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- Couples Challenges: The Series - Successfully Navigating the Lifestyle aka Swinging - by Submitted on Aug 30, 2009 from Mark KauppMany couples face a point in their relationship when the feelings of boredom and monotony begin to set in. The couple begins to feel like they’ve lost the spice and spontaneity that once came so easily. Now they have to work for that same excitement which tends to make things seem tedious and ...
Views: 4471(2 votes) - Saving a Marriage after Financial Infidelity - by Submitted on Feb 21, 2011 from Nikiya SpenceFinancial Infidelity continues to be a major contributing factor to why many marriages fail in this country. In fact, it is a well known fact that money problems rank among the top three issues, along with sex and kids that cause the most arguments in a marriage. Financial infidelity, also ...
Views: 4471 - How do emotional affairs happen? - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2011 from Tammy DavidsonOnce you at least partly accept that, for a lot of people, the workplace is the source of many an emotional affair; you may want to know how to avoid getting involved in one, or maybe you need to identify if you are close to the edge of an emotional affair, without realizing it? Few married ...
Views: 4446 - My Boyfriend is Not Loyal to Me – Six Means to Take Out Infidelity Issue - by Submitted on Jun 23, 2011 from Simone Brown"My lover is unfaithful to Me ", she believed. Before you give the break up idea and shatter her feelings even more, attempt to recommend these six steps to salvage the affiliation. Your closest colleague who’s sitting right in front of you, broke the news of unexpected betrayal. You could ...
Views: 4446 - Dear Dr. Romance: My husband's one-night-stand is pregnant - by Submitted on Oct 14, 2011 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I read an article of yours on Divorce360 about affairs the end with a pregnancy. My husband had a one night stand three weeks ago. He told me about it. We've been going to counseling for several months and were doing great. We just found out she's pregnant. I love my ...
Views: 4396 - Nasty Things Women Do To Men - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraWhether we admit it or not, as human beings, we love to do something fun and pleasurable, it’s human nature to want self-gratification. And sometimes, consciously or unconsciously, we play games to experience self-gratification. If you really think about it, it really makes sense, we spend our ...
Views: 4375 - What Is a Open Relationship: Understanding It Before You Agree to It - by Submitted on Apr 29, 2011 from Nea Joy JusticeHave you found yourself asking, "What is an open relationship" or "Are we in a open relationship?" If so, hopefully it isn't because you agreed to such a relationship without understanding what it really means. If you and your partner want to have a successful relationship (open or not), it's ...
Views: 4367 - 3 Tips for Stopping Jealousy Before It Snowballs into Something Unstoppable - by Submitted on May 28, 2010 from Susie and Otto CollinsWe've all seen cartoons in which a character shapes snow into a ball, perhaps to build a snowman. As the ball of snow is rolled, it grows bigger and bigger. Pretty soon that snowball is quite large and here comes a slope or hill... The next thing we see are the arms and legs of our ...
Views: 4346(10 votes) - Dealing With Affairs in the Christian Community - by Submitted on Nov 15, 2009 from Martez LaytonI have been in the Christian community all of my life, but I cannot remember one time ever hearing someone teach on affairs in the church. I remember hearing about preachers cheating, the deacon cheating and the church secretaries cheating but never hearing or seeing this issue being dealt with ...
Views: 4253(3 votes) - Does It Make You Weak if You Stay with Your Husband After He Cheated? - by Submitted on Mar 31, 2011 from Andrew HunterIf you’re reading this, then there’s a good chance that your husband cheated on you in your marriage. If that’s the case, I’m truly sorry. I know only too well how painful the betrayal of adultery can be. Maybe women often assume that this means that the marriage is a failure and that it’s ...
Views: 4238(2 votes) - Is Your Husband Lying to You After His Affair? - by Submitted on Mar 25, 2011 from Andrew HunterIf you’re struggling with the issue of honesty in your marriage after your husband had an affair, it is only natural. After all, you trusted him all those times he told you he was working late at the office or going out for a drink with the guys. Who knows what else he could be lying about? ...
Views: 4236(1 vote) - Immorality in the Church - by Submitted on Apr 27, 2009 from Olurotimi AdebanjoA writer wrote about Immorality, "It is not common that you will find it. It is not popular if you say it. People do not believe it. A preacher is criticized if he reminds you of it" Despite this perception, the fact remains that Immorality has entered into the Church. How do we tackle and ...
Views: 4225(1 vote) - As a Mother, Infidelity Can Negatively Affect You Psychologically, Physically and Financially - by Submitted on May 09, 2008 from Ruth HoustonIf your husband is having an affair, it's important for you to understand how his infidelity can negatively affect you, as a mother, and, by extension, your children too. You can be affected psychologically, physically and financially. Psychologically If your husband is cheating on you, it ...
Views: 4223 - Is Cheating Your Sign to End Your Marriage? - by Submitted on May 16, 2012 from Martez LaytonThe golden rule in marriage is, "if you are ever caught cheating on your spouse the marriage is over." For years this was the same way I felt. Although married; for over 20 years, I remember those infamous words even from my days of dating. Since that time I have come to realize from personal ...
Views: 4182(1 vote) - 4 Soul Mate Mistakes: Avoid These or Suffer - by Submitted on Nov 04, 2010 from Scott & Stephen PetulloMost singles want to find a soul mate, but aside from the common romantic assumptions about this elusive magical bond, they generally don't stop to think about the spiritual purpose of soul mates or the true meaning of the term. Thanks to movies, TV, and romance novels, the perception of a ...
Views: 4123(1 vote) - How to Forgive a Cheater and Let Go of the Negative Feelings from an Affair - by Submitted on Apr 22, 2011 from Andrew HunterI know that the pain of your husband having an affair can be truly heartbreaking. It is difficult to set aside all those feelings of betrayal and all the haunting images that run through your head. Sometimes it may even feel like your relationship is doomed to fail and there is no way to save ...
Views: 4101 - Recovering from Emotional Infidelity - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2011 from Tammy DavidsonYou have both decided that you want to repair your marriage and that the damage of the emotional infidelity is not so great that you cannot recover. Forgiveness will take some time, and it may not be possible ever to forget, but with hard work on both sides, emotional affair recovery is ...
Views: 4096 - ***Arnold and Maria – Infidelity Always Leads to Bad Consequences - by Submitted on May 22, 2011 from Dr. Charles and Dr Elizabeth SchmitzBy America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts. Hard to imagine. People seemingly happily married for 25 years suddenly and surprisingly seek divorce. At 25+ years, divorce is, in the scheme of things, very unusual. Twenty-five years is a very long time for humans! It comprises about a third ...
Views: 4093(17 votes) - 3 Dangerous Relationship Killers That Could be Driving Your Husband into Another Woman’s Arms - by Submitted on Mar 31, 2011 from Andrew HunterDo you feel like your relationship isn’t the same it used to be? Sure, maybe those butterflies from when you first started dating aren’t there anymore, and that’s normal. But if it seems like you and your spouse are just out of synch or if some serious conflict is threatening to tear your ...
Views: 4055(3 votes) - Help for the Partners of Sex Addicts - by Submitted on Apr 16, 2011 from Dorothy HaydenFrequently Asked Questions · What is sex addiction? Sex addiction is an obsessive relationship to sexual thoughts, fantasies or activities that an individual continues to engage in despite adverse consequences. These thoughts, fantasies or activities occupy a disproportionate amount of ...
Views: 4036 - How to Deal With Sadness After an Affair - by Submitted on Nov 09, 2014 from C Mellie SmithSadness and depression are normal emotions to feel after you discover that your husband has betrayed you. Knowing its normal though, isn’t enough to see you through this time of grief. You are heartbroken about what you thought was true about your life, and even though you are trying to make ...
Views: 4010 - ***How to Save a Marriage After an Affair - by Submitted on Sep 20, 2011 from Joe BeamDivorce breaks the hearts of those involved — couples, children, parents, friends, church, and the heart of God. One of the greatest underlying events destroying marriages today is adultery. The following is a frank and spiritual message on how to save a marriage after an affair. My fervent ...
Views: 4005 - Relationship Advice for Women - Surviving Infidelity & Emotional Affairs - by Submitted on Sep 01, 2009 from Sarah MichaelsSurviving infidelity is a touchy subject in any relationship that has experienced it - and many women seek relationship advice in order to deal with this heart and deal breaking occurrence. Whether or not the infidelity is a physical affair, a breach of trust or an emotional affair, the ...
Views: 3943(4 votes) - Dear Dr. Romance: My ex is violent, abusive and obsessed with me - by Submitted on Nov 02, 2013 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I read your post on line about 5 signs he isn't over his ex, and it answered a lot of questions that I have about my ex husband. We were married for 10 years. He's violent, abusive and obsessed with me. I have dealt with him for the almost 3 years ...
Views: 3939 - How to Regain Trust in a Relationship - 3 Simple Steps for Rebuilding the Trust After Infidelity - by Submitted on Feb 23, 2011 from Lisa Penn-JamesYou have a hard time believing anything he says. Why would you? He cheated and lied to you, so how do you know he is not lying again? Discovering how to regain trust in a relationship is a critical part of surviving an affair and saving your marriage after an affair. Here you will find a few ...
Views: 3902 - 5 Clues That Your Girlfriend Is Cheating - by Submitted on Aug 02, 2010 from Andrew HunterCan't put a finger on it, but is something a little weird regarding your relationship with your girlfriend lately? Gut feelings mean something – your girl may be cheating on you. Besides that gut feeling, there are other signs you should be aware of. Don't be hasty, though, these are just signs. ...
Views: 3897 - Infidelity: Picking Up the Pieces After an Affair - by Submitted on Feb 16, 2012 from Deborah LindstromNot many things can come close to the emotional damage caused by infidelity. Trying to keep a healthy married relationship can be difficult more so if you have to worry about numerous things at the same time. All of us have many obligations such as work and caring for kids. Husbands and wives do ...
Views: 3892 - How to Tell if someone is lying-Hints & Tips - by Submitted on Apr 12, 2010 from Justin DouglasAdrienne Rich said “Lying is done with words and also with silence”. The self always shines through and there are many little hints & tips that if you are aware of can show big lying indicators in someone. Signs of lying can be everything from voice tone, body language, changing the ...
Views: 3875(4 votes) - Are All Men Genetically Wired to Cheat? The Truth May Shock You - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2011 from Andrew HunterDid you know that scientists have discovered an actual gene that they believe may have a correlation to a man’s likelihood of cheating on his partner? This gene is called allele 334 (if you had a habit of sleeping through your biology class, like me, an allele is part of a chromosome). A man ...
Views: 3873(2 votes) - Catch A Cheating Spouse - The Proven Five Steps Will Show You How - by Submitted on Jul 01, 2008 from Sally WebbIf you want to catch a cheating spouse and learn the truth, you need hard evidence - proof. You cannot 'accuse' anyone without it, and believe it or not, you would not even succeed in convincing yourself without solid proof. You have been looking for signs of infidelity, reading articles, ...
Views: 3863 - Can One Spouse Save A Marriage? - by Submitted on Sep 20, 2011 from Joe BeamType the question into Google and in less than a quarter of a second it returns over two million links. Some lead to articles, others to "sure fire" products that promise to solve all marriage problems, and others to blogs that say one can and blogs that say one cannot. Employing the ...
Views: 3853(1 vote) - How Do You Know if Infidelity is a Symptom of Sexual Addiction: 10 Indicators - by Submitted on May 08, 2009 from Peggy FergusonYou have just discovered or been informed of your partner's infidelity. You are in shock. You are confused, angry, immobilized, depressed, and thinking you will absolutely go crazy. In the midst of all this, you keep hearing about "sexual addiction" in the media and you wonder if it is sexual ...
Views: 3853 - How The Meaning Of An Adult Entertainment Is Different In Nevada From Other Places? - by Submitted on Aug 13, 2018 from Kamal SwamiFrom the years going to the places that are regarded suitable for adult entertainment are considered as a shameful act and not a suitable for the people of the elite group to visit. In fact, even today, despite of changing lifestyle people across the world hesitate in visiting the place for an ...
Views: 3842 - Narcissists, Social Media, and Porn - by Submitted on Oct 08, 2013 from Sam VakninSocial media, such as Tumblr.com, have become the playground of narcissists, psychopaths, and sadists who post extreme and, at times, illegal porn and revel in the reactions to it, thus garnering vicarious narcissistic supply. Via such postings, they express their rabid misogyny by objectifying ...
Views: 3818 - After the Divorce - Trust after Infidelity - by Submitted on Aug 18, 2010 from Maryann CanditoIf you’ve been the victim of marital infidelity and are now working through the divorce; healing infidelity can be a daunting process. As much as you think to yourself, how will I move on? There will come a time when you will be interested in dating again, therefore trust after infidelity is ...
Views: 3780 - Social Media: Does Social Media Encourage Cheating? - by Submitted on May 31, 2015 from Oliver JR CooperIf a woman has been with men who have cheated, she might come to the conclusion that all men are the same. And if a man has been with a number of women who have cheated, he could also come to the same conclusion. As a result of what they have been through, it would be normal for them to say ...
Views: 3761 - Forgiving Infidelity - Guidance From A Couple Who've Been There And Done It - by Submitted on Aug 11, 2008 from Doug and Chris YoungForgiving infidelity is something a lot of people cannot understand or don't think is possible. But anything is possible if you want it badly enough. When your loved one has cheated on you one of the most difficult questions to deal with is "Can I ever forgive them". Forgiving your partner or ...
Views: 3758 - Coping With Infidelity: The Serial Cheater - by Submitted on Nov 13, 2011 from Joe JamesSeeing various people from all walks of life begin the process of coping with infidelity is very common nowadays. Anytime that a person is facing this particular situation there is certain advice that might be of use to them. It is not uncommon for these people to feel alone with the struggle ...
Views: 3741 - The True Cost of Cheating in a Relationship - by Submitted on Jul 25, 2014 from C Mellie SmithOne of the biggest costs of cheating in a relationship isn't the devastation it causes to the relationship; sometimes it's the loss of trust in you as a good person that is the biggest cost of all. The truth is, the closest relationship you'll ever have, is the relationship you have with ...
Views: 3728 - ***Sexless Marriage - by Submitted on Sep 20, 2011 from Joe BeamThe extent of the research and the methodology employed far surpassed any study before it. Published by the University of Chicago in 1994, the “public” version of the report was provocatively titled Sex in America. The scientific version carried the duller title of The Social Organization of ...
Views: 3716 - Problems Faced by Wealthy Marriages - by Submitted on Sep 20, 2011 from Joe Beam“Our problem,” he said, “is that everyone in my life listens to what I say and does what I tell them. Then I come home and it doesn’t work that way with my wife. I don’t like that.” She didn’t either. The comment was neither unexpected nor unusual. In workshops for marriages in crisis, ...
Views: 3683(1 vote) - Is Staying With a Cheating Partner a Sign of Low Self-Esteem - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2018 from C Mellie SmithWhen you are in a relationship one of the worse crimes your Partner can commit is to cheat on you, it is quite heartbreaking no matter the reason. Before you experience it firsthand your go-to reaction would probably be to deal with said partner and give them the boot. All this probably ...
Views: 3664 - How to Save Your Marriage if You Think Your Spouse Is Cheating - by Submitted on Aug 12, 2010 from Angie LewisWhat I am about to tell you is NOT a new concept, although you will not get this kind of advice very often when dealing with a cheating spouse because most people don’t think adultery is fixable. But I am here to tell you that you can heal from the affects of adultery and be a better spouse for ...
Views: 3653 - You Should Not Need To Ask For An Apology After Infidelity - by Submitted on Dec 22, 2011 from Daryl CampbellA crucial factor when it comes to how you can get through infidelity is when the actual cheating significant other delivers a genuine apology to their marital partner. They will fully grasp the thing they actually did was basically improper in addition to comprehending the actual effect of their ...
Views: 3653 - Why Do People Cheat? – Dealing with Infidelity - by Submitted on Jun 04, 2010 from Cindy L. HerbLately, a number of people in my life have discovered that the person they thought was totally devoted to them has been unfaithful. It has caused great pain for them. Each of us looks for love and when we think we have found it, we can often be later disappointed when we learn that our ...
Views: 3642(2 votes) - How Can You Ignite The Spark And Rebuild Your Relationship After Cheating? - by Submitted on Dec 06, 2014 from C Mellie SmithWhen infidelity happens, it can literally feel like the earth has swallowed you up along with the carpet that has been ripped violently out from under you. Your world has changed. Everything you believed to be true is suddenly challenged in a way that you never thought possible when you married ...
Views: 3631 - Marriage, Monogamy, and Infidelity: 7 Varieties of Secretly Non-monogamous Marriage Partners - by Submitted on Jan 12, 2010 from Scott & Stephen PetulloA happy, monogamous, life-long, traditional marriage is almost universally desired, yet has been proven time and time again through high divorce and infidelity rates and legions of unhappy couples to be, in most cases, an idealistic, unrealistic notion trumped by the reality of human ...
Views: 3592(6 votes) - Dear Dr. Romance: I Have Strong Feelings for My Plastic Surgeon - by Submitted on Dec 22, 2012 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I saw you on the web and thought I would ask you about my attraction to my plastic surgeon. I am almost 50, and have been having procedures done for 6 months now. He is my age and married with 2 school-age children and a younger wife. I have very strong feelings for him and ...
Views: 3590(1 vote) - Get Your Ex Back Now - It's Never Too Late! - by Submitted on Jul 09, 2011 from John OnyekaHave you someone ever told you that you can get your ex back now? Or came across some offers and ad somewhere that offers that? The hitch with offers and ads like that is they don't spell out what they signify by now. Do they mean that if you buy now they can get you started today to get your ex ...
Views: 3587 - Relocation and The Allure of Marital Infidelity: Temptation to Taste Forbidden Fruit - by Submitted on Oct 31, 2007 from Marilyn Barnicke BelleghemMoving to another country can result in missing all that has been familiar, while facing the challenges of adapting to a new environment. Sharing the experience and feelings with someone new can create intimacy that often leads to emotional and physical infidelity. Why does this happen and what ...
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