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There are several crimes in this world for which each day innocent people are charged with. If for some cases, misjudged or suspects are let go, many wrongful accusations and charges end up getting administered in the system. There is a difference between being targeted as a suspect due to the ... Views: 676
Dear
Dr. Romance:
I am writing this letter to you because I really want to know what is the right love to last a lifetime? I am frustrated right now. ... Views: 647
We all have heard the saying “Happy Wife, Happy Life”. Marriage is wonderful, but it takes work. When the wife continuously experiences respect, that’s when one is considered to have learnt to become a perfect husband. There will be some rough patches along the way, and there will be days when ... Views: 541
In the modern era of digitalization, the smartphone plays a very crucial role in every aspect of life. The smartphone makes our life easy but do you know? There are also some destructive effects of smartphones. You may or may not be aware of these destructive effects of your phone habits. ... Views: 634
When it comes to love and relationships, things are never as simple as we want them to be. Both you and your partner end up having expectations with each other. Having expectations is not a bad thing, but when they are not communicated to your partner, and you keep building them up at your end, ... Views: 540
In the Vashikaran process there are several reasons of performing procedure:
1. Vashikaran method is generally practiced to win love and control all activities of lover/beloved.
2. It is equally effective in enhancing the compatibility between husband and wife.
3. The practice of Vashikaran ... Views: 620
When a relationship that probably began in hope and joy has ended in failure, grief and pain, It's very understandable to be concerned about repeating an action that was so hurtful. Here are some Happiness Tips for recovering from divorce.
Dr. Romance’s 3 tips for letting go of the ... Views: 746
If you, like me, did not grow up in this country, then you know about England what most people around the world share: not much. Everyone knows Queen Elizabeth and her gossipy family, the beetles, Sherlock Holmes and the amazing stories of Charles Dickens.
After many years of studying this ... Views: 189
It is a matter of fact that when you are in a healthy relationship, you bloom and grow in your own way. A healthy relationship is built with love, trust, and compromise. Everything seems to work out when you are in a healthy relationship. You share every detail, cover your partner’s weak points, ... Views: 563
Dear Dr. Romance:My partner whom I have been in a relationship with for the past year has changed and let me down twice. We were first friends for several years & became a couple for the last year. We both fell in love instantly and desire to live together to build towards a good ... Views: 762
As we are transitioning into Back2School and the Busy Season, we are to step up our game to keep up with the faster pace, fuller schedules, and additional demands. And, as we are trying to rescue what’s left of 2020... Yet, we are going into the season already exhausted, depleted, and burnt out. ... Views: 793
Whether you have been married to someone for ten years or have been dating them for the last few weeks, your relationship will go through rough patches at different times. Keep in mind, a good relationship is built with respect, love, and is based on mutual understanding. So if you want your ... Views: 858
This is the #1 thing you must do to stick up for yourself.
Here’s the uncomfortable truth, friends.
In your journey to get confident and feel better about yourself, you cannot be afraid to step on toes. In other words...
Don’t be afraid to piss people off.
Strong women will end up ... Views: 873
What do you do if you want your ex girlfriend back, but she has a new boyfriend and she hates you? If you've ever lost your ex-girlfriend to another guy, even if it seems impossible, it can be like a heartbeat. Just thinking about her with the other guy can tear you apart from top to bottom. But ... Views: 705
Humans are emotional beings. We often use our emotions, in conjunction with our intellect, to make sense of the world around us. From choosing our friends to deciding what to do over the weekend, we exercise the option which makes us feel happy, excited, valued or cared for.
But there are ... Views: 570
Are you and your spouse not seeing eye to eye on much anymore? Find out in this guide whether it's time for marriage therapy and get that spark back.
Staying in a long-term, committed relationship is one of the most difficult things human beings demand of themselves. When you live ... Views: 2342
My wife and I recently went to New York for a long romantic weekend break and we stayed in a very plush hotel which my wife loved. To say that she was delighted with my choice of hotel would be an understatement. So that night when we unpacked our cases and sat on our huge kings size bed ... Views: 924
For you men who ask, "What Do Women Want?" Here are Dr. Romance's 10 Things Married Women Want:
Women value intimacy, safety for themselves and their children, and emotional connection. Therefore, they long for the following qualities in a man:
1. Good Judgment Good ... Views: 777
Dear Dr. Romance:
I do not like my job, I have two more classes before I complete my masters in HR to move to a better position and recently passed the PHR certification. I was talking with my boyfriend about the environment at the company and how they are always threatening to fire people as ... Views: 685
Dear Dr. Romance
I am mindful that I am allowing my soon to be controlling, narcissist ex (civil law attorney) to run circles around me, just as we did when we were married. After attending a divorce group session at my local church, they recommend that I set up some specific boundaries and ... Views: 742
So I’ve been hearing this one thing a lot from readers and clients of mine who are trying to move the hell on...
“It wasn’t supposed to be like this.”
“We were supposed to grow old together.”
“I was supposed to retire in a few years, but now I have to go back to work because of the ... Views: 938
"NO TRESPASSING.” Secreting of the true self: Fear, sin, low self-esteem, insecurities, etc. cause us to hide/protect our true self.
My college roommate (who was raised by a single mom) and I shared many secrets. We were so close that we were the "Best Man" at each other's wedding. One day ... Views: 836
Fights between husband and wife happen due to ignorance and as a result of their past karmas.
In today’s world, the majority of couples have daily fights for years together. This is mainly because of their past karmas. In their previous life, they may have made highly negative intentions ... Views: 727
“Everyone in your family is a _________.” Cultural/social differences
“Ron, would you like to knock me up?” a rather shy single female British schoolteacher asked me one afternoon. I was puzzled by her request but sat quietly for a few moments until I figured out what she meant, and it wasn’t ... Views: 1011
A long-lasting relationship is a healthy relationship. A healthy relationship brings joy to everyone around them. Stable relationships are beautiful, strong houses, which take time to build. It requires specific materials to come together brilliantly.
So many people want a long-lasting ... Views: 795
There are four major types of narcissism. Researchers have been hunting for the core of narcissism that all narcissists share despite varying symptoms and severity. Narcissists use a variety of tactics and defenses to keep you insecure and ensure their status and their needs are met. It’s easy ... Views: 1108
So I’ve been hearing this one thing a lot from readers and clients of mine who are trying to move the hell on...
“It wasn’t supposed to be like this.”
“We were supposed to grow old together.”
“I was supposed to retire in a few years, but now I have to go back to work because of the ... Views: 904
“We seem to be growing apart.”
“Whatever happened between you and Sharon?” I asked Sharon’s ex-husband.
"Oh, she’s moved back to Phoenix with her sister.” I remained silent to give my friend time to say more. He sighed heavily and said, “We just seemed to grow apart over the ... Views: 860
When people spend a small duration with someone, they tend to be the best of themselves. However, they become more regular and average as the period increases. That is where the problem begins. A typical example of this behavior is marriage. People try to impress their partners by doing all the ... Views: 1012
The notion of a perfect marriage or relationship is as sweet as a romantic love song, but the truth is that there is no such thing. Couples argue, disagree, and partners often find themselves stuck in a boring, lackluster routine. It's normal to experience a lag in a relationship, especially a ... Views: 832
"Internazionale deserved the win," Wesley Sneijder told RAI. "We deserved to win, we played well and created a lot of opportunities, but the reality is that we lost, even though it's not over yet.
The game had an air of revenge yesterday, when Bayern Munich and Internazionale took the field ... Views: 182
At one time or the other, you will have to buy jewelry gift for her. You know ladies like necklaces, earrings, rings, and even bracelets. Therefore, if you want to appreciate her, buy her top quality jewelry. This will not only make her feel special, but also put a smile on her beautiful face. ... Views: 820
Dear Dr. Romance:
I'm really confused about a guy I know online from a social site, he's ten years older than I am. We've been in contact for several months. We now live in different countries. Recently, our chatting got intense and he told me that he likes me. ... Views: 751
Dear Dr. Romance:
My last romantic relationship (that I thought was mutual) ended because she said one day out of the blue, "I don't love you any more." I think she never really did, but rather I was her crutch after her last breakup. I loved her wholly, with all my everything, ... Views: 683
They say opposites attract. While scientifically, that is a proven fact, when it comes to human relationships, that concept maybe a myth. The human dynamics are complex and hard to predict the kind of person you may end up with as a partner.
It is so dynamic that you can end up with a ... Views: 698
Divorce is one of the judicial processes that Spaniards most frequently request. Therefore, we want to dedicate this article to talk about it, starting with the definition of the concept, continuing with the types currently contemplated by law, and ending with a detailed explanation of the ... Views: 1104
Having Normality in Emotions
Our emotions should remain in normality, neither above normal nor below!
Normality means our behaviour is just like that of actors or actresses in plays or movies. For instance, an actor acts like a good husband and is nice to his wife in the play. He says ... Views: 495
Part Three: “Why do you act like that?” Lifetime experiences
Education. How were you educated: homeschooled, private school, parochial school, or public school? How did your teachers and coaches treat you? Were you a part of the in-crowd or not? Was school easy or difficult for you? Who were ... Views: 812
Dr. Romance:
More and more people are sharing quarters since the pandemic. Being social distanced all alone is difficult, and financial problems are making roommates seem more desirable. Here's how to set up a situation you'll be glad about.
The best way to have a good ... Views: 750
Joining a dating site to interact with potential partners is a leisure activity that has exploded in popularity. On the surface, it seems such a straightforward way of connecting with like-minded individuals. The fact millions of people indulge in this pursuit every second of the day is a ... Views: 805
Part 2. Mud Puddles and Patent Leather Shoes
Or, “You’re not like me.” Innate Differences
A handsome young couple with two children walked out of church just after a rainstorm left several puddles in the parking lot. Their 2-year-old son let go of his mother’s hand and went immediately for ... Views: 815
Dr. Romance on men and biological clocks:
Yes, a man can feel the need to grow up and have a family, especially when he finds a woman who inspires those feelings in him. The problem is, how can you be sure the match is a good one?
You’d think the positive signs in a date would be ... Views: 811
Dear Dr. Romance:
I was wondering if I could ask you for some advice. I'm feeling so troubled. I got divorced a few years ago. Since then, I became involved with a man more than ten years older than me. I got a work assignment out of town, and he was adamant about keeping a ... Views: 781
Dear Dr. Romance
Your website impressed me and prompted this note, and I'd appreciate your thoughts.I am a reasonably well-educated individual which includes a couple of degrees in psychology and have been quite successful in my career. My wife who is also well-educated and our ... Views: 716
We meet a lot of different people in our lifetime and unfortunately some of these encounters come with disappointments. These disappointments can cause an individual to go into isolation or build a wall up to block their real emotions in fear of being hurt. If you are building a friendship or a ... Views: 954
Web-based swapping dating services can help you find a long-term swap relationship in the comfort of your home. These types of services can provide singles with information about like-minded people and help them get in touch with other couples. To use dating expertise, you need to register ... Views: 821
I feel this is a time of sadness for some of you because you feel stuck in a relationship or marriage you feel is not going to change. You have to speak to the Universe about the partner you desire. Honest and conscientious. Devoted and friendly. Educated and determined. Be specific so that you ... Views: 1033
When you think of “adventure travel,” what crosses your mind?
• Hiking?
• White water rafting?
• Scuba diving?
• Something as sedentary as a cruise ship or land rover safari?
Those ideas lose their “adventure” status when you compare them to galloping on a horse in Africa with a zebra ... Views: 985
Five Forces That Hinder or Enhance Togetherness
A six-part series of articles about improving your love relationship
Part 1. The Phantom Speaks for All of Us
Toward the end of The Phantom of the Opera, the Phantom finally captures his not-so-secret love Christine and takes her to his ... Views: 718
There are some moments that we all consider special in our lives and getting engaged is usually one of the most significant milestones for many.
Two people meet, fall in love and decide to take the next big step; getting engaged, ready to be married.
Engagement is a celebratory moment as well ... Views: 635