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  • I Don't Need a Man - by by Joyce Dolberg Rowe M.Ed., LMHC, Clinical Director
    Submitted on Mar 19, 2013 from Joyce Dolberg Rowe
    When a woman has been hurt deeply she sometimes develops a strong, tough, or negative attitude about relationships and trust in general. If she stays single for a long time, she may tend to believe that she can only rely on herself to the exclusion of all others. She can go so far overboard ...
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  • Is it really possible to find love online - by Dean Hopkins
    Submitted on Apr 15, 2010 from Dean Hopkins
    Online dating sites and social media sites are exploding so is it really possible to find love online or is it just filled with too many cheats liars and scams? Well I have gained a lot of personal experience this last year on this topic and I have spoken to hundreds of people looking to find ...
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  • Is it Time to Break Up Your Relationship? - by Suzanne James
    Submitted on Mar 28, 2011 from Suzanne Wiebe
    I like to talk to people for a few sessions, and let them determine why they want to break up. In many cases there are good reasons for the break up. In others, the emotional reasons are superficial leaving regret and pain on both sides after the break up. Sometimes a little ‘house cleaning’ and ...
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  • Is the Economy Affecting How Men Date? - by Kara Oh
    Submitted on Apr 08, 2011 from Kara Oh
    If you find men not paying much attention to you lately, it might not be you, it might be money worries. With what is going on in the economy men tend to go inward when they are concerned about their finances or their jobs. They aren’t thinking about dating other than maybe to get laid, ...
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  • Learning about Yourself While Going on Blind-Dates Will Help You Develop Better Relationships - by Doron Gil, Ph.D.
    Submitted on May 29, 2011 from Doron Gil
    If you have been going on blind-dates for quite some time now and haven’t yet succeeded in extending a date into a meaningful relationship, you may want to take a careful look at yourself and understand the reasons. OBSERVE YOURSELF WHILE GOING ON A BLIND-DATE Looking at yourself doesn’t ...
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  • Love Happens Naturally - by Wear Luck
    Submitted on Feb 15, 2011 from Michelle Hastings
    It’s Valentine’s day once again. Got any plans? If not, then you aren’t as alone as you might think. Plenty of wonderful women today can’t seem to hook the Mr. Right to spend this holiday with. Are you one of them? Don’t despair, ladies! The answer is simple and we at WEAR LUCK want to help you ...
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  • Low Self-Esteem And Christian Singles - by Dorian Milon
    Submitted on Mar 21, 2011 from Dorian Milon
    Christian singles the same as other singles can experience low self-esteem, which creates serious barriers when trying to seek a significant other. When one does not think highly of themselves, no one else is going to think highly of them either. Low self-esteem cannot only affect one’s social ...
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  • Make HER Fall For YOU - by Chris Tyler
    Submitted on Sep 29, 2009 from Chris Tyler
    Fellas, knowing how to make a woman fall for you is about the most valuable skill that you can have. Yet, the sad fact is that most guys have no real clues as to how to make a woman fall in love. Even most of the so called expert advice that you see does not produce results in the real ...
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  • Make Men Fall for You - Being the Woman He Can't Resist - by Nicole Gayle
    Submitted on May 01, 2010 from Nicole Gayle
    Are you frustrated and feeling lonely because you're not getting what you want with the man you want? I have good news for you. Today you can learn how to get rid of the obsessive thoughts that make you feel totally hopeless with guys and start to get the results you want. Drawing a ...
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  • Make Women Approach YOU - Ways to Entice and Attract Any Woman You Desire! - by Chris Tyler
    Submitted on Apr 30, 2010 from Chris Tyler
    Want to know if there is a way that you can make women approach you? Most men know what it's like to feel the fear of approach anxiety. It's not easy to get yourself to just walk up to a beautiful and sexy woman without experience a little fear and doubt about how she is going to react to you. ...
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  • My Personal Advice on Flirting with Girls - by Brian Broderick
    Submitted on Dec 24, 2009 from Andrew Hunter
    Let's discuss how to flirt with a woman. Flirting doesn't have to be very hard, and it's actually pretty fun once you get the hang of it. Before we go any further, though, I wand to make something clear. When you flirt, it should be enjoyable. Don't take it too seriously, and don't just shout ...
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  • My Personal Tips to End Shyness and Start Meeting Women - by Brian Broderick
    Submitted on Mar 05, 2010 from Andrew Hunter
    If you’re shy, dating girls will definitely be something you have difficulties with as a man. Girls are likely to be less outgoing, but men need to quit being timid if they expect any sort of success in dating. Don’t stress, I am aware where you’re at. I myself was once quite shy. The ...
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  • Online Dating Scams to Watch Out For - by Kristen F.
    Submitted on Oct 23, 2012 from Cupid's Arrow
    Many people who you contact on an online dating site will be perfectly honest, wonderful people who would make great dates, and maybe even future spouses. But online dating websites are also magnets for scammers who take advantage of people in vulnerable emotional positions. When you're ...
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  • Popular Dating Sites - The way to best online dating? - by whybealone
    Submitted on Mar 06, 2012 from why be alone
    Popular Dating Sites are now the trend for people who look for real dating experiences. The popular dating scenario experienced a drastic change in last couple of years. From the conventional method of dating it has shifted to internet based popular dating sites where you find a wide array of ...
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  • Professional dating agencies can help you meet your perfect match - by tom raise
    Submitted on Dec 29, 2012 from Zurek le
    Internet dating is considered as a globally accepted platform for meeting your partner. The schedules are so busy that you may not have much time for yourself and so this is very hard for you to lure some time out of that daily routine and find your soul mate. So professional dating agencies in ...
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  • Red Flag! Avoiding Toxic Relationships - by Ernest Quansah
    Submitted on Jul 16, 2011 from Ernest Quansah
    The end result of a toxic relationship is devastating and may require some form of healing or counseling. It is the kind of relationship that can leave you emotionally drained, sap your energy, and leave you severely broken up spiritually as well as emotionally leaving you with a feeling of ...
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  • Rejection From Women - How to Get Over It, Under It, And Around It - by Chris Tyler
    Submitted on Jan 28, 2010 from Chris Tyler
    Rejection from women. For some guys, the mere thought of getting rejected by a woman is almost more than they can handle. The catch is, if you really want to be successful with women, you have to be able to deal with it. Yes, the guys that ARE successful with the ladies, they get rejected from ...
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  • Romance on the Road: The Most Common Red Flags to Notice on Your First Road Trip Together - by Katie Krienitz
    Submitted on Sep 29, 2009 from Katie Krienitz
    Five people in one hotel room. That should have been my first sign. A little prudish, you’re thinking? Not when you’re 29 years old, have a decent income and feel as though your days of mattresses on the floor and Raman noodle dinners are far behind you. But I let it slide because it was our ...
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  • Safety Precautions For Single Parents On The Online Dating Scene - by Dorian Milon
    Submitted on Mar 21, 2011 from Dorian Milon
    Online dating can prove quite challenging yet promising for single parents. Dating can prove tough for anyone and even more so for single parents which is why there are tips and recommendations that must be followed. One can join an online single dating website. Profiles can be posted along ...
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  • Should I Go The Distance? - by Yvonne Chase
    Submitted on Aug 02, 2009 from Yvonne Chase
    Dear Coach Yvonne, I met a very nice man 3 months ago and we're enjoying getting to know each other but here's the thing, we live 3,000 miles away and neither of us wants to move. We've seen each other a couple of times since meeting but that's about it. I'm wondering if I should pursue this ...
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  • Should You Join a Women Free Dating Site? - by Matthew Bredel
    Submitted on Feb 24, 2012 from Matthew Bredel
    Many dating websites allow you to join free if you are a woman. Men must pay a membership fee. The concept behind allowing women to join free is that it entices more men to join and pay. Is it the best deal for women and men who are looking for lasting love though? Let’s consider the ...
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  • Single & Dating? Use New Year to Learn 5 Steps to Finding a Partner and Developing a Satisfying Relationship - by Doron Gil, Ph.D.
    Submitted on Dec 27, 2012 from Doron Gil
    There is no time like New Year to contemplate your successes and failures regarding intimate relationships. If you find you long to have a partner with whom to develop true intimacy and haven’t succeeded until now, why not use New Year as a time to look inwards and see, once and for all, what ...
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  • Single Parent Dating - by Tina Tessina - Dr. Romance
    Submitted on Jun 06, 2012 from Tina Tessina
    As a single parent, you probably have so little free time that dating seems an impossible task. Yet, single parents are dating in unprecedented numbers, so if you’re looking for another “head of household” to date, you’ll find one. As a responsible parent, you’ll want to be very cautious ...
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  • Small Talk - In the office - by The Tooth
    Submitted on Jan 17, 2011 from Ed Walker
    If you are a human being (I assume that if you’re reading this you probably are) you will most likely have to engage in small talk on a regular basis with fellow humans that you come across. You feel obliged to speak to them, even though you can think of a long list of things you’d rather do, ...
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  • Smart First Date Tips - by Bobby Pierson
    Submitted on Nov 16, 2009 from Bob Pierson
    Here you will find Smart First Date Tips to make the first encounter go as smooth as possible and make it fun not awkward for the both of you. These First Date Tips are not intended to be used all inclusively but used as a spring board for ideas to keep in mind when it comes to your ...
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  • Subliminal Perception - Seduce from a Distance - by Greg Frost
    Submitted on May 27, 2009 from Greg Frost
    Did you know that it was more than a little possible to seduce from a distance, and we are not talking about things like looks and charm. These are things you cannot control, because some of us would be borne looking good, some of us borne with average looks, and some of us are not so lucky in ...
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  • Ten Things to Do in February If You're Single - by Renee Cooper
    Submitted on Feb 05, 2010 from Meghan Gehan
    Valentine’s Day. Here it comes again. Last year we ran a list of things you can do if you’re single in February, and got a great response. So this year, we’re updating the list with some new ideas for how to spend this highly commercialized ‘holiday’. Because even though you may not want to ...
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  • The Art of Conscious Flirting: Playful Interactions in the Dance of Life - by Joan Heartfield Ph.D. and Saida Desilets, Ph.D.
    Submitted on Aug 24, 2009 from Joan Heartfield
    In our natural, loving state, we are turned on by select individuals and by life in general. As we encounter others, we recognize that each person has a unique quality that enlivens us. Learning a safe, elegant way to play with this enlivening attraction is part of putting conscious flirting ...
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  • The BIGGEST Mistake Women Make with Men (without even realizing it!) - by Cherry Norris
    Submitted on Jul 13, 2009 from Cherry Norris
    Gina is a great coach. She's smart, beautiful and successful. She's well traveled and well respected. She has great friends. Gina's life is full. Gina loves to make people feel special. She loves sharing ideas and giving advice. When Gina meets a man she likes, she gives him phone calls, ...
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  • The First Date Ideas & Rules - by Neil Ward
    Submitted on May 08, 2010 from Neil Smith
    The First Date Ideas & Rules The golden rule is to meet somewhere: public, chilled out & relaxed. A coffee shop is a great venue for this during the day and a wine bar is a great place for the first date idea in the evening. The first date should be kept casual. If you want to fully ...
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  • The Journey To Success When Finding The Perfect Christian Mate Online - by Dorian Milon
    Submitted on Mar 21, 2011 from Dorian Milon
    Christians find it difficult in finding other Christians to date. Where dating proves difficult for Christians, this does not mean that Christians should lower their standards. The goal of anyone on the dating scene should be to find someone who is compatible and this is no different with ...
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  • The Key to Getting Past Your Breakup - by Marni Battista, Dating with Dignity
    Submitted on Sep 09, 2012 from Marni Battista
    We’ve all been there. You just  broke up with a boyfriend, husband, or long-term partner. Whether you thought he was The One, or the one for the year or month, it never feels good. Breakups are hard because they represent the loss of a shared commitment. Even breakups that make logical sense ...
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  • The Law Of Attraction & Relationships - by Dawn Michaels
    Submitted on Sep 11, 2009 from Dawn Michaels
    "There is an inner awareness that a soul mate exists. So, then, begins the divine search." ~ Unknown Applying the law of attraction to any area of your life is always an exciting experience. But finding your true love is an especially wonderful adventure filled with joy, hope, passion and ...
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  • The Secret Psychology to Attract Women - Know How to Make Her Feel DESIRE For YOU! - by Chris Tyler
    Submitted on Sep 29, 2009 from Chris Tyler
    You and I both know that men and women think differently. In fact it is SO different at times, that it almost seems as if there is a secret psychology that you MUST know about women. And guess what? There is! You have to know how to create attraction in a woman if you want her to feel ...
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  • The Sensational Single Woman - by Ruth Purple
    Submitted on Apr 15, 2010 from Menno Spijkstra
    Are you sick and tired of being the singleton in your group and spending the Holidays alone? Well don’t be! Being single is not that bad. All you have to do is to look at the bright side of being single and learn to appreciate the great life you have. Yes, single and loving it! Say it to your ...
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  • The Single Man's Mission Statement - by Don Diebel
    Submitted on Mar 12, 2011 from Don Diebel
    Every man should develop a mission statement for succeeding with single women. This will give you purpose, a plan for doing better with women, and motivate you to take action to seduce women. Here's the mission statement that I recommend that you use: 1. I have supreme confidence in ...
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  • The Top 3 Reasons You're Single - by Shay Banks
    Submitted on Apr 30, 2010 from Shay Banks
    There are a lot of single people out there. I interact with them everyday, hell, I am one! What I’ve learned in my own dating and relationship life is that single people are single for three reasons: • you wanna be • your relationship just ended • there’s no one for you to date (or so you ...
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  • The Ups & Downs of Being Single - by LaToya "Lady Elle" Campbell
    Submitted on Jan 10, 2015 from LaToya Campbell
    The single life has its ups and downs and being single could either be the most exciting part of a person’s life, or the loneliest part of life for someone. On one hand, you are free to date who you want and could potentially have fun doing so. Unfortunately, this time for some is not ...
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  • Three Ways To Know That You're Ready For A Relationship - by Daniel Amis
    Submitted on Aug 02, 2011 from Daniel Amis
    Are you ready for a serious, committed relationship now…really? Well if you truly believe that you are, make sure that you have the below tips covered. 1. You’re maximizing your opportunities. If you want to find a mate, then you have to put yourself in an environment where the type of person ...
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  • Top 4 Tips To Date Chinese Women For China Love - by Alan Betty
    Submitted on Jan 13, 2013 from lisa yung
    Dating Chinese girl is serious. You can have romantic China love and happy marriage. You may also end up in failure and cannot find your true love. It all depends upon you including your attitude and actions. In order to find your life partner and soul mate among thousands of Chinese women just ...
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  • Trouble Finding Love? How Can I Find Perfect Love? - by Nanette Geiger
    Submitted on Aug 13, 2009 from Nanette Geiger
    Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Coach , writes... ... Fran from Idaho wanted to know “How do I find my ideal partner?” Well Fran, great question about how to find love.. Before you can attract what you want in your ideal relationship, you need to be absolutely sure what you want and what ...
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  • Two Simple Thoughts That Will Change the Way You Date - by Bobbi Palmer
    Submitted on Jun 01, 2012 from Bobbi Palmer
    My guess is that you’ve been dating a while and not getting great results. You’re here reading this, after all. The best way to shift into having dates that render positive outcomes – like having more fun and eventually meeting The One – is to change the way you talk to yourself before you even ...
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  • What Girls Find Attractive - by Brian Broderick
    Submitted on Feb 26, 2010 from Andrew Hunter
    Want to understand what women think is eye-catching in a guy? Many people around the world think that women merely desire men that happen to be loaded, jerks, military guys, tall, good-looking, celebrities, young, or any mixture of these attributes. In fact, what women think is enticing ...
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  • What is a Sugar baby? - by www.sugardaddy.yaforia.com
    Submitted on Dec 21, 2011 from Mira Smith
    A sugar baby is a male or female that is a companion for a person usually older in exchange for gifts, money, rent etc. A sugar baby is not a hooker or a gold digger, if you need milk you go to a store so I see nothing wrong with someone being compensated for their time. As a sugar baby you are ...
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  • What is Feminine Grace? - by Kara Oh
    Submitted on Jun 26, 2011 from Kara Oh
    I introduced the concept of Feminine Grace™ ten years ago in the first edition of Men Made Easy. It’s the foundation by which a woman should live her life, if she wants to be her happiest, with an immeasurable capacity to give and receive love. I’m working on finishing the book so many woman ...
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  • What Makes An Excellent Flirt? - by Robyn Vogel
    Submitted on Mar 30, 2010 from Meghan Gehan
    What makes an excellent flirt? What do you think of when you imagine yourself in a situation where you are getting ready to flirt with someone? What do you notice inside yourself in those moments? What do you feel self-confident about and where do you feel you need help? Here are some things ...
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  • What's love got to do with it? part2 - by Eric T. Little
    Submitted on Mar 26, 2011 from Eric Little
    Previously I touch on the two elements that effect our emotions and ultimately define how we engage each other. Those two powerful forces are lust and love. We must be careful to understand them both and how they effect the climate and condition of our relationships. We must view love and lust ...
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  • When it comes to dating, are you a Cougar? - by Debra Berndt, Certified Hypnotic Love Coach
    Submitted on Jul 30, 2009 from Debi Berndt
    In case you haven't heard of this new phrase, a "Cougar" is named used to refer to an older woman who dates men much younger than her. Cougars come in all types and the reasons for their particular fetish with the boys are varied. Some are content with having fun and others seek more in the ...
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  • Where to Meet Men-- The Top 5 Hot Spots You Never Thought Of - by Ruth Purple
    Submitted on Mar 29, 2009 from Menno Spijkstra
    On the lookout again: single woman looking for a guy. You already have a list, detailing the qualities of your future perfect partner. There’s only one little problem left—you don’t know where to go to meet men. A girl can always go to a club where a lot of single (and attached) men hang out ...
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  • Why Do Christian Singles Find Dates at Christian Dating Sites? - by Jenny Rogers
    Submitted on Oct 26, 2013 from Jenny Tran
    The number of Christian dating sites has increased over the years. Many people of the faith go to these places to find Christian single men and women alike. The reasons why these singles go to these faith-based dating sites instead of many other places are important to think about. The first ...
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