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In the following 17 tips I explain HOW BECOMING SELF-AWARE ENABLES YOU TO DEVELOP AND MAINTAIN A SUCCESSFUL INTIMATE RELATIONSHIP.
I show how becoming aware of factors which control you and affect the ways in which you react and behave in dating and relationships is essential to learning ... Views: 3460
Dear Lisa,
I broke up with my boyfriend back in January. I was going through a lot of personal problems and he was working a lot. We lived almost 1,000 miles apart. I felt like he didn’t care anymore and thought I’d dump him before he dumped me.
The thing is, I don’t know why I thought ... Views: 3437
“Spiritual Dating” or “Conscious Dating” is an enlightened way of meeting and dating. There are no rules or expectations, and it’s about being true to oneself and staying in the flow. Conscious dating is more fun than the traditional style of dating, and it yields much better results! As we ... Views: 3424
When trying to figure out what to text a girl you like, there are 7 pitfalls that you should keep in mind. Most guys screw up their chances of attracting a girl by committing one or more of these 7 mistakes, but after you read this article, you will never be one of them.
Deadly Girl Texting ... Views: 3418
A good man . . .
Single women often say they want one.
Few believe they can find one.
Those who don’t have one usually insist that they do.
And many more dismiss one without a thought.
Not surprisingly, many good men consider giving up their nice-guy image after repeated rejections that ... Views: 3381
There are several PUA routines that anyone can use to help achieve successful relationships with women. Let's discuss a few of them. There's nothing supernatural or magical about these routines - they're basically just stories that build you up into someone a woman wants to get to know ... Views: 3348
Dear Dr. Romance:
My boyfriend spends more time with his friends than me by a long shot. My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 months now and he all of a sudden started spending way more time with them than me. I've tried talking to him about it and he said "i need two days per week ... Views: 3341
Flirting SMS or text flirting: it is not important what you want to call it. What's important is that text flirting could be your answer to building deep attraction with her quickly. There are at least 3 main reasons why you should text: 1) texting will remind her of you and you want to be on ... Views: 3336
WHAT IS SELF-AWARENESS?
Self-Awareness is a process by which you get to know yourself better. You can then understand what controls your attitudes, thinking, reactions and behaviors and drive you to sabotage your relationships. As you attain Self-Awareness you can realize the factors that ... Views: 3319
How do you stop thinking about someone? Perhaps he betrayed you, she broke up with you, or maybe it’s someone you don’t even know. He enters your mind all the time and you know it isn’t healthy. Sometimes people take up residence in our minds and it’s difficult to get rid of the thoughts. ... Views: 3299
This book review is part of a series that covers the topic of Singles. Whether looking for marriage, long-term relationships or short-term flings, singles life encompasses all those searching for relationship partners. Dr. Jackie Black is the Official Guide to Singles. If I'm So Wonderful, ... Views: 3298
“I’m so fat,” my friend exclaimed. She’s a whole size 8, which is celebrity speak, that makes her about the size of Beyonce. In her defense, she is shorter and is packing more in her bum than Beyonce, but, she’s still thin nonetheless. I didn’t comment after she said this because I know all too ... Views: 3294
One of the most important decisions you will ever make is the decision of who you will spend the rest of your life with. Why is this so important? It is important because the direction of your life will be greatly influenced by that very choice. With time couples become alike in many ways. ... Views: 3284
Under most circumstances with a woman, it’s utterly fruitless to get a woman’s number if she is a.) not sexually attracted b.) not friendly or feel a sense of fun or friendship from you, or c.) not a good match for you intellectually, in maturity, culture or tastes. Why would you even bother? Or ... Views: 3270
Relationships are filled with all kinds of ups and downs. Unfortunately, far too many relationships come to an end and result in a break up. There is no question that these situations can be difficult, but if you have recently gone through a break up then there is hope. It isn't always easy to ... Views: 3253
There is a point in every single woman’s life when she pauses and asks herself, “Why is everyone else finding a match but me?” She gets advice from her coupled girlfriends and is assured that she is desirable and there must be something wrong with them. Or, perhaps they have an intervention ... Views: 3251
In my 10,000+ hours of listening to women who are dating at 40 or older, I hear they want men to fall for them before they take the time to find out if the guy is worthy of their affections. As a Heart Protector of Women let’s explore the dangers of dating desperately rather than with ... Views: 3250
Becoming Unstuck
Many people find themselves in a place in life where they feel completely stuck. They recognize their discomfort in the situation and wonder how they got there. The discomfort increases when the individual realizes they do not know how to transcend the situation and find ... Views: 3247
1) Go dancing out on the town- Going out to dance is such a hot way to get your groove on. You whole body gets involved and it is such a great way to flirt and feel sexy. Gather a few friends and make it a girl’s night out to dance ‘til the crack of dawn. The rhythm is gonna get you.
2) Ask a ... Views: 3239
My ex is ignoring me; Have you lost your man or woman to a breakup? Now you are heartbroken and confused, you thought the two of you had a good thing going and the breakup caught you off guard. It's no comfort, but you are one of millions around the world suffering from a breakup of a ... Views: 3239
Being shy is not a curse and I will honestly tell you it's not you're fault if you happen to be one. Actually, it's nice being shy and that entire guy-next-door image but when it comes to attracting women, that is so 1935. It's the new age and women are more into the aggressive, confident and ... Views: 3231
A first date with a woman had better not be the only date on your social horizon. Get that straight right from the beginning.
I don’t care if you are short, fat, bald, “ugly,” haven’t ever played a guitar or rode a motorcycle.
I don’t even care if you can’t dance, have a small penis, and ... Views: 3228
Why Should You Use Facebook Flirting?
Put simply, Facebook flirting done correctly could easily lead to a real life meeting. Apart from being free and fun, Facebook helps you to be a lot more casual and a lot more undercover. Using Facebook, there is also less risk compared to a phone call and ... Views: 3227
I have been single most of my adult life. Married young at 23, widowed by 29, I’ve had 1 long term relationship, dated countless men, indulged in interludes of passion and lust that have allowed me to discover what I desire and what I don’t. On my journey I believe I’ve discovered the ... Views: 3218
It's the age old question that men have been asking for years. How can you attract more women? How can you go from the nice guy that ends up as a friend to being the guy that women want to date? Most men never really come up with the answer to this question. I can't tell you how many guys I ... Views: 3202
THE RIGHT WAY TO FLIRT
Flirting, by definition, is deliberately exposing yourself to or showing a superficial interest in someone. Sending and receiving cues is the essential in meeting a potential mate. In the past, typically, we flirted with people based on that superficial surface ... Views: 3188
If you’re single looking to find the guy of your dreams, or you already have a partner but feel overlooked at times; then listen up for some great tips on enchanting those around you. Seducing a man doesn’t necessarily mean stealing him from someone else, or convincing him to do something he ... Views: 3187
Many of us have been there in our lives. We don’t want to be alone in our lives and when we are single we become desperate to find someone, anyone, to fill that void.
The problem with this is that we end up filing that single void with people who are not compatible with us or who cause us ... Views: 3185
Love should come naturally, right? We should not have to rely on experts to give us dating tips, be more attractive or make better dating decisions. Isn’t that what our girlfriends are for? Unfortunately, most of the dating advice you get from others is incorrect or, worse, damaging to your love ... Views: 3176
Single moms who can cope and raise her children well are highly looked-up by society. They are well respected and praised by the public. How can they cope with the daily grind and come up victorious? A single mom suffers a hundred-fold stress than her married counterparts because she has to ... Views: 3163
Ending a long term relationship can be devastating, destructive and depressing but… there is light at the end of the tunnel.
Having experienced at first hand a 21 year marriage blast apart with a hurricane force, I know that the effect is, to put it mildly, earth-stopping. If you’ve ever ... Views: 3160
How to meet women is a different subject than where to meet women, and WHETHER you will meet women at all. Do you have particular goals with women? Or in the skill to meet them? Do you know what you even want in a woman? Or in what you will share with her? Do you want casual dating? Or a serious ... Views: 3154
Most of the time, I focus on showing men the right things to do to make a woman fall in love with them.
Occasionally, I like to approach it from the other angle, and offer up some examples of what not to do. This is what this article is designed for-- to show you what drives women away. ... Views: 3142
Men and women think differently - I don’t think anyone will argue that point with me at all! In my work as a therapist, I see males and females totally disillusioned with the selection of mates of the opposite sex to choose from. I think that the problem is largely due to a misunderstanding of ... Views: 3139
Not Everyone is Confident Enough to Share Their Feeling's
There are many obvious differences between men and women. And perhaps one the most striking is the way that men and women communicate and listen to each other. This of course, is also reflected when either one engages in phone sex. ... Views: 3127
It’s still early enough in the year for you to make your commitment to have 2009 be THE year you magnetize your soulmate!
Millions of people have found their divinely connected love partner, and if they can do it, YOU can do it…
If…
You avoid the Top 5 Non-Supportive Love ... Views: 3118
How to look good in front of your ex boyfriend/ girlfriend After having gone through a break up with your boyfriend or girlfriend, you may be faced with the dilemma of "should I try to get them back?" This happens a lot to people after a break up, and they can be torn between the two decisions. ... Views: 3118
Dear Dr. Romance:
I recently moved here from the British Isles. I discovered your Dr. Romance blog and thought you might have some good insight on an experience I had involving an American woman's image of her body. I met a really attractive and intelligent woman at a party a few weeks ... Views: 3115
Have you ever felt ugly or unattractive? Sometimes people can feel that way if they put on a few pounds, if someone rejects them or after they acted out in anger.
No matter what society determines as being attractive, I believe everyone is beautiful in their own way. They key is that you must ... Views: 3109
Finding Your Soul Mate – The Answers May be Found in the Face.
According to published statistics, the number of failed marriages is now at sixty percent and higher. Couples get so caught up in the emotions of the relationship that they blind themselves to the differences that may come up. ... Views: 3097
You've booked your dream cruise to this year's hottest destination, but dinner for one for a week straight doesn't sound so dreamy. Don't worry—there are plenty of fish in the sea. Traveling solo can be the most exciting way to meet people—and best of all—find romance. A weeklong excursion is ... Views: 3077
In the year of 2011, online dating has been even more popular than ever. More than 80% singles worldwide have joined all kinds of online dating services, niche dating sites for the purpose of locating the right people for romance, dating, relationships as well as marriage. Message says, just in ... Views: 3065
Do you walk out of the house each day feeling good about yourself, and ready to run into that one man who is going to rock your world an put that proverbial cherry on your cake?
Check out this guest post by Sybil Henry, The Style Concierge. Sybil joined me Wednesday night for my GGNO Club ... Views: 3047
One of the hardest stages in the relationship cycle is moving on. Many of us ask the question, "Why am I still thinking about my ex?" We've all suffered through nights when we couldn't sleep because thoughts about the ex just wouldn't quit. That's normal. Here are 4 reasons why we continue to ... Views: 3046
Are you acting like the wife without getting the full benefits of being the wife? If you have no desire to go further than his girlfriend, STOP reading this article now. If you desire marriage and you don’t want to get trapped in the role of giving too many benefits of marriage but never getting ... Views: 3040
Not all relationships end up happily ever after, and the worst part is, most relationships nowadays end up because of cheating or infidelity. We all love to be in love and being in a romantic relationship sure is very phenomenal --- however, when someone in a relationship cheats, it's hard to ... Views: 3018
Since the beginning, chat rooms have always been considered as a zone or territory for geeks and introverts to talk about whatever subject interests them. The random online chat rooms provide people with a realm to talk their heart out without being judged by society. In this busy world, time is ... Views: 3008
Yes, countries are starving, flooding, fighting and financially struggling and these are all major issues on a global level. But in the hearts and minds of millions of women (and men), finding love after 30 and finding love after 40 might just be one of the biggest personal dilemmas of our ... Views: 2987
It may be a touchy subject but it happens all too often that beautiful, otherwise morally sound and intelligent women find themselves in the position of being the "side piece", or the umm… supplement to his main romantic diet. Regardless of whether it was intentional or accidental, once you're ... Views: 2953
The best situation is of course, for a woman to ask YOU out, but that presents a different set of challenges than those around how you’re going to “get up the nerve,” whether or not she is already with someone else, or any other manner of concerns you may have that prevent you form what comes ... Views: 2933