInterpersonal communication is something most of us do on a daily basis, although we may not be aware that is what it is called. Interpersonal communication differs from other forms of communication in various ways. It is also very important in development. The following list outlines what ...
Views: 689 - How To Start A Conversation In Unusual Circumstances - by Submitted on Jan 25, 2008 from Peter MurphyStarting a conversation can sometimes seem difficult. Certain circumstances can make this process even more difficult. Knowing how to start a conversation in a variety of tricky circumstances will help you become more confident in your abilities to communicate effectively. Circumstances can ...
Views: 799 - How To Start A Conversation With 3 Super Body Language Tips - by Submitted on Jan 25, 2008 from Peter MurphyUsing body language to enhance how you start a conversation can lead to great conversation. You do not have to say much just a look or a movement can speak volumes for you. This is especially useful in situations where you can not seem to get a word in or where you are unsure of how to start a ...
Views: 691 - Good Conversation Secrets That Work Every Time - by Submitted on Jan 25, 2008 from Peter MurphyOnce you have a conversation started keeping it going is sometimes the hardest part. Good conversation can sometimes be hard to come by. People have a way of turning a great start into a horrible exchange that leaves everyone wanting to run away. Learning a little bit about what to avoid and ...
Views: 834 - Conversation Starters For Successful Daters - by Submitted on Jan 24, 2008 from Peter MurphyDating can seem hard. It is hard to find someone that shares your same interests. It is hard to find someone you connect with. Looking for love is definitely a hard road to travel. Dating conversation can be the most awkward situation a person can ever find themselves in. Stating a dating ...
Views: 847 - Communication Skills - The 4 Powerful Secrets That Win People Over - by Submitted on Jan 24, 2008 from Peter MurphyHaving a conversation seems very natural to some people, but to others it is a struggle every time. There is no need to feel frustrated or upset every time you are faced with a situation where you must be involved with a conversation. Conversation is essential and important to every day life. ...
Views: 518 - Art Of Conversaton Made Easy - by Submitted on Jan 24, 2008 from Peter MurphyThe art of conversation comes so easily to some, but for others it is a real struggle. Learning how to get past those things that stand in your way are the first step to learning the art of communication. There are three common reasons why people tend to feel uncomfortable about conversation. ...
Views: 557 - First Impressions - Turn Fear Into Courage - by Submitted on Jan 24, 2008 from Peter MurphyThe top business people all say the same thing – first impressions count. Sounds easy, and it is easy for those few who can start a conversation with just about anyone but how many people do you know who are like that? On the other hand when you’re shy it’s easy to avoid other ...
Views: 566 - Getting What You Want Most From Other People - by Submitted on Jan 24, 2008 from Peter MurphyVery often in relationships we do not seem to be able to get the one thing we want more than anything else - the approval of other people. In fact the more we want it the more difficult it can be to turn the situation around. Typical approaches include withdrawing from other people so that only ...
Views: 490 - Inspirational Corporate Storytelling Leadership Skills - Eloquence - by Submitted on Feb 08, 2012 from Doug StevensonI grew up with a father who was in love with words. His reverence for language, pronunciation and proper diction was an annoyance to me as a child, but a gift to me as an adult. I remember the way he would read aloud a passage from a book or a poem. He had a natural gift for rhythm and tempo. ...
Views: 1099 - Motivational Public Speaking Tips - How to Avoid Being Boring - by Submitted on Feb 08, 2012 from Doug StevensonLast month, I gave a keynote speech in Chicago for a Fortune 500 Company. The theme of the conference was engagement. Over 200 human resource professionals from all over the world gathered to learn how to increase the level of engagement among their 80,000 employees in 23 countries. Their ...
Views: 2056 - How To Build Rock Solid Self Confidence - by Submitted on Jan 23, 2008 from Peter MurphyYou have probably noticed those people at work, school, and in your daily life that always appear to be self confident and on top of world. Everything seems to go right for these people and they always seem to present themselves as calm, collected and successful in everything they do. If you ...
Views: 1183 - How To Master The Art Of Conversation - by Submitted on Jan 23, 2008 from Peter MurphyThe art of conversation is a skill shared by most successful people. Good conversation promotes an image of self-confidence, intelligence, and wittiness. People who always seem to rise to the top of their professions and are well respected by others who share the ability to converse with ...
Views: 822 - 4 Important Conversation Tips For Your Personal And Professional Lives - by Submitted on Jan 22, 2008 from Peter MurphyIf you are searching for a way to improve your communication skills at work and in your personal life, here are some conversation tips that will give you a good starting point. Your personal and business environments may be very different, but the skills needed to communicate effectively are ...
Views: 723 - 6 Great Ways To Improve Your Social Skills - by Submitted on Jan 22, 2008 from Peter MurphyIf you are looking for a way to improve your social skills, there are many resources available that will assist you in refining your social skills and improving the way you communicate with others. It's not only possible to learn how to improve your social skills; it's easier than you ...
Views: 999 - Boomer Couples: Deepening Your Conversations About Serious Illness - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2008 from Rosemary Lichtman, Ph.D.As Baby Boomers continue to age, the rise in incidence of serious illness affects nearly every family - especially if you're a member of the Sandwich Generation. When you or your spouse develops cancer, heart disease, stroke or another chronic illness, it can change every aspect of your lives ...
Views: 754 - How To Develop Rapport - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2008 from Lee MainprizeWhy build rapport - to make your customer feel at ease, and people tend to buy from people they like! Also build rapport to find out the persons real reasons for getting started, the customer won't tell you the real reason if you have a low level of rapport. Example: They might say self defence ...
Views: 2111 - 12 Reasons To Develop Exceptional People Skills - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2008 from Peter MurphyWhy should you bother to spend your valuable time learning how to develop exceptional people skills? Here's why... Look at the people who seem to have it all - a great job, an active social life and a happy family life. What do these people have in common? They all have excellent ...
Views: 729 - Dealing With Negative People Made Easy - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2008 from Peter MurphyI was playing tennis today with one of my tennis buddies. We play once a week and we usually chat about work, professional tennis players and local news. Today he was very negative about the people of the area we live in. According to him they are all thieves and crooks. Now this makes me ...
Views: 521 - How To Deal With People Who Dislike You - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2008 from Peter MurphyWhen you read books on personal development and articles about making your life better the emphasis is generally on the positive. You learn all about deciding what you want and how to get it. However you also need specific guidelines for dealing with situations when nothing seems to be working ...
Views: 1017 - 3 Easy Steps To Low Stress Communication - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2008 from Peter MurphyLife is all about choices. And so is the way you communicate. You can fill your days with frustrating high stress communication or you can have days of low stress effective communication with your peers. Now take a moment to learn three ways to have low stress communication. 1. Recognize ...
Views: 554 - 3 Secrets To Developing Superior People Skills - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2008 from Peter Murphy1. If What You Are Doing Is Not Working Change Your Approach When I was in school I always had a small group of close friends but I never found it easy meeting new people. By the time I reluctantly entered the work force it was clear that my communication skills were limiting my progress. The ...
Views: 697 - Say Adios To The Fear Of Rejection! - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2008 from Peter MurphyDo you ever get an uncomfortable feeling in your stomach when you have to approach someone? In situations like this does your mind go blank? This is not unusual. That feeling is often the fear of rejection. When you feel afraid your emotions take over, you feel tense and your ability to think ...
Views: 600 - Connect With Your Child But Don't Overdo It - by Submitted on Jan 18, 2008 from Nicholas TanWe all want to connect and be involved with our child. Children of involved parents generally feel more confident, assured and have a higher level of self esteem. They excel in school and do well in extracurricular activities and with their hobbies. But is there such a thing as too much ...
Views: 751 - How To Solve Disputes With The Helicopter Talk Technique - by Submitted on Jan 18, 2008 from Peter MurphyDo you ever find that when a friend asks for your opinion on a problem it is a lot easier for you to see a solution than it is for your friend? And do you also find that sometimes you feel completely stuck when it comes to your own problems? The same applies to disputes, relationship issues ...
Views: 508 - 7 Ways To Make A Great First Impression - by Submitted on Jan 18, 2008 from Peter MurphyWhen you have an important event to attend there are 7 great ways to make sure you perform at your very best. These tips are relevant for social events and business meetings. Discover how to communicate with confidence while making great conversation. 1. Decide what you want to say before the ...
Views: 564 - 3 Keys To Making Small Talk Easy To Do - by Submitted on Jan 18, 2008 from Peter MurphySmall talk used to be really hard work for me. I never knew what to say and I always worried about saying the wrong thing. Then something awful happened to me.... I had to take a job dealing with the public. My worst fears came true and I had to make small talk with a whole range of people ...
Views: 595 - Why Pacing And Leading Is For Wimps! - by Submitted on Jan 18, 2008 from Peter MurphyOkay, you have read some books on body language and they all said you must mirror and match, pace and lead.... And you failed miserably when you went out into the real world. Let me tell you why and what you need to do instead. But first a story that illustrates my point... A few years ago I ...
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