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The Most Common form of Abuse Experienced by Christian Women in MarriageIs Divorce Harder for Christians than for Everyone Else?What God and the Bible Really Say About Divorce- Divorce and Children: Things To Consider When You're Staying Married Only For Your Children - by Submitted on Jan 01, 2005 from Karl AugustineAll children are different and respond differently to divorce. Depending on the characteristics of the children - age, emotional maturity, happiness, resiliency to trauma - the easier or more difficult it will be for children to weather a divorce. As a parent, you should know your children ...
Views: 10522 - ***Divorce Transition Dos And Don'ts - by Submitted on May 29, 2008 from Carolyn EllisDivorce is an enormous life transition. The basic storyline goes something like this. One day you’re in a relationship and the goal is to live happily ever after. Then over time, your relationship hits the rocks. People get unhappy with each other and someone makes the decision to divorce. ...
Views: 10505 - Wife Avoids Physical Contact: What Does It Mean When Your Wife Doesn't Want You To Touch Her - by Submitted on Jan 14, 2021 from Maci AspenWife Avoids Physical Contact: What Does It Mean When Your Wife Doesn't Want You To Touch Her Lack of sex in a relationship can be a sure sign of intimacy problems in marriage not only physically but also emotionally. Sex in a marriage is a special bond of love and relationships which lack ...
Views: 10383 - My Ex Boyfriend is Playing Mind Games! Great Tips to Get Even With Your Ex - by Submitted on Jun 22, 2016 from Michael UadialeI recently got a letter from a visitor to the blog who said essentially, “my boyfriend is playing mind games, and I’m tired of it.” That I could understand. It’s difficult trudging through the emotions you’re already feeling related to the break up, but when your ex decides now is the time to ...
Views: 10373 - Surviving Divorce: What To Think About To Ensure Surviving Divorce - by Submitted on Oct 23, 2004 from Karl AugustineSurviving divorce can be a valid fear if you're contemplating getting a divorce. In order to ensure surviving divorce, you should first understand that your divorce decision shouldn't be taken lightly. Ensuring that you'll be surviving divorce can be comforting and can influence your path as you ...
Views: 10172(1 vote) - Sometimes It Takes Only One Person To Change And Save Your Relationship/Marriage - by Submitted on Jul 13, 2017 from Katarina PhangIf you are feeling desperate because you are trying to save marriage alone, do not despair. There are many others in the same boat as you and such cries for help can be heard from both men and women alike. This is probably because they have made the same common mistake; entering a relationship ...
Views: 9958(3 votes) - The Lack of Communication and Divorce - by Submitted on Apr 29, 2012 from Isabell IsaiWhen people get married, they think that they are the perfect couple until they find themselves to be getting a divorce. There are many reasons for a divorce, but communication seems to be a big one. When a couple has poor communications between them, they can be suddenly wondering who the other ...
Views: 9822 - Rebuilding Your Relationship To Rekindle The Passion - by Submitted on Jul 17, 2017 from Katarina PhangThere comes a point in almost any successful relationship where things calm down and cool off. There is no longer a major spark between the partners. They get comfortable in their relationship and develop a routine. They no longer find as much time to spend together. Often, this is not due to a ...
Views: 9716(7 votes) - Reconnect with the Ex? What You Need to Know Before You Give it Another Go - by Submitted on Jun 29, 2009 from Lisa SteadmanAfter a relationship ends, it's all too easy to second-guess the decision to split up. And while reconsidering doesn't necessarily mean you should reunite, what happens if you and your ex DO decide you'd like to give the relationship another go? Maybe the time away from one another has shown you ...
Views: 9640(3 votes) - Letter To My Husband About My Feelings: Write Letter To Husband About Being Unhappy - by Submitted on Jun 28, 2018 from Henry JosephLetter To My Husband About My Feelings: Write Letter To Husband About Being Unhappy As a marriage begins to mature the couple involved often become so comfortable with one another that they each assume the other can read their minds. It's actually something most of us of the female gender ...
Views: 9621 - Suddenly Single: How to Reinvent Yourself After Heartbreak - by Submitted on Jun 30, 2009 from Lisa SteadmanWhether you just got out of a relationship, or have been struggling to heal your broken heart for some time now, figuring out how to move on can be confusing, fear-inducing, and downright uncomfortable. Not only do you have to let go of your past, but you’ve got to be willing to embrace the ...
Views: 9596(6 votes) - When Can Your Ex Take You Back To Court? - by Submitted on Apr 07, 2011 from Dana McIntyreJust because your court date is over and your divorce/child custody case is final does not mean that you may never have to go back to court and fight another battle. You and/or your ex can file for amendments to your final decree at any time. Unfortunately, this may also mean more court costs ...
Views: 9395(4 votes) - Why Letting a Man Go May Be the Key to Getting Him Back - Expert Advice! - by Submitted on Apr 30, 2011 from Charles UadialeOnce the man you are in love with approaches you and lets you know that he is not pleased and wants to end the relationship, you may have the tendency to keep hold of him and refuse to let him slip away. That is only your normal nature to guard the things you love kicking in. If you yielded to ...
Views: 9390(2 votes) - Divorce: Problem or Solution? - by Submitted on Feb 25, 2009 from Kathy MartoneIt is not common knowledge that divorce is actually a social phenomenon in existence since the time of ancient Mesopotamia. This suggests that the roots of our collective disillusionment with the institution of marriage have some deep, and perhaps meaningful, roots. To understand the meaning of ...
Views: 9240 - Children And Divorce: The Top Ten Things to Remember When Re-Entering The Dating Game - by Submitted on Mar 12, 2008 from Mark HughesChildren of divorced parents definitely have something to say about their parents dating again after divorce. I interviewed several children of divorced parents and they, without hesitation, had some things to say. Understandably, the comments are sometimes noticeably different amongst age ...
Views: 9155 - I Cheated On My Husband And He Wants A Divorce: My Husband Is Leaving Me Because I Cheated - by Submitted on Oct 08, 2021 from Baker JackI Cheated On My Husband And He Wants A Divorce: My Husband Is Leaving Me Because I Cheated I cheated on my husband, how do I fix it? Did you ever think you would be in this situation or ask yourself that question. You don't know how you let things ever get this out of control and you did not ...
Views: 9053 - Second Chance Relationship - 6 Practical Ways To Give Love One More Chance - by Submitted on Dec 22, 2010 from Johnny WayneSecond chance romance can happen even if the relationship was totally broken. Listen to what your heart is saying and wait for the spark to grow. It is hard to experience break up, from the loss of partner up to the pain from the situation are difficult to accept so as the process of moving ...
Views: 9006 - Sometimes Love Isn't Enough: Accepting the End of a Relationship - by Submitted on Feb 11, 2011 from Sil Lai AbramsThere are few things in life more agonizing than realizing that despite our best efforts, an important relationship cannot be sustained. Sometimes the pain of this realization is too much to bear. Instead of accepting the truth, we slip into denial. We pretend that the problems don’t exist. ...
Views: 8844 - Christians and Divorce: Five Keys to Successful Dating After Divorce - by Submitted on Apr 19, 2012 from Karla DowningChristians get divorced as much as non-Christians. They also face similar issues with successful dating after divorce too except that some of the Christian stereotypes about marriage may not apply in second marriages. Here are five keys to successful dating after divorce that will help you find ...
Views: 8835 - Tired Of Being Accused Of Cheating: How To Deal With False Accusations From Spouse - What To Do When You've Been Wrongly Accused Of Cheating - by Submitted on Jan 12, 2021 from Weston BrantleyTired Of Being Accused Of Cheating: How To Deal With False Accusations From Spouse - What To Do When You've Been Wrongly Accused Of Cheating When you've been accused of cheating, your first reaction may be to go on the defensive. It's very common and completely natural to feel as if you are ...
Views: 8704 - How To Deal With A Break Up - 3 Ways - by Submitted on Jul 16, 2017 from Katarina PhangSo the relationship is over and you're wondering how to deal with a break up. Maybe it's the first break up you've had that really upset you. Or maybe it's not your first and you're looking for answers because even after all this time you still don't know how to deal with a break up. When a ...
Views: 8690(4 votes) - Malicious Divorce Syndrome - by Submitted on Aug 08, 2011 from Les LinetDivorce is often brutal both to the divorcing spouses and to their children. This discussion will appreciate the enormous stress and distress that divorce subjects upon families, including both the adults and children. A syndrome of divorce-related hostilities that affect children has been ...
Views: 8596(10 votes) - What To Do When Your Wife Leaves You For Another Man: My Wife Left Me For Another Man Will She Regret It - by Submitted on Oct 08, 2021 from Baker JackYour marriage is in ruins. You probably wake up some mornings wishing it was all a bad dream. You knew that you and your wife were having problems but you have no idea the depth of those issues. Now she's left you for someone else and you not only feel devastated by the breakup of your marriage ...
Views: 8385 - Divorce to Remarriage: Don't "Re-do" your "I do" Before you Read This - by Submitted on Jul 21, 2007 from Alyssa JohnsonRemarriage is challenging in the best of situations. While most people are very excited about the idea of remarrying, very few adequately prepare themselves for the minefield of challenges that lie in wait for them. You should! Believe it or not, the remarriage divorce rate is at least ...
Views: 8326 - Feeling Guilty about ending your Marriage? Secret Tips to Let Go of Guilt - by Submitted on Apr 28, 2015 from Nicola BeerGuilt is a painful, uncomfortable and often lingering emotion that many individuals I work with suffer from. You will learn about John and Dana’s experience today, and at the end are my 3 secret tips to letting go of guilt. Take John’s case, after many years of endless agonizing and ...
Views: 8241 - Bullies in the Divorce Process - by Submitted on Jan 18, 2009 from Marilyn Barnicke BelleghemBullying is about the bully needing to feel powerful. Bullies believe their wants are more important than anyone else's. They have learned to be abusers. Bullying always involves • Intimidation through specific tactics meant to instill fear • Threats of emotional, physical and psychological ...
Views: 8226 - Consider Separation as a Part of Your Marriage Counseling Process - by Submitted on Aug 08, 2009 from Dr. Joseph AbrahamCan a marital separation save a marriage? Usually my opinion is: it depends… Whether the separation will help or hurt the marriage is unknown, unless you know the couple, have listened to them and assessed their mental state. Needless to say, a professional marriage counselor should ...
Views: 8220(3 votes) - Relationship Breakups - How To Stay Friends - by Submitted on Jul 16, 2017 from Katarina PhangRelationship breakups don't always mean that the person you're breaking up with needs to be cut completely out of your life. Many people continue to have warm and satisfying friendships with their exes by making sure that their relationship breakups are done without hurting anyone more than ...
Views: 8183(4 votes) - My Wife is Threatening to Leave Me - What Do I Do & How Do I Do it? - by Submitted on Mar 07, 2012 from Jacob ElichmannWhen your wife has threatened to leave you, suddenly all the problems in your marriage begin to seem a lot more real...Nothing brings to light the stark reality of a broken marriage more clearly than an unhappy wife who has finally had enough. As I'm sure you've also began to realize, simply ...
Views: 8148 - Functional and Dysfunctional Families - by Submitted on Aug 31, 2009 from Carl H. Shubs, Ph.D.Let us consider the functional family as one that works. It works for everyone in the family, not just some of the people. It is not perfect, but it is good enough. It is good enough so that the people in the family feel loved, valued, recognized, and appreciated. In the functional, good enough ...
Views: 8134(3 votes) - Divorce to Remarriage: What Happens When You Rush to Wed The Second Time Around - by Submitted on Oct 27, 2009 from Alyssa Johnson50% of first marriages end in divorce. 75% of those divorcees will remarry. At least 60% of those remarriages will end in a re-divorce. Sobering statistics aren't they? But why are they this high? 50% of first marriages end in divorce I'm not even going to make a guess at the reason for ...
Views: 8109(1 vote) - No More Crying, "I Want My Wife Back" - by Submitted on Apr 19, 2011 from Nea Joy JusticeAre your friends tired of hearing you say, "I want my wife back?" Or maybe you haven't admitted it to anyone, but you think about how much you want to get your wife back every day. Although there are no guarantees when it comes to things like this, there is great reason to believe there is hope ...
Views: 8108 - My Wife Resents Me: Dealing with Resentful Wife - by Submitted on Oct 08, 2021 from Baker JackResentment is a very difficult emotion and it's not something you ever want to touch your marriage. It's difficult enough to sustain a loving and committed bond without resentment taking hold of the connection. If your wife is feeling some resentment towards you because of your past or current ...
Views: 8039 - Marriage Without Affection Or Intimacy: Lack Of Affection From Husband - by Submitted on Oct 02, 2020 from Kelly LaceyMarriage Without Affection Or Intimacy: Lack Of Affection From Husband If you live in a sexless marriage, where your husband seems to have lost all interest in you, it can be very frustrating. Intimacy plays a very important role in strengthening the bond between a husband and wife. This ...
Views: 7945 - How to forget someone you see everyday - by Submitted on Feb 05, 2013 from Kevin ChonyuiBefore you came across this article you must have tried all you can to forget some one you see everyday but can't get a solution. This article will eventually bring an end to all your emotional pains so you will be happier and healthier as before. You might be a victim of breakup and you are ...
Views: 7557(1 vote) - My Wife Is Always Angry and Unhappy: Wife Is Always Angry and Negative - by Submitted on Jul 01, 2018 from Henry JosephMy Wife Is Always Angry and Unhappy: Wife Is Always Angry and Negative Are you always trying to figure out why your wife is always angry? It this is you, join the club. I have actually gone through this same situation and was actually not very sure I would be able to rescue my marriage. If ...
Views: 7442 - ***Men And Depression After Divorce - by Submitted on Sep 21, 2007 from Carolyn EllisA new study by Statistics Canada shows that men are more likely to suffer depression than women in the two years after a marriage or common-law relationship breaks up. The longitudinal data from the National Population Health Survey showed that men, aged 20-64, were six times more likely to ...
Views: 7400 - What To Realize For Getting Your WIfe Back From Divorce - by Submitted on Oct 24, 2012 from Robert LeesIt took me a lengthy time to discover the correct path for the finest way to get my ex wife back again, and for quite some time, a lot of the time of 2 years it was quite very difficult avenue indeed. But immediately after realizing the way I was trying to win back the love of my wife was ...
Views: 7365(1 vote) - Divorce Doesn't Scar Children -- Selfish Parents Do - by Submitted on Apr 16, 2008 from Rosalind SedaccaDivorce is a highly emotional topic. When children are involved the consequences are far more dramatic - and, not surprisingly, so are our opinions. I know there are many people who sincerely believe that no divorce is a good divorce. That children are always and inevitably harmed by the ...
Views: 7359(1 vote) - My Wife Doesn't Want Me To Touch Her Anymore: Your Wife Has No Desire For Sex - by Submitted on Jan 14, 2021 from Maci AspenMy Wife Doesn't Want Me To Touch Her Anymore: Your Wife Has No Desire For Sex Recently, a man asked me the following question: "Calle, can you tell me what's going on? My wife and I have been married for 15 years and after the first year, the sex started becoming less and less frequent. My ...
Views: 7338 - Early Signs a New Relationship Won't Last - by Submitted on Jul 15, 2009 from Gregory SmithThe following article originally appeared on www.midlifebachelor.com on June 14, 2009 ... Choosing to invest in a new relationship directly affects your own level of personal happiness especially in the near-term ... and so it is extremely important to keep your eyes and ears open, and be ...
Views: 7318(5 votes) - Friendless After Divorce - by Submitted on Feb 18, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraDivorce has many undesirable side effects. Whatever you had, you seem to lose. First you lose your spouse’s love and affection. Then you lose respect for one other. Next is the house, the car—even the kids. Sometimes it feels like you could lose your sanity. And, if that’s not enough, you lose ...
Views: 7146 - Surviving and Thriving after Betrayal and Relationship Breakup - by Submitted on Apr 21, 2011 from Suzanne WiebeOne of the hardest things to handle in a relationship is betrayal. It doesn’t matter whether you were stood up by a date, or your marriage ended horribly. Betrayal hurts. I’ve heard so many women say ‘I can’t trust anymore.’ I don’t want to try again. The pain can be deep and self-esteem ...
Views: 7143(2 votes) - 7 Ways to Rediscover Your True Passion After Divorce - by Submitted on Aug 18, 2004 from Joanie WinbergGoing through a divorce is a very challenging time in a person's life. It is hard to adjust to being single again, as well as living "out of the habit" of being married, especially if you have been married for many, many years. Eventually, you begin to think about dating, but it is suggested ...
Views: 7134 - My Wife Yells All The Time: How To Deal With A Yelling Wife - My Wife Yells At Me For Everything - by Submitted on Jul 10, 2018 from Henry JosephMy Wife Yells All The Time: How To Deal With A Yelling Wife - My Wife Yells At Me For Everything Are you one of those poor guys who has to be in a marriage, saying my wife yells all the time, what they heck do I do? Well if so then you've certainly got a problem on your hands. But ...
Views: 6987 - Everything I Do Is Wrong To My Wife: I Can't Do Anything Right In My Wife's Eyes - by Submitted on Jul 10, 2018 from Henry JosephEverything I Do Is Wrong To My Wife: I Can't Do Anything Right In My Wife's Eyes When your wife isn't happy it will impact everything about your marriage. Once a woman starts to feel unsatisfied within her relationship with her husband, the entire dynamic between them begins to shift. Her ...
Views: 6872 - "My Wife's Separate Vacation Spells the Beginning of the End of Our Relationship" - by Submitted on Feb 11, 2013 from Sam VakninSeparate vacations may, indeed, signify the beginning of the end of your relationship - or serve as a boost to its quality and durability. It all depends on several factors: 1. Topical vs. recreational vacations If your wife is addicted to chess and you can't stand the game, she has the ...
Views: 6866(1 vote) - Dealing With A Miserable Wife: Wife Is Never Happy With Anything - by Submitted on Jan 14, 2021 from Maci AspenDealing With A Miserable Wife: Wife Is Never Happy With Anything "She's always on my case about something," Sam complains to his buddy about his wife. To Sam, it seems as if his wife is never satisfied with anything that he says or does. She criticizes the way that he cares for their ...
Views: 6824 - How to leave Your Girlfriend without Drama - by Submitted on Aug 12, 2010 from Andre ZiziIt is hard breaking for any human to discover that the partner you trusted has actually dumped you. It's heart breaking for you, it's difficult for them, however if you really jump the gun in public place or in front of your neighbours, it’s strips both of you from your own dignity, and quite ...
Views: 6790 - Preparing For Child Custody Battles - by Submitted on Jul 09, 2005 from Tracy AchenUnfortunately, child custody battles are often part of bitter divorces. If you and your spouse can't reach an agreement about custody, you need to prepare yourself in the event that your custody case goes to trial. Today, it can no longer be assumed that the mother will get custody of the ...
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