The problem with self limiting beliefs is that they appear so real to the extent that the person can hardly tell whether he has a self limiting belief or a real one. In addition to that whenever someone attempts to help a person remove his self limiting belief the person becomes anxious, very ... Views: 1453
Lots of people mistakenly believe that confident people never face rejections and that’s why they retained their confidence, while in fact, confident people face rejections just like anybody else.
Of course being more confidence reduces the number of rejections you will get but still that ... Views: 2233
Most people try to spend time alone when they have a fight with their spouse. As soon as they fight together everyone leaves the other and goes to their friends or relatives. Since both of them are still carrying intense anger emotions, they start mentioning each others mistakes in front of ... Views: 1368
We all know that one of the essential ingredients required for success believing in ourselves. After all the road of success is full of criticism, rejections and down times and if you didn’t have enough faith in yourself you might not be able to continue to the end.
While this fact is known ... Views: 3082
how to impress people?
Do you think its hard to impress someone?
Do you think it’s hard to make someone admire you?
In fact it’s not hard at all. I know what’s going on in your mind right now, I am sure you are telling yourself, “if it was that easy then why do some ... Views: 2008
We all want to be productive but sometimes we find ourselves procrastinating and wasting our time without intention.
I interviewed many people who are known for their productivity and also interviewed some of the procrastinators I know and as a I result I discovered 7 points that could you ... Views: 1154
The new year is approaching and we all have goals and resolutions that we which to make true but do you know that most people forget about their new year resolutions weeks or even days after the beginning of the new year?
In order to prevent this problem from happening you I am going to tell ... Views: 1022
In order to know how to make money you have to first know how to not make money.
So why is that useful?
Simply by learning about these money making mistakes and avoiding them you will be able to make money in a fast and easy way.
here is how to not make money
Play it safe: no I am not ... Views: 1596
Myths About Making Someone Love You
Do you think that love is just an uncontrollable random process?
Do you think that if the person you loved didn’t love you back then nothing can be done about it?
Do you think that you can't make someone fall in love with you?
The Truth About ... Views: 8914
We all have goals and tasks that we want to accomplish but unfortunately we don’t always find ourselves motivated to do our tasks or to pursue our goals.
One of the big differences between successful people and those who didn’t succeed yet is the ability of the first group to motivate ... Views: 1408
So why is that useful?
Simply by learning about these money making mistakes and avoiding them you will be able to make money in a fast and easy way.
Here are the ways not to make money
Don’t follow new trends: If you don’t follow the new trends, if you don’t always check what’s new and ... Views: 1389
So how to use these concepts to break habits? First you need to find some of the important values you have in life then find the connection between it and between the bad habits.
For example when a wife discovered that her binge eating habit was about to cause her a breakup she decided to ... Views: 1949
Recently one of my friends sent me a mail asking me whether its possible to stop lying or not. After i told him that its completely possible he replied back asking me how can he motivate someone to stop lying.
In response to his message i decided to write this article so that i let everyone ... Views: 1557
Its feels really bad when someone steels something that you own. I still remember how bad I felt the last time my car’s rear sign was stolen and am sure you felt really bad the last time someone stole something from you too.
But if something as little a 100 dollars or a car sign can make us ... Views: 1390
I was always wondering why are some people determined to reach their goals and why are others always helpless. What was confusing me even more is that the same person who was once motivated to reach his goals can suddenly turn into a helpless person who don’t know what to do in order to get what ... Views: 1334
Lots of people spent years trying to become confident without succeeding.
When those people begin the quest they usually start by looking for online tips that can help them become confident quickly and this is usually what they come across:
• Say "I like myself" everyday out loud Not ... Views: 1438
Feeling Sad
So you are feeling Sad. I know how it feels like, it feels like there is something hurting you but you are not aware of it, It feels like you are neither happy nor satisfied. But why do we feel sad? Are these sad feelings nothing more than a part of the usual cycle of mood ... Views: 5826
Emotions are messages your mind uses in order to motivate you to take a certain action. Just like hunger can be a message your mind uses in order to motivate you to eat emotions are methods your mind uses to motivate you to get something done.
Worrying just like any other emotion is a message ... Views: 1356
When Andre Agassi won the cup and became the champion he was asked how he it feels like he replied saying:
"I have already won Wimbledon at least 10,000 times before"
People first laughed because they believed he was joking but when Andre explained that he had visualized himself winning ... Views: 1391
Why do you compare yourself to that guy standing over there and feel inferior while you totally ignore that other guy on your right?
Why do you feel comfortable when being with certain people and feel completely uncomfortable in the company of others?
Why do certain people make you feel ... Views: 1247
I Can Never Forget About Him
I can never forget about him…
He was the only one I ever loved that much…
I will never love someone else as I loved him…
I can never imagine myself being with someone else…
Do these phrases sound familiar? Have you been in that situation ... Views: 1697
I Can Never Forget About Him
I can never forget about him…
He was the only one I ever loved that much…
I will never love someone else as I loved him…
I can never imagine myself being with someone else…
Do these phrases sound familiar? Have you been in that ... Views: 1135
I can read your emotions, just like a book
Strange title right?
Well it's not a title; it’s what you would proudly say after learning how to read body language. Do you know that each emotional state that we experience has an associated gesture that accompanies it?
Whether this state ... Views: 2985
Impression Management
Do your friends think that you are boring?
Are you wondering why don’t people like you?
Do you think that are always misunderstood?
If your answers were yes then most probably you have just left the incorrect impression but you are not bad at all. Impression ... Views: 1502
One minute you're confident and the next you're feeling inferior
One day Sam was walking down the street, on his way to his work. On the pavement, he saw a man in torn clothes. To himself, Sam thought: ' That's a very poor man; he can't afford to even buy new clothes instead of those torn ... Views: 1188
I am sure you know one of those people who are always angry
Why do those people shout all the time?
and why do they lose their temper whenever the slightest thing happens?
In this article i will explain why are some people always angry.
Our perception changes whenever our emotions ... Views: 1598
Self Acceptance is one of the most important life skills a person should be capable of.
However most people fail to accept themselves the right way because there is a very fine line between self acceptance and self deception.
Some people get self acceptance wrong by believing that it’s a ... Views: 1779
Minimalism is not as simple as getting rid of the extra stuff you have at home but it goes deeper to affect almost all of your life areas.
By making proper use of minimalism you can improve almost all of your life areas and live a better life.
Here are 5 ways minimalism can help you live a ... Views: 1471
We all have at least one habit that we want to get rid of. Whether this habit is procrastinating or waking up late, smoking or excessive drinking, negative thinking or worrying our lives become badly impacted by it.
Research has shown that any attempt to not think of something by force always ... Views: 1726
I cant tolerate criticism
Do you find it very hard to tolerate criticism even if it was constructive?
Do critical comments make you feel bad for days and days?
Do you hate to be criticized?
Every normal person should not like the idea of being criticized but when you become extremely ... Views: 2192
How did you feel the last time you were criticized?
Am sure you felt bad because no one likes to be criticized however the real problem with criticism is not that is hurts but the real problem is that it ruin one’s self confidence if the wrong actions were taken.
Most people do certain ... Views: 1447
ICE
What came to your mind when you read the word ICE out loud? most probably different thoughts and things that are related to this word jumped into your mind quickly.
Your mind is just like a large computer that has billions of folder, once you access a folder you can reach all the ... Views: 1571
6 surefire ways to persuade people
Long ago I used to think that persuading people is a hard task but as I learned more and more I discovered that people find it hard to persuade others because they do the wrong things not because its hard to persuade someone.
After working as a sales person ... Views: 2182
Long ago I used to think that persuading people is a hard task but as I learned more and more I discovered that people find it hard to persuade others because they do the wrong things not because its hard to persuade someone.
After working as a sales person for years and after running my own ... Views: 1845
Time is the most precious asset you have and even though most of people are aware of this fact still some of them keep wasting time.
Most people don't waste time on intention but instead they do some mistakes that kills their time without noticing and that's why in this article i will point ... Views: 1402
We all have important goals that we want to reach but because life is full of events that distracts us many of us forget about their goals after some time or at least procrastinate so much and the result in both cases is not reaching them before their deadlines.
I have thought for days and days ... Views: 1541
Self Acceptance is one of the most important life skills a person should be capable of.
However most people fail to accept themselves the right way because there is a very fine line between self acceptance and self deception.
Some people get self acceptance wrong by believing that it’s a ... Views: 1854
Depression results from chemical imbalance in the brain. This fact is known to almost everybody but ask any person what causes this imbalance and you will find that he doesn’t know the answer.
Depression happens when a person loses hope in getting something that he wanted to get badly. This ... Views: 1401
We all know the famous story of Thomas Edison who kept trying and trying to invent the lamp even though everybody was against him until he succeeded.
The story of Thomas Edison is no different than the story of any other successful person. In the beginning he finds something that he believes in ... Views: 1535
Losing interest in a relationship
He fell in love with her at the first sight
He kept trying and trying until one day he knew that she felt the same for him
He couldn’t believe himself and felt so happy
Then few days later he lost his enthusiasm
He started to wonder if she was really ... Views: 6903
One of the most powerful ways to build self confidence is to maintain a self confidence journal.
Here are few facts to consider:
1) Self confidence is no more than a set of beliefs
2) Beliefs are strengthened by repetition
3) People with low confidence filter out all compliments they get ... Views: 1266
Perfectionism is the belief that a person lives in a perfect world and based on this belief he expects everything to go perfectly in his life.
A perfectionist might expect:
• That he should never make mistakes
• That everyone should love him
• That he should always get straight ... Views: 2175
Self Acceptance is one of the most important life skills a person should be capable of.
However most people fail to accept themselves the right way because there is a very fine line between self acceptance and self deception.
Some people get self acceptance wrong by believing that it’s a ... Views: 1488
Skill and the Shoelace
Have you ever paid attention to what you do during the process of tying a shoelace? If you haven’t, then go try it now and see what you notice.
What you will notice is that it is a complex process requiring harmony in your hand movements and interaction between ... Views: 795
I am not like them
Poor Joe, he is not as handsome as movie stars nor does he have a bigger car than his friends, he is not that rich nor he is that intelligent as his college mates, why should Joe feel confident then? He must be feeling inferior to everyone.
Is that true? Of course it is ... Views: 5886
Why do we panic when we approach new people and why do feel anxious around strangers?
I am sure that you wanted more than once to speak to a stranger or to approach someone yet felt anxious and afraid. Most of us want to be outgoing and outspoken but sometimes we fail to maintain our ... Views: 1107
Opposing beliefs can prevent the subconscious mind from accepting a certain belief. For example knowing that you such at math will prevent you from convincing your subconscious mind that you are good at math unless you provide new proofs (like good grades for example)
Repetition is one of ... Views: 1049
Everyday millions of people try to become more confident by acquiring fame, power, money and popularity but in the end most of them never make any progress and end up feeling the same.
Most of those people were told to repeat affirmations, think positively or to believe in themselves but in the ... Views: 1249
One of the main reasons lots of people never manage to build solid self esteem is that they never manage to determine the real reason behind their lack of self esteem.
After talking to ten people who lack self esteem you will discover that each of them lacks self esteem because of a different ... Views: 1595
Everyone wants to become more confident but for some reason most people waste their efforts in incorrect directions and as a result they never manage to increase their self confidence levels.
The main difference between those who manage to build self confidence and those who waste their time ... Views: 1237