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It can be easy to say that words are just words. Once you’ve said them, it’s like they evaporate into thin air and leave no real impact on the world. This way of thinking, however, is in fact far from the truth. Once you’ve said it, there’s no taking it back. Maybe you’ll feel bad or ... Views: 2262
BODY LANGUAGE
Your body language says a lot about you and has a major impact on how others see you. As such you can learn a lot from the body language of others.
Body language accounts for up to 55% of how we communicate. Body language along with verbal cues can indicate a number of ... Views: 2245
“During my 87 years I have witnessed a whole succession of technological revolutions. But none of them has done away with the need for character in the individual or the ability to think.”-Bernard Baruch. It is your choice to build your character and your ability to think. They are critical to ... Views: 2234
Are you a confident speaker? Many may think that they are but when looking at their body language it tells a whole different story. The real problem with being a confident speaker is not how well you prepare or how well you string sentences together. Its absolutely about what you project as you ... Views: 2228
A Sharp Dressed Man
Traveling with a business man brought some unexpected revelations. However, one particularly stands out. We arrive the night before the "big meeting". You know the one you have spent weeks preparing for, the one with one of your biggest clients (a $50M plus deal), and the ... Views: 2226
It doesn’t matter how much you know in your personal or professional life; your knowledge is quite useless, unless you know how to communicate it to others, and I don’t just mean with the words you use. I’m also talking about the nonverbal communication, or body language, that goes on in every ... Views: 2197
Whether you're speaking to an audience of one or many, it's important to make eye contact in order to connect.
Eye contact demonstrates your willingness to connect to the audience on a personal level. It also shows that you are confident and proves that the information resides in your head, ... Views: 2191
This book review is part of a series that covers the topic of Body Language. Body Language is nonverbal, usually unconscious, communication through the use of postures, gestures, and facial expressions. Robert Phipps is the Official Guide to Body Language.
The Secret Language of Business: How ... Views: 2188
Smiling is a great stress buster and it can also change the environment around you. I have noticed the power of a smile when visiting workplaces for consulting or training projects. When the team is in their “serious mode”, it is obvious through their facial expressions (or lack of expression) ... Views: 2181
Self Empowerment by knowing the DO’S and DON’Ts of shaking hand
Never underestimate a simple gesture like a handshake can play a major role in the influence on how other people look at you and in creating a positive first impression which impact the subsequent meeting.
Basically, everyone ... Views: 2175
Last month, a series of conversations recorded in 1964 between Jacqueline Kennedy and Arthur Schlesinger Jr., a former Kennedy aide, was published into the latest book on the legendary first lady – and one of my favourite 20th-century style icons – titled Jacqueline Kennedy: Historic ... Views: 2173
Why Mindfulness 101 is a Lifesaver
Are you curious about new scientific research on baby-easy meditation that can help overcome chronic insomnia, reduce high blood pressure, and support self-control over anxiety?
Would you be interested in scientific research on how about 9 minutes of ... Views: 2157
If you think the way you’ve always thought, you will always get the same result of the thoughts you’ve been thinking. Does that sound like a reasonable statement? Of course it does! But why should you be interested in the thoughts you think when it comes to creative and effective weight loss? ... Views: 2144
Fear.
That’s the main reason. We fear the consequences of our power. Sometimes we fear the responsibility that comes with power.
You may not feel ready to wield so much power. When you realize that you can manifest your desires quickly and definitively when you go after them directly, it’s ... Views: 2142
Knowing how to read body language is an incredibly great advantage for you. Just by careful observance, you can actually figure out what a person is thinking; or in some cases, trying to hide. This skill alone puts you two or three steps ahead of other people.
Learning how to read body ... Views: 2106
What Distinguishes Charismatic from Credible Presidential Candidates?
Barak Obama has laser-focus eye contact; Mitt Romney is tall and attractive; Giuliani smiles, gestures and laughs before he speaks. These presidential candidates have Charisma, with a capital "C." Their body language gives ... Views: 2101
I consider my body my most trusted advisor. I think it assimilates information from the Universe that I can’t understand fully at first. You see, I know the Universe wants my best life, but sometimes I don’t heed its advice – sometimes I’m convinced I don’t even hear it.
It’s like Oprah ... Views: 2100
People beginning to learn Chinese soon discover what a difficult language it is to grasp. This difficulty is compounded by Chinese letters which are so different to our own. Interestingly, the reason for this is that these are not in fact letters, but complete words. This is known as a ... Views: 2099
In Part 1, “Is that really ME giving that confident presentation?”, I covered some of the more physical and emotional characteristics for giving a confident presentation. Let’s talk about those silent, yet very loud, signals from your audience. These are indicators that tell you if they are ... Views: 2097
Have you seen a baby learn to walk?
Have you heard that example time and time again?
Have you learnt the lesson in it YET?
Or are you still thinking that unless you can take one step to greatness everytime, then your ideas, your visions, your mission is not worth getting back up and trying ... Views: 2080
The way we sit, stand or walk affects our mind and therefore our results. Likewise, the way we feel affects our posture and movements.
“There is an inner and an outer side to everything,” as Thomas Troward said.
Your Posture and Your Mood?
Think about a happy and successful moment, a ... Views: 2078
It is likely that if you are seeking a career in TEFL that you enjoy teaching. There are many reasons why a person might enjoy teaching. Part of that reason is the joy that comes from helping someone learn something. It can be difficult to properly teach a student if you haven’t had the proper ... Views: 2062
Self Empowerment by recognizing and avoiding negative body language signal
Our body language mystically reveals far more information about our feeling than it is possible to convey verbally through conversation. All of the physical gestures we make are subconsciously interpreted by others and ... Views: 2055
Of all the nonverbal communication signals, eye body language is probably the most fascinating. They say the eyes are “the windows to the soul.” I agree, since your eyes pretty much reveal your inner thoughts and feelings.
Even more amazing is the fact that you can use eye body ... Views: 2046
How to Gesture And Double Your Communication Skills
Adults are learners too, so how do we get our point across (comprehension)
without sounding like a dominating school teacher?
If you visit your doctor and he says your x-rays are Benign, you are a lot
happier than if he says the results ... Views: 2043
Didja Know Emotional Verbs We Read Affect Our Judgment?
So What
How important is persuading, influencing and convincing folks to your
career and relationships?
For me it hits 99% because we are social animals and work with others or present what we accomplish to others. Get this: ... Views: 2039
People hire people they like. So while your skills and experience are important elements to securing a job offer, just as important is your ability to build rapport that is natural and engaging with your interviewer. The rapport you establish during an interview can greatly impact the impression ... Views: 2038
S.M.I.L.E
Not everyone can be a natural when meeting a group of people you never met for the first time. Business networking event is always a time where the most networking-savvy person will benefit the most. You can achieve equal excellence even if you are relatively inexperienced in ... Views: 2038
55% of any message we give out is “unconscious” and we are constantly giving out these signals on a regular and daily basis and other people are “reading” our body language all the time.
Think about it. How many times do you make a judgement on someone you’ve just met, whether it be positive ... Views: 2032
Is your body language aligned with the message you want to send? On The Today Show with Kathie Lee and Hoda, body language expert Janine Driver weighed on the silent yet significant signals speed daters were sending each other at a Professionals in the City speed dating event. As you’ve probably ... Views: 2019
Stress is a major risk factor in almost every ailment you can think of, and yet millions around the globe lead a life of great stress. Of all the reasons that contribute to stress, work and workload is a major contributor. The two main reasons for people to feel stressed at work are – overload ... Views: 2019
What’s the story about body language? Nonverbal expressions of the human body are silent signals that say a lot.
The important thing to know about body language is this:
It is louder than you think!
Presentation skills training would not be complete without addressing effective body ... Views: 2000
Have you paid attention to your body language and the message it sends out to others and to yourself?
Have you wondered why at times people react very differently to you than you expect or the intent of what your message was? You might notice that you reacted negatively to a message that ... Views: 1999
Listen To the Hand
Whether you were taught to fold your hands on your lap, hold your hands behind your back, or shove them in your pockets, you won’t be able to avoid the fact that your hands are communicating all the time. After many years of debate, researchers have finally agreed with ... Views: 1981
What Makes A Good Leader? 7 Essential Skills Of Leadership.
What makes a good leader? 7 Essential skills of leadership.
Leadership skills are, within you. Leader is the person, who nurtures the leadership qualities, available within him. Leadership is nothing but, fulfillment of, innate ... Views: 1943
Whether you are involved in public speaking, sales, presentations, training, or any other profession requiring you to convey a concept to another person, the goal should be to emotionally charge the room with the energy of your topic. The words you use are not as relevant as the feelings you ... Views: 1936
Less than 10 percent of communication comes from the words and rest from your body languages. So it’s important to play attention to body language during an Interview. Hence proved by old adage –“it’s not what you say, it’s how you say it” still holds meaning, even if you are not talking. From ... Views: 1927
Less than 10 percent of communication comes from the words and rest from your body languages. So it’s important to play attention to body language during an Interview. Hence proved by old adage –“it’s not what you say, it’s how you say it” still holds meaning, even if you are not talking. From ... Views: 1927
Self confidence is a nothing but a reflection of your beliefs about yourself.
If you see yourself as skilled, strong and capable you will feel confident while if you believe that you are worthless, helpless or weak then you will never feel confident.
One of the skills that can help you feel ... Views: 1924
Learn the Power of Eye Contact
What is eye contact?
Several popular definitions are:
1. Eye contact is one of the most important nonverbal channels you have for communicating and connecting with others.
2. Defined as a meeting of the eyes between two people expresses meaningful nonverbal ... Views: 1921
Most of us were raised to always make sure we have (and wear) clean socks and underwear. As it turns out, there might be more to that advice than simple good hygiene. Recent research suggests that the quality of your clothing can have a direct effect upon your self perception and overall mental ... Views: 1915
Your words may be saying one thing but your body may be
giving out a completely different message! Most of us are very
fluent in reading body language even if we don’t realise it.
The actual words that someone uses only account for about 7%
of the message we receive with over the half the ... Views: 1908
Ancient calendars consisted of 13 months, or moon cycles, in a year with a very even rhythm to them. A four week cycle when the moon goes from dark waxing to full to waning to dark again. Some people speculate that church changed the calendars to the Gregorian calendar in 1582 which gave us the ... Views: 1906
How many of you out there say that you have the innate ability to speak in front of an audience? How many of you out there will honestly admit that you have some sort of trepidation speaking in front of an audience? How many of you feel that you have the ability and power to persuade an audience ... Views: 1884
You're sitting in a meeting at work--things have been going well, the team adopted a number of your ideas, the boss nodded your way and said, "Good work!" But then, when it was time to put the team together to present the project to the client, guess who was left out of the mix? You! Again. You ... Views: 1880
Many people are willing to live or travel in a foreign country where you can have lots of foreign friends. There are also many people who are willing to become a diplomat which owns good eloquence and a prominent status. In fact, you can completely make your dreams come true through some effort ... Views: 1871
The electricity in your wall socket has to be grounded to function properly and safely. In addition, things like your computer have to be safely plugged in and grounded. This is true for you too! You have to be grounded to function properly and safety.
According to Barbara Brennan in her ... Views: 1865
Mandy*, a bright, attractive professional woman, had a fear of speaking in front of groups. Recognizing that her feelings of vulnerability and self-consciousness were limiting her potential, she showed up for a presentation skills class filled with trepidation.
When speaking in public, it is ... Views: 1853
Let’s talk about pleasure, shall we? How would you like a little more pleasure in your life? Or maybe ALOT?
Pleasure’s an interesting topic, and it brings up mixed feelings for most of us. Let me ask you, when you think about pleasure, what comes first to your mind? Is pleasure something ... Views: 1823
Do you often make excuses when you’re not able to achieve a certain set goal? You are not alone!
A survey report by the Statistic Brain Research Institute shows that a shocking 92 percent of people set New Year goals, but never achieve them. This is probably true not only of New Year ... Views: 1809
Our bodies contain a wealth of information from which we can learn. I explored expanding my awareness of body data in a setting that was highly conducive to the flow of learning with the Pacific Ocean as part of the scenery and sounds outside our window walled classroom. I spent 26 class hours ... Views: 1807