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- How To Avoid Quick Sperm Release And Stay Long In Bed: How To Control Fast Sperm Release - How To Control Sperm Coming Soon - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2018 from Sylvester DanialHow To Avoid Quick Sperm Release And Stay Long In Bed: How To Control Fast Sperm Release - How To Control Sperm Coming Soon Premature ejaculation is definitely a common problem and around 1 in 3 men will experience it at some time in their lives. If you're in this situation then what you need ...
Views: 8759 - ***The 5 Women Who Will Ruin Your Game - by Submitted on Jun 07, 2011 from Paul Dobransky, M.D.They are the bane of your social life - ruining your best efforts at attracting women. And they may not even know they're doing it. Of course you know who I'm talking about, even though we tend not to complain about it or mention it to others - especially women. Especially THOSE women. Why ...
Views: 8696(3 votes) - Why Men Are Afraid of Commitment (And How To Help) - by Submitted on Oct 25, 2012 from Brenda ShoshannaAfter a relationship ends, women ask what went wrong, again and again. In this revealing article we see that often it has nothing to do with the woman. The article explores some patterns and needs that cause men to run from relationships. It also offers specific guidelines and advice to help. ...
Views: 7912(1 vote) - *** How To Let Go of Anger Like a Woke Monk - An Anger Management Expert’s Top 5 Tools to Manage Anger *** - by Submitted on Feb 16, 2018 from Dr. John SchinnererWhile the short-term problems created by anger are bad enough, consider some of the long-term effects… Negative Effects of Anger The negative effects of chronic anger are far-reaching. People who lack the ability to manage their anger have a higher chance of the following… Low ...
Views: 7487(2 votes) - The Love Language of a Man - by Submitted on Aug 30, 2011 from Jonathon AslayAs a Relationship Confidant, I frequently get asked questions that could be issues of concern for many re-entering the dating scene. One gal was distraught over the lack of appreciation she felt from her man due to his memory loss when it came to special anniversary dates. She also felt he ...
Views: 7420(5 votes) - Boundaries: Why Do Some Men Let Women Walk All Over Them? - by Submitted on Dec 12, 2013 from Oliver JR CooperIt doesn’t matter whether one is a man or woman, as they can both be walked over by the same or the opposite sex. And while this could relate to someone being physically walked over, in the majority of cases, it is not that extreme. But that is not to say that the damage is therefore less ...
Views: 7338 - ***Machiavelli’s 4 Universal Dating Tips for Men - by Submitted on May 27, 2011 from Paul Dobransky, M.D.Machiavelli and his book, The Prince, may be among the most notorious and derided authors and works in history - attacked by the church from day one, and to this day, synonymous with deception and cloak-dagger-politics, espionage and subversive trickery. A closer read may reveal something ...
Views: 7043(1 vote) - How To Overcome Psychological ED - 4 Effective Techniques - by Submitted on Aug 07, 2015 from David CarrerasPsychological ED hits men of all ages, young and old. In younger men, psychological ED generally hits due to the newness of sex... it is all so overwhelmingly exciting, combined with the unfair pressure of being expected to know what they are doing (when deep down they know they are ...
Views: 6814(1 vote) - How To Delay Sperm During Intercourse: How To Make Sperm Come Out Late - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2018 from Sylvester DanialHow To Delay Sperm During Intercourse: How To Make Sperm Come Out Late If you've arrived at this article, the chances are that one or more of the following are true in your sex life; - You are sick to the back teeth of coming too early during sex - You're unable to control your climax ...
Views: 6491 - ***SEX AS A SOCIAL CURRENCY - by Submitted on May 18, 2011 from Paul Dobransky, M.D.Sex is a social currency. It's pleasurable, and it's emotional, which are the criteria we human beings often use to judge the value of something. Has a woman ever asked, "How much do you value me, really?" Remember your first old junker car that you bought for, perhaps, $500? The car transported ...
Views: 6402(4 votes) - ***DEPRESCULINITY: THE NEW TYPE OF DEPRESSION IN MEN - by Submitted on Apr 07, 2011 from Paul Dobransky, M.D.You always knew there ought to be a name for it - the state of mind suffered only by men, related to women and or work... and not be fully living. I have a word to coin. One that's likely been in your life at some point, if only for a day, or a week, or a month. It blocked your ability to ...
Views: 6394(3 votes) - Relationships: Why Do Some Men Try To Save Women? - by Submitted on Jul 17, 2013 from Oliver JR CooperFor some men out there women are seen as people who need to be saved or rescued from what is taking place in their lives. And so it doesn’t matter how big or small these women’s challenges are, as this type of man is only too happy to get involved. So this also means that unless a woman has ...
Views: 6368 - Relationships: Why Are Some Men Attracted To Abusive women? - by Submitted on May 29, 2014 from Oliver JR CooperWhen abuse is mentioned it is often a man that comes to mind and this is due to number of reasons. Firstly, a man is generally seen as being stronger than a woman and so this can sound right. And if one were to look back on history, there are numerous examples of men who have abused their ...
Views: 6364 - What to Do When He Pulls Away Emotionally - by Submitted on Sep 12, 2012 from Andrew HunterEver had that daunting experience of losing your partner because you feel even a smidge of distance growing between you two? If so, you’re not alone. Countless women experience this everyday in their relationships, especially when they think the relationship is going so well. Are men just ...
Views: 6252 - Narcissist's Reactions to Deficient, Fake, Negative, Low-grade, or Static Narcissistic Supply - by Submitted on Sep 18, 2011 from Sam VakninThe narcissist presents to the world a facade of invincibility, equanimity, superiority, skilfulness, cool-headedness, invulnerability, and, in short: indifference. This front is penetrated in times of great crises that threaten the narcissist's ability to obtain Narcissistic Supply, or when ...
Views: 6024(1 vote) - Emotional Repression: What Happens When Men Repress Their Emotions? - by Submitted on Nov 26, 2013 from Oliver JR CooperOn a physical level, men and women are clearly very different; with men having features that relate to the masculine and women having features that relate to the feminine. And while this much is obvious and easily recognisable, what they are like within is not as easy to describe. But as a ...
Views: 5952 - Relationships: Why Do Some Men Worship Women? - by Submitted on Aug 06, 2013 from Oliver JR CooperWhen the idea of worshipping a woman is mentioned it can trigger all kinds of meanings in one’s mind. And what these meanings are can depend on is where one was brought up. To worship the feminine, which is what women physically represent, can be seen as sacred. The earth itself is often ...
Views: 5423 - Poker Players and Dating Slayers ~ Men Playing Poker May Reveal How They Date Online - by Submitted on May 17, 2011 from Jonathon AslayThe way a man approaches online dating could be the exact way he plays poker (like Texas Hold’em). If you can figure out how a man plays poker, you might easily see how he dates. Some men are just bad poker players. They don’t have a lot of experience, aren’t invested in learning, rather ...
Views: 5406(3 votes) - When Relationships Hit a Rough Patch - by Submitted on Sep 19, 2011 from Jonathon AslayThe evening was planned a week ago. Romantic dinner, tickets to see your favorite band in concert, just a night of fun with the man you love. But in what seemed a moment of time everything changed. Oh, you still had the dinner and tickets, but what you didn’t see coming was the temperature ...
Views: 5239(3 votes) - Melt His Heart _ My Sweetheart Lost His Affection For Me - by Submitted on Oct 13, 2012 from Tony CimbaQuite a number of young women don't even have a notion about how to get a guy back after he has lost his affection for them. They just about consistently go about it the wrong way! Happily, there's truly an easy fix to the situation! Girls, does this sound somewhat familiar to you? You happen ...
Views: 5191 - Oh, NO!! Not Again!! Preventing Relapse in Sex Addiction Recovery - by Submitted on Mar 23, 2013 from Dorothy HaydenRelapse in sexual addiction recovery is a reality. While all addictions are relapse prone, it is the sexual recovery community who suffer most from the demoralization of repeated relapse. After all, we can live without ever being around alcohol or drugs, but our sexuality is ever-present. ...
Views: 4859 - Mother Enmeshed Men: Why Don’t Some Men Break Away From Their Mothers? - by Submitted on Jan 11, 2014 from Oliver JR CooperFor many years, men have been seen as being one way and women as being another way. And part of this related to men being the ones who were independent and the women as being dependent. So a man would be an example of the masculine on the outside and on the inside and a women’s outer femininity ...
Views: 4642 - Beautiful Chinese Women - East Meets West Dating - by Submitted on Aug 11, 2011 from Jack FlashA bit fore thought as to what will take place when you meet somebody actually unique is usually a beneficial idea too. Do you want to get married? How will you pay for her to come over towards the U.S., or will you go to her? Can you get the time off of function, what paperwork do you will need, ...
Views: 4605 - Is He Your Knight in Shining Armor? - by Submitted on Feb 21, 2014 from Karen CardMost men want to be the “Knight in Shining Armor.” When the Knight arrives to save the “Damsel in Distress,” he expects that he will have to work hard. To win the affection of the Damsel, the Knight knows he must be brave, work hard and slay the dragon. He is willing to put forth this effort ...
Views: 4581 - ***Are You a "Badboy?" Or "The Life of the Party?" - by Submitted on May 10, 2011 from Paul Dobransky, M.D.It's no surprise that women respond to bad boys. They complain about doing so, try to stop themselves from doing so, ban themselves from dating them and swear they will never do so again... but sometimes to a fault they do so anyway. At my company, we know why - and the reason is in having ...
Views: 4572(2 votes) - How to Deal With Approach Anxiety – the Importance of Social Warm-Up - by Submitted on Nov 04, 2011 from Richard LisoYou enter a bar; you see lots of attractive women around you, but you just… kind of freeze. What seems weird, because just yesterday you were at the same bar and felt no anxiety at all. But today, you feel nothing, you just keep staring at your glass of beer, and have no idea how you managed ...
Views: 4456 - ***The One Universal Flaw, Excuse and Game-Changer in Dating - by Submitted on Dec 15, 2011 from Paul Dobransky, M.D.Maybe you are a guy who has been searching for "that one thing" you could change to have better attraction and dating with women. It turns out that there is one amazing skill you have, which we could lock eyes on as a universal concept that ultimately makes you sink or swim with ...
Views: 4441(2 votes) - ***How To Know If A Woman Likes You - by Submitted on Mar 15, 2011 from Paul Dobransky, M.D.A woman likes you if she looks at you, if she talks to you and lets you talk, if she touches you or lets you touch her, and certainly if she kisses you or has sex with you. You see, there are DEGREES to “liking” and a DURATION to how long and how much you are “liked.” Through this all there ...
Views: 4427(3 votes) - ***Levels of Intimacy - by Submitted on Dec 01, 2011 from Paul Dobransky, M.D.It's something so subtle that most men don't know it's there, but it's at the top of the mind and of highest concern to women: the "intimacy" part of physical intimacy. Men would generally rather ponder the aspects of the "physical" part of course, but some attention to what's going on between ...
Views: 4415 - Relationships: Why Do Some Men Feel Powerless With Women? - by Submitted on Jun 17, 2013 from Oliver JR CooperIt is a human need to feel a sense of power; with the most important power of all said to be based around having a sense of personal power. This is more of an inner power, where one is generally in control of themselves, as opposed to being in control of others. And when it comes to the area ...
Views: 4397 - ***Do Talk To Strangers - The Power of Projection in Dating - by Submitted on Dec 01, 2011 from Paul Dobransky, M.D.The most impassioned, powerful time of a physical interaction with a woman is early on in dating, when you don't even know each other as more than strangers. Ironically, it is also the most fickle, fragile, and potentially confusing time - one of missteps and miscommunication because it is so ...
Views: 4388(1 vote) - ***Being a Man of Inaction - by Submitted on Sep 26, 2012 from Paul Dobransky, M.D.We just finished another bootcamp for men in Chicago and are about to head to New York City for another one for men this friday-saturday, and I have to tell you how one thing strikes me: so often, men think that they have to be perfect in so many ways - perfect at their dating skills, finding ...
Views: 4345(3 votes) - ***The Number One Sexual Attractor - by Submitted on Nov 04, 2011 from Paul Dobransky, M.D.Recently, I came across some stunning actual scientific findings from evolutionary psychology regarding a man’s ability to attract and date quality women who are right for them. After all, men worldwide want to find what works for them to become more accomplished in this area; to actually have ...
Views: 4254(1 vote) - The Mystique of the Dominant Woman - Addiction to Pain - by Submitted on Mar 23, 2013 from Dorothy HaydenA number of years ago, in conjunction with my work with treating sexual addiction, a number of masochistic or submissive men began to come to me for help. The clients I saw did not seem immature or inferior. In fact, the reverse seemed to be true. They were successful by social standards: ...
Views: 4166 - ***How Do I Get My Ex-Girlfriend Back - by Submitted on Mar 15, 2011 from Paul Dobransky, M.D.You don’t. I’m sorry, but no matter who you are, who she is, and how many crazy skills in dating you have learned, you will never. ever get back that particular person. Why? It’s been programmed into us since the dawn of time, and it’s called COURTSHIP. There’s an actual set of ...
Views: 4150(3 votes) - What Are the Causes of Hormonal Imbalance in Men? - by Submitted on Jan 11, 2012 from lincy thomasWhat Are the Causes of Hormonal Imbalance in Men? Testosterone is the natural hormone that is dominant in males. A hormonal imbalance in men is created when a man has an overabundance of estrogen, the female hormone, in his system. It can cause urinary problems, lower sex drive, prostate ...
Views: 4150 - Top 3 Reasons Why Men Become Insecure - by Submitted on Jul 06, 2016 from Kemi SogunleWe all have insecurities of some sort but when it takes a toll on our relationships, it becomes burdensome. You may have finally met the man of your dreams but it seems you cannot put your fingers on. It turns out he is always defensive or sensitive and has answers or excuses for everything ...
Views: 4141 - ***The World's Greatest Invention - by Submitted on Nov 17, 2011 from Paul Dobransky, M.D.Many men I know are unhappy and are completely lost. It sounds dramatic, but many men feel like they’re living in a plagued society burdened with disease. Infected and looking to the heavens, they need answers to prayers that aren’t heard. Most men are not even sure why they feel the way they ...
Views: 4112 - A Case Study of One Sex Addict's Recovery - by Submitted on Mar 23, 2013 from Dorothy HaydenSteve is a professional musician. A man in his 50's, virile yet sensitive, he is sexually compulsive around fetishistic sex. Since his early teens, Steve had masturbated nearly every night before going to sleep. As he matured, his need for masturbation increased until he was masturbated five or ...
Views: 3978 - Men, Sex Addiction and Depression - by Submitted on Mar 23, 2013 from Dorothy HaydenMy work over the last fifteen years as a psychotherapist treating sexual compulsions has brought me into contact with men - and more men. They come to my consulting room wearing the mask of shame, humiliation, and confusion. Often, after a period of therapy, they come to a common link among ...
Views: 3974 - Psychodynamic Psychotherapy: The Crux of Sexual Addiction Healing - by Submitted on Mar 23, 2013 from Dorothy HaydenIn my opinion, long-term psychodynamic therapy is the most efficient way to cultivate healthy personality development. The most comprehensive treatment combines the empathy, insight and relational abilities of a psychodynamic psychotherapist with the 12-step orientation and cognitive-behavioral ...
Views: 3945 - Mother Enmeshed Men: Do Some Men Stay Attached To Their Mothers Out Of Loyalty? - by Submitted on Nov 06, 2015 from Oliver JR CooperWhile some men are able to break away from their mothers, there are other men who are unable to do this. When this doesn’t take place, not only is it going to cause the men to suffer; it is also going to cause the women in their life to suffer. However, if a man has turned his back on women ...
Views: 3940 - ***Expert List for Narcissistic Survivors - Youtube Video - Laney Zukerman Empowerment & Relationship Coach, Best-Selling Author ~ Lessons for an Urban Goddess & The Urban Goddess Lesson - by Submitted on Feb 10, 2017 from Laney Zukerman The Relationship CoachHi Selfgrowth Friends, Since I have been receiving a high volume of readers who are interested in more information on Narcissistic Abuse Recovery and Surviving Relationships with Narcissists, I have created a brief Youtube Video. I have spent many hours reviewing experts on Narcissism and ...
Views: 3917(1 vote) - Relationships: Why Do Some Breakups Hurt Men More Than Women? - by Submitted on Feb 24, 2014 from Oliver JR CooperIn recent studies, men have been shown to suffer more than women when a relationship comes to an end. And while some people would not have been surprised to hear this, for others, it was unexpected and even dismissed. Even though men have emotions just like women, this doesn’t always appear ...
Views: 3917 - 10 THINGS MEN CAN DO TO CAPTURE A WOMAN’S HEART - by Submitted on Aug 18, 2015 from Latorria Freeman1. Security Show your woman that she is safe with you. Show her that she can share her inner self with you and you have the strength to hold her up. 2. Open Book Share things with her about your daily routine not because she may be insecure and not trust you. This act creates ...
Views: 3863 - Narcissists, Social Media, and Porn - by Submitted on Oct 08, 2013 from Sam VakninSocial media, such as Tumblr.com, have become the playground of narcissists, psychopaths, and sadists who post extreme and, at times, illegal porn and revel in the reactions to it, thus garnering vicarious narcissistic supply. Via such postings, they express their rabid misogyny by objectifying ...
Views: 3823 - Are You Passive Aggressive Just Because You Avoid Conflict? - by Submitted on Oct 16, 2011 from Nora Femenia,Results from Creative Conflict Resolutions’ Passive Aggressive Test shows that 80% men prefer to “clam up” and hide their true thoughts from their wives. Is this you? A very common way of describing “clamming up” is to say that it is self-protection, and as the husband, you see it as a ...
Views: 3773 - ***Getting Over Her Rapidly! - by Submitted on Dec 31, 1969 from Paul Dobransky, M.D.It's the age-old problem universal to all men. They may be already physically free of the wrong woman for them, whether they were the one to do the breaking up or vice versa. But... They are still impaired by her, ruled by her, whether still in contact from a few days ago and either obsessed ...
Views: 3682 - ***Masculine Intelligence™ in Breaking Up - by Submitted on Oct 27, 2011 from Paul Dobransky, M.D.There's never a good time for it, never a right time or place, and it usually doesn't feel right at all. For some men, breaking up seems to be easy to do, but if we get honest with ourselves, those guys are few and far between. Sometimes those men don't realize that the relationship really ...
Views: 3631 - Dating Divorced Men ~ The Real Mission Impossible? - by Submitted on Nov 04, 2011 from Jonathon AslayIf you choose to take on this mission, you must know before entering the territory that the terrain can be a very challenging. The agents of change will manifest in the dark and the baggage has not necessarily been left at the terminal. You will encounter emotional assaults from Agent “Ex” ...
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