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Three Myths of Sexual Desire - by Valeria ChubaHow Unusual Are Your Sexual Fantasies? - by Valeria Chuba- The Key to Effortlessly Dressing like a Chic Parisian – Black Stockings - by Submitted on Jan 10, 2013 from Raveen SandhuParis is known for its dazzling fashion sense, but what is it that actually adds the ‘va va voom’ dazzle factor to this city of vibrancy and grandiose? As much as you may believe what you have heard in the past, it is hardly worth investing in a £200 Louis Vuitton or Dior handbags to outdo the ...
Views: 2275(1 vote) - The Magic Spark of Attraction and How Couples Come To Be - by Submitted on Dec 23, 2010 from Allura JoyThe question “How did you meet your life-partner?” is one I love to ask couples – especially if they’ve been together for a long while. Most often they light up when recounting their nostalgic reminiscence of how their companionship came to be. It is interesting to listen to various personal ...
Views: 4942(1 vote) - The Rotted Snake or the Truth Loved and the Madonna with Child Complex - by Submitted on Apr 03, 2011 from Aryana HudsonHow sad the soul must be in a moment that has forgotten inspiration that alights the eyes while the DNA sings replicating immortality. Such a clean moment is then destroyed with self consciousness, gossip, fear and demented emotionalism in an individual who has not climbed out of the pit. Fear ...
Views: 2022(2 votes) - The Top Ten Questions About Genital Herpes: Everything You Always Wanted to Know but Were Afraid to Ask - by Submitted on May 12, 2009 from New Harbinger PublicationsOne late-night talk-show host is famous for his top-ten lists. I hope he won’t mind, but I’m going to borrow his idea. Here’s my top-ten list of questions asked most often about genital herpes. They come from patients at my clinic and from the WebMD message board. And if your question isn’t in ...
Views: 25662(1 vote) - Tibetan 5 Element Tantric Healing - by Submitted on May 12, 2011 from Jacques DrouinThe Tibetan 5 Element Healing Practices invoke the universal elements of Earth, Water, Fire, Air, and Space. These are the very elements which make up our human form, and everything in our environment. Having the correct elemental balance is crucial for our over-all health and well ...
Views: 6067(2 votes) - Too Much Cologne and Other Grooming Mistakes Guys Make - by Submitted on Apr 06, 2011 from Charlie FritzThe rapper Positive K once observed that, "I'm clean-cut and dapper. That's what I'm about." Proper grooming will not only improve how you look to others, but also how you feel about yourself. The problem is that not all grooming methods are useful ones. The good news is that we can learn as ...
Views: 1009(1 vote) - True or False: Women Have 7 Erogenous Zones? - by Submitted on Mar 19, 2010 from Serj SaganIf you have ever watched Friends then you may have seen the episode where Monica gives Chandler sex advice and in a funny way talks about the 7 erogenous zones of women. Is this a real fact or is this just a make belief idea that was used for the show. We will discuss this idea and find out ...
Views: 7754(1 vote) - Turn Any Argument Into "Off the Chart" Make Up SEX - by Submitted on Aug 20, 2009 from Doug SteponinIf you are married, then you’ve probably had an argument or two. It is not only a fact of life, but as we have found, a necessary form of communication. This article is not about “how” to argue. Suffice it to say, you should leave personal attacks, name calling and old business aside. When you ...
Views: 4203(1 vote) - Vacation to Revitalize Your Soul and Your Relationships - by Submitted on Apr 19, 2011 from Allura JoyIt is time to start planning your summer vacation! Have you thought about taking some time off to enjoy some fun in the sun? Whether you choose to escape for the weekend, or spend several weeks at some exotic retreat, it is so important to enjoy a fun vacation from time to time. Taking some time ...
Views: 2021(2 votes) - Wet Dreams and Penis Health - Myths and Facts about Nighttime Ejaculation - by Submitted on Sep 08, 2013 from John DuganA wet dream can be a male’s first experience with ejaculation, and for many, it can happen quite frequently. Unfortunately, the subject of wet dreams is not often brought up by parents or doctors, and many boys - and even men - believe that something is wrong with them when they wake up with a ...
Views: 3546(1 vote) - What do Women Want from Men in and Out of the Bedroom - by Submitted on Sep 30, 2010 from Luminessa EnjaraThis is an age-old question that has been asked for decades and more. According to one woman’s opinion, Dana Perch a professional matchmaker, women want a man who is self-confident. “Confidence... not arrogance, not dominance, not one-upsmanship, not useless bravado, not macho heroics. Women ...
Views: 2437(1 vote) - What is Chinese Tantra? or Chinese Sexual Qigong - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2011 from Tom McGrewChinese tantra comes from the Taoist practice of sexual arts sometimes called the “bedroom or pillow arts.” The concepts and ideas come from the Yellow Emperor who wrote the basis for all Traditional Chinese Medicine thousands of years ago. Some of the teachings were in the form of dialog ...
Views: 7782(1 vote) - What is Tantric Massage? - by Submitted on Jun 15, 2009 from Alex CMuch like Thai massage, Tantric massage is often misunderstood as some form of sex service. The reasons for this are that a) the term gets hijacked and b) sexuality is still a controversial topic even in the complementary medicine world. However, a genuine Tantric massage can be a powerful ...
Views: 4578(1 vote) - What You Need to Know About A Multiple Orgasm - by Submitted on Apr 27, 2010 from Serj SaganA multiple orgasm is something that sounds like "Fiji" to women. It is something wonderful and exotic... and unlikely to be obtainable. Meanwhile the ability to experience an orgasm several times in a row lays at the very nature of female sexuality! So why is it that not all of the women use ...
Views: 7973(3 votes) - When Your Husband’s Sex Drive Is Gone - by Submitted on Feb 17, 2010 from Stephanie BuehlerAs a sex therapist and psychologist in Orange County, CA, I have found that a lot of people believe that it’s always the woman who has no sex drive. But that is a myth. Women also call to complain that their husband or male partner has no interest in sex. Women who have a husband with low ...
Views: 3757(5 votes) - Where Do Guys Like to Be Touched? - by Submitted on Jul 11, 2010 from Roger PeterUnfortunately guys are not blessed with as many erotic points as girls are. They say that with a girl every part of her body can trigger wild sensations, if touched right, that’s partly because girls are much more in touch with their bodies than guys are. For some guys the only part of their ...
Views: 37797(3 votes) - Why Sex Is Important To Men - by Submitted on Apr 30, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraI know, I know some would say that what a ridiculous statement, of course it is important to men but why? Some say that they think about it twenty three hours a day, seven days a week. Even the most famous psychologist, Freud agreed that it is the main goal of men- to get sex when they need it. ...
Views: 10385(3 votes) - Women Are Apparently Being ‘Lube Shamed’ During Sex—Here’s Why That’s Ridiculous - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2019 from bhagwan mehtaSo you and your partner are tearing off each other's clothes and heading into the bedroom—and you’re definitely in the mood for some action. But your vagina doesn’t seem to be as into the idea as you are. It’s seriously dry down there, and that's killing your vibe. Hey, we've all experienced ...
Views: 4541(2 votes) - Women’s Secret Sexual Desires - by Submitted on May 17, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraAh, women and sex, for a man, nothing can be more interesting than a discussion that includes these two fascinating words. However, if a guy wants to get more out of these two words other than just mere discussion, then he needs to be in depth on not just what women want in bed, but their secret ...
Views: 10328(2 votes) - Erotic Talk: Overcoming Fear and Shyness - by Submitted on Feb 05, 2010 from Bonnie GabrielIn the many classes and workshops I've given over the years on the art of erotic communication, the most common question I'm asked is: "Can you give me some ideas on how I can get over my self-consciousness about using erotic talk with my partner?" My answer is an emphatic yes! There ...
Views: 5815(6 votes) - Are they attractive enough for a one night stand? - by Submitted on Jan 11, 2011 from Christina GarabedianMen seem to be more interested in meeting a girl for the first time and hooking up regardless of what she looks like. Are they attractive enough for a one night stand? Research shows that men are less picky in terms of who they will have casual sex with. Women tend to increase what is wanted in ...
Views: 3290(9 votes) - 4 Powerful Secrets to Attract a New Loving Relationship in 30 Days! - by Submitted on Jun 14, 2019 from Michaiel BovenesYou may have tried to find someone special to share your life with only to be disappointed over and over again. Don’t give up on finding your Soul-mate or worse settle for someone who is more of a roommate than anything else. Even though you probably enjoy your own company, (most spiritually ...
Views: 9224(4 votes) - Definition of Animal Magnetism - by Submitted on Mar 25, 2011 from Etienne CharlandAnimal magnetism refers to a person's sexual attractiveness or authentic charisma. Simply put, the better a person feels about himself, the better people feel around him, which creates a magnetic presence. The controversy with science is about whether this is due to body language, voice tone and ...
Views: 4368(4 votes) - Secrets for Sensitive People to Find Relationships That Work: Why Emotional Empaths May Stay Lonely or Alone - by Submitted on May 18, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsLoneliness gets to some more than others. But why it hangs on isn’t always apparent when read by traditional medical eyes. In my practice and workshops I’ve been struck by how many sensitive, empathic people who I call “emotional empaths” come to me, lonely, wanting a romantic partner, yet ...
Views: 1936(4 votes) - Sexual Energy - by Submitted on Feb 09, 2010 from Chandi DeviSexual Energy by Chandi Devi ™ © 2005 The World of Tantra.com All Rights Reserved Sexual Energy can be awakened and transmuted through meditation and lovemaking between a man and a woman. The sex act is a divine act in itself. Lovemaking between a man and woman, when entered into with ...
Views: 15668(4 votes) - What is Adult Dating? - by Submitted on Feb 05, 2010 from Tamara WilkinsAdult dating involves consenting adults meeting either personally or else interconnecting on the internet for a common purpose (usually sexual). There are various purposes or else styles that adult dating entails. Some examples are those who seek interracial dating, others swinging, dogging, ...
Views: 1805(4 votes) - Tantric Massage | Tantra Massage by Andro - by Submitted on Jul 18, 2007 from ANANDA Tantra Massage Germany .The Tantra Massage is a method developed by Andro Andreas Rothe, the founder of the first German Tantra institute (Diamond Lotus Tantra Lounge, in Berlin since 1977). In an integrative way it combines well-founded massage techniques from various schools of massage with elements from ...
Views: 9370(3 votes) - A Sex Therapist’s Guide to Passionate Sex - by Submitted on Aug 03, 2009 from Stephanie BuehlerWant passionate sex? The first step is to figure out what you mean when you think about sex that is passionate. You could think that sex is passionate when your partner: Acts like they want you right now Is more aggressive than usual Goes slower than usual Takes the time to ...
Views: 13423(3 votes) - How to Be Noticed and Get More Respect – The Art of Sensuous Seduction - by Submitted on Oct 08, 2011 from Allura JoyIf you’re single looking to find the guy of your dreams, or you already have a partner but feel overlooked at times; then listen up for some great tips on enchanting those around you. Seducing a man doesn’t necessarily mean stealing him from someone else, or convincing him to do something he ...
Views: 3323(6 votes) - Is Your Relationship Sizzling or Lukewarm? - by Submitted on Nov 09, 2010 from Dr. Erica Goodstone* Is YOUR Relationship bubbling, simmering or lukewarm? * Are you feeling sexy, desirable, and passionate? * Is your partner showing you the interest and attention you desire? In a recent professional list serve discussion, one of my colleagues, Julian Slowinski, PsyD, shared with us ...
Views: 4429(3 votes) - Let's Talk About SEX - by Submitted on Jan 11, 2005 from Danish AhmedLet's talk about sex, baby Let's talk about you and me Let's talk about all the good things, And the bad things that may be Let's talk about sex - Salt N Pepa (1992, Written by Herby Azor) - - - - - - - - - - Let's Talk About Sex... Sex can be an uncomfortable topic for some people. How are ...
Views: 2065(3 votes) - Losing Her Interest In Sex? Cure Your Premature Ejaculation - by Submitted on Apr 30, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraMen hate to talk about this. It’s either they deny the problem and shove it off in the back of their minds or they are too embarrassed to discuss it. For those with innocent minds, let me explain to you what premature ejaculation is, it is the most common sexual dysfunction. It is a man’s ...
Views: 1045(3 votes) - Lust / Good or Bad - by Submitted on Jul 31, 2009 from Larry PierceLust Train For More Info Please check out www.rpa365.blogspot.com Lust is a human emotion that relates to sexual desire. Like all emotions our lives seem easier when they are not running out of control. Lust can run out of control like a train. Think about this. Lust, like a train, starts ...
Views: 5242(3 votes) - Millennials and Intimacy: What’s not adding up? - by Submitted on Nov 12, 2015 from Dr. Elsbeth Meuth, EdD & Freddy Zental WeaverFor the past few years, publications like Mic, The Atlantic, and even TIME have pointed out that millennials have been defined by “hookup culture.” Michelle Adams writes that “hook-up culture is definitely something entrenched in the millennial generation” in her 2012 article for Mic ...
Views: 2888(3 votes) - Overcoming Fear of Commitment and Creating a Long-Lasting, Healthy, Happy Partnership - by Submitted on Apr 09, 2011 from Allura JoySo how do you feel about the “C” word? – no, not THAT one. I’m talking about commitment. It is one thing to choose to date someone exclusively, as you both may agree to be monogamous and fully committed to one another – until you get bored with it and move on to someone else. But to level up and ...
Views: 2780(3 votes) - Sex Whys Versus Relationship Why - by Submitted on Oct 15, 2009 from Jan DeniseINSIDE RELATIONSHIPS BY JAN DENISE RELEASE: FRIDAY, OCTOBER 16, 2009 Sex Whys Versus Relationship Why Despite all our science, many men still talk about what women want as though it's beyond their comprehension. In light of new research, perhaps some of it's because men confuse what ...
Views: 1383(3 votes) - Sexual Pleasure Your Man Would Love For You To Know - by Submitted on Apr 27, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraEver been curious to know what mind blowing sexual pleasure your man would truly appreciate? More important, what tricks a girl does to really thrill him and maximize each level of bliss he hits. We’d probably think that one has to know how a guy thinks and understand his bodily function. ...
Views: 6452(3 votes) - What is God’s Purpose for Sex? - by Submitted on Apr 19, 2010 from Angie LewisGod created us with the desire for sex, and we ought to understand his design that was meant for us in our relationships with others about sex. Christians absolutely need to seek God’s purpose in this area of their lives. God created us male and female and because of that we will be attracted to ...
Views: 2978(3 votes) - Are You Missing This Essential Attraction Secret? - by Submitted on Mar 21, 2011 from Kara OhHow attractive you are on the outside is what gets his attention. But how attractive you are on the inside is what keeps him coming back for more. When you’re positive, kind, appreciative and gracious, your energy glows and that’s what he will begin to crave. At the core of the energy you ...
Views: 1897(5 votes) - Let's Talk About SEX, Baby!! - by Submitted on Sep 20, 2009 from Danish AhmedLet's talk about sex, baby Let's talk about you and me Let's talk about all the good things, And the bad things that may be Let's talk about sex - Salt N Pepa (1992, Written by Herby Azor) - - - - - - - - - - Let's Talk About Sex... Sex can be an uncomfortable topic for some people. ...
Views: 3946(5 votes) - Women’s Shoes for a Happy Marriage: Take Inspiration from a Victoria Beckham Ad - by Submitted on Feb 03, 2010 from Dawn BonnerWomen’s shoes can be the catalyst for a long and happy marriage. One type of women’s shoes in particular can be a big boon; the iconic and enduring high heel. Victoria Beckham may have lost her contract with Armani for underwear ads, yet it is doubtful she is going to lose her husband anytime ...
Views: 2854(5 votes) - *** Men and Women Foreplay and Orgasm - by Submitted on Sep 02, 2009 from Executive Image InternationalArt of Stimulation: Leave Her Begging More, More, More “Yes! Yes! Yes!” she cries while one had beats heard and steady on the dinner table and the other hand tussles her thick head of hair. This is the scene from When Harry Met Sally, when Sally demonstrates how easily a woman can fake an ...
Views: 20181(2 votes) - ***How to Rekindle a Relationship - by Submitted on Jul 20, 2010 from Carla TaraTo rekindle a relationship when it has become stagnant is very important. Let’s face it. It takes a lot of time and emotional involvement to start a relationship. Do you remember how much quality time you dedicated to the relationship? How you used to dress up for each other and take time out of ...
Views: 8201(6 votes) - Attraction Anxiety - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2011 from Jonathon AslayAs a Heart Protector of Women, I feel it necessary to address the attraction anxiety many of you encounter. Oftentimes women believe that even if a man is not initially attracted to her physical appearance that he will eventually become attracted to her once he gets to know her. I am sorry to ...
Views: 4421(2 votes) - BDSM: a new sexual orientation? - by Submitted on Jan 03, 2010 from Bay WhitakerThe term ‘sexual orientation’ is mostly used about being lesbian, gay, bisexual or transsexual (LGBT). This powerful concept - ‘sexual orientation’ - pioneered courageously by members of the LGBT community, has empowered people, within the last 50 years or so, to think of themselves as not bad, ...
Views: 6197(4 votes) - Birth Control – A Not-So-Fun Fundamental of Physical Intimacy - by Submitted on Mar 05, 2011 from Allura JoyIt starts with her alluring and curious glance at him. Her expression is full of desire with a soft inviting smile. He feels a rush of impassioned energy throughout his body as he approaches her. She has his full attention as he fervently extends his arms toward her. They warmly embrace, as ...
Views: 2065(2 votes) - Challenging Stereotypical Sexuality - by Submitted on May 06, 2010 from Shahrazad @ the INNER FIRE TEMPLEOne thing I hear often from clients is that they are afraid to communicate their particular fetish, fantasy, or desire to their significant other. In a perfect world, partners would hold for each other a space of unconditional love within which the couple could explore together like children in ...
Views: 3327(2 votes) - Do You Know Where Your Pleasure Spots Are? - by Submitted on Jun 22, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraWomen are notorious for their need to be touched. In fact, any man who wants to make their partner smokin’ hot in the bedroom must first learn the art of touching and have the patience for it. But, anyone who has mastered this skill can attest that it has awesome benefits, not only in the ...
Views: 1475(2 votes) - Dr. Romance on Friends With Benefits - by Submitted on Nov 17, 2014 from Tina TessinaDr. Romance writes: If you’re thinking about having sex with a friend, be very careful, because it is not easy to preserve a friendship once you have sex. We think we can control our feelings, but it's not so simple. *If one of you becomes romantically attached as a result of the ...
Views: 1439(4 votes) - Fertility Tourism - by Submitted on Jun 08, 2011 from Fredrik AndreassonFertility or reproductive tourism is a form of medical tourism, but involves traveling to a foreign country for the sole purpose of fertility treatments. The treatment sought could be in-vitro fertilization (IVF), donor sperm insemination or the implantation of donor eggs. The drive behind ...
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