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- The Key Ingredient for Deep Emotional Intimacy - by Submitted on Nov 07, 2011 from Richard NicastroEmotional safety is something couples typically don't think about until something happens to threaten this safety. Emotional safety (knowing that you can trust your spouse/partner, that s/he has your best interest in mind and will try to be responsive to your emotional needs) creates a ...
Views: 2295 - The Key to Read What's On His Mind: Interesting Facts about Love Psychology - by Submitted on Jun 28, 2017 from James UadialeDo you wish he was in love with you? Are you obsessed about it to the point of thinking about praying or using telepathic powers to get some answers? Don't panic, there ARE ways to find out if he's in love without blatantly asking him! Here are the signs you should look for : 1. How far from ...
Views: 806 - The Key To Successful Recovery of Your Marriage Is Within You - by Submitted on Aug 07, 2011 from Peggy FergusonThe key to successfully recovering the love that has eroded is within you. The fun that you once shared together can happen again. The robust sense of "us" that colored the choices you made on a daily basis can be restored. The ability to accomplish these things is within each partner. The ...
Views: 1254 - The Lie of Love - by Submitted on Apr 23, 2009 from Allan HardmanCould it be possible that we were lied to about love? I think so. I think we have been taught a big lie about Love. To understand the origin of the lie, we need to go back to a time, not too long ago, in a place, not so very far away. That is the time you were a small child. In that time not ...
Views: 1156 - The Light in the Midst of Lost Love - by Submitted on Feb 09, 2012 from Sarah RuizAs I sit here writing this article I am in deep thought about my little brother’s current heartbreak over a girl he was with for over a year. He (like most during this difficult time) looks for ways that this shouldn’t have happened. Ways that he could make it better, and right…anything to ...
Views: 1003 - The Link Between Sex and Health - by Submitted on May 24, 2013 from Marni BattistaSometimes it’s hard to tell what’s an old wive’s tale and what the truth is when it comes to the link between sex and your health, so Dating with Dignity compiled some TRUTHS for you about S-E-X, your health, vitality and overall mojo. Sex does a body good. Regular sex (safe sex!) can actually ...
Views: 1398 - The Little White Lie That Grew - by Submitted on Apr 07, 2017 from Jenn ProtheroWe have come so far from truth in many areas of our lives that sometimes it seems difficult to find our own inner truth. We have accepted the little white lies we tell ourselves and others for so long that we have drifted to a place were the truth feels so uncomfortable we don’t want to hear ...
Views: 1259 - The Love-Sex Connection - by Submitted on Apr 04, 2010 from Norman CsarniWhen we talk about the dimensions of the sexual relationship within the sphere of marriage, we always think of two individuals who share common thoughts and emotions with the “fusion” of their bodies. The individuals are normally in a state of gratifying and dedicated physical intimacy. The core ...
Views: 1692 - The Magic of a 5 to 10 Second Kiss - by Submitted on Apr 30, 2012 from Edie KayOne of the biggest frustrations I hear from couples who are struggling or unsatisfied in their marriage or relationship, is the lack of “touch” that has seemed to be lacking or has all-together disappeared from the relationship. Surprisingly, this is the number one complaint I hear from men; ...
Views: 1519 - The Magic of Listening Like You Only Just Met - by Submitted on Apr 21, 2012 from Lois FrancisOne of the worst things you can do in any relationship is to think you know everything about the other person. When you do, a little bit of the magic goes, you stop being curious about them and enchanted with them. You stop wanting to find out what makes that person tick and start assuming ...
Views: 1112 - The Meaning of Life - by Submitted on Jun 03, 2012 from Pam GuthrieWhat do you think the meaning of life is? I’ve spent a lot of time wondering about that. I wonder about a lot of things. I have a current, working theory about the meaning of life. It’s working pretty well for me these days so I figured I would share it with you. There is lots of stuff to ...
Views: 1087 - The Meaning of Life - by Submitted on Jun 03, 2012 from Pam GuthrieWhat do you think the meaning of life is? I’ve spent a lot of time wondering about that. I wonder about a lot of things. I have a current, working theory about the meaning of life. It’s working pretty well for me these days so I figured I would share it with you. There is lots of stuff to ...
Views: 1173 - The Mirror of Relationship - by Submitted on Aug 14, 2010 from Joanna KennedyThe Mirror of Relationship by Joanna Kennedy www.greaterloving.com Let’s explore how our partners – or anyone we have a relationship with – is a mirror for unresolved challenges and pain in our lives. Our significant others, or potential significant others, most often play this role and ...
Views: 1041 - The Modern Practice of Puja - by Submitted on Oct 19, 2017 from Robyn VogelSUMMARY: Puja is an ancient cultural tradition that has unknown roots. Some scholars believe that the practice began during Vedic times (1500 – 600 BCE) where the word puja has been found in the Sutras (which were composed to describe domestic rites, prayers, rituals). In these years, it ...
Views: 1945 - The Most Common Sexual Fetishes - by Submitted on Jan 27, 2015 from Mike HatcherIf you've always been involved in just normal sexual activities, you may be unaware of the number of sexual fetishes that exist. In fact, you may not have any idea how widely these fetishes are used. Usually, fetishes are something which you execute a lot of times, take delight in observing them ...
Views: 2372 - The Most Important Minute and a Half of Your Month (Not Meant for Children) - by Submitted on Nov 06, 2014 from Michael MantellAlan and Donna Brauer wrote a very fascinating book, “Better, Safer Sexual Intimacy and Extended Orgasmic Response.” Here’s what they found and reported: • The average human orgasm (not lovemaking) lasts only ten seconds • The average frequency of sexual intercourse for most couples is once ...
Views: 962 - The Most Important Minute and a Half of Your Month (Not Meant for Children) - by Submitted on Nov 06, 2014 from Michael MantellAlan and Donna Brauer wrote a very fascinating book, “Better, Safer Sexual Intimacy and Extended Orgasmic Response.” Here’s what they found and reported: • The average human orgasm (not lovemaking) lasts only ten seconds • The average frequency of sexual intercourse for most couples is once ...
Views: 1189 - The myth of the complex woman - Part 2 -The age cycle - by Submitted on Jul 10, 2011 from George Forderin a previous article I explained, carefully, how women are actually easy to understand, using the Age/Fertility/Role model with it's 3 interlocking cycles. Today I thought I'd expound on the first cycle The Age Cycle, consists of the phases; Pre-puberty Practicing Mating Raising ...
Views: 1404 - The myth of the complex woman - Part 4 - The Role Cycle - by Submitted on Jul 26, 2011 from George ForderThe Role Cycle It's official: Married women over 40 have the best sex. 81% are more adventurous than when they were in their twenties, and 63% are more confident in bed. It's easy to see why, if you've been following my blog on the simple nature of woman. Some of you might have worked ...
Views: 1564 - The Nurturing Self - by Submitted on Jul 02, 2012 from Pam GuthrieSome years back I had my first taste of Indian food and a surprising thing happened. About a half hour after I’d finished my dinner, I felt really good. I felt like I had been fed, rather than just feeling full. I’d never had that experience before, but it sure set me thinking. I liked that ...
Views: 1171 - The One Secret to Intimacy, Trust and Love - by Submitted on Nov 10, 2012 from Ken EllsworthWhen we begin a relationship we start off by revealing parts of ourselves, our likes and dislikes, what I like to call our preferences. These include things such as politics, religion, our favorite movies, the food we like, basically our thoughts, views and beliefs. If we agree, like and accept ...
Views: 1817 - The Past and Future of Marriage Institution - by Submitted on Mar 01, 2011 from hanna brulskaBased on Wikipedia, Marriage is a social establishment in which interpersonal relationships, financial and personal obligations as well as intimate and sexual relationships are acknowledged in a variety of ways, depending on the culture or subculture. If we look into history of creation a ...
Views: 2305 - The Perfect Valentine’s Day Dinner - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2011 from Martha Tara LeeWhat are some tips on the ways a guy can impress a girl with the perfect Valentine’s Day dinner date? Generally, women’s sexual fantasies tend to be filled with more romantic interludes. The whole works would mean: the perfect venue for that perfect date – a 5-star hotel, an elite restaurant, ...
Views: 1008 - The Power of a Sacred Kiss - by Submitted on May 24, 2011 from Kendal Williams“The decision to kiss for the first time is the most crucial in any love story. It changes the relationship of two people much more strongly than even the final surrender; because this kiss already has within it that surrender”-Emil Ludwig. The depth of a kiss can say so much. It can open up ...
Views: 6188 - The Power of Passion - by Submitted on Feb 15, 2011 from Jayne MorrisWhether it is appreciating the beauty of the sun rising in the morning, admiring the innocence of a newborn child, acknowledging the joy of spending quality time with friends or the intimacy of making love to your partner – pleasure in it’s many forms is one of the most important things for us ...
Views: 1372 - The power of play - by Submitted on Feb 24, 2012 from Martha Tara LeeI have a question to ask you. Amidst the hustle and bustle of your busy work and personal lives, when was the last time you played? Close your eyes and try recalling some of the happiest moments in your life: What might they be? Whether this memory is of you as a child or as an adult, chances ...
Views: 1380 - The power of pleasure - by The subject, or rather the "Kingdom of Pleasure", has always interested me a lot. When I look back over the many years of my enchanted life, I can clearly see that my decisions to choose the paths of pleasure have been wiser and more powerful, not to mention that they are completely more ...
Views: 151 - The Primary Energy Types For Our Lives - by Submitted on Feb 27, 2019 from Michelle FisherThe Three Energies that make the world go around The basic concept for the System to Creating a Successful Life is based on understanding Energy, specifically your own Energy and the force that drives it and I know that Energy isn’t a real exciting topic to most of you but once you understand ...
Views: 702 - The Rapture of Love - by Submitted on Sep 06, 2018 from Sheryl PaulWe long for rapture. We long to be transported to an otherworldly place where the problems that weigh heavily into our souls and the pain that pierces our hearts lift away, if only for a moment. We long to feel profoundly alive and deeply fulfilled. We long for ecstasy. Western culture ...
Views: 773 - The Relationship With Yourself - by Submitted on Feb 07, 2011 from Guy RussellThe relationship you have with yourself is the most important relationship you will ever have. Your personal relationship is the foundation all others will be built upon. Without this foundation, then it is a matter of time before the others crumble around your feet. We all have to remember to ...
Views: 1294 - The Right Way to Deal with Chronic Shyness - by Submitted on Mar 24, 2011 from Eduard EzeanuShyness as a psychological condition is bad enough, but chronic shyness is even worse. In order to deal with it effectively, you’ll need to explore a whole new territory. If you are chronically shy, then you’re past the phase of feeling somewhat uneasy when you’re talking with new people. ...
Views: 4828 - The Right Way to Love - by Submitted on May 14, 2014 from Tina TessinaThere’s a pervasive myth in our society that there is a right and a wrong way to love. However, there’s not much clarity about what the right might be. We all have difficulty with relationships and difficulty with love. Therefore, we’re liable to draw the uncomfortable ...
Views: 1448 - The Road to Wholeness - by Submitted on May 10, 2011 from Micaela BellopedeHaving been born in the 60s, I grew up during the time when women were rebelling against their traditional roles.They went to work, got divorced, called for equality and marched for the ERA. With deep gratitude, I celebrate all of those women who forged the path before me, who brought me to ...
Views: 1360 - The Science of Love Part I: Calming the Hurricane - by Submitted on Jan 14, 2010 from Pat LaDouceurI love Rich," Diana told me during our first session. "But I don't know if we can stay together. The arguments we have are too painful. The wounds are too old and deep." "And I love Diana," Rich echoed. "And respect her. But we see the world completely differently. That's just how it is. ...
Views: 1508 - The Secret To True Intimacy - by Submitted on Jan 19, 2015 from Larry PhillipsIntimacy is a wonderful feeling we all want with our spouse. True intimacy is a feeling of being emotionally close to your spouse. So how do you get there, and stay there? Real intimacy is the feeling you get when you share the extra energy you have with your spouse, boyfriend or girlfriend. ...
Views: 726 - The Simplicity of Life - by Submitted on Sep 11, 2011 from David SamuelSearching for the meaning of life, ultimate reality? Thinking of going into a monastery because life is too tough? What do you think the right path to truth may be? There must be some special, mystical, hidden secret teaching or school out there that will bring you to liberation of the ...
Views: 1084 - THE SPACE BETWEEN US… - by Submitted on Jan 09, 2019 from Emma ViglucciWhat makes us Us? What is the essence of our relationship? Is it the sum of You and Me? Of two separate entities committed to each other, hopefully, that positively, or indifferently, relate to each other? The essence of our relationship is made up of the connection between ourselves and our ...
Views: 673 - The Story on Sex Books - by Submitted on May 13, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsJoseph Campbell said “I don’t believe that anyone knows what sex is. It’s the greatest mystery in human life…” Starting here, I believe is the most honest place for thinking about books on sexuality. It assumes that we give up our notions of right and wrong about sexual preferences, practices ...
Views: 1324 - The Three Stages of Intimate Relationships - by Submitted on Dec 10, 2010 from Luminessa EnjaraThere are three stages of relating, according to David Deida an international teacher and author. He calls these stages Dependent, 50/50, and Intimate Communion. In his book Intimate Communion he defines these stages according to the polarity differences between men and women. Dependent ...
Views: 6215 - The Top 10 Reasons to Leave Your Partner (According to Fear) - by Submitted on Oct 07, 2011 from Sheryl PaulFear’s entire mission in life is to keep you safe from the risk of loving. It sees love as a dangerous cesspool where the invisible sea creatures lurk beneath the dark surface, waiting to snatch you into their murky waters. Fear believes that if you risk your heart through committed loving you ...
Views: 4446 - The Trial Separation - Does it Work? When A Trial Separation Is Actually A Good Idea That Can Save Your Marriage. - by Submitted on Apr 18, 2020 from Leslie CaneRecent statistics show us that couples are trying trial separations in record numbers. There are potentially endless reasons for this. But, I believe that the economy is playing a large role. Maintaining and paying for two households is much more expensive than paying for one. Many couples ...
Views: 436 - The Truth About Love (and my thoughts on Instagram) - by Submitted on Oct 31, 2018 from Sheryl Paul“Love is one of the great enlargers of the person because it requires us to ‘take in’ the stranger and to understand him, and to exercise restraint and tolerance as well as imagination to make the relationship work.” – May Sarton, Journal of a Solitude I recently decided to join Instagram. ...
Views: 854 - The Two Things You Should Do When Trying To Save Your Marriage With A Reluctant Husband - by Submitted on Apr 18, 2020 from Leslie CaneIf you're thinking about this phrase or asking the questions that stem from it, then it's probably safe to say the state of your marriage isn't as strong or as stable as you would like it to be. I don't know the specifics of your situation, or whether your spouse is just not as happy as he could ...
Views: 454 - The Women In Love Stories - by Submitted on Jun 28, 2010 from Dale SadlerA few weeks ago I wrote an article about what men could learn from heroes in the romance novels their wives love so much. Read the article, “Living Your Own Love Story” here. Well, what can women learn from the main female characters in these stories? In her book, Writing the Great American ...
Views: 1132 - There Was Chemistry. What Happened? - by Submitted on Feb 06, 2011 from Kara OhA woman wrote to me explaining that she’d been on a few dates and thought it was going great. Fun conversations, good time, kissing and a bit of petting, but no sex yet. She definitely felt strong chemistry. Then, wham, he wrote and said he wasn’t that attracted to her. My advice: I know it ...
Views: 1389 - They’re Not Trying To Hurt You - by Submitted on Jan 03, 2022 from Joanna IntaraShe's not trying to hurt you when you open up, but you're convinced she is, and the same old activation stories get whipped up and cause nothing but pain. You're missing the giant vulnerabilities all around that haven't been addressed or dignified to release the pressure around the tender ...
Views: 528 - Things to Talk to Girls: Ideas to Help You Start Conversation with a Girl - by Submitted on Jul 02, 2011 from Simone BrownDo you question what kind of stuff to discuss with girls, without making a fool of yourself? Here's the 3 ideas to guide you. Because they are very different from each other, there are no best things to talk to girls. You can talk about any topic with them, although the topic would actually ...
Views: 1068 - Things You Should Never Do in Bed: Things Men Shouldn't Do During Sex - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2018 from Sylvester DanialThings You Should Never Do in Bed: Things Men Shouldn't Do During Sex Two people unite to climax together through the act of sex which is highly pleasurable and satisfying. When two people meet to make love the entire concentration should be on the act alone and not allow other things to get ...
Views: 860 - Things you should remember before sending nudes - by Submitted on Feb 29, 2020 from Grant DonovanWhether you are a twenty-something or not there are few things you should not do, before sending nudes of yourself to someone! Sexting is exciting, but you might live to regret it. You can enjoy the art of it, sending witty responses to sexting has its own charm. Also, just like physical sex, ...
Views: 1814 - Thinking to Have An Event Planner - by Submitted on Mar 02, 2012 from Aden MooreThe planning and execution of events is probably similar in analogy to the model of a typical birthday party, provided that the arrangements to be set more efficiently. However, there are intimate details about the management of events that must be observed carefully. Today the term seems to ...
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