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Her true power comes from unexpected places.
By Beate Chelette
What would you guess women said they wanted most in 2013? A recent survey suggests we’re seeing the rise of the alpha woman who chooses to be independent and aggressive when it comes to seeking out and getting what she wants. ... Views: 2112
According to Chinese astrology February 4th, 2013 marks the Solar New Year and February 10th the Lunar New Year. As we say good bye to the black dragon of 2012 we welcome in the energies of little sister the black water serpent. Snakes are closely tied with the Dragon as they are said to have ... Views: 1286
Most people we get to know in our business and personal lives aren’t meant to travel
the whole road with us. We forget that sometimes, especially when there’s been a good
connection, yet endings and new beginnings are the natural flow of life.
Every year I ask myself: What does my business ... Views: 1173
Today I was invited to attend the Success 2013 Conference with Les Brown, Bill Cosby, Larry King and other motivational speakers/success coaches. All the speakers had something meaningful to contribute, but I connected with Les Brown in a profound way.
This was my first time hearing Les ... Views: 2497
Set a time limit for when you will put a stop to negative thoughts and allow yourself to flourish again.
By Beate Chelette
You will find that I like acronyms and tools. It’s easier to remember something if we can build a bridge in our minds. We are talking about K.A.R.L. which stands for ... Views: 2060
Productivity and performance matter, and underneath this is how we think. We load up on ‘what to do?’ but the deeper question is ‘how do we think about it?’. If we think that work and life are hard and that to be successful we have to feel pressure or stress, we are likely to dampen our level of ... Views: 1088
Remember when you didn’t have a care in the world? Sure it may have been way back when Reagan was President but there is a way to reclaim your happiness and live a life you love.
Here are 8 tips to help you live the good life.
1. Accept what is. Look at your reality and accept wherever ... Views: 1050
It’s a simple question. And you probably know the answer. But you don’t want to go there. But first, what does it mean to “tolerate” something? By definition, if you are tolerating something, it is a negative in your life. You are “putting up with it,” and there is no positive feedback loop. We ... Views: 1195
How I Met the Wizard of Oz!
Before I joined the Empower Network, I had lost all confidence in myself. The reason why? Life had rained down on me extremely hard and in the process, like the Tin Man in the Wizard of Oz, my brain became rusty and simply stopped working!
I stopped being able ... Views: 1457
Recently, a client of mine called very upset about some bad news. A lucrative new government work project she believed was set to begin had just fallen through. It wasn’t her fault, the directors in Washington D.C. decided to put the project on hold. Convinced she would not have the cash flow ... Views: 1378
Has this ever happened to you?
You chose a New Year's resolution, but you didn't know where to start, so you never got started. Your elusive desire became impossibly unattainable.
When your habit is to focus on what's missing, your process of goal setting will entail gathering up a bunch ... Views: 1656
Like a butterfly, small businesses tend to have short lifespans.
That's partly because small businesses, by their very nature, have fewer resources to draw on when times get tough — or even when they are too good.
With the odds stacked against them from day one, there are at least as many ways ... Views: 1297
Ever doubted yourself and your gifts? Well I have. In the course of my awakening journey, “my shadow or my dark side’ showed up several times. My dark side that tells me that I suck, that I am not good enough, that I don’t deserve to be successful, that I am not qualified to help others, that I ... Views: 971
Whether your goal is to lose weight, change careers or finally end the relationship you know is going nowhere, we all come to points in our lives when change is necessary. In fact, many great philosophers and spiritual leaders have said that change is the only constant presence in our lives. ... Views: 2614
Last night as I watched the Golden Globe Awards, I was touched by the authenticity and genuine humility in Anne Hathaway’s acceptance speech. I was particularly interested in her comment “…thank you for this lovely, blunt object that I will forever more use as weapon against self-doubt…”
I ... Views: 1131
The heart spent a lot of time caring on the other person but now that it’s over it doesn’t know what to do, so it continues using the momentum and force of love that has been moving it. Closure is needed on this chapter in your life, but do you think you're clinging? If the relationship were ... Views: 1489
If seeds are sown at an apt hour there is a high possibility of getting a very good harvest. Seeds of corn, wheat etc sown at the start of monsoon season get the opportunity of growing in thousands of more such grain. If we miss this optimal time and sow the same seeds in other seasons, the ... Views: 1105
How is it that some working moms are happy regardless of their life circumstances while others are incessantly miserable though they appear to "have it all"? How you feel and the results you attain are attributable to the intentionality of your thoughts and your actions. Your level of joy, ... Views: 1143
In order to create the best year of your life, you must know the course you want to chart and the life you wish to live. Goal setting is an excellent way to start the path of life transformation. Unfortunately, however, the majority of people quit before successfully attaining their goals! ... Views: 1203
Have you ever noticed that some people make friends super easily; however, they don’t do much to keep the relationship going? Our girlfriends are a wellspring of support. You need them and they need you. However, if you are like most working moms the demands of life can creep up on you, and ... Views: 1300
Every thought, every word, every feeling, every action you have has energy associated with it. If you look at your body with a high power microscope, you will see that it is nothing more than a mass of molecules with a mass of vibrating energy. Everything is comprised of energy. As I reminisce ... Views: 897
Power is the ability to act. When you give your power away, what you essentially do is take the reference point off you and put it out there to the thing that you give your power to. Now this is significant because in order to be powerful, you need to have the ability to make choices that come ... Views: 937
Boundaries let people know that you respect yourself.
By Beate Chelette
"Whatever you are willing to put up with, is exactly what you will have."
-- Anonymous
That is ... Views: 1456
“So how are things going?” My dad asked. Oh, that familiar question that makes my stomach go into knots and makes me want to run for the hills!
“Good”, I said, trying to hide any emotions that may make him think otherwise.
“How long will you keep this business going?” I knew he would ... Views: 1445
In Preparing to Start a Direct Sales Business we discussed:
• What Draw Me to the Idea of Owning My Own Business?
• What Are My Interests?
• What are My Passions?
Now that we’re properly introspected, let’s continue with:
WHO’S YOUR TARGET MARKET?
To whom do you intend to offer ... Views: 1123
Ugh. The P word.
Perfectionism is the death of progress. There is a time for incubation and quiet creation. And then there is a time to put it out in the world and see if it flies. And in between the two is where the P word lurks.
"I just want it to be perfect."
How many times has that ... Views: 1015
Efforts have always been made for women’s awakening and freedom. Since this question arose regarding human rights these sparks were seen in many countries of the world. The medium may have been some female, yet this forest for engulfed the entire world. As a result of this at least today she ... Views: 1122
So, I might get on a soapbox here.
Since when is self-care selfish? Why is investing in yourself so that you are whole, happy, and in love with your life self-centered? The idea that it is both good and admirable to suffer so that you can give to others is martyrdom. And useless, in my ... Views: 1178
For years, little pieces of me got lost in the cracks, in between the details of everyday life. I had this feeling of uncertainty, of something being off. I just knew there was more for me. I searched everywhere for myself. And then I released something, and that's when it happened.
I tried ... Views: 1205
Leadership and personal development can be most effectively integrated into corporate and entrepreneurial training programs when approached through the gateway of neuroscience and brain research. It is our amazing brain that allows us to engage conscious reasoning, choice, and to imagine ... Views: 1064
How to make women your allies, not enemies
It used to be called sisterhood, the feeling of kinship with other women that fosters support and community. Perhaps you’re fortunate to have a support group of wonderful
women, but many women don’t. Frankly, I don’t see much sisterhood around ... Views: 1242
The liver that you were born with will be essentially the same when you die. Not so for your brain. It's the only organ that evolves throughout your lifetime in ways that are unique to you, based on the thoughts you think.
Your greatest challenge is to figure out how to master it, then use ... Views: 1905
Your family comes first - or does it?
Since you've been spending so much time with your new home computer, is your family showing signs of jealousy? Do they compete with this inhuman time hog for your time? Or, at least, do they FEEL they have to?
And what can you do about it? After all, ... Views: 1278
A year ago this December, my then almost 14-year-old daughter boarded a plane and moved 12,000 miles away. As we said our good-byes at the airport, a feeling of excitement for this new adventure coupled with a deep void in my heart set the tone for what was to come in the New Year.
With her ... Views: 1098
I almost gave up one day in the not-so-distant past.
Things hadn't been going as planned with some recent marketing efforts, and I couldn't shake this feeling that because these marketing campaigns were failing, that I was a failure.
And while I'm normally a glass-half-full, ... Views: 1080
Two of my current presentation skills coaching clients struggle with self-confidence. They are both talented, smart, successful professional women. One has a Ph.D. in Engineering and over 20 years of experience in the electronics industry and the other is a CEO of a highly successful company. ... Views: 1285
Women can be big bullies, too, but only if people accept their behavior.
By Beate Chelette
The phenomenon of bullying is a big topic in the news these days and it is having a devastating impact on kids at school, as well as women (and men) in the workplace.
To me bullying is the zit on ... Views: 1374
Such situations are coming forth everywhere wherein the 21st century will be labeled ‘Women’s Century’. One may not exactly wish to accept this fact and the question may arise as to how such situations will arrive when so far the trend is bang opposite? Further how is it possible that those ... Views: 742
By Beate Chelette
The recent Atlantic cover story on whether or not women can “have it all” has certainly hit a national nerve. The week after the article came out it had received more than 1.1 million online views. Women and men all around the country are registering their objection or ... Views: 1300
By Beate Chelette
The recent Atlantic cover story on whether or not women can “have it all” has certainly hit a national nerve. The week after the article came out it had received more than 1.1 million online views. Women and men all around the country are registering their objection or ... Views: 1492
Do you suffer from go go go mode? Do you have a hard time relaxing and enjoying yourself just for the pure sake of enjoyment WITHOUT being productive?
Do you tend to feel a bit guilty saying “no” when honoring your own needs above others?
Do you tend to over analyze things, over think and ... Views: 1280
Are you like most people and would totally love the results and the good feelings that come as a result of changing your life? If so, there’s a downside to change – and here it is, despite how much you sincerely want a change, there’s always something that holds you back.
It can be the ... Views: 1907
Are your personal relationships suffering because you’re working so hard to get your business off the ground? Are you always the last priority on your list because there’s never enough time to get it all done?
I'm at a mindset and marketing retreat in Fort Lauderdale (FL) with some if the ... Views: 1355
In a previous article that I write on expectations, I looked at where our expectations come from. And here I want to take a closer look at how expectations are influencing our day to day life.
Expectations can become part of one’s nature and how they see life or they can be expectations that ... Views: 1954
Letting Go is a process. Letting Go means to stop giving attention to particular person or past experience and to focus on the here and now. We hold on to the past because of our emotions. It may be painful or joyful memories. When we hang on to the past, we are clouding our view of the ... Views: 1361
Problems sometimes turn out to be unexpected gifts, so look for them.
By Beate Chelette
Can’t all this move faster, I asked my herbalist the other day as I sat impatiently on the treatment table? I am smack in the middle of being rewired by nature and Steve is helping me through the ... Views: 1148
Well we are on the ride of the holiday time of the year on a decline that is steadily picking up speed. Isn’t it interesting how it feels like the Universe moves faster during this time of celebration, gratitude, reflection and light? It’s like when you begin your travel to a destination it ... Views: 1114
As a success coach I often get asked variations on the theme Is there a recipe for success? Are there sure-fire strategies to get me there? Are there certain steps that will guarantee my success? A simple key?
And my answer to all of these is yes – there most certainly are. However knowing ... Views: 1134
Mindful leadership is an idea whose time is here… now. Now is the present moment, and unless you can be self-aware enough to listen to what is present to you, here, now, you are not showing up as a mindful leader. Mindfulness takes practice, particularly in our hyperactive culture, which is full ... Views: 1272
Why would they want to hire me versus that other woman, there are way more qualified people out there than me? I don’t know If I should work on my website first or figure out what I’m really offering to people – wait on my business card logo guy is still waiting to hear back from me, gosh why ... Views: 1984